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Struggling with Blackpill
Struggling with BlackpillActually you can't.
The most I ever approached in 1 month is around 800. And that was in Vegas during the summer where I was clubbing every night, 5 hours per night for a month straight with zero days off.
5000 approaches will take most guys 3-5 years at least. It's not just about quantity, it's about quality and quantity. Quantity alone won't cut it.
Obviously approaches must be made obeying all the core principles of attraction theory. Not only must you flirt, you must have the literal intent to bring her home for sex that very day! You talk to her for 5 mins and if she is cool you are ready to go fuck as long as she goes along.
You must lead, lead, lead, and close. None of this let's be friend bullshit. Burn sets to the ground. Make her reject you.
Your approaches can't just be quantity, they must be QUALITY!
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Asian Men Going Extinct In North America
Asian Men Going Extinct In North AmericaStop with this victim bullshit.
Go talk to girls and get laid. Period.
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Distinguishing between projection and actuality
Distinguishing between projection and actualityThat's what years of meditation is for.
You don't use ego to stop thoughts, you gradually calm the mind down over years of practice of surrendering and letting go.
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RSD Tyler claims a toxic relationship makes him believe in demonic possession
RSD Tyler claims a toxic relationship makes him believe in demonic possessionI have a whole video where I rebuke the PUA community. It's very selfish and toxic overall.
But the theory of female attraction is solid and it can teach a guy how to attract women and how to be a stronger man. The trick is avoiding all the toxic attitude and behavior that comes with it.
I don't promote the toxic aspects of pickup, I promote making oneself more attractive and learning to talk to women. Men need that badly and someone has to teach it to them or they become even more toxic Incels.
The only more toxic han a PUA is an Incel / Red Pill / Black Pill guy.
A) Depends how damaged.
B) There's always hope, but few people are willing to do the work required.
A) Depends on the kind of damage.
B) I believe most damage can be healed, but the commitment and depth of work required makes it very unlikely in cases of deep trauma. And anyway, the psyche is still gonna be shaped by those early experiences.
The earlier the trauma the more it shaped your psyche.
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RSD Tyler claims a toxic relationship makes him believe in demonic possession
RSD Tyler claims a toxic relationship makes him believe in demonic possessionIt's not just very emotional difficult, it's socially unacceptable.
Society does not want you to radically change your sexual value. Society wants to define your value for you.
Also because it generates quite a lot of collateral damage and social instability. Game doesn't scale well.
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RSD Tyler claims a toxic relationship makes him believe in demonic possession
RSD Tyler claims a toxic relationship makes him believe in demonic possessionYou'd be amazed... lol. The man you become by approaching 100s of girls will transform you into the man needed to have and keep that one dream girl.
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Struggling with Blackpill
Struggling with BlackpillSo your mind comprehends the size of the mountain that needs climbing here.
You are lazy. That's the whole problem here.
When you set the wrong expectations, like banging 1 out of 10 girls you talk to, you have already failed.
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A Metaphor for Pick Up in Relation to Female Sexuality
A Metaphor for Pick Up in Relation to Female SexualityGuys should listen to a woman's desires and values once a relationship is formed.
Just don't ask women about attraction or dating advice.
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"Having a girlfriend" distraction to mastery?
"Having a girlfriend" distraction to mastery?You see... productivity is a counter-intuitive and nonlinear thing. It's not simply a matter of how much you work, it's also a matter of how deeply you rest. If you want to maximize your productivity you must learn to rest hard. That's where your girlfriend can lend a hand
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Struggling with Blackpill
Struggling with BlackpillGo out and approach 5000 girls.
Also, it would really help if you realize your body is made out of God's Infinite Love.
The notion that you are ugly is literally the dumbest thing you could think.
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Considering Suicide
Considering Suicide@Chris_Esoteric You seem to be looking for validation a lot from others.
One of the keys to life is to stop doing that. Live life only for your own satisfaction, not for anyone else. You don't need others to validate you. Bask in your own beauty and don't use others to prop yourself up. Healthy relationships are built on not needing the other person, but just enjoying their company.
You need to create a positive vision for your life. A sense of life purpose, otherwise you will waste away.
Find things in life that you love and focus your energy into them.
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Struggling with Blackpill
Struggling with Blackpill@Runtz Go talk to girls. Girls are not looking for looks, they are looking for a man.
2% of 5000 is more girlfriends than you can stomach.
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If other human beings are an illusion, why does it feel good to help others?
If other human beings are an illusion, why does it feel good to help others?If you stop being selfish for just one minute you will realize that the Truth does not care about your ability to fuck.
The only one you will ever fuck in your life is yourself.
You can't have sex with a coffee table simply because you are a selfish bastard who is too biased to think straight.
"But Leo, if you take away all my illusions how will I survive?"
You won't. You'll die.
Welcome to Truth.
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Pickup is leading to frustration
Pickup is leading to frustrationBullshit
The best guys who go out constantly only sleep with maybe 30 girls per year. 30/year would be master pro level. And to get those 30 they approach 1000+
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How to avoid getting attached and needy to the girls you approached?
How to avoid getting attached and needy to the girls you approached?In practice the way you solve this problem is by:
A) Talking to more girls
B) Working on your LP so your mind is focused on larger things
C) Jerking off so you are not desperate
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Chris langan
Chris langanIn general, people who place a lot of importance in IQ are not very wise or conscious.
You never hear an enlightened sage talking about IQ. Usually it's materialist fools who parrot notions of IQ.
