Spiritual talent of course cannot be changed, which is why I don't discuss it much other than to warn you that the masters you blindly follow are coasting on it while you are not.
But spiritual talent is not all there is to spirituality. You can go far with spiritual practice even if you aren't very talented. The same cannot be said for your physical looks.
Spirituality is a lot more like building up your game skills. You can develop a lot of skill through hardcore practice that will trump your looks.

Most of this stuff is implicit and subtle, which is why it's difficult to work with. The majority of anyone's understanding of anything is implicit, not explicit.
In practice people navigate life through holistic gut instincts and vague intuitions.

@WhatAWondefulWorld Either do the practices, or stop talking about metaphysical issues.
Metaphysics without rigorous spiritual practice is pure BS.

A) Take psychedelic to have your first glimpse of "direct experience".
Although of course you have direct experience without psychedelics too. If I tell you the sun shines in the morning, you don't need to believe me. You can experience it for yourself.
B) All language is relative. But within the relative terms we generally agree upon, a pretty accurate description of reality is possible. But of course you don't have reference experiences yet for terms like God, Love, Infinity, Truth, Good, Consciousness, etc. So you'll have to acquire those reference experiences before you can know what they really mean. The only reason you know what a "sun" is, is because you have reference experience for that word.
Don't forget, the map is not the territory. The notion of "the sun" is not the same as the actual sun itself.
I give direct, definitive answers, but they are still just a symbol, not the thing itself. For some reason you have no problem accepting when someone tells you clearly and definitively that the sun is shining outside. Yet you have a problem with my answers.
I can be so certain because I became infinite conscious. You can too.

By shutting up your mind and just looking at it.
What you see is Absolute Truth.

That's why spiritual practices are required and enlightenment is required.
Taking a psychedelic does not make you enlightened. It gives you a peak at what you can become with hardcore spiritual practice.
You got the peak, but you don't want to do any hardcore spiritual practice. That's your problem. You are expecting psychedelics to be a magic pill.

Need to learn to get out of your head and be focused enjoying her.
The best advice for having sex with a woman is that once the clothes come off, you throw out all your doubts and hesitations, you grab her, and do whatever you want with her. Don't be meek here. Fuck her how you want to fuck her. She wants you to take her without any reservations. Take her in your unique and authentic way.
Put 100% of your focus on that process, and you will find yourself not in your head any more.

A good rule of thumb for where to start is always: wherever you feel most passionate and inspired.
For example, if you feel inspired to start going to the gym, then start there. Don't let good passion go to waste.
In other words, follow your bliss.
Passion, acted up, builds on itself.

Most interactions were under 5 mins. Some were much longer. Sometimes I would plow an interaction for 60 minutes. But of course these are rarer compared to rest.
It definitely becomes a lot easier, although still not effortless. It always takes some effort/work.
You can reach hook point very fast if you are talking to her with sexual intent and flirting. If you're just being social and boring, then it will take longer.
As long as you're being flirty, 5 mins is mostly all you need regardless of club or day. It does not take a girl long to decide whether she would sleep with you. She doesn't need 3 hours to figure that out. She'll know within about 5 mins if you are active about it. You need to make her feel your sexual intent without being explicit about it. Force her to explicitly reject you.
Certainly you gotta learn how to lead and how to close after hook point. But that's pretty easy, especially outside the club.
It doesn't matter how you look if you reach hook point she has already accepted your looks and will sleep with you as long as you don't creep her out with weird behavior.
It's a bit helpful, but not worth the effort in my opinion. If you want to work out for yourself, that's great. But don't do it for the girls.

The mind has very serious limits as to what it is able to understand no matter how hard it works because the bottleneck ends up being one's state of consciousness. So releasing that bottleneck becomes the key after a certain point. And the more you invest in the mind the harder it can be to release that bottleneck. The mind ends up trapped in itself and digs its trap even deeper. That is the biggest trap for intellectual people.
Daniel needs to hit a bunch of DMT, over and over again to break his entire mind open.
He has intellectualized nonduality/awakening, but I sense he has no experience with what it really means to awaken.
A very dangerous aspect of Ken Wilber's work -- which I feel Daniel has imbibed a lot of -- is the idea that 1st person phenomena and 3rd person phenomena are two equally valid domains. But this is not true. 1st person phenomena is the only real thing. All 3rd person phenomena is pure illusion, and I don't see Daniel recognizing that. There is still too much attachment to science in him. He does not understand how deeply wrong the science paradigm is. It's utterly, foundationally wrong to the point of not being fixable. You cannot use science to understand the core of reality.
Something like evolution does not even exist. It's just a figment of his imagination.
Idealism is not a mirror to materialism. Both these guys are profoundly misunderstanding idealism, nonduality, and spirituality. Materialism is hallucinated by Infinite Consciousness. This point is so simple and clear. There is no doubt about it whatsoever. Classic problem here of "So smart he's dumb". This is why I tell people to do psychedelics because you won't get it otherwise. Your consciousness will not allow you to get it no matter how smart you are.
But I still admire his intellect. If you want to learn how to think clearly, he's a great role-model.

@Mythos That reality is Love, is still the case. That was the gist of the video.
When I say "fragments of consciousness" this is a relative description of things.
The problem is that God can be described from different levels of description, using different paradigms, none of which is ever quite right.
I still speak of other humans and beings, but this is bracketed in my mind as relative speech. It is not absolutely true. I speak of them because we operate within that relative paradigm most to the time. But deep down in my deepest understanding I know other people are imaginary. But I don't treat them as such most of the time because it is not practical.
Hold my descriptions more loosely. This will save you some headaches.
Keep in mind, the things I try to communicate and describe are so far out there that I struggle and rack my mind just to figure out how to articulate them. My articulation improves over time as I find better ways. "Fragments of consciousness" is not a very good articulation if we're talking about the highest levels. It's best to think of that phrase in this context: IF you assume/imagine that others exist, THEN the things I said about fragments of consciousness apply and hold true. But IF you become so conscious that you realize others are just imagined by your mind, THEN there are no fragments of consciousness to speak of since they were just figments of your imagination.
Since most of you guys imagine others are "real", that's the level I'm talking to most of the time. I'm sorta meeting you half-way within your paradigm. Otherwise things sound very radical and alien because I would be talking from a totally disconnected paradigm from yours. Bridging these paradigm is basically impossible, but we try.

