We are talking about attraction. When it comes to attraction in food, burgers, fries, and pizza is exactly what people crave despite all their fancy talk of health.
It is possible to transcend lower desires. Of course. But I will never count on people doing so.
When a guy is attracting women, he's not gonna tailor his game to the 1 in 100 female saints. He's gonna tailor his game to average women.

@Yali if everyone had bitcoin it would be worthless , anyway it's set to crash soon , so you'd better cash out 

I've noticed that most people who are interested in philosophy and who study philosophy are moral objectivists. I would be curious on Leos take for why this is, because it is very strange to me. I cannot really follow the arguments because many times they just look like elaborate labyrinths of mental acrobatis to somehow arrive at the conclusion they are seeking to arrive at.
It looks more like a language game than anything else, a lot of it just looks like people are indoctronated into certain schools of thoughts and then make it their jobs to rationalize those positions.
 
What do you think Leo?
@Leo Gura
 

To be alpha is not to desperately triangulate how to be alpha. It's simply to not give a fuck and do what you want to do without even thinking that you are alpha.
If you are worried about whether you are alpha enough, you're actually beta.
There's a difference between acting secure and actually being secure.
The point of doing lots of approaches is not to hone your act, but to make you experienced enough to not give a fuck. Those approaches help you discover your authentic masculinity -- if you do it right. Or you can just turn into a used dick salesmen.

Truth is death. What do you expect? If you don't want to be smacked with Truth stop doing consciousness-expanding substances.

Lol
That was your mistake.
Survival is a chess game full of trickery.

This is a very good video on male female dynamic. I find that Teal Swan is particularly insightful on this topic. 

Or each one of us is completely alone in his own imagination?
In other words: the chair I see, is that a part of my imagination as God, and you are also experiencing it, or , that chair only and only exists in my POV?

@Karmadhi Self-actualizing requires taking action and doing difficult things.
If not for that, everyone would be self-actualized.
If you want to live a great life, the basic cost is labor.

In practice the only thing you need to be successful with women is to go out and approach.
The rest is niggly details.

Do not be sexual.
If the girl truly likes you, you don't need to game her much. The problem is they don't really like you to begin with, otherwise they would be receptive to a simple "Hey there".
Keep in mind there is a lot of fake profiles and girls just looking for validation and ego-boosts on apps like Tinder.
Girls are not above using guys purely for validation with no intention of fucking them.
Your best opener is gonna be a short unique funny line.

Counter-intuitively yes. Lot of pickup actually teaches you how to be more expressive like a girl. To flow more with your feelings. Most guys are so stuck in their heads they are disconnected from their feelings. Feelings are not just feminine, they are also masculine.
You will attract way more girls by being emotionally expressive than you will by being stoic.
It's similar to how you talk to children or dogs. You adopt an over-emotionalized, playful attitude. You don't treat the interaction seriously. Likewise when attracting women. Treat women like children when trying to flirt with them.
Watch videos of men flirting with women.

If Beck is stage Blue, then SD tells you exactly why he would support Trump.
There is even a Yellow reason. If Beck is Yellow, he might feel that Trump is needed to shore up the Blue/Orange part of the Spiral.
But the problem is that Trump is Red, not Orange. Beck seems to have mistaken Trump for Orange. This a very dangerous miscalculation.

Don't get me wrong, you can certainly make enormous money by stealing and leeching. But don't be shocked when you try to leech but you get leeched instead.
By being a leech you enter a battle of leech against leech and who gets outleeched is up for grabs.
See, leeching is a finite process whereas creativity is an infinite process. You'd be a fool to align yourself with the finite instead of the infinite.

Academic performance and social credentials are not equal to true intelligence or consciousness.
Many smart people are ideological and stupid. Like Richard Dawkins. A very smart idiot.

Your answer, @Yali, of systemic racism is in the time-stamped debate video (till 1:34:20) of Vaush debating an African American Proud Boy.
 

Just to fuck with your mind's a bit more: David Hawkins sung the praises of Ben Shapiro and Shapiro's worldview while denouncing post-modernism.
David Hawkins was a very conscious guy, spiritually speaking. But politically he was a fool. Having good politics is a separate matter from spiritual development. Politics requires years of careful study. You will not get good politics just from spiritual practice.
And remember, most spiritual masters got their awakening through giftedness and super-natural talent. But you don't get good politics through talent or giftness. Good politics requires serious study and contemplation.

Sheila (Osho's #2) openly talked about how she would gather up groupies for Osho to bang.

@Lyubov Yeah, but girls do love themselves a proper asshole. Because it is a dominant quality.
An asshole will protect her children from getting raped. But at the cost of him raping others.

I had a girl friend once who was a model, and it made me appreciate some of why women behave the way they do.  Random guys would actually follow her home when she was driving in a car.  Beauty attracts some of the worst characters or can bring out the worst in men.  All kinds of volatile emotions and desires are being triggered.  That’s why women feel vulnerable and the need for a man that can protect them and provide a home.   My advice to men is to just be yourself, relax, and treat a woman like another human being.    That alone will make you look self confident and strong.  

@Skenderberg Yes, looks very odd and awkward, and unprofessional. Men in high power get away with shit like that. Hope he's not one of the pedos.

Don't gaslight us with your BS.
Rural Americans don't want any empathy from "coastal elites" who they themselves have demonized for the last 30 years.
The tragedy of the situation is that Dems and progressives actually want to help rural Americans but the rural Americans are too ignorant to accept help and bite the hand that feeds them.
It's not our job to endlessly bend over backwards for aggressively ignorant people.

Sure it is. My first two wingmen were two black guys in Dallas. Both of them got laid more than me because they were more experienced and had better game.
Will you have a disadvantage with white girls? Sure, probably. But it doesn't really matter when you talk to 30 girls a night. You don't need to bang every girl you meet. You only need 1 per night to be down.
If you're a black guy and you want a hot white girlfriend, this isn't a problem because all you gotta do is filter through 500 hot white girls until you find a few that love you. Is it worth it? Sure it is. You can do that in a few months.
Remember.... you're not out to bang the whole female race. You're just looking for a handful of women. A handful out of thousands. This makes your goal much easier.
When I was practicing game, it's even worth it to approach 300 pound whales. You are just being social and having fun. Lower your standards for socialization and approach. Just because you approach does not mean you need to end up having sex with her. She might have a cute friend.
APPROACH ALL! -- should be your motto. Young, old, hot, fat, man, woman, gay, straight -- doesn't matter. Just approach and socialize. Sort the wheat from the chaff later.

@Yali They "believe" in Jesus.  But Jesus was just a guy who discovered he wasn't just a guy but he was God.  
And then the rest worshiped him when they could also have discovered they were God.  

Yeah, well, that's how all creativity works. You consume sources and then "the universe" gives you some spin on that.
I don't remember it too well. I haven't used it much.
The biggest problem, like with any model, is taking it too literally and using it as your exclusive paradigm for understanding reality.
Be sure to balance it out with other models like SD, Cook-Greuter, Wilber, etc. And in the end, drop all models.