Yali

I've had two INTP friends in my life and although we had similar temperaments, we were on totally different wavelengths mentally speaking. Quasi-identical relation: The quasi-identical relation describes two types that are similar in their strengths, weaknesses and energy levels, but opposite in quadra values. These types can appear superficially similar to each other on the outside, but have motivations and values that strongly contrast with each other, making them near opposites on the inside. Despite not being suited to support each other whatsoever, quasi-identicals have a better chance of getting along with each other in contrast to the other opposing quadra relations @thisintegrated

@thisintegrated Ok man, looks like you've got a theory that you feel confident about but it doesn't reflect my life experience. I notice as an INTJ I get along very well with ISFP, ESFP, ENTJ, INTJ whereas INTP,ENTP,ESFJ,ISFJ are fire and ice.

Who'd you learn this from? @thisintegrated

Oh so you're saying functions generate infomation for its opposite function to use, and that's what produces compatibility? @thisintegrated

@thisintegrated I haven't got a clue what you're talking about. We must be getting our information from different sources.

I don't know why you believe opposite values seek each other out. That's like saying an athiest and fundamentalist christain seek each other out. That's non-sense! @thisintegrated

@thisintegrated Yea, and religious theologians have spent more time thinking about God than most of us but they're just as clueless as you.

No, I mean what I say. I think you're misguided. @thisintegrated

@thisintegrated Well those years of research hasn't amounted to much.

Well informed by who? @thisintegrated

This is flat out wrong. Duality is based off sharing the same functions but in opposite order. I don't know who you're getting your knowledge from but I would recommend Typevolution on YouTube. @thisintegrated

I think Socionics Compatibility makes more sense since its based off shared cognitive functions unlike MBTI. How can you expect to get along with someone who doesn't share your values? @thisintegrated

Look at the second video I sent. You can hear the poor guy crying, but instead of attending to his client’s needs, Octavio bullied him into submission. Kicking him, shoving him, yelling at him. I wouldn't be suprised if that'd left him with long-lasting trauma. @bambi

That's like saying an athiest and a fundamentalist Christain would get along because they have opposite values. That's ridiculous! Compatibility comes from sharing the same values, not opposite. Duals don't value opposite congnitive functions but the same functions in opposite order: INTJ (Ni, Te, Fi, Se) - ESFP (Se, Fi, Te, Ni) ISFP (Fi, Se, Ni, Te) - ENTJ (Te, Ni, Se, Fi) INTP (Ti, Ne, Si, Fe) - ESFJ (Fe, Si, Ne, Ti) ENTP (Ne, Ti, Fe, Si) - ISFJ (Si, Fe, Ti, Ne) INFJ (Ni, Fe, Ti, Se) - ESTP (Se, Ti, Fe, Ni) ENFJ (Fe, Ni, Se, Ti) - ISTP (Ti, Se, Ni, Fe) INFP (Fi, Ne, Si, Te) - ESTJ (Te, Si, Ne, Fi) ENFP (Ne, Fi, Te, Si) - ISTJ (Si, Te, Fi, Ne) @thisintegrated

Accepting how you look is a valid self-development area of focus. @BipolarGrowth

@Loba shared cognitive functions = compatibility. https://www.sociotype.com/socionics/intertype_relationships/

@Loba This isn't based off personal experience but what you think to be true. Go meet an ESTJ and see how you get a long. I think it'll work fine since you'll share the same cognitive functions, which is all that matters. With ENFJ, you share no cognitive functions -- probably one of the worst matches contrary to popular opinion. It'd be like pairing an athiest with a fundamentalist christain. How can you expect to get along with NO shared values? Watch this gal. She knows what's she's talking about:

Socionics Intertype Relations theory is very accurate IMO. It should be incorporated into MBTI. @thisintegrated

@thisintegrated This run contrary to my experience. As an INTJ, I find I get along very well with types within my quadra -- ENTJ, INTJ, ISFP, ESFP. ENFP is alright but ENTP not so much as we share NO cognitive functions. @Proserpina

*Socionics @thisintegrated

@Ulax and why would you say that?

@Ulax used to be bad but im getting better. why?

@Raze im asking about you

@Raze have you done PUA? how many approaches did it take to get your first lay?

@Ulax im 22 having never kissed a girl so im behind the curve. i think it would grow me a lot but it's definitely a big commitment.