Yali

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  1. Something Leo said in forum really has been bothering me lately lol.
    Something Leo said in forum really has been bothering me lately lol.
    Part of the challenge here in how you define "core".
    Sorta by definition, if you are able to change some part of yourself then it wasn't core to you. Core would be the stuff that refuses to change even after much effort.
    Obviously there are part of yourself and your life which you can change. But human minds are not infinitely flexible. There is a core to your personality which ties in with your brain chemistry, genetics, childhood conditioning, baseline state of consciousness, physical health, and so on.
    In a certain sense you must learn to live with yourself.
    What makes it tricky is that you don't always know what is core to you and what is not, what you can change and what you cannot. So you have to be careful not to create limiting beliefs. But you also have to be careful not to brainwash yourself with fantasies.
    In the end you're just gonna have to put in a lot of effort and see what sticks and what doesn't. Some change will come naturally and some change will be like iceskating uphill.

  2. Leo Does Political Philosophy With Advanced AI
    Leo Does Political Philosophy With Advanced AI
    It's way more intelligent than its IQ though, due to humans having so much bias.
    Jordan Peterson probably has a pretty high IQ. But his bias cripples the intelligence of anything he says.
    Chris Langan supposedly has one of the highest IQs in the world, yet his political takes are cringe.
    The problem is that IQ tests don't measure bias nor cognitive development level. So you could have someone with 150 IQ who is a Nazi.

  3. How is War, Genocide, Torture & Suicide Gods Love?
    How is War, Genocide, Torture & Suicide Gods Love?
    God is EVERYTHING.
    It can't exclude anything. That's Love.

  4. is it really bad to getting into programming job at age 30
    is it really bad to getting into programming job at age 30
    No one cares as long as you got skills and can offer value and accomplish excellent results.
    In the business world what people care about is the results you can provide.

  5. Leo you misunderstand Hitler completely
    Leo you misunderstand Hitler completely
    Yes, there is very good reason behind slavery, oppression, war, theft, and genocide. It's all very useful and wonderful stuff when you are on the benefiting side of it.

  6. Why is everything in the world so bad, awful, evil and horrible?
    Why is everything in the world so bad, awful, evil and horrible?
    It's a very uneven, distorted picture of the world. Good news is rarely reported. If you consume too much news it will seem like the world is going to hell. But if you walk outside and touch grass you will see that things are mostly fine and even improving.
    Most of the news is just petty drama and clickbait. It doesn't capture the big picture of how civilization is advancing.

  7. 5-MeO-MALT Mega-Thread
    5-MeO-MALT Mega-Thread
    There are two different molecules of DMT, white and yellow.

  8. Leo you misunderstand Hitler completely
    Leo you misunderstand Hitler completely
    That's true of conservatives in general. They have a fantasy of the past.
    Case in point: Last month Nikki Haley said that "America was never a racist country."
    And she is far from a Fascist. But that's how stupidly conservatives tend to think.
    Conservatives are in deep denial about the evils of their tradition and past. Because they see themselves as champions of it.

  9. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Ana Kasparian got a nose job and she looks way better now. Her nose was really bad before.
    But again, do not get distracted. If you guys are micro-worrying about your looks you have lost the plot. The real solution is to transcend caring about your looks.

  10. Fear of getting a girl pregnant
    Fear of getting a girl pregnant
    I don't mean STDs, I mean pregnancy.
    STD risk is way lower than pregnancy risk. And many STDs are curable. I know a few PUA friends who caught an STD but cured it.
    Pregnancy can ruin your life worse than an STD. Of course it all depends on the details.

  11. Enlightenment Quotes
    Enlightenment Quotes
    Don't take anything seriously, EVEN ENLIGHTENMENT

     






     






     



     
    There is NOTHING to learn, you don't need time to be what you already are, just sit still
    DONT'T SEEK FOR IT ...




  12. Why am I having such a hard time finding a job with my Bachelor's Degree?
    Why am I having such a hard time finding a job with my Bachelor's Degree?
    @NightHawkBuzz No, you build a portfolio now, before you get a position.
    Do small personal projects to add to your portfolio.
    Do not wait for an employer to do it for you.
    Spend a year building personal projects, just for your portfolio. This will be better than any degree.

