Learn attraction theory.
High value is relative to whatever women are naturally attracted to because it enhances their survival.
The opposite of a creepy, needy, scrub.

@Hello from Russia Well, she has to be open to it. Many girls are too sexually closed. You have to open her up emotionally.
The other problem is that it can simply be too physically taxing on you as the guy. So realistically you don't need so many orgasms.

I've never had that problem.
The hotter the girl the faster you will cum. Only natural.
Girls cum a lot more with high value guys too. If you develop your value really high, she'll be cumming for you like crazy.

They are different because your body does not have a natural craving for weed. But it does for sex.
You can ignore weed pretty easily. You cannot ignore sexual craving without massive development of your consciousness.
There is no clear line. Exquisite balance required.

Organic chemistry would probably be the most solid foundation, and then you could branch out from there.
Don't worry too much about exactly nailing down your end point. Just move in the general direction of what you love. The target will evolve as you gain experience.
Pscyhopharmacology sounds closest to what you want.
But remember, the most serious understanding is gained through independent study and experimentation, not any formal school or field.
Study whatever you care about now! Don't wait around for some program to one day teach it to you. Do it yourself! Go buy the textbooks and read them. You can buy any textbook.
And if you want to understand psychedelics, direct experience is king. It will put all the textbooks in the world to shame. Psychedelics are a taboo field in academia.

@Chris_Esoteric Follow your love.
Love is what leads you out of all the darkness and inaction.
Clarify what you love about reality and throw yourself into that. Things will start to auto-correct.
Life is about Love. The rest is horseshit.
There actually isn't anything else. Just the depth of your love.
Forget about Joker. It's horseshit.

@kras You are obviously coming off way too serious, and so she withholds sex because you made it too serious.
If you were playful and fun and unserious, she would have sex with you within 2 dates.
Don't set the boyfriend frame. Set the playful jerk frame.
Also, stop trying to logically get girls to have sex with you. You must seduce her.
When she gets in your car, you tell her something like, "I just wanna tear your cloths off", and you smile and switch topic to something else. Use your natural attraction to her to make her horny. But you are too afraid to do that. So she is cold to you. Women need to be warned up for sex. And not with logic or begging.

It's even worse when you realize he earned over $100 million in sales from his dating courses.
Unfortunately the self-help industry is infected with this attitude that you should charge people as much as humanly possible, and that you are not only entitled to do so but that if you don't do it, you're are hurting your clients by undervaluing your own work. This is some classic Tony Robbins stage Orange mindset which still runs through Eben, although the dude is otherwise very developed and conscious.
Unfortunately the ideology of capitalism is not so easy to uproot.
Anyone associated with the Tony Robbins crew or mainstream self-help will have this attitude: Upsell, upsell, upsell at all costs. It's just how they do business.

Cause everyone is horny like a dog. Surprise!
You really thought it was just you?? Lol
The day you are able to never have another sexual craving again, is the day you will understand why sexual abuse is so widespread.

Don't bullshit me. Being bald is certainly a disadvantage in dating hot women. Don't use this as an excuse. You can still date hot women while bald. But it's harder. You will have to have better game.
1) Although I am very introverted I really enjoy deep intimate relationships. It's a bit of a paradox, but not really. Introverts like few relationships but they are deeper. We trade off breadth for depth.
So while you may think that I don't go deep with intimacy, the opposite is the case. When I'm with a girl, I give her my full attention because I don't scatter my social energy around in 50 different ways. And I'm not with a girl often so it feels much more special.
2) As an introvert you need to make plenty of space for alone time. Don't constantly be together for long periods of time.
3) Dating an introvert is helpful because she too will appreciate her space and alone time and she won't be interested in highly social activities like clubbing or partying. Two deep introverts can make for a great combo. And there are plenty of introverted girls.

You're not quite seeing how radical Self-Love is.
ANYTHING you do, is Self-Love.
If you murder your family, that is Self-Love.
Love is unlimited and you cannot ever fail it. Develop the courage to stop judging yourself, others, and reality. That's true Self-Love. Anything less would be ego. Which is also Self-Love.
How would you act if you knew you were loved under all choices and circumstances? THAT is liberation. Anything less is slavery.

Trust me, once you earn $1 million, you will no longer be satisfied with living on $40k year.
$1 mil is not as much money as you think.
What are you gonna do on those years when the market crashes? You gonna be selling your stock as half value just to get your $40k?
To me financial independence means that your income doesn't come from a boss who controls how much you can make, and if you earn enough to pay all your bills and have some left over for cushion.

@George Fil Your commitment to finding and developing your purpose is admirable and not a lot of people have the kind of drive you clearly have.
I just want to reassure you that your situation is not uncommon. I personally had a similar experience. I completed an entire music bachelor's degree (3 years) to only loose interest in it after I had finished. I realised it wasn't what I wanted to do. I know you said you have an interest in music, I'm not commenting on that, i'm just explaining my situation. Music could absolutely be a fruitful path for you.
I then spent another 1.5 years trying to start an online business through Amazon. Had some mild success but nothing substantial - so I let it go. Hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of hours were put into those two things, and they were both dead ends for me.
I then spent another year feeling depressed and without any purpose whatsoever - applying to random jobs I didn't care about.
But then one day I realised that people literally get paid for drawing and making images. I'd always had a mild interest and some skill in drawing and illustration, but I didn't make the necessary connections. That possibility literally did not exist for me. Now its my number one priority.
But its really important to realise that your purpose/life/career etc is created by you, not discovered like you're trying to uncover a hidden treasure box. I only realised my life vision by trying a bunch of shit that didn't work and then completely and whole heartedly committing to creating that thing I can put 10k hours into. Because it is a creation. You have to be the sculptor of your life.
The process that you are going through, trying lots of things and failing, hitting dead ends etc, is the very process of finding your purpose. Keep going man! You got this! 

