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Interview with a guy that spent $8000 on PUA coaching & still got 0 results
Interview with a guy that spent $8000 on PUA coaching & still got 0 resultsThat $8000 would have been better spent traveling to Vegas and living here for 3 months of non-stop club action.
You gotta be smart with how you invest your money.
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Tim Pool Was Always a Hack
Tim Pool Was Always a HackActually it speaks a lot to this character. Especially the intellect.
When I think back to kids in school who got straight F's. These are not people I would trust my information intake to. You are going to trust your worldview and understanding of politics to that kid? A kid who couldn't complete a homework assignment? How absurd. No wonder his work has no journalistic integrity. Journalism requires research and study, not just ranting one's mind.
I got straight A's in school. And you can see that in my work.
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Insecure & depressed about my height. Considering suicide
Insecure & depressed about my height. Considering suicideIt's so hilarious how guys use "unless you're rich" as an excuse.
If you truly believe that being rich gets you hot girls, then your path is so easy: go get rich!
The excuses are endless with you guys.
You expect hot girls but zero work to get them. This is fundamentally why you're miserable.
You will get from life exactly what you put into it.
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Website/Business model advice
Website/Business model adviceThe whole point of business is creating your own market. This means you have to work your ass off to invent a new market, you cannot just do business as usual if your goal is to advance mankind.
It's like you want to advance mankind but you don't want to do the work at the systems level. You expect someone else to do that work for you. Well, that's not how a businessman thinks. As a businessman you gotta take ownership of the problem. If a market doesn't exist, you brainstorm ways to create the market you want. Or find alternatives. You can't just do what everyone else is doing.
There is no business without marketing.
My website doesn't generate traffic. I drive traffic to the website from massive success elsewhere.
And don't compare yourself to me. I have the luxury to not specialize so much because I've figured out other areas of marketing and I am coasting on success from entirely different industries which have nothing to do with my current work. Actualized.org is not my first biz. I had to succeed in other kinds of biz before Actualized.org was possible.
Marketing high consciousness content is very challenging. It's much more challenging than an ordinary meat and potatoes business. The more conscious your material the harder it gets because your audience shrinks and they are harder to find.
Start with 1 specific thing and do it well. Succeed with 1 thing before you branch out into other things. If you can't make 1 thing work, you will not be able to make 5 things work. You need to establish a core competency.
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I can't express myself
I can't express myselfI have very hard time opening up and talking about myself with basicly everybody, even the close people that i have in my life.
I can talk with somebody but about himself just asking questions and making comments. Its very hard for me to share my stories, express my feelings or talk about my personal life.
Its quite difficult to connect with new people, once we had our conversation they end up knowing very little about me or nothing.
I think that is self esteem issue? What do you think.
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A web developer without a degree?
A web developer without a degree?You don't need a degree if you have a strong portfolio.
Employers don't care about degrees, what they care about is your track record of results. If you can show them amazing results, they will hire you.
Put all your effort into building an amazing portfolio.
Nothing beats an amazing portfolio of work. If your portfolio is good enough you will be hired immediately.
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Starting a coaching business experience paradox
Starting a coaching business experience paradoxThe skill of coaching is distinct from business experience, dating experience, and other such things.
Coaching is not about giving people advice. What you see in my videos is NOT coaching. Coaching is the skill set of asking powerful questions that get the client to contemplate for themselves out loud. So the funny thing is that it's possible to coach someone about business without knowing much about business. Although of course in practice most biz people will simply not hire you unless they have confidence in you -- so for that purpose having life experience is good for marketing.
You need to distinguish two things:
1) Being a good coach
2) Convincing people to hire you
These are independent things. Becoming a good coach is easier than convincing people to hire you.
Furthermore, as a coach you will select a specialty and tend to work with clients within that specialty. So you don't need to have experience in all areas, just that specialty. For example, if you are a life purpose or spiritual coach, you don't need much experience in dating, marriage, relationships, or biz. But if you're going to a relationship coach or a biz coach, obviously you'll want to develop some personal experience in those fields. You can be a self-esteem coach without any biz experience.
The bottom line is that I wouldn't worry to much about this. If you like coaching, get trained and practice your coaching skills and then develop some kind of marketing strategy for getting clients. You will gain life experience naturally anyway as you age. You can be a great self-esteem coach without any biz experience.
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Is It Possible For A Highly Conscious Person To Revert Back To Unconscious Behaviour?
Is It Possible For A Highly Conscious Person To Revert Back To Unconscious Behaviour?Stop associating enlightenment with behavior. It has nothing to do with that. You can be an enlightened axe murder.
EVERY behavior, without exception, is God. You could destroy the entire planet with a nuclear holocaust, and it would still be love.
True story. Happened not too long ago with the dinosaurs.
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How to do a cold approach?
