Of course it works.
Don't ask women if they want to be approached. No woman will ever admit that she would sleep with a guy from a cold approach because that would make her look like a slut. But she will if you attract her. Just do a quality approach.
Attraction is not a logical choice. Never ask women if they would logically date you. The answer will always be No.
Day game is the best. The only trick is that you need a location with lots of beautiful women. That's hard to find in most cities. You need a big city. Cities like LA, NYC, and London are amazing for day game. You need a place with cafes, malls, boardwalks, beaches, busy sidewalks, college campuses, etc.
I like day game because the approaches can be a lot more genuine and natural. And there's zero competition.

all of the actualized forum is mental masturbation, for all you are doing is spitting out and reading imaginary concepts.

There are some harsh truths about how women have sex. When you learn the truth of it, it busts many romanticized myths and cultural fantasies.
I got nothing against femininity or women. I just don't prepetuate the myths of how they have sex.
Sex is deliberately lied about in our culture because it is still taboo. You women have to maintain an air of innocence and purity. I get it. But I am not going to play those games.
If you are young guy reading this: treat women well. Don't be a selfish prick. Don't abuse the powers of attraction.

Hehehe....
This is just you realizing how little action you take.
Rather than asking how to feel good about not approaching, approach!
It's not about the sex. It's about curing your weakness as a man.

There's nothing more fun than fucking.
Of course no girl will admit to going to a club to fuck. She must act like it's just fun with friends so she isn't slut-shamed by folks like you.
Don't kid yourself. People go to clubs to fuck. Whether they admit it or not.

You are looking at it too seriously.
Go to a club and have fun. See what happens. Have no expectations.
Hot girls have lots of sex on a whim. It's not all about finding some ideal partner. Sometimes people are just horny and looking for an adventure.

Exactly.
Because you have too little experience with the sexual escapades of hot girls.
Girls conceal and lie about how much sex they have and how easily and quickly they have it. She doesn't want you to know she sucked some random dude's cock in the parking lot after talking to him for 30 minutes. Yet this happens all the time. Your innocent girl isn't as innocent as you imagine. Your blood would boil if you knew how much sex these girls are having without you and the kind of scumbags they do it with. I am mean total scumbags.

Move to a better city.

Your real issue is subcommunication. Your body language, how you carry yourself, the intent behind your actions, etc. Sexual intent must be subcommunicated. This is the core of solid game.
Watch RSD to learn the principles of proper man-woman subcommunication.

I try for 1st date but if she isn't ready then I just slow down and ease up until whenever she's ready.
Sometimes there are just logistical obstacles and sex cannot be had.
It's all about being adaptable to the circumstance. It's not hard to read her readiness level once you got a lot of experience.
And is that a kind of girl you want?
Screen, screen, screen early.

It's too low consciousness for me to want to read.
The most conscious people are the most selfless and therefore least interested in fighting or manipulating.
In a sense, consciousness makes you disinterested in struggling for survival. So the most conscious people are often the first to die. The most egotistical people are often the last to die because their entire existence revolves around avoiding death. Which is the whole function of the ego.
The power of high consciousness is not in that it gives you extra powers to avoid death, but rather the ultimate power: not being worried about death because you know it's an illusion.
If you are going to evaluate higher consciousness from the standpoint of survival, you are missing the point. Higher consciousness is an escape hatch from the game of survival.
In the domain of politics the most ruthless and power-hungry end up winning, because they are willing to crack any number of skulls to get what their ego desires. But in the end, all these people end up down-falling. Just look at Trump as a prime example. His massive ego allowed him to win, and also caused him to lose. That's precisely the trade-off with selfishness and deception. It works, but it only works in the short-term.
Precisely because women sleep with men who need sex the least.
Pickup guys, since they get so much sex, end up needing it the least. At least they need no girl in particular. And this ironically makes them the most attractive to girls.
Pickup guys are often addicted to sex, but the key difference is that they are not attached to sex with any one particular girl. Which makes them appear highly attractive from any one girl's POV. It works this way in sales too. The more options you have the more sales you will make and higher the price you can charge for your product.

