Yeah, well, the whole point of pickup is that it makes all such logic irrelevant since attraction is not logical.
So you can tell yourself you will never sleep with a guy who "sells himself" to you, but when you meet an attractive, high value guy, all that logic will become irrelevant.
Emotion > logic
Doubly so for women.

Yeah, well, I understand. But that is the definition of neediness: I need something from you and I can't wait, and if I don't get it, I'll be upset.
And of course neediness is unattractive.
Do as you like but don't be surprised if it turns people off because all healthy people find neediness unattractive because it's fundamentally selfish. ME! ME! ME! Give ME what I need!

It is pure selfishness.
Of course men are selfish too.
Both parties are just doing what is best for them while expecting the other one to be selfless.
See, when you act selfishly, why are you surprised when others do the same? They are only doing what you're doing back to you. But since you are selfish, you don't like it. The ego's game is to be as selfish as it can while denying others that same move.
You exercise your choice not to have sex with a man when he needs it but you don't. And a man exercises his choice to go pickup other girls when he needs it and you need him to be loyal to you.

Well....
The needy thing is very tricky, because you have to understand that any guy who gets into a relationship with you is doing so to fulfill certain needs of his, be that sex or whatever else. So it's mostly just a question of degree of neediness.
The whole point of a relationship is to use the other person to fulfill your own selfish needs. Otherwise you would not relate at all.
Both partners are doing that, so then it becomes a sort of dance/game/negotiation. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it does not.

Which is why a man has to take responsibility for getting the sex he wants. Because women certainly are too selfish to care about giving to him when he needs it. Hence pickup is born.

It's just victim mentality, scapegoating, projection, denial, and all the other classic ego defense mechanisms that the ego employs when it is scared, hurt, and denied love.
What's changed is that thanks to the internet and video games, lots of men have stopped socializing face-to-face, which makes getting laid impossible. An Incel is just a guy who doesn't socialize.

The Buddha told ya that life was suffering.
This is true but it also two addition points:
A) If you are conscious enough, HERE is hevean  too. Heaven is not a seperate place, it is just high consciousness.
B) Going to hevean assumes you are conscious even to want to go there. You could also end up in hell if your consciousness is limited and twisted.
To experience and enjoy finitude. If you were in heaven now, you'd find it boring. You'd desire to experience limitation again.

She sounds super sexually repressed. Probably childhood abuse, trauma, or religious conditioning. You will have to open that wound and get to the bottom of it.
Meanwhile, start by making her cum using her toy. Figure out what turns her on. Have her show you so you can replicate it.
She may also have hormonal imbalances or other health conditions which would need to be addressed. You need to do some archeology into her past. Find out what is going on in her subconscious mind: fear, anxiety, stress, tension, guilt, bad memories, etc.

Why not? 2 dates per week is plenty! Like I said, too much of a good thing burns it out.
Sounds like you're getting too clingy.

You start by learning attraction theory, then by going out a few times per week. Or take a boot camp. Find experienced wings. I had a lot of good wings.
Of course it takes months and years to develop that kind of laser intent and ability to lead/close. Real life game will bitch slap you so hard it will force you to shape up.
Learning game requires 110% passion and commitment. You gotta be going out rain or shine, and learning ever day like there's a gun to your child's head. Embrace the intensity.

Technically what I mean is: you need a sufficiently high baseline state of consciousness. That could be thanks to genetics or other factors.
There is no getting around your base line state of consciousness. State is EVERYTHING in this work. If you're missing the state, you're fucked. Which is why most people never awaken. Nothing can substitute for lack of state. But you can change your state.

1) Because to become that successful requires a giant ego and obsessiveness which turns into an addiction.
2) Simply because they don't even know enlightenment exists. 99% don't know! The Social Matrix does not make you aware of enlightenment and most people are totally lost in the Social Matrix.
Maslow's model is not really good for explaining mystical or enlightenment-prone people.
The cold hard truth about mystical and enlightenment prone-people is that they are born with special genetics which give them naturally higher states of consciousness than normies. Rarely will a normie turn into an enlightenment-prone person. Most people who become enlightened were usually spiritual and conscious from a young age. Their enlightenment was just a natural fruition of that, rather than a case of them working through Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs.
Most of your celebrities and business people are folks with low spiritual intelligence.
Then again, there are exceptions. Jim Carey for example.