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How to avoid getting attached and needy to the girls you approached?
How to avoid getting attached and needy to the girls you approached?You suffer until you learn your lesson and move on.
Suffering is the best teacher.
If you are wise you will not get invested in any one girl until you sleep with her. In which case you just talk to other girls and don't even think much about the phone numbers you get.
The rule this: don't invest in her at all until she's interested in sleeping with you. It's crucial that you stop daydreaming and fantasizing about the girls you approach, and even if you get her number. Just don't think about her. Only think about her enough to set up a date. But no more! Don't start imagining that this date will lead to anything.
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I will become a day trader
I will become a day traderThe point is with your attitude you won't make it even when you're 60.
A) Making it by 40 is still great.
B) You don't have to wait till you are 40, there are many legit businesses you could start that can generate solid wealth. But it ain't no shortcut and it ain't quick or easy
I wasn't making a moral case.
The problem with robbing banks is not that it is immoral, it's that you will sooner get killed than rich that way.
That's why you should care. You are mostly gonna end up harming yourself. That's what I am concerned with here.
When you become a leech you think life will be great, you will just leech without consequence, but then you suddenly get swatted like the annoying mosquito that you have become. You see, people don't take kindly to mosquitoes.
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There are legit ways of gaining financial independence. I would direct you to research that while avoiding all get-rich-quick-schemes that are peddled online.
I've been where you are now. I know all too well the traps of get-rich-quick-schemes. They are going to waste your precious time and money and leave you dry.
If you are serious about solving your problem then get serious about building a serious business, not these kid's games. If you build a serious business you could become a millionaire within 5 years. But this does require skill and real ingenuity. You have to be creative, clever, and hard-working.
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Chris langan
Chris langanNot if he's thinks Trump is better than Biden.
This shows your man's true colors.
I thank Trump for revealing to me who the morons are masquerading as intellectuals. There is no better litmus test than Trump.
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Stepping Away From actualized.org
Stepping Away From actualized.orgWhen you do 5-MeO-DMT every day, chronically, as I have warned against, yeah... your life will unravel.
Not sure what you expected.
If you do 5-MeO-DMT every day, I would not be surprised if you end up in a mental hospital.
You took the most powerful psychedelic there is and treated it as a toy. If you just stop taking it every day most of your problems will auto-correct.
I have always warned against chronic use of psychedelics. Of course I take no responsibilty if you do the opposite of what I say.
I guarantee that those of you who use psychedelics chronically will get into serious problems. Guaranteed. You are playing with dynamite.
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I will become a day trader
I will become a day traderOh God....
Your biggest mistake is actually assuming you will become rich from daytrading. What you'll discover is that you actually end up losing money and wasting even more time until your situation becomes truly dire.
The problem with leeching value as a survival strategy is not merely that it hurts others and society, is often simply does not work even for you. Greed and desire to take shortcuts often ends up hurting you the most.
The surest way to become wealthy is through serious hard work, not through get-rich-quick-schemes like this.
Daytrading is a get-rich-quick-scheme because it offers no value to the world yet demands high profits. And therefore it is fundamentally unnatural and you will be ruthlessly weeded out by evolution. Theft is a risky survival strategy. And don't fool yourself, what you're doing is a form of theft -- you're just not connecting the dots yet.
Stop listening to people who are selling you the idea that daytrading will make you rich. Those people don't make money off daytrading, they make their money off desperate suckers like you.
I understand you just want to be financially free. But financial freedom is not created with that kind of mindset. Financial freedom is very counter-intuitive. You have to relinquish your desire for quick and easy results. Rather than trying to get rich quick, you must adopt an attitude of get rich slow.
The proper way to get wealthy is to offer massive value to the world, to become genuinely creative. Not these silly games you're playing. Your greed and laziness with backfire on you.
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Desperate To Kiss A Woman And Lose My Virginity
Desperate To Kiss A Woman And Lose My Virginity@Chris_Esoteric Start socializing and talking to girls, obviously.
20 is still very young. You'll be fine.
But desperation will lose you many kisses and girls. The more desperate you are the worse your results will be with women.
But you should be willing to take massive action.
I didn't start dating till 26. Too busy doing more important things.
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RSD Tyler claims a toxic relationship makes him believe in demonic possession
RSD Tyler claims a toxic relationship makes him believe in demonic possessionIt's just development and evolution. Not different from how Spiral Dynamics works.
Orange is higher than Red, but Orange still isn't that high.
Absolutely!
In fact, many guys grow out of pickup rather quickly, within 5 years (which is roughly how long it takes to move up one Spiral stage with active work).
Most pickup guys end up settling down with a girlfriend. The limits of pickup become very aparent after several years of doing it.
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Should I wait until my brain is fully developed to do psychedelics?
Should I wait until my brain is fully developed to do psychedelics?Stop waiting, 21+ is good enough.
It's not a physical age problem, it's a matter of maturity.
If you are immature age will not save you.
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Why do Girls get angry when Guy try to have standards???
Why do Girls get angry when Guy try to have standards???There is hypocrisy on both sides.
Both sides want to maximize the sexual value they get while denying others of maximizing their value.
It's a market system where everyone is looking to maximize their own personal gains.
Selfishness 101. Mostly what you care about is leeching value while offering nothing in return. So here you are, complaining about not getting enough value.
Women actually love it when guys have high standards, but only if she clears them, haha
One of the best ways to appear attractive is to have high standards and screen hard. Like an exclusive nightclub. But to pull this off you'd have to actually not be a desperate starving dog.