Yali

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  1. Elon Musk Shenanigans thread
    Elon Musk Shenanigans thread
    I made no claims about character. Only creation of value.
    I already said many times Musk has a nasty character.

  2. Meditation is hell: every time I get in state; I get good ideas
    Meditation is hell: every time I get in state; I get good ideas
    Yes. It's extra bad for people who are high-ambition and highly creative.

  3. Is it ok to have a romance with a coworker/client?
    Is it ok to have a romance with a coworker/client?
    A romance at work is like shoplifting. You can get away with it a few times, but eventually it will blow up in your face.

  4. I Am Transgender
    I Am Transgender
    Trans is most likely an issue of genetic neuro-divergence. Seems to be the best explanation of it. Similar to how some people are gay.
    For a genetically normal person deciding if you're male of female is so easy it's a non-issue. Like breathing air. There's no confusion or struggle. Just like there's no struggle about who to have sex with.

  5. Are college rankings all bullshit?
    Are college rankings all bullshit?
    https://www.nytimes.com/2016/09/18/opinion/sunday/why-college-rankings-are-a-joke.html
    Greetings forum, I want to open up to you just a bit. 
    I have been going through a crisis of envy which has been obsessively (I have been diagnosed with OCD btw) going on for a little over a year. I got into a University which is considered by many to be a ''good University''. But it's nothing fancy or really high up there in National rankings. I feel so insecure about this for two reasons. One is that my school is notorious for being the school which has no parties or social scene. These are supposed to be the best four years of my life, two of which I spent in a Community College, and the other two are going to be in a non-party school. 
    I looked around at Instagram, for which I deleted because the FOMO and jealousy was causing me to cry, and I see all these people for whom I know and don't know, really living it up. They're all at these fancy Universities with fancy classical Christian architecture which are more prestigious than I will ever enter. They posted on Instagram about all of their crazy, alcohol filled parties, study abroad, spring break, etc... One (female) childhood friend I spoke to who has done all of the prior listed is a year young than me and has a 30+ body count. I'm older than her and only have a bodycount of 1 (thanks tinder). I'm a year older than her and haven't done any of that, and because of the school I go to, I don't think I ever will.
    The second thing which bothers me tremendously is the status and prestige. Like I mentioned in the above paragraph. My school has very high rankings in niche fields, but overall is not very highly ranked (it's a top 200 R1 research school). It was founded in 1966 and the campus is hideous, whereas everyone else's campus is so beautiful and classical, they look like Cathedrals. Going to this school with such a low ranking really makes me question my intelligence. I am aware of people who were not given the opportunities that I have who are going to more prestigious schools. I worked really hard in High School, but my academic performance tanked significanlty due to COVID. Community College was really confusing due to the hybrid online format of the school which emerged from COVID and I made various mistakes which made me academically very weak. There's just something about taking calculus and chemistry courses entirely online which makes me perform so poorly. Also, how oh how oh how the fuck do I score less than a thousand on my SAT (American college entrance exam)? Is this normal? Am I exceptionally stupid and don't belong in a University? (To be fair, I had immense trouble focusing both times I took the exam. I remember how I broke down, didn't fill in half the bubbles/answers and went to cry in the front office due to an anxiety attack. I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and for as long as I can remember have had issues focusing, and issue for which I am gradually resolving).
    How do I mange the jealously of everyone really living it up at college and having the time off their lives? How do I mange the jealousy against people who are academically better than me? Am I stupid because I'm so academically weak? Are people who attend fancier schools and score high on the SAT smarter than me? I really hate myself for this and don't love myself at all, and I have considered numerous times just ending my life or harming myself in some way. Because it seems that no matter how hard I try, I will never attain my academic and social goals. I suppose this is where I belong, in a stupid college with stupid kids because I myself am stupid. The smart gifted kids deserve all the sex with the hot college babes because they worked hard for it, and I'm simply getting what I deserve.
    Thanks for reading this rant, I suppose.
    Heh heh, for all this talk by Leo about how Buddhism is bullshit... My desires are surely causing me an immense amount of suffering, aren't they.

