MeredithSmith

I've read that when you manifest something or someone, you should not be obsessed over it. But isn't the saying, "What you focus on, grows" also true? Isn't obsession also a sign that you are focusing on that certain desire of yours? But why is it that we should not obsess over the things or people that we desire? It seems that these principles contradict with each other. Can someone enlighten me about this. I'm a little bit confused.