Of course there is more getting girls. Those were just a few basic elements, oversimplified, not a comprehensive map.
Pickup boils down to: going out & being social frequently + playfulness + confidence + seduction + leading + handling logistics really well.
Sounds like you're seriously lacking in:
Communicating with sexual intent, man-to-woman communication Leading Handling logistics Not having those things in place will kill 95% of your results.
Leading and logistic are CRUCIAL for results. You can increase your results by 10x to 100x by mastering those two things. They are not easy to master.

Depends on how you define those terms. But generally yes as it tends to correlate to other things important for a woman's survival.

@Yali
Thats some excellent victim mentality. Value is so dependent on behaivor and charisma, from a girls perspective. Think of how women feel attracted to funny guys. Men devalue that too easily. And even when it comes to the looks, you can certainly do more than you believe. Posture, muscle growth, good skin (healthy, nutrient dense food) are all just examples how you can increase you "chad-ness". 
The ultimate attractor is when you feel unconditionally good about yourself and naturally radiate this feeling into the world. 

Women care more about your wardrobe than your dick.
It is necessary? No. But you'd be a fool not to grab such low-hanging fruit.
Lol
In other words, you got nothing to offer and even that which you could easily offer you are too lazy to do. Well, good luck fishing with an empty hook.

Low value guys are made, not born.

Strawman much?
If you truly were all these things you would not have problems getting girls.

1) Develop passion, via LP
2) Develop a Love for life, via spirirual awakening to Love
3) Develop charisma
4) Expose yourself to massive experience in socialization
5) Set the intention to become charismatic, passionate, and humorous no matter what, even if you don't know how.
Humor is an attitude more than a technique. Same with passion.

Learn attraction theory.
High value is relative to whatever women are naturally attracted to because it enhances their survival.
The opposite of a creepy, needy, scrub.

@Hello from Russia Well, she has to be open to it. Many girls are too sexually closed. You have to open her up emotionally.
The other problem is that it can simply be too physically taxing on you as the guy. So realistically you don't need so many orgasms.

I've never had that problem.
The hotter the girl the faster you will cum. Only natural.
Girls cum a lot more with high value guys too. If you develop your value really high, she'll be cumming for you like crazy.

They are different because your body does not have a natural craving for weed. But it does for sex.
You can ignore weed pretty easily. You cannot ignore sexual craving without massive development of your consciousness.
There is no clear line. Exquisite balance required.

Organic chemistry would probably be the most solid foundation, and then you could branch out from there.
Don't worry too much about exactly nailing down your end point. Just move in the general direction of what you love. The target will evolve as you gain experience.
Pscyhopharmacology sounds closest to what you want.
But remember, the most serious understanding is gained through independent study and experimentation, not any formal school or field.
Study whatever you care about now! Don't wait around for some program to one day teach it to you. Do it yourself! Go buy the textbooks and read them. You can buy any textbook.
And if you want to understand psychedelics, direct experience is king. It will put all the textbooks in the world to shame. Psychedelics are a taboo field in academia.

@Chris_Esoteric Follow your love.
Love is what leads you out of all the darkness and inaction.
Clarify what you love about reality and throw yourself into that. Things will start to auto-correct.
Life is about Love. The rest is horseshit.
There actually isn't anything else. Just the depth of your love.
Forget about Joker. It's horseshit.

@kras You are obviously coming off way too serious, and so she withholds sex because you made it too serious.
If you were playful and fun and unserious, she would have sex with you within 2 dates.
Don't set the boyfriend frame. Set the playful jerk frame.
Also, stop trying to logically get girls to have sex with you. You must seduce her.
When she gets in your car, you tell her something like, "I just wanna tear your cloths off", and you smile and switch topic to something else. Use your natural attraction to her to make her horny. But you are too afraid to do that. So she is cold to you. Women need to be warned up for sex. And not with logic or begging.