How to do a cold approach?@Sagar Gopalani
Watch all of these for pretty much all the theory you need. Then go actually meet women.
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1UgnEo0cnySuJZOOICaGUi0sMEdAJbNum?usp=sharing
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1iEmq4uiNAUFGaPoJhMr1Gc0Jodr2DqGx?usp=sharing
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How to do a cold approach?
How to do a cold approach?RSD videos is what you need.
Someone give him some links.
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Noam chomsky on the education system
Noam chomsky on the education systemWhat do you all think about Chomsky's analysis of the education system, that it's broadly a system that maximizes for obedience? Not to say that no education system is better than the current system, but that the way the system is designed is not to create human beings who will innovate and progress humanity, but to create humans who will conform and fit in place with the current hegemony. I'm interested in hearing your takes on the education system, and if Chomsky is on to anything here.
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Social status impacting attractiveness
Social status impacting attractivenessLike an anteater to ants.
Why are you setting up this ridiculous straw man?
You might as well frame things like this: Are women attracted to Brad Pitt? But what if he's got the plague? Would they not be repulsed?
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The most powerful and effective form of game is simply high status.
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How to use fun banter through text?
How to use fun banter through text?No
A bit of playfulness, cuteness, humor.
Then date.
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How to use fun banter through text?
How to use fun banter through text?That will kill your results with women.
No sexy for you until you learn to dislodge the stick from your ass.
I have a video which tells you how to fix this: How To Be Funny
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I’m a nerd logical guy. How the fuck to talk with a hot woman?
I’m a nerd logical guy. How the fuck to talk with a hot woman?You have train yourself to not be logical with women.
The words coming out of your mouth should not conform to any kind of logic or make much sense.
Basically, be stupid and fun.
It requires lots of practice, so stop sitting around and hit the field.
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Insecure & depressed about my height. Considering suicide
Insecure & depressed about my height. Considering suicideOne of my best wings was a 5'4" Pakistani guy.
He got laid way more than me at 6'2".
What attracts girls is personality and boldness.
My wing would walk up to a group of girls having a birthday and make out with every girl in the group, one after another. Sometimes he would get slapped, but he also got a bunch of make outs, numbers, and dates. He would wrestle girls like a fearless mongoose does a cobra.
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Question for Leo: How do you integrate a God-Realization?
Question for Leo: How do you integrate a God-Realization?I just contemplate the shit out of them over days, weeks, months.
Lots of long drives in the middle of the night to nowhere, listening to music and contemplating. Hundreds of drives. Thousands of miles.
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Best warm game content and coaches out there?
Best warm game content and coaches out there?Stop coming up with bullshit and go learn game.
Game is game. It works everywhere, everywhen. It will even work on men and baboons.
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Understanding Self-Love
Understanding Self-LoveYou can start simply by loving yourself more in a limited sense.
Start by buildung up your self-esteem. See 6 Pillars Of Self-Esteem book and do the exercises.
Stuff like that.
Love reality too. Love people. Love life. Love nature. Love all the stuff you hate.
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Women won't, (and CAN'T) develop attraction online.
Women won't, (and CAN'T) develop attraction online.Dude, you just misunderstand how online dating works. Online is purely about looks. If you don't got the look, you will get garbage. If you got the look, you will get plenty of easy dates.
Obviously you ain't got the look.
Women certainly develop attraction online. Which you can easily check just by replacing your profile pic with that of a guy with the right look. You will get women begging to go on a date with you. If you don't believe me, try it.
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Tips for pick-up in smaller cities?
Tips for pick-up in smaller cities?Yes it is. It's always an option.
Dude, college is like being inside a nightclub all year round with none of the distractions. It does not get easier than college. Talk to every girl, go to every frat party and social event. What more do you need?
If your college is tiny, transfer to a bigger college.
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Storing your 5-MeO-DMT: A primer on long-term storage of psychedelic compounds
Storing your 5-MeO-DMT: A primer on long-term storage of psychedelic compoundsAs many of you know, pure 5-Meo-DMT has become available again from research chemical vendors! Many people are interested stocking up and keeping it for the long haul. This thread is intended to provide an outline of the best strategies for storing 5-MeO-DMT (and other psychedelics). With good storage procedure it should be possible to store 5-MeO-DMT for decades with little to no degradation. While this primer was written with 5-MeO-DMT in mind, it applies to other psychedelic compounds as well.
