Hard work only works given a certain genetic foundation.
Nothing I said means hard work isn't required. It is required, but by itself it not enough. No matter how hard a chimpanzee works it will not be able to do arithmetic.
People use the notion of hard work to delude themselves about the reality of genetics. Because they just take genetics for granted.
So it's worse than you think. You need both genetics and hard work.

Had it not been for Leo constantly calling non-dualists out, I would have still been deeply stuck in their brainwashing.
And I had a lot of resistance at first.. my brainwashing would not have been broken easily.
Side note: it seems to be well known right now among insiders and students that Rupert Spira cheated on his wife Ellen, WITH A STUDENT. I think even couple or multiple students. And they had a very ugly divorce.
So there goes your deeply conscious, loving and selfless non-dual guru.
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People who mislead need to be called out and held accountable. An extreme example is always Trump.

That's right. I have developed a deep disdain for nondual teachings because of how badly they mischaracterize and mislead about the nature of consciousness. It's downright shameful and I wasted so much time trusting such people when in the end it turned out to be yet more human BS.
But I am also sick of trying to explain it to you guys. Live with your human nonduality all you want.
One of my biggest mistakes was trying to teach people who are not actually interested in serious learning. And trying to convince them of things. Arguing with nondualists or trying to teach them anything is the biggest waste of time.

Mostly the only requirement I found necessary for coaching was that the client be at least 25 years old. Coaching people younger than that doesn't work so well because they are still young enough to just need the basic maturity that comes naturally with age.
Of course I wouldn't coach people dealing with serious mental disorders because addressing that require specialized theraputic training which I don't have and am not interested in.
Coaching drug addicts is also not something I would be interested in, since they need much more basic help.
The basic distinction for coaching vs therapy is functional vs dysfunctional. Coaching is not designed for dysfunctional people but functional people who want to do even better.

Back at ya
Only it's not so funny when you realize your narrative is needlessly fueling a stereotype that harms minorities who are long fed up with such bullshit.

@Heart of Space I wonder, do you have enough intellectual honesty to admit that blacks could genetically have higher IQs than whites?
How the hell would you know what the baseline genetics are capable of if you did not control for environment?
Science requires strict controls. You are blending variables like a child. Which is why no serious scientist takes your views seriously.

Anyone great is just doing what he likes to do. Or, in other words, just exercising his God-given talents. That's what greatness is.

No. My mind is not good at math. My mind is good at higher things.

According you, of course. Who else is there?
Existence does not provide enough for everyone. All organisms must work to survive.
1) Simply being does not give you any reason to live or thrive. At least for most people.
2) Unless you are multi-millionaire, you must work to survive.

Nothing wrong with going to a strip club. In fact you should do it more often just to practice talking to hot girls.

That is because I optimized my early work for search.
I was an SEO master.
But I stopped doing that long ago.

Prostitutes are low consciousness people and hang around other low consciousness people. So they can scam you, drug you, and worse. You are engaging in business with criminals, which is always dicey.

It just means that you a so grounded in your sense of who you are and what reality is that you are non-reactive to the opinions and judgments of others. It's about not using other people to define your reality.
Its opposite would be approval-seeking, caring what everyone thinks of you, bending over backwards to please people, and inability to assert yourself.
Basically frame is confidence.

Trump's just a classic narccist and con artist.
Most people don't have personal experiences with such people. But once you've hung around a person like this you learn how they work and they become very predictable. Their whole life revolves around shameless manipulation and opportunism. Eventually it leads to their downfall and hurts everyone close to them.

It's funny how a giant ego looks like mental illness.
All egos behave like Trump. It's just a question of degree.

That's a hallmark of conservative ideology. Its always got a romanticized view of history. The past is always mythologized and whitewashed in grossly unrealistic and ahistorical ways. Conservatism is inherently ahistorical.
As if 1980's, or 1970's, or 1960's, or 1950's America was ever so great. It never was. There were riots and protests and murders and wars in all those eras. And all the laws were far inferior to what they are today. But conservatives love to tell themselves that those were the good ol' days -- when lynching a blackie for looking at a white woman wasn't even considered a crime by the local sheriff.

Well, you are in a dream where you dream a society. This society is evil, it has always been evil, but your whole life depends on it. You were born from evil-doers and you are entangled with the evil-doing of your imagined society.
Just remember that everyone is lost in survival, just like you.
Certainly not. It fact it will probably devolve in many ways.
Hard to say.
You can change some things if you really apply yourself.
Getting old sucks and then you die a miserable death.
Sure, of course.
I don't know cause I have never been asked.
I notice you have a lot of questios which you expect some easy pat answers to, when the right thing is to do the work to have your own insights. My verbal answer do not give you genuine understanding. You have to earn the answers through years of contemplation and experience. I can't just give them to you like a basket of apples.
When you realize Truth it is self-validating and completely obvious. That's what Awakening is and it cannot be wrong. You could misunderstand it though or build a fantasy around it, but that's another matter.
Anti-5-MeO is what you've been puffing your whole life.

It is tricky to approach a table of girls during the day. Takes a lot of skill to pull that off. I don't recommend it for newbies.
Although when I first got into game my wingman would go around popular evening restaurants in town which had sort of outdoorish seating and he would walk up and charm up entire tables of girls. So that is possible, but again, I am not good at that sort of thing so I can't really teach you how to do it.
The key to learning game is to find locations where you can get in a lot of practice with little consequence because you will be failing a lot in the beginning. You need to find a sort of training ground.

I don't have that level of consciousness most of the time. That was my point. So in that sense I am a limited human.
But beyond my humanness I am what you are: INFINITY.

1) By recognizing that your resentment is just an egoic reaction to having been rejected. But no one woman owes you a date. Women are picky just like you are picky about women. Women are not horrible nor unfair to you, they just don't find you as attractive as you would like. And that's life.
2) By recognizing that you must treat each woman as an individual. If other women rejected you that has zero relation to the woman who likes you. Take the win.
3) By being more social and developing some sexual abundance. You are bitter because you are not having sex. If you were having sex you wouls stop being bitter. So the ultimate solution is to increase your dating life.
4) Many women who rejected you might have loved you if you learned proper game and how to communicate properly with them. So learn game.

Both physically and mentally. Lots of potential for accidental abuse, misuse, overuse.
You can really sour yourself on life and blackpill yourself psychologically if you go too deep. Humans are not meant to be that conscious.
And you will not be able to hold on to that level of consciousness. So you will have to live knowning how much you're missing.
The beauty of nondualists is that they just have no idea how little they understand Consciousness. So they can live in bliss.

Make whatever excuses you want, but in the end women will flee from you and flock to guys who go out and develop their game.

@CoolDreamThanks Excellent! Now you're starting to grasp the depth of the problem.
However, it gets even trickier because you are still entangled with the game of survival. You are not free to sit out on the sidelines because life must go on and choices must be made. And no matter how enlightened you get or whatever, you will still be using your mind to make choices and to manipulate reality around you. You will still be thinking, and probably not be thinking well, since that is the default unless you train yourself how to think properly.
So you're damned if you do and danmned if you don't.
And then there is stuff you can know. You can know you're God. And many other things.
Be careful just parroting some platitude of "I don't know". In fact you know many things. If no knowing was possible, that would be too easy. Our situation is more difficult than that. God gives you just enough knowing to hang yourself with

Transcending judgment is really fucking difficult. Because it's so fundamental to our survival.

@Jordan wang If you haven't noticed, all professional athletes, even the very very best, retire by 30 or 40 and move on to doing something else. It's not just because their bodies age. It's largely because competition like that is unsustainable. It's a real grindy way to live.