  13. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Looks. Barely at all.
    By the diverse range of opinions you are getting, you can tell we've all had a lot of different life experiences, with a lot of different cultures. I learned this in my early 20's, when we all used to immaturely look at an ugly guy and wonder how he got that stunning girl.
    Eventually, I stopped wondering. Looks mean almost nothing.

    If you just want to get laid, approach a lot of women.
    If you want a girl you can connect with, go do what you love, and while doing it come across a kindred spirit. Then don't screw it up  its not easy to find.
    The third option is to wait for attraction to hit you while you are with someone. Then it's hit-and-miss but can be intense, or just nuts, or both. For this, you need to meet women, be around them, and talk to them socially.
     

  14. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    @Princess Arabia That is wrong. A nice muscular frame looks more attractive than a thin spindly frame on a man. And women certainly notice it intuitively and subconsciously. Will that alone get you laid? Probably not, but it will grease the wheels.

  15. Radical Opinion on Abortion?
    Radical Opinion on Abortion?
    @Hatfort It's more complex than that because pregnancies have all kinds of complications past 4 months.
    In practice, though I agree that we can set some reasonable cut-off point for normal healthy pregnancies. Perhaps at 4 months. And longer if doc sees there are complications.
    I think this would be a good political compromise. But the hardcore right-wing will not accept such a compromise because they got it in their mind that all abortion is murder and they use compromise to keep pushing that timeline lower and lower and lower because they want it at zero and with no exceptions for rape, incest, or complications.
    But about 75% of the US would agree to such a compromise. The ban abortion crowd is a small but vocal minority.

  16. Radical Opinion on Abortion?
    Radical Opinion on Abortion?
    Notice how this issue involves a struggle to draw a boundary/duality between: alive vs not-alive, conscious vs not-conscious, autonomous vs not-autonomous, part of the mother vs not part of the mother, fully human vs biomass, human vs fly, right vs wrong, moral vs immoral, etc.
    The mind wants to ground reality in such boundaries, but all such boundaries are untenable because reality is ONE. Which is why you struggle and struggle to draw those boundaries but will always fail. And why people disagree so much about where the boundaries lie.
    There is no point at which a baby is conscious or alive or autonomous or human. There is no point at which a baby is separate from a pine tree. Getting that takes you meta. Learning this lesson is one of the most important things Actualized.org has to teach you. Stop falling into the trap of objectifying dualistic distinctions. If you manage to do that, your mind will be set radically free and peace can come to the world.
    Or, continue fighting over imagined dualities.

  17. Fear of getting a girl pregnant
    Fear of getting a girl pregnant
    Risk of pregnancy is very real.
    Best solution is to get vasectomy. You can store some sperm on ice in a bank just in case.

  18. When to put on a condom?
    When to put on a condom?
    Not for oral sex. Put it on when you're ready to stick it in her pussy.
    I would avoid oral sex on a ONS. Although it really depends on the quality of the girl. If she's high quality then it's acceptable.

  19. When to put on a condom?
    When to put on a condom?
    In a ONS situation her pussy is probably not very clean.
    Classy girls who take good care of their bodies and/or after multiple dates. If she's dating you she will be cleaning her pussy for you.

  20. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Muscles and height are relevant. But there are bigger factors which you should be focused on.
    The point of all this talk is to not get distracted. Keep your eye on the ball if you want to succeed with girls.

  21. Why am I having such a hard time finding a job with my Bachelor's Degree?
    Why am I having such a hard time finding a job with my Bachelor's Degree?
    Such degrees don't mean much.
    College is for degrees in science, medicine, and engineering.
    Start by working with small businesses, don't aim high until you build some experience.

  22. Why am I having such a hard time finding a job with my Bachelor's Degree?
    Why am I having such a hard time finding a job with my Bachelor's Degree?
    Degrees matter little to companies. Getting more degrees will not solve your problem. What you need is a good portfolio of work and demonstrate the kind of results you can deliver to employers.

  23. Is nn DMT good for consciousness work
    Is nn DMT good for consciousness work
    nnDMT is not for me at this time. 
     
    It will destroy your material fantasy 

  24. How is pick up a low conscious activity?
    How is pick up a low conscious activity?
    Sex can be done in higher consciousness ways. But few people are doing that.
    Most relationships are unconscious and dysfunctional.

  25. Leo you misunderstand Hitler completely
    Leo you misunderstand Hitler completely
    It's not about Hitler. Hitler was a product of his culture. And the culture that created him no longer exists in the developed West.