Not at all
Everyone has a different idea of love and peace.
One person's idea of love might be to rape you. BTW, Tibetan monks are notorious for raping young monk recruits.

I agree.
To make my earlier point more nuanced, I would say that you overcome neediness and craving by allowing yourself to be fully satisfied by the thing you crave. So, if you really crave some hot sex, stop feeling guilty or reserved about it, HAVE IT! Have it so deeply and allow yourself to enjoy it so much that it fills that needy hole inside your soul.
And the way you prevent that from becoming an addiction is you always have your eyes towards something higher: Truth, Love, God, Consciousness, Life Purpose

Every religion told you there is one God. Yet you still think there are many of them and that you somehow aren't THE ONE.
You can lead a mule to water but you can't make him drink.
You have no problem at all accepting that everyone in your dreams is just your own mental construction, yet in the dream of life suddenly it cannot be! Oh noes! And yet every guru worth his salt has told you life is a dream. Yet you still cling.
YOU invented OTHER! Silly.
The only thing you will ever find in this work is yourself.

Whatever the coating is, it will scratch off and get into your food. Those coatings are not natural molecules, they are all highly synthetic. Eating that can't be good.
No one is claiming massive poisoning. The poisoning is mild and slow, over years and decades.
100s of millions of people suffer from all sorts of cancers, brain fog, fatigue, autoimmune conditions, depression, ADD, autism, mental illness, and the like.
The problem with such a situation is that you will get poisoned so slowly you won't even know what killed you or crippled your life after 10 years of chronic use.
Everything seems good until one day your health collapses and your life is crippled.

Go approach 5000 women and go on dates.
The pain of women rejecting and dumping you for your weakness will make you strong. You are not going to learn this skillset other than through massive pain and rejection.
Get rejected so much you stop caring. Die inside from all your mistakes.
Rapport is built AFTER attraction already happened.
You need to learn basic pickup theory. Stop trying to reinvent the wheel. Attraction theory is 100% known and proven. Just study it. There is zero mystery to what attracts women.
No

You're missing this key: Attunement to her subjective reality.
Success in attraction is not just about not giving a shit and saying crazy things. It's about keen awareness of the woman's emotional state, situational awareness, and being able to attune yourself to the social environment.
This is what keeps you from coming off as a madman and freaking people out. Don't say things which don't fit the subjective reality of the woman you're talking to. You need to meet her where she's at rather than bombarding her with your I-don't-give-a-fuck attitude.
When a woman tells you you're being a creep, that's a clear sign you're not attuned to her subjective reality and you're acting weird. You are not respecting the rules of the social game.

It's hard to draw simplistic conclusions. This stuff can be very complex.
Sometimes I had porn, sometimes I didn't. Didn't really matter.
Back in the 90's porn was pretty low quality and hard to access. Zoomers are so spoiled today.
My sex drive has nothing to do with porn.
And actually, I was very careful not to waste my life energy on pursuing sex.
What you guys fail to consider is that pursuing real life women is a WAY bigger waste of time and energy than jerking off to porn. The amount of life energy lost in the drama of relationships and physical sex is incalculable. The time that the average guy wastes in dumb relationships and dating, I invested that time in my life purpose, philosophical contemplation, and career/business.
You think I got to where I am today by wasting time on having a bunch of sex? While you were having sex, I was contemplating the nature of existence.

Stop masturbating and do the hardcore spiritual practice.
You will not get anywhere without rigorous practice.
Sit down and do 10 days of non-stop one-pointed concentration. And if you're not willing to do that then you should just stop pursing spirituality because you will just chase your tail in circles and get no results.

Worrying about the end of the world is silly. The whole point of awakening is to not give a fuck about such things. If the world ends, it ends. No point thinking about it.
BTW, human civilization is more peaceful and better than ever. There has never been a better time to be alive. Don't let Shunya bullshit your with his stories.
I asked him when human civilization was better. He said in the ancient times. I told him 40% of the ancient Roman population were slaves. He just handwaved my objection away. That little fact didn't fit his worldview so well.
Human civilization is better than ever and it ain't going anywhere. So buckle in and enjoy the ride.

The difference between one and many is imaginary.
The difference between anything IS called dreaming.

A radical change in your state of consciousness is necessary.
The human mind would basically have to die. You would have to experience a death so deep you surrender survival itself.
You will not accomplish this through any trick or manipulation. You have to actually surrender the entire game of life.

Try 2-4 weeks raw veggies/fruits and compare with 2-4 weeks beef/chicken. That would give you a clean baseline. Then you could experiment with others things like grains or dairy. Find which food groups work worst for you and then avoid them for life.