London is so large that you can find anything there probably. But it's going to be mostly Orange people.
Austin is superior to LA in my opinion. I would not want to live in LA.
If you want a very Green area, Sedona Arizona is the place. But it's very small.
I suggest you fly around and vacation a bit in each of these Green cities to find which one you like best. Visit Austin, visit Oregon, visit Seattle, etc. You will tell just by vibes which place suits you to settle down.

Join stage Green communities and social events like yoga classes, burns, festivals, seminars, workshops, etc.
You'll have to look beyond your city.
You can relocated to more Green cities like Austin, Bay Area, Oregon, etc.

You haven't even begun serious meditation or yogic practice. You don't even understand the effort required.
This is very advanced work. It requires momumental effort.
I recommend you do Kriya yoga. But even learning that will require much more effort than you seem ready to give.
Without effort there is no God and no liberation. Sorry, but that's just reality.
You need to sit down and rethink your priorities and your work ethic. Your priorities are bad and your work ethic is poor.

Well, she has to be into you. Then you take her for an adventure that accidentally ends up in your bed.

That's generally how it works. Each approach builds up state until eventually you stop giving a fuck entirely and you enter a flow state.
But you have to rebuild it every night.
Still, you can enter state much faster if you consciously enter into play rather than just hoping that many approaches will brute force you into it.
And sometimes you may just not be in a playful mood, in which case go home and do something else.
The whole point of going out to engage in nightlife is because you want to have fun. Don't overlook something so basic. If you aren't having fun you are missing the whole point. The problem then is that you have a stick up your ass that needs removing.
See, you gotta ask the deeper question: Why are you so anti fun? Who hurt you?

Realize this:
In the end there is no shortcut for action. At rock bottom you have to just do what needs to be done.
The only way for a child to walk is to just walk. There is no further tutorial or trick. At the end of all the talk, theory, technique, and tricks -- you still have to just will yourself into action.
Realize that you will just keep suffering until you realize that this is stupid and you can just will yourself to do what is proper and healthy.
Realize that you are sick of suffering and that just acting correctly is easier than wallowing in misery.
Nothing is stopping you from walking around the block each day. Nothing. Sit and contemplate that until it sinks into your skull.
Realize furthermore that if you take extreme corrective actions like fasting for 2 days, this will just sabotage your consistent progress. You need small but consistent changes. Prohibit yourself from fasting. It is not needed. No radical steps are needed, only consistent small steps.
Realize that you must shift your focus from radical corrective moves to moves that are consistent and sustainable.
Do not try to walk for 60 minutes. Just do 15 minutes and be happy with that. Trust that a gradual process will work best in the end.

No.
You don't understand how sex works for men.
As a woman you can go to any bar, any night, and get laid with no strings attached. A man cannot do that.
You underestimate the difficulty for men to get laid by a factor of 100x. When that is your view of it, yeah, it seems like no integrity needs to be compromised. Every single man compromises integrity to get laid because if he didn't he would be starved of sex for years. This is unimaginable to a woman.
You are thinking of the average man as having the attractive pull of a Brad Pitt, a celebrity, or a world-class pickup coach. That's not how it is for average guys. When you are not Brad Pitt, you have to settle for scraps just to get laid rarely. And you do not want to commit to scraps. But even scraps will refuse to have sex without commitment.
You have fantasies of how this works because the truth of it is far too painful to know.
Men have way less options than women understand, unless the men are exceptional. But women only think about exceptional men and project that exceptionality on all men.
Go look at what options an Incel has. He will be lucky to get one woman in 5 years. And that will be a poorly matched woman who is barely worth having sex with. But she will expect a commitment.

Self-inquiry and hardcore retreats are the same thing.
The two most powerful technique are: 1) Psychedelics, and 2) Hardcore solo retreats.
That's what I've said for a long time.
For self-inquiry to be effective it has to be done in the middle of a hardcore retreat.

If you are asking that question that already demonstrates a wrong attitude towards this work. It shows you are not taking responsibility for your truth-seeking work. As if I am the source of your truth. No. I am not. Finding truth or getting results in life is 100% on you. Even if I am say, Satan, it is your job to realize I am Satan and stop following me. It is not my job as Satan to tell you I am Satan.
It is your responsibility to figure out why techniques are not working for you. This may require trying new techniques or hiring an expert to coach you through your sticking points.
My teachings are extremely clear and straight-forward. If you have a hard time understanding them just conceptually, there is something amiss with you because almost any other teaching will be less clear with you. I explain things in unusual detail and clarity relative to Ralston or someone else. Of course this doesn't guarantee results, but at least you should be clear conceptually on what this work entails. For example, I go out of my way to stress how much effort and time this work requires.
This doesn't mean I am above criticism, but you can ask others here about whether my teachings are unclear or confusing.
You can also ask others here if they got results and what they did to get them.
Just in general, achieving any serious result in life -- whether in business, career, dating, art, or spirituality -- will require 10x-100x more work than you initially assume. Almost any serious project in life is way harder than it seems. Go try to direct a Hollywood movie and you will see how much harder it is than you imagine. Which is why great things are rare and valuable. If it was easy, everyone would be Awake, God would not be a controversial topic, and my channel would not exist because there would be no one round to pay me to create content. The only reason my channel can exist is because the work is so hard that 99% of humans will never do it. If everyone was successful in spirituality I would be out of a job.

