Stop coming up with bullshit and go learn game.
Game is game. It works everywhere, everywhen. It will even work on men and baboons.

You can start simply by loving yourself more in a limited sense.
Start by buildung up your self-esteem. See 6 Pillars Of Self-Esteem book and do the exercises.
Stuff like that.
Love reality too. Love people. Love life. Love nature. Love all the stuff you hate.

Dude, you just misunderstand how online dating works. Online is purely about looks. If you don't got the look, you will get garbage. If you got the look, you will get plenty of easy dates.
Obviously you ain't got the look.
Women certainly develop attraction online. Which you can easily check just by replacing your profile pic with that of a guy with the right look. You will get women begging to go on a date with you. If you don't believe me, try it.

Yes it is. It's always an option.
Dude, college is like being inside a nightclub all year round with none of the distractions. It does not get easier than college. Talk to every girl, go to every frat party and social event. What more do you need?
If your college is tiny, transfer to a bigger college.

As many of you know, pure 5-Meo-DMT has become available again from research chemical vendors! Many people are interested stocking up and keeping it for the long haul. This thread is intended to provide an outline of the best strategies for storing 5-MeO-DMT (and other psychedelics). With good storage procedure it should be possible to store 5-MeO-DMT for decades with little to no degradation. While this primer was written with 5-MeO-DMT in mind, it applies to other psychedelic compounds as well.
It is divided into the sections: Material, Safety, Long term storage, Short term storage
Material:
The salts of 5-MeO-DMT will resist degradation better than the freebase, so you could choose 5-MeO-DMT in Oxalate, Fumarate, HCl or other salt form as they will all last better than the freebase. Someone on here pointed out that the Oxalate has never before appeared on the market, indicating that this is a fresh batch, so that might be the best un-degraded form right now. OTOH, the other forms could be from a new synth too, I don't know. If you need freebase down the road for vaporizing, there are teks on the web on how to convert a salt form to freebase. If you just want to vape it for short term use, you might as well order freebase. When talking about other compounds, here are some general rules of thumb: The phenethylamines (2C-B, 2C-E, mescaline etc) are the most hardy of the bunch. Mescaline has been found in peyote buttons in archaeology sites still active after hundreds or even thousands of years. Next, the tryptamine class (including 5-MeO-DMT) are a fair bit more fragile and need better care. Of the tryptamine class, the 5-sub ones (5-MeO-DMT etc) seem more hardy than the 4-sub ones (4-AcO-DMT, psilocybin etc). Last, the lysergamides (LSD, AL-LAD) are theoretically the least stable of the bunch, although there is a story of old Sandoz acid being passed around at some gathering many many decades after it was synthed, and it still worked fine. Lysergamides are particularly vulnerable to UV light and the chlorine that's found in most tap water. Safety:
Locks - If you live with children or irresponsible adults, it is crucial that you keep these compounds safely locked away. Acquire some kind of small lock box to store your chemicals in. Even without such people around, it's a good habit for long term storage because you don't know what might come about in 10 years. Labelling - It's critical to properly label any stored material. You will forget what is what 10 years from now. Also if someone penetrates your locked box, you don't want them snorting a line of 5-MeO thinking it's something like coke. You might also want to put a note in the box to explain to any intruder what's in there, and to talk to you about it. Long term Storage:
Heat, moisture, light and air will be the main causes of degradation, so the general idea is to protect your 5-MeO-DMT from these factors. Here are some points:
Sealed and dry: You can keep your 5-MeO-DMT sealed in it's original baggie. Put this baggie inside another baggie, and then inside a sealed container that has some kind of desiccant (drying agent) in it. Silica gel packets that come with some food items are good. Uncooked rice is also actually really good. Good sealed containers include glass canning jars. Amber vials: Some people prefer to transfer the baggie contents to small amber vials, like the ones used for essential oils. You can order those kinds of vials off of amazon or other vendors. Don't reuse old vials because they could have contaminants in them. You could put these vials inside another container containing desiccant. Freezer: The cold of the freezer will greatly slow down any degradation. Put your sealed containers in the lock box if you have one, and then in the freezer, and just leave them in there for years if you want. You *must* have everything sealed really well from moisture when you put it in the freezer, otherwise you'd be better off leaving it at room temperature. Opening your stash: When you need to access your stash DO NOT OPEN IT RIGHT AWAY. Wait until it comes up to room temperature, so just leave it for a few hours to let it warm up. If you open it right away moisture will condense and you'll have moisture issues. Antioxidant: Some people like to add an antioxidant in with the desiccant. The idea is that any oxygen in the container will preferably react with the antioxidant rather than end up oxidizing the drug. I'm not sure the best antioxidant, but you could try vitamin C. None of the desiccant or antioxidant should ever come into direct contact with the 5-MeO-DMT. You can score an A+ on storage by displacing the air in the storage container with a heavy inert gas like xenon. Some extreme wine enthusiasts do this to prevent wine from oxidizing after they've opened it up. A bit excessive if you ask me, but certainly takes it to the next level. Short term Storage:
For short term storage the same principals as above apply, but you can afford to be a little less careful. Any amount that you will want to use in say the next few months or year, you could keep in short term storage.
Keep your small amount in a small baggie or amber vial, optionally put that inside a larger baggie sealed with silica gel packets.  You might get away with "locking" it in one of those plastic child-proof medicine bottles that prescription meds come in. Better to have it behind an actual lock though. Again, label it. Store at room temperature, somewhere cool, away from any light, and discreet.  Notes:
What an amazing time we live in! Never before in history has it been possible for millions of people to access this chemical key to directly unlocking mystical states of consciousness. Only since the early 2000s has this compound been available on the web, and even then it's always been off and on. Before that only rare chemists and their friends had access to it. There are no guarantees as to how long this door will stay open so act wisely, share carefully and with love.
Feel free to comment with any corrections/additions/notes etc. I will continue to come back to edit this for clarity and updates.