No one cares about your muscles but your own ego. No girl is gonna fuck you because of your muscles unless you look like a pro bodybuilder. You would get more sex if you invested your time at the gym into talking to girls.
Grooming, dress, and hygiene you should certainly optimize. But that's so basic I don't even consider it "looks".

Drop the dick measuring contest and focus on developing yourself.

False? Lol. That's nonsense. It's Absolute Truth.
But you miss the point. It's not about the bliss. You're not chasing that bliss, you're simply becoming conscious of Absolute Truth and the bliss is just a side-effect of that.
When you are infinitely conscious it's just natural that bliss occurs.
I never do psychedelics for the purpose of pleasure. But if pleasure comes, I won't say no.
Him is the construct. Infinite Consciousness/Love is the true "him". It's just that he needs to peddle human bullshit to his followers. Bentinho can't tell his followers that they will never reach Infinite Consciousness without DMT or they would leave him.
You will NEVER reach DMT levels of consciousnesses through self-inquiry or meditation. That is the truth. What these self-inquiry people are teaching you is something far less than that because they don't know how to get you access to DMT levels of consciousness.
Psychedelics are not about bliss, they are about increasing one's consciousness. That he doesn't get this is sad.

Girls just wanna have fun get fucked by God

Talking about looks is pointless because you got whatever looks you got.
Move on to attracting girls.
Keep it simple. Don't let your mind distract you with pointless bullshit. You can whine about looks for years and just waste your time not getting laid.

Tyler is not that great a picking up girls. But he's great at teaching it. These are actually two different skills.
Being great at a thing is not the same thing as teaching it well.

But how was civil society created?
The answer to that question IS all of human history.
God has to bootstrap itself. History is that process.

I've recently reached enlightenment via a combination of heroic doses of psychedelics + 6 months of Dark Night of the Soul after my last trip. It's both the best thing ever and not exactly as impressive as one might think. This video sums it up pretty well:
 
Problem is I still have to survive in the material world aka job. I have to fully engage the ego for that.
I understand concepts like Life Purpose, being a Strategic Motherfucker etc. Been applying them, but still feel like I'm not going fast enough. And it's even harder now, because I can see how much of a joke most things people including me do in a job setting. My life purpose is to lead a positive movement that drives humanity forward, currently it would be building a business in the renewable energy space.
I've struggled to really see any gains from reaching enlightenment though, the only one being maybe the ability to "let go" of any negative reaction within minutes - but not right in the moment, yet. 
Has anyone here got enlightenment first, and then used it to accelerate your life purpose? Would love to hear your stories and tips.

Other drugs can also show you that.
The bliss you experience on psychedelics is different from drugs like heroin/cocaine/ketamine etc., you could say the bliss is more rewarding in a way. With psychedelics it's not guaranteed that you will have a good time, while hard drugs will always feel good (if you dont do them to much).
The main difference for me is after you take 'hard drugs' you will feel bad after the effects wear off and lots of times you dont feel good for a week or so.
But when I have an amazing psychedelic experience, for the next two weeks I feel better then I do usually and there is no down. So you could say the price you pay for psychedelics is different compared to 'hard drugs'

Yes agree, i have only tried psychadelics. But now i have to get my life together. Once i'll be more financially secure with actually having a job, i can do these experiments, right now im a mess..

Psychedelics produce bliss and euphoria too, but it usually comes at the price of high vulnerability.
In more vulgar words, I would say with normal drugs you always have control, in psychedelics the higher you go the less control you usually have. I think this difference it's makes 'hard drugs' easy to abuse, while with psychedelics not.

If you want to marry a girl who's more like a man/nerd, go for it.
I am speaking from the perspective of masculine guys who like feminine girls. The degree of your polarity determines what you want/need.
There are traps on both ends.
There is a trap in dating too feminine, then she's too dramatic and irrational.
There is a trap in dating too masculine, then she's too much like you.
Find your sweet spot.
Personally I don't need a girl who's a philosopher because I already got that handled.

For example, you meet a girl at the club, it's late at night. She tells you she has to work tomorrow. If you were empathetic and concerned about her well-being you would let her go home. But the typical PUA will ignore all that and just manipulate her into going back home with him anyway, causing her to be late for work. He will try to boost up her state and seduce her such that she forgets about work and sleeps with him.
The bottom line is that you can accomplish more when you don't have to take into account the well-being or agenda of others.
See, the more conscious you become, the less you can get away with shit like that because it harms your own consciousness and integrity.
The cruel thing about consciousness is that the more conscious you become the more responsible you must be for the well-being of others, otherwise you create bad karma for yourself. So an unconscious PUA can rape a girl and not experience bad karma, but a conscious person cannot. That's the cost of consciousness. The closer you get to infinite consciousness the less evil you can be. There is a direct trade-off between selfishness and consciousness. Such that when you reach infinite consciousness you must literally cease to physically exist. Because even your physical existence is too selfish to hold infinite consciousness.

She didn't accuse him of cat calling, she made an analogy. The way Shapiro tried to bait AOC with money is cringe as fuck. Trying to make her look like a cheap whore. She properly called him out on it.