  6. How long for pickup results if naturally already decent with girls
    How long for pickup results if naturally already decent with girls
    I am already decent with girls but I have a high sex drive, want to find an ideal match eventually, have an abundance of options, and am mostly interested in the personal growth, it's just like an ice bath. As of now I can go months without any luck just from not being exposed to new girls.
    Anyways, I've only done 20 approaches and I suck even though I am usually good with girls and am physically attractive and confident. I see a lot of people getting into pickup really struggle. Like Leo says it can take 1000 approaches, but he starts off his series directing it to incel introvert types. 
     
    So, is the learning curve any different if I already have some skills, or is it going to take just as long to get good at the first part, hooking girls and gaining attraction instantly.
     
     
    Leo in another thread "If your looks are really good or you are highly extroverted then getting girls is much much easier."
     
    I am decently good at these but I still struggle to approach since it is such a new situation and my extroverted smily confident self fades away. Will it be easier to get that in game if i already have it when im not scared asf from cold approaching.

  7. I Am Transgender
    I Am Transgender
    That's question-begging tho.
    The issue is that you don't know what role God has given you until you struggle to sort yourself out.
    Finding yourself and your role in the world is no easy task, especially if you grew up in a repressive or corrupt system.

  8. Brian Rose's London Mayor Scam
    Brian Rose's London Mayor Scam
    Anyone who collaborates with Ike and Jones reveals to you their true colors.
    A conscious person would not associate with Alex Jones.
    Both Trump and Covid have revealed the true colors of many people. How you view Trump and Covid says so much about you at such a deep character level.

  9. Who here use mastery by george leonard as their primary system
    Who here use mastery by george leonard as their primary system
    It's just one book. It's far from a system to live life. Just a small part of life.

  10. If you just want casual sex with a girl then do you need to be romantic with her?
    If you just want casual sex with a girl then do you need to be romantic with her?
    Player frame vs boyfriend frame.

  11. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    I've been alive 40 years and I'm still corrupt.

  12. Epistemic Scoundrels Mega-Thread
    Epistemic Scoundrels Mega-Thread
    Is Matt Walsh racist?
    The answer is YES.
    You don't need to see his movie to know that.

  13. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Selfishness and ignorance are inherent.
    It is not an evil society that created infants. It is evil infants who created society.

  14. Brian Rose's London Mayor Scam
    Brian Rose's London Mayor Scam
    Brian rose is the #1 example on youtube that diving deep into consciousness work doesn't automatically mean you clean up all that shit in the closet.
    If anyone doesn't know who Brian Rose is, he started a youtube channel called London Real which at some point in 2019 really started to take off with viewership. He was interviewing some really interesting individuals like Sahdguru and Wim Hof and putting out several interviews that were quite beefy and interesting. He had over a million followers at this point and was covering topics on psychedelics and self improvement. 
    Jump to 2020 as COVID lockdowns started. Brian started to collaborate with David Ike and Alex Jones. One of his interviews got taken down and he started a donation platform. He raised A TON of money to start some video platform that materialized in the most pathetic way and seemed to then be swept under the rug. Jump now to 2021 and he is running for London Mayor. Bellow Rebel Wisdom summarizes the events from 2020 till now and Brian Rose is a good case study of how just because you get into consciousness work that you automatically aren't a saint like some people think.
     

  15. How could feelings be just about survival and nothing else?
    How could feelings be just about survival and nothing else?
    Again, this is the trap of reductionism. Stop trying to reduce everything.
    When you a eat a banana, that's existential. The taste of a banana is Absolute Truth and it doesn't matter than it lasts only a few seconds.
    These fucking Buddhists have ruined spirituality with their reductionism. Can't even eat an Absolute Banana without some Buddhist squawking in your ear about how it's all a temporary distraction from Nirvana.
    The banana exists as itself.

  16. Ken Wilber thinking Stage Green is the problem (response to Leo's blog)
    Ken Wilber thinking Stage Green is the problem (response to Leo's blog)
    Unfortunately even this isn't true.
    Orange is badly needed because 50% of the population still lives paycheck to paycheck, with not enough material security to even have the luxury to care about the environment or trans people.
    Our development is so much lower than Wilber says that we haven't even exhausted Orange.
    And the Orange stage cannot just be handled by giving people free money and services. Orange is about learning to be an achiever. You can't skip Orange with socialism or UBI. 50% of the population needs to spend 10-20 years just actualizing Orange in themselves. That is our situation.

  17. How could feelings be just about survival and nothing else?
    How could feelings be just about survival and nothing else?
    The Absolute invites you to realize that everything relative is Absolute.