It is divided into the sections: Material, Safety, Long term storage, Short term storage
Material:
The salts of 5-MeO-DMT will resist degradation better than the freebase, so you could choose 5-MeO-DMT in Oxalate, Fumarate, HCl or other salt form as they will all last better than the freebase. Someone on here pointed out that the Oxalate has never before appeared on the market, indicating that this is a fresh batch, so that might be the best un-degraded form right now. OTOH, the other forms could be from a new synth too, I don't know. If you need freebase down the road for vaporizing, there are teks on the web on how to convert a salt form to freebase. If you just want to vape it for short term use, you might as well order freebase. When talking about other compounds, here are some general rules of thumb: The phenethylamines (2C-B, 2C-E, mescaline etc) are the most hardy of the bunch. Mescaline has been found in peyote buttons in archaeology sites still active after hundreds or even thousands of years. Next, the tryptamine class (including 5-MeO-DMT) are a fair bit more fragile and need better care. Of the tryptamine class, the 5-sub ones (5-MeO-DMT etc) seem more hardy than the 4-sub ones (4-AcO-DMT, psilocybin etc). Last, the lysergamides (LSD, AL-LAD) are theoretically the least stable of the bunch, although there is a story of old Sandoz acid being passed around at some gathering many many decades after it was synthed, and it still worked fine. Lysergamides are particularly vulnerable to UV light and the chlorine that's found in most tap water. Safety:
Locks - If you live with children or irresponsible adults, it is crucial that you keep these compounds safely locked away. Acquire some kind of small lock box to store your chemicals in. Even without such people around, it's a good habit for long term storage because you don't know what might come about in 10 years. Labelling - It's critical to properly label any stored material. You will forget what is what 10 years from now. Also if someone penetrates your locked box, you don't want them snorting a line of 5-MeO thinking it's something like coke. You might also want to put a note in the box to explain to any intruder what's in there, and to talk to you about it. Long term Storage:
Heat, moisture, light and air will be the main causes of degradation, so the general idea is to protect your 5-MeO-DMT from these factors. Here are some points:
Sealed and dry: You can keep your 5-MeO-DMT sealed in it's original baggie. Put this baggie inside another baggie, and then inside a sealed container that has some kind of desiccant (drying agent) in it. Silica gel packets that come with some food items are good. Uncooked rice is also actually really good. Good sealed containers include glass canning jars. Amber vials: Some people prefer to transfer the baggie contents to small amber vials, like the ones used for essential oils. You can order those kinds of vials off of amazon or other vendors. Don't reuse old vials because they could have contaminants in them. You could put these vials inside another container containing desiccant. Freezer: The cold of the freezer will greatly slow down any degradation. Put your sealed containers in the lock box if you have one, and then in the freezer, and just leave them in there for years if you want. You *must* have everything sealed really well from moisture when you put it in the freezer, otherwise you'd be better off leaving it at room temperature. Opening your stash: When you need to access your stash DO NOT OPEN IT RIGHT AWAY. Wait until it comes up to room temperature, so just leave it for a few hours to let it warm up. If you open it right away moisture will condense and you'll have moisture issues. Antioxidant: Some people like to add an antioxidant in with the desiccant. The idea is that any oxygen in the container will preferably react with the antioxidant rather than end up oxidizing the drug. I'm not sure the best antioxidant, but you could try vitamin C. None of the desiccant or antioxidant should ever come into direct contact with the 5-MeO-DMT. You can score an A+ on storage by displacing the air in the storage container with a heavy inert gas like xenon. Some extreme wine enthusiasts do this to prevent wine from oxidizing after they've opened it up. A bit excessive if you ask me, but certainly takes it to the next level. Short term Storage:
For short term storage the same principals as above apply, but you can afford to be a little less careful. Any amount that you will want to use in say the next few months or year, you could keep in short term storage.
Keep your small amount in a small baggie or amber vial, optionally put that inside a larger baggie sealed with silica gel packets. You might get away with "locking" it in one of those plastic child-proof medicine bottles that prescription meds come in. Better to have it behind an actual lock though. Again, label it. Store at room temperature, somewhere cool, away from any light, and discreet. Notes:
What an amazing time we live in! Never before in history has it been possible for millions of people to access this chemical key to directly unlocking mystical states of consciousness. Only since the early 2000s has this compound been available on the web, and even then it's always been off and on. Before that only rare chemists and their friends had access to it. There are no guarantees as to how long this door will stay open so act wisely, share carefully and with love.
Feel free to comment with any corrections/additions/notes etc. I will continue to come back to edit this for clarity and updates.
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Does anybody consciously had (Non-Dual) experience where they are generating others?
Does anybody consciously had (Non-Dual) experience where they are generating others?You are imagining persons A and B.
You are also assuming a difference between A and B. That difference is imaginary.
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I can sit in silence but there's nothing else that happens
I can sit in silence but there's nothing else that happensIt requires 100+ hours of continuous intense concentration to shift one's state of consciousness to have an awakening. Realistically this is what's required. You are not at all intense enough about it, so nothing happens.
Take psychedelic to see instant shift in state so you understand what you're missing.
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I did something evil
I did something evilGirls will flake on you all the time for no reason. Get used to it.