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@Leo Gura what chakra deals with neediness

The real question is... who has the highest lay count. That’s who i a listening to

@Leo Gura, I am really good at talking to people. Like I can chat up anyone you point out. Its just sexual attraction. I expect sex too fast. Like I expect if a girl is attracted to me she should want to sleep with me the same day. I know it sounds dumb but that is how my mind processes stuff lol. I was bullied in high school and called ugly so I always feel that way around women

@Leo Gura then how do you get better with girls without ruining your life. I am tired of sitting and hoping things will get better one day. I want to be proactive and not a victim of my sex life.

Ball is life

@Leo Gura I see why I was so afraid of talking to girls though because that shit hurt

@JonasVE12 I get that now I wasn't prepared I had the idea that I would never get rejected. I guess I just don't know what to say because it seems like every girl will reject me before I approach them. @Gesundheit Nah fam. She was not interested at all. my dog likes me more than she ever could.

Looks don't matter. I am ugly and I have had my fair share of sexual experiences lol

Thank you for your replies. I am in control of my situation. I will come out victorious in the end. It just takes time. I got myself in this mess probably starting in the 4th grade when I stopped taking academics seriously. Now I have to get myself out of it. I am not using my resources to my advantage (not being strategic) so let me fix that

Every day I wake up miserable because of my job. Call center 9-5 I want to go back to school and get my CS and Psychology degrees but I don't want to take more student loan debt and I have to provide for myself throughout college. I want my soul back and am lost. Does anybody have ideas about what I should do?

@Rilles Real men don't piss at all haven't used the bathroom since I got out of diapers

Gym membership

Shit we will get along just fine Currently learning Python and Kali Linux for ethical hacking

Holy shit I did not know that people took sexuality this seriously !! Very inspiring and makes me want to introspect on my sexual wellbeing

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wow, I just posted on this topic a couple of days ago with little response. thanks guys I really feel valued.. but seriously I talked to my therapist about it and she suggested I write a mass letter to every girl who rejected me stating my feelings about how I felt then burning or deleting it. Very healthy indeed. try it. Also, you're not ugly you feel ugly because people told you that. No human being in their right mind would call themselves ugly on purpose to hurt themselves. Write a letter to people who called you ugly too. PM for details or help

@Leo Gura what if you pay all that money and still get none ?

So I am afraid 1. Standing up for myself in tense situations 2. Telling people no and setting boundaries when I don’t want certain things 3. Doing things for people even when I don’t feel like doing them. How can I stop this behavior once and forever. What is at the root of it because I can’t figure it out. Growing up in childhood I always felt like the only way people would like me is if I was nice to them but then I get stepped all over. I feel like such a pussy

As I try to put myself out there. I find myself getting rejected a lot. I have no idea what I am doing wrong. What is wrong with me ? What do I need to change. It feels like there is something inherently wrong with me. i feel super ugly about myself and I always feel like that when I get rejected. I hate when people look at me. I always feel like people and women are judging my looks. I feel like my looks are the root cause of all my problems. I might get plastic surgery. my 17 year old brother gets more women than me. I am embarrassed and wounded

@TheUniverseIsLove whats your ig

Like how long does it take to get off the ground enough to quit my 9-5 job. Is it over saturated ?

@cetus lol a wise man he was but all I am saying I feel this community could evolve if we included higher consciousness discussions live some how. I know we run the risk of starting a cult like platform

@Leo Gura have you ever thought about having an online zoom Satsang like Peter Ralston. It would give people the opportunity to meet you (even though it's not in person) and ask questions about this work and get clarity because one of the struggles I am facing right now is not really having the proper guidance and a lot of confusion. You could even charge people for it (or not ).

Hello All, I have biting guilt when I spend money on big things. I am currently doing coding/software engineering and I needed a new laptop so I bought a mac book pro. I work hard I have full time job and also I do postmates on the side but I am afraid to be homeless again so I hoard my money and then feel guilty for sending it. I am also deeply afraid of getting fired from my job or laid off and being homeless. I "needed" the laptop (I hate windows and I wanted to get something nice for myself) but at the same time I am afriad I am going to lose my job and be broke. What should I do should I return it ?

Lol I am doing both computer science and psychology from two different Universities. You need to pay the bills (Computer Science) while working on your passion (Psychology) the two will fuse together eventually but pick the cheaper university because it really doesn't matter where you get your degree in the long run. Experience > Book Knowledge