Actually you can't.
The most I ever approached in 1 month is around 800. And that was in Vegas during the summer where I was clubbing every night, 5 hours per night for a month straight with zero days off.
5000 approaches will take most guys 3-5 years at least. It's not just about quantity, it's about quality and quantity. Quantity alone won't cut it.
 Obviously approaches must be made obeying all the core principles of attraction theory. Not only must you flirt, you must have the literal intent to bring her home for sex that very day! You talk to her for 5 mins and if she is cool you are ready to go fuck as long as she goes along.
You must lead, lead, lead, and close. None of this let's be friend bullshit. Burn sets to the ground. Make her reject you.
Your approaches can't just be quantity, they must be QUALITY!

Stop with this victim bullshit.
Go talk to girls and get laid. Period.

That's what years of meditation is for.
You don't use ego to stop thoughts, you gradually calm the mind down over years of practice of surrendering and letting go.

I have a whole video where I rebuke the PUA community. It's very selfish and toxic overall.
But the theory of female attraction is solid and it can teach a guy how to attract women and how to be a stronger man. The trick is avoiding all the toxic attitude and behavior that comes with it.
I don't promote the toxic aspects of pickup, I promote making oneself more attractive and learning to talk to women. Men need that badly and someone has to teach it to them or they become even more toxic Incels.
The only more toxic han a PUA is an Incel / Red Pill / Black Pill guy.
A) Depends how damaged.
B) There's always hope, but few people are willing to do the work required.
A) Depends on the kind of damage.
B) I believe most damage can be healed, but the commitment and depth of work required makes it very unlikely in cases of deep trauma. And anyway, the psyche is still gonna be shaped by those early experiences.
The earlier the trauma the more it shaped your psyche.

It's not just very emotional difficult, it's socially unacceptable.
Society does not want you to radically change your sexual value. Society wants to define your value for you.
Also because it generates quite a lot of collateral damage and social instability. Game doesn't scale well.

You'd be amazed... lol. The man you become by approaching 100s of girls will transform you into the man needed to have and keep that one dream girl. 

So your mind comprehends the size of the mountain that needs climbing here.
You are lazy. That's the whole problem here.
When you set the wrong expectations, like banging 1 out of 10 girls you talk to, you have already failed.

Guys should listen to a woman's desires and values once a relationship is formed.
Just don't ask women about attraction or dating advice.

You see... productivity is a counter-intuitive and nonlinear thing. It's not simply a matter of how much you work, it's also a matter of how deeply you rest. If you want to maximize your productivity you must learn to rest hard. That's where your girlfriend can lend a hand

Go out and approach 5000 girls.
Also, it would really help if you realize your body is made out of God's Infinite Love.
The notion that you are ugly is literally the dumbest thing you could think.

@Chris_Esoteric You seem to be looking for validation a lot from others.
One of the keys to life is to stop doing that. Live life only for your own satisfaction, not for anyone else. You don't need others to validate you. Bask in your own beauty and don't use others to prop yourself up. Healthy relationships are built on not needing the other person, but just enjoying their company.
You need to create a positive vision for your life. A sense of life purpose, otherwise you will waste away.
Find things in life that you love and focus your energy into them.

@Runtz Go talk to girls. Girls are not looking for looks, they are looking for a man.
2% of 5000 is more girlfriends than you can stomach.

If you stop being selfish for just one minute you will realize that the Truth does not care about your ability to fuck.
The only one you will ever fuck in your life is yourself.
You can't have sex with a coffee table simply because you are a selfish bastard who is too biased to think straight.
"But Leo, if you take away all my illusions how will I survive?"
You won't. You'll die.
Welcome to Truth.