Stop comparing yourself to others. They are not you.
If your looks are really good or you are highly extroverted then getting girls is much much easier.
You have to work with the cards you've been dealt.
You just have to accept that some guys will get girls way easier than you, and such guys will never understand your struggles. So don't listen to them.

Stop thinking about it, stop worrying about it, and just commit to going out and approaching people. Their reactions are irrelevant.
There is no mental trick here. The only trick is to force yourself to go out and approach every week, whether you want to or not. If you try to be too clever here, you will end up not taking any action. So the solution is not more thinking, it's action.
YOU CANNOT THINK YOUR WAY INTO SKILLS WITH GIRLS. You must go in the field and take the blows. All the shit that will arise, you will deal with as it arises.
Pickup requires courage.

@Rishabh R Just the discipline you will need to go out every weekend for 2 years straight will grow hair on your balls.
And much more will come along the way.
For example, most of guys have zero sense of humor. You don't know how to crack to hilarious joke. That will take you 2 years to learn.

I'm not. Because I already went through that.
I spent 2 decades building my life. Many of you guys haven't.
If you are 18, you need to spend at least 10 years grinding to build up a decent life. But realistically more like 20 years.

@Asia P You must be careful not to turn spirituality into a bypass or form of escape from managing your survival and life.
If you struggle to get dressed, what good is your spirituality?
Spirituality is good, but at your age you need to put a lot of time and energy into just mastering survival. Build a decent life for yourself. Don't just sit around hoping that your life will get great all by itself. It won't. You have to put work into it.
Be careful about neglecting core areas of your life like family, relationships, career, building skills, sex, friendship, finances, diet, fitness, health, etc. You have to invest energy into all these in addition to whatever spiritual work you do.
It's very hard to be happy if you neglect all those areas and only do spirituality. You can get yourself trapped that way.

Means nothing.
Smoke it yourself and that's all you need to know.
Why are you asking some naked man in the jungle to validate God for you? That's the mistake.
Also, comparing yourself to full time yogis is foolish. You are not that guy and probably never will be.

There is no substitute to cold approaching and interacting with 1000s of women. This process will grow you in so many ways.
You don't even understand what you're missing.

@IronFoot You are looking at this the wrong way.
Learning game is not about chasing for sex. It's about growing yourself into a powerful man and an adventure.
The main benefit is not the sex you have but how strong you become.

Once you develop a lot of experience and skill, you won't need to start from scratch every time.
You should plan to invest at least 2-5 years into learning game. Then you will have the skill set.
You should also seriously consider moving to a city with a good nightlife and day game opportunities.

yeah it’s actually a little insane how good it is at that. usually it doesn’t even really set in until a day or two later, I’ll just be walking around, looking at people and think “holy shit this is all my imagination”

If only you guys knew how sloppy and lazy these bootcamp instructors are. The amount of correction they give is minimal. If you wanna learn game you will have to learn to diagnose and solve your own problems. Don't expect anyone to solve them for you. You can't buy your way out of this problem. Learn the theory and then you can diagnose yourself.

Dude, it took me 450 approaches to get laid.
No bootcamp can promise you to get laid.
I've met all the RSD coaches. They all got good game.

Most philosophers just mentally-masturbate until they die.

DMT will make you so conscious that your pathetic life will melt like cotton candy in the ocean.

Haha
Nothing beats DMT. It's impossible to communicate how profound it is. Infinite profundity. If things got any more profound you'd be dead.
If I took any more I would die of Love and never return.

I have not found any methods that work well for me other than long and tedious-as-fuck full-time meditation retreats.
Realistically you need 100 hours straight of uninterrupted mindfulness concentration.
But even then, you will fall out of that state once you stop the retreat. Changing one's baseline is the hardest thing.

I would like to share with you guys a trap that I fell into in my life; getting into spirituality too early. 
When I was 23 years old, I graduated college and had an existential crisis. I didn't know who I was outside of my college self and didn't know what to do with my life. I started to dabble in the self help field, watching lots of Leo's videos and reading some self help books. I also got a job at a Telecommunications company (which my mom basically handed to me I might add) and I started working long, stressful hours. The first couple of years flew by. 
When I was 25, I decided to quit and spend all of my money on traveling and self help books, I coasted by for a couple of years, living off of COVID unemployment money, money that I had saved up, and some odd jobs. This is when I started to get into spirituality. I read all of Jed Mckenna's books, The Book of Not Knowing, Conversations with God and I listened to every one of Leo's videos on Spiritual Enlightenment. I was blown away by the material and am still fascinated as to what this state of consciousness is and how I can get there. 
This seems like a nice trajectory that I've taken, but there are a couple of major problems with it. I know now that I was using spirituality as a distraction from the authentic desires that I held for creating a successful dating life and also finding my life purpose. These spiritual pursuits were not  an authentic desire of mine, they were merely being used to avoid the emotional labor that it would take to tackle my dating needs and to find my life purpose. Sure, I now have a nice baseline understanding of what enlightenment is and what techniques can be used to get there, but now at 28 I am basically starting from ground zero in the dating world and I have found my life purpose, but am at ground zero in terms of building this life purpose into a successful career that can earn a sustainable income. As an adult, the evolution of a man's desires should go more or less like this:
1. Get success in the dating world
2. Find your life purpose and create success within it
3. Pursue spirituality / enlightenment
Can you pursue all three at once? Yeah sure, probably.. just be careful that you are not half assing the pursuit of them. If you are going to pursue something, then fully lean into it. That is why it is more ideal to pursue one fully and then move onto the next. 
 