I read comments under my YT videos every week of people saying how much the work has changed their lives, even saved them from depression and suicide.
If you are not seeing benefit from the work that means you aren't actually doing it, you are misunderstanding what the work is, you are probably lost in concepts.
There are thousands of insights in this work and you haven't gotten any of them?
You are just reading words and having ideas. Yes, that alone is pointless. But that isn't even to begin the work.
Yes, it is very hard to experience the stuff Ralston talks about. It requires serious hardcore meditative practice.
There is no easy way to understand deep metaphysical truths. The only way is either psychedelics or week-long meditation retreats. If you are not doing that you will not understand God.
I think you are underestimating the seriousness of this work. Did you really think you would transcend death with such meek effort? We are talking about insanely difficult things here.
What is it you want me to do? Stop doing my work because you are too lazy to do a 2-week meditation retreat?
This work is very, very, very advanced. It requires the drive of a bull to succeed in it. After you complete 10 two-week meditation retreats, then you may complain about it not working. But until then you just haven't even begun the serious work. The problem is, people today have no work ethic. They expect Awakening to be like watching Netflix and quit as soon as the work gets rolling.
Zen monks meditate for years and still don't reach these insights.

It all depends on the effort you put it.
It depends on your looks and the caliber of girl you require.
The hotter the girl the harder she is to get.
But I've slept with models and 10's. It's not easy for me.
If your standards are low it's much easier.

That's just untrue.
Hyper masculine is the ideal for great reason. It gets you LOTS of sex.
Emerald, you do not represent typical women or men. You are highly unusual.
Typical men and women are chimps. I've seen thousands of them up close in Vegas. They are way less mature than you imagine. I promise.

I recommend everyone try relationships just for the experience and growth opportunities.
It's usually better to do something challenging than do nothing at all. But if you have some better alternative like pursuing hardcore meditation retreats in a cave or launching a business, do that.

Of course girls make your survival harder because you gotta take care of them and protect them.
But in return you get sex, intimacy, love, emotional support, companionship, children.
It's a trade off.
It's more worth it for the personal growth you get as a man rather than the pleasure of sex.
The amount and quality of sex I got was not worth it. But the amount I grew myself in the process was worth it. The growth would be worth it even if I got zero sex. The sex lasts for minutes. The growth lasts a lifetime.

Some people are so stuck in ideology that only a rubber-bullet will rouse them.
If you refuse to listen to reason, force and suffering become the only way.
Politics is not a joke. This is survival.

For all concerned.

I know exactly how girls respond to attractive men. My feelings about it are irrelevant.
I encourage all men to go out and socialize past their comfort zone and learn from direct experience, not ideology. See for yourselves how girls behave out in the streets.
And build genuine relationships. Learn from that too.
If anything is true you will see it in the streets and in the bedrooms.

Looksmaxing... you mean the thing every woman does every day of her life? 
Do women have a gay fixation when they show off their tits and lips?

@SQAAD I know this is very painful, but there is a deeper lesson here for you about the importance of work.
You can't just expect to live for 5 years on someone else's dime as an adult. You need to learn to handle your own survival responsibly.

Fucking. Fucking never changes.
It's always been about maximizing value. Deny it all you want but survival runs you through and through.

Survival takes place within Being. So if you stop long enough to look underneath all the survival what you see is the underlying Being, which is Consciousness for its own sake.
Spirituality is about seeing the Being underneath all the unconscious survival.
Emptiness just means free of survival.

I see this biohacker stuff like an extended performance art / grift.
You create a biohacker public persona and then monetize the shit out of it by selling hope and pills to gullible rubes.
Dave Asprey has pioneered that particular art. It's a very sneaky survival strategy.
Of course there will be a million dollar book deal, talkshow rounds, overpriced branded supplements, a special trademarked diet, and more.

Im struggeling for a while now with socializing. 
i find 90% of my interactions are ABSOLUTE BOREDOM and fakery.. meaningless ping-pong of bullshit.. when its funny i can enjoy it more but most of the time its not even truly funny, i just pretend to laugh to fit in.. im talking about relationships, family and even friends sometimes. 

im not the most social guy in the table for sure but also not the most shy and introverted guy. im definetly not a socialization ninja but i can handle conversations quite fine and without anxiety and shit.. i just dont truly enjoy it.. and lately i cannot stop myself from asking "why? why do i even bother? its so lame and full of phony people doing foolish things and concerned with banal things.. i dont find people and their opinions interesting so why do i even try?" 
 
could someone please enlighten me here with some higher perspective? 
why do you enjoy socializing? what do you find exciting about it? 


P.S
oh lord save me from thy stupid misery and from foolish social activities

Whatever horror you want to imagine.
I said, you would not believe me that reality is Love.
I didn't say that.
Not necessarily. Human existence is horrific enough if you bother to really look into it.
Do you understand the horror of torture prisons in the Middle East?
You know of such things intellectually, but I'm talking about the horror of living it. If you lived through it, you would not be so open to reality being Love.

I personally know someone who utterly tanked their grades in high school solely because of their computer game addiction. I mean -- all F's. 
They were later able to redeem themselves by doing very good in a Community College, allowing themselves to get into a decent University.
But another person I know is currently in his 4th year of Community College, its supposed to only take 2 years, because of his computer gaming addiction.