  18. What are the odds that you, an average dude, is Tier 2? Not very high.
    What are the odds that you, an average dude, is Tier 2? Not very high.
    You are expecting too much.
    These labels are rough ballparks based on what we see of a person. It is not a reading of their soul.
    How do you know someone isn't larping as a progressive but is actually a secret Nazi?
    You don't ever really know anyone through a TV screen. You judge public figures based on how they present themselves over time.
    Ben Shaprio cannot even understand that rising sea levels means people will lose their houses.

  19. I need help reconnecting with God
    I need help reconnecting with God
    I think that would vary a lot from person to person. You need to find what makes you feel most creative.
    For me, about 5 days of nonstop meditation makes me very creative. So I'd start with that. Just force yourself to sit and do nothing all day long. Eventually your mind will start to fill the void with creative thoughts.

  20. Is nightgaming everyday sustainable/doable?
    Is nightgaming everyday sustainable/doable?
    No, you will burn out.
    Stop trying to get things done faster, rather enjoy the process and do it slow but more consistently and at higher quality. Stop rushing.
    Your attitude is too mechanical and will produce worse results.

  21. The difference between Self and Being
    The difference between Self and Being
    Imagine nothing changes about your experience other that there is no sense of self to it. That's what no-self means. It does not mean lack of experience.
    When you were a baby you had experience but no self. Animals also have experience but no self.

  22. I Slept With 100 Men in One Day | Jesus xd
    I Slept With 100 Men in One Day | Jesus xd
    Leo, you are very wrong here. By far. Speaking from experience.
    @Recursoinominado is more correct. Way more than 100 is also possible.
    That being said, I have the looks, probably the best personality type for this, rock-solid inner game, 20 years of dancing skills, pretty lovely IG, live in Finland (stage green, sexual liberty, income & status equality) & I went out 3 nights a week, did daygame & online game - while working part-time, like 20h a week (work was in the evenings).
    I didn’t really add social circle game to all that tho, which would have made all this dramatically even easier.
    I was 24-25 & it was 2019. Did this for a while and then got bored to death of it. Started feeling really off about it all, the same old cycles over and over, the superficiality of it... Burning through karma in effect, and it worked, eh?
    Sometimes I was having sex with 3 girls within the same day. 1 in the morning (from last day date or pull from club), 1 from evening date & 1 from pulling in the same night. Or 1 in the morning, and went to 2 dates in a row in the evening etc.
    Got to a point I couldnt get erection due to it just becoming ego & performance than connecting and enjoying. Went to the doctor to see if I had some erection issues lol.
    Anyway, this was right before I ”re”-bumped into your content so I was probably selfish and manipulative as hell (relative to now - the growth has been immense - even tho I’ve done spiritual and self-help work ever since 15).
    But yeah, I am perhaps more of an exception. But isn’t all the best PUAs an exception? I have no idea, don’t really know anyone to compare myself to, other than my then #1 wingman (& probably the only other dead serious PUA here lol), who did as well as I did.
    He had to eventually change his whole identity 180 to a low-key one tho, since his reputation started to get him in serious trouble (he did it like 10X longer than I). The guy went to the show Bachelor after approaching half the country 🤦‍♀️ - moral of the story: if you have a reputation of a player, don’t rub it in the face of the whole country. I promise you, you will suffer immensely for it.
    Side point: all that being said, if I were to be single now (havent for 4 years), I wouldnt make it so structurally performative and would have more fun and spontaneus - and so, I wonder if my game & results would be even better. Probably not as I wouldnt be nearly as hungry for MORE & results all the time.
    But who knows.

  23. Elon Musk Shenanigans thread
    Elon Musk Shenanigans thread
    Recently Musk has been attacking Europe. Supporting far right parties in Britain and Germany.
    I think Europe should ban every company that Musk is involved. Especially X.
    I’ll post videos later.
    You can also post positive information about the Dweeb.

  24. How to have fun without alchol/stimulants?
    How to have fun without alchol/stimulants?
    I've socialized for years without alcohol or drugs. You just have to train yourself to build up state.

  25. Successful pickup artists?
    Successful pickup artists?
    If you actually watch his in-field, there is nothing impressive about his game.
    He loves to brag about his lay count, but you have no idea if he's lying or not.
    I've seen him game. He's good. But I wouldn't say he's better than most good coaches. I would not trust his self-reported lay count.