Unenlightened people can be described as living in the dream state, enlightened people have exited the dream state and couldn't go back in if they tried. 
Yes, I admit it, I am dreaming, but I am enjoying every delicious, juicy, painful, anxious moment within this dream... and until it is an authentic desire of mine to leave this dream state, I will not pursue it... and neither should you. 
 
I hope someone gets something out of this and best of luck to you all.  

Yes, Maslow's Heirarchy of Needs.
Serious spiritual pursuits will derail your normal life.

Well, that's why I would never date nevermind marry a stage Blue girl. Too much dogma. Not worth dealing with.
But also I think you are overstating it. There must be Orange and Green girls in India.

1) Big cities in India must have nightclubs, bars, and a liberal social scene.
2) Yes, dating in deeply stage Blue societies is more formal and challenging. Casual dating isn't so acceptable there. You need a stage Orange society to do dating effectively. Dating is a stage Orange notion. Pickup advice is not geared towards places like India, it's geared towards Western parts of the world. Obviously you cannot go to a tribe in the Amazon and start running game or setting up coffee dates. When in Rome you must do as the Romans or they might kill you.
3) Move to where dating is socially acceptable.

The spiral dynamics framework has never really resonated that strongly with me, but maybe I'm missing something. I struggle to wrap my head around how stage orange is above blue for example... I've read many near death experiences, probably well over a thousand now, involving people who die, experience the afterlife and then come back. These people often talk with highly advanced beings and get downloads of universal truths, have life reviews etc. In none of them did I ever hear that stage orange characteristics are considered more developed than stage blue type characteristics. On the contrary, stage blue people were generally held as much more developed than stage orange people. This came as a surprise to a few atheists who had NDE's who then discovered that these beings considered their quaint religious  neighbours as much more developed than them, even though the atheists thought these people to be pretty dumb. 

This one guy was a materialistic atheist and used to make fun of some Christian group on his campus that would go around trying to convert people to Christianity. And there was this one guy who he thought was crazy who was into Yoga and stuff. This atheist died for a few minutes while under surgery, was in shock that there was an afterlife, and beings of light showed him that the bible thumping Christians were miles ahead of him in terms of development... they also showed him that this crazy yoga guy was even higher than them in development which shocked him more... but the point is that I see this repeated a lot in NDE's, that stage blue seems to be held as higher than stage orange.

You can't verbally trick a girl into getting her number. That's not how game works. You have to actually talk to her and establish an emotional connection so she wants to actually talk to you again.
Learn to have a proper conversation, not childish gimmickery.

@ambrojohn Lol, you're not going to become confident with women without massive experience with women.
The most direct, efficient, and precise way to get comfortable with dating is by going on tons of dates.
Your inner game will self-correct as you become proficient at outer game. Each successful date will make you more and more comfortable doing future dates to the point where dating will be as easy as driving your car. You won't even think about it.

Dude, you're just not present because you're inexperienced with girls and they make you anxious and in your head. That's how many guys are.
That is solved by dating way more girls until you stop being anxious around them.

Hello friends, 
In Leo's last vedio I came across the concept of conscious relationships, and I had a deep realisation which I was pondering about since many years actually, however I will bring this to light and work on this now.
I have been always wondering why I always have issues with people and don't really get along forever. I have lost many people along the way in a sense like at some point they were so close to me but now are Indifferent.
I don't have an issue with intimate relationships as I spent a lot of time and energy working on that but the boat got a bit off-balance with friendships 
I'm talking about friends here.
I feel that I want to have really deep and rewarding friendships and maintain them.
Please help me build realtionships and maintaining them by sharing various techniques, I will research and share some techniques too.
For starting this journey im journaling on my one note journal, I have made a new section of relationships and made a subpage friends and another one as colleagues.
I will be writing certain notes or key points to each and every person here. Would this be a good idea ?