You are imagining persons A and B.
You are also assuming a difference between A and B. That difference is imaginary.

It requires 100+ hours of continuous intense concentration to shift one's state of consciousness to have an awakening. Realistically this is what's required. You are not at all intense enough about it, so nothing happens.
Take psychedelic to see instant shift in state so you understand what you're missing.

Girls will flake on you all the time for no reason. Get used to it.

Obviously pursuing success will interfere with deconstructing reality.
Which is why monks don't pursue success.
Figure out what you want to do in which order.
Success usually requires A LOT of manipulation and illusion.
The pursuit of truth vs the pursuit of success are very different things.

Yeah, well... struggle with it and you're sort that out through trial and error.
A meditation practice is such a minor thing. You can do that while pursing success. I was talking about serious spiritual work towards awakening, not just a meditation practice. A meditation is not a serious pursuit of anything.
I pursue my artistic and creative passions.
I am not a good example for you to follow because I already invested 10 years of my time in building massive stage Orange success. I doubt you have.

Haha, no one gets laid for his intelligence.
If that were the case, I would have a line of girls queued up outside my house.
Getting laid is more about being stupid than it is about being intelligent. The more stupid you act, the more likely you are to get laid. Girls are attracted to pure stupidity. Sorry, but that's the cold hard reality of it.

@Valach In this case you want to proactively work on diving into the intimacy. Build it up to crazy levels. Turn that into a game.
Lead her into deep intimacy and consciousness.

Yup, cause a real man knows how to lead and takes what he wants. And that is precisely what's attractive. Women want to be wanted and led.
Just don't be creepy or rapey about it.
Be a gentlemen. But take it!

"PUA tactics" are not based in language.
My PUA friend would pickup foreign girls in Vegas using Google translate on his phone.
A guy who knows what he's doing can pickup a girl without talking at all. Try it sometimes. Go out and pretend like you lost your voice and try to sleep with a girl without saying a single word. You might be shocked at how effective it is.
The words said in pickup hardly matter at all other than for handling logistics.

So often that you should stop even calling it "rejection".

That is true for low value guys who got no game.
The whole purpose of game is to make one so attractive as to condense that typical few months time-frame down to 4 hours.
It sounds crazy, but it's possible to do. If you think about it, there is no good reason why it should take a few months to build a deep rapport with a stranger. It only takes that long when people are doing it lazily, unconsciously, by accident. But if you take conscious control over the process, it can happen much faster.
From a guy's POV, waiting a month to sleep with a girl is just a giant waste of time and energy. As a guy we can figure out whether we want to sleep with a girl within 5 minutes. The rest is just cat and mouse games.
Even though it's called "game", ironically it is women who play the most games. A guy is very clear about what he wants. So the guy's "game" is just a reflection of the game that women force him to play to get what he clearly knows he wants. Because if a guy does not play along with your games, you will reject him.
Things would be much easier and simpler if we could just approach and say, "Hey, I like you. I think we should fuck." But this doesn't work. It's too truthful. Hence the game. Okay, game on.

They are not mutually exclusive.
There is no genuine relationship with a woman until after sex. She is not invested enough for there to be a relationship.

Do whatever you want but I ain't waiting a month to have sex.
This does not hinder my ability to have a relationship.
The thing is, strong successful men don't wait around for things. They see a thing and act on it immediately. This comes with the territory of being effective in the world. If a man is willing to wait a month to fuck you, this is not a guy you should be fucking. This is a lame beta guy who has no idea how to lead.
A real man is clear about what he wants and is very proactive about it. Women find this highly attractive. Because this is how shit gets done in the world. This is how success is made. This is how wars are won. This is how empires are built. This is how rockets are launched. This is how fires are put out. This is how lives are saved.

But you can't "make love" if you cannot even get a casual hookup.

The average guy is so lonely and desperate that he will be happy to get any girl at all.
The higher value guy you want to land, the higher his standards will be, the harder it will be lock him down, the more insecure you will feel around him. BTW, the same is true with high value girls, so spare me your tears. High value has a price.

For the agendas to be the same men and women would literally have to be identical. Then there would not be any sexual polarity that makes you all hot.

Yeah, well, the whole point of pickup is that it makes all such logic irrelevant since attraction is not logical.
So you can tell yourself you will never sleep with a guy who "sells himself" to you, but when you meet an attractive, high value guy, all that logic will become irrelevant.
Emotion > logic
Doubly so for women.

Yeah, well, I understand. But that is the definition of neediness: I need something from you and I can't wait, and if I don't get it, I'll be upset.
And of course neediness is unattractive.
Do as you like but don't be surprised if it turns people off because all healthy people find neediness unattractive because it's fundamentally selfish. ME! ME! ME! Give ME what I need!

It is pure selfishness.
Of course men are selfish too.
Both parties are just doing what is best for them while expecting the other one to be selfless.
See, when you act selfishly, why are you surprised when others do the same? They are only doing what you're doing back to you. But since you are selfish, you don't like it. The ego's game is to be as selfish as it can while denying others that same move.
You exercise your choice not to have sex with a man when he needs it but you don't. And a man exercises his choice to go pickup other girls when he needs it and you need him to be loyal to you.

Well....
The needy thing is very tricky, because you have to understand that any guy who gets into a relationship with you is doing so to fulfill certain needs of his, be that sex or whatever else. So it's mostly just a question of degree of neediness.
The whole point of a relationship is to use the other person to fulfill your own selfish needs. Otherwise you would not relate at all.
Both partners are doing that, so then it becomes a sort of dance/game/negotiation. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it does not.