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@Leo Gura I completely agree with what you say about women not falling and not getting you from the first few seconds of your approach. But this Todd V guy is spitting some good game. Isn't it scary? He is just brewing awkwardness here and making the girls feel so uncomfortable. Please Leo make a vid about this Pick up topic. Guys say agree!

@Preety_India How do you feel as a woman about us men learning and mastering all this game thing? Lol

Here is the ultimate solution! What Leo said before is the best advice for you men out there trying to find a good coach with good material. Try to find someone who resonates with you and your goals. There was a time in my life when I desperately needed a dating coach. Seems like I don't need to be coached when it comes to dating. I am trying to out grow my interest for dating and especially women (for now). Hope I succeed. A total waste of time and energy.

Yes, I want to see video about this.

Yep couldn't agree more.

@Recursoinominado @Onemanwolfpac @Roy @electroBeam Watch out form Todd V guys. ?

@Roy I haven't seen Tripp Advice videos, but from the interview with Leo I can tell that he is just a surface level coach for newbies. I have recently stumbled upon this dude. This dude is spitting truth about dating/relationship. https://www.youtube.com/user/lastsecshot

@Roy Hah, unsubscribed from his channel. I intuitively knew this guy ain't making it when it comes coaching. Do you know any good coach so that I can follow. *Please if you are recommending Todd V, just don't. haha (joke)

INTP in a nutshell. Beautiful video. https://youtu.be/FJstBpU3UgE

Since I am an actualizing and do some spiritual works here and there. Obviously I always see where and why things are wrong in real life, which means, with friends, family and some random people. My problem: Whenever I give people advice, I feel really good and energetic, but the minute I am done with it. I start to regret. When I say regret, it means, reminding it wears me out and I keep thinking like; why did I give him this advice or her/my family. I don't care, I am not there to just motivate people. Why do I always feel like that? Do you guys think I am selfish or stingy or maybe some fk? And do you guys feel the same way or is it just me?

@luqqzr Ego+lost+confused+lack_of_SelfLove+No_confidence+No_purpose = NO WOMEN NO WOMEN = Ego+lost+confused +lack_of_SelfLove+No_confidence+ No_purpose. ?

Belonging and love are our psychological needs and they are more critically important than our biological needs. Because it can make us go sane in amount of no time. Try increase the number of sources where you get your validations from, so that you could live sane (with no tension). I totally got you at this point now. If you don't have these validations and sense of belonging, you/me or whoever wouldn't even fking get out of bed. Work on these NEEDS man. You need love more than anything. Go get it somewhere. Start by getting a girl who has something in between her legs. Stop waiting for some perfect woman to bang.

@luqqzr You seem lost and confused my brother. Women will find you and will come to your Mama's basement that you are living in (metaphorically speaking) and will want you to bang the shit out of them. All depends on how smoothly and hypnotizing will you blow the flute, so that the snakes will come out of their caves. (Metaphorically speaking)

@luqqzr My philosophy: If some guy sucks at game, something deep down in him is fked up. Good luck figuring it out and then fixing it. You can hide this "anxiety" in front of women for a short amount of time, but eventually it will show itself in different ways. Their subconscious sees more than their eyes. WORK ON YOURSELF FIRST! WORK ON YOUR SELF FIRST! WORK ON YOURSELF FIRST! WORK ON YOUR SELF FIRST! WORK ON YOURSELF FIRST! WORK ON YOUR SELF FIRST! WORK ON YOURSELF FIRST! WORK ON YOUR SELF FIRST! SELF-LOVE IS THE KEY! SELF-LOVE IS THE KEY! SELF-LOVE IS THE KEY! SELF-LOVE IS THE KEY! SELF-LOVE IS THE KEY! SELF-LOVE IS THE KEY! SELF-LOVE IS THE KEY! SELF-LOVE IS THE KEY!

@luqqzr As Dan Bilzarian would say, Chasing Women and Money are like blackhole, you never get satisfied with it. As I would say, Women are like watching porn videos. Once you watch one video, you would crave another novel vid to get pleasure from. Having too much female input will never fulfill the void you have for women. Admit THAT! I would advice you to start a healthy bf/gf (non-needy) relationship. It's energy saviour, and go ahead waste the rest of energy on your career, self, family or other self improvement aspects.

Self-Love my brother Self-Love

It has a lot to do with how you were raised as a child. Your attachment style with your parents (especially your mom). You have to understand that, your mom may have fked your childhood by not providing the love you needed as a child. That's why you find love in these women here. You are looking for love, hug, validation. Try to stay away from women, be detached. Do you think you having more women in your life will make you satisfied? Hell to No! Even If you become Dan Bilzarian, you won't find satisfaction. You will never satisfy the lower Self. Have more male friends than female, if u don't have, find them. Go to seminars and stuff. Me writing this to you is writing to myself. I have exactly the same problem.

Reading what I am about to say is going to make you feel better about yourself, because you wouldn't think people like me even exist. I would start off by saying the most evil shit, which is I kind of like seeing people get hurt because of the emotional stress I bring to their lives and to even mine too. Let me explain: Let's say there is this innocent girl I like. She is sweet, cute, kind and funny. I would go and attract her and make her fall in love with me. Will spend time with her. Once she get attached to me, I will start acting differently and make her sad. Her asking me, and crying for me is what makes me feel good. ? When I was a child I liked to hit kids, hurt. Liked their reaction. In fact, I even one day pulled the chair from mom while she was about to sit. Evil. That's one of the reasons why I never have connections (friends). Either they leave or I make them. I am fine with it. WHY??? AM????IIIII???? like this? I am evil, I don't have emotions, I am not even connected to my mom, I don't feel. My fear is, I will be a total failure because of this when I enjoy seeing sadness on people's faces. ( Sadness caused by me, emotional). Please this is the only place I shared this. I need your opinions and comments. Thanks. Things you should know: - I was raped by someone, with my consent when I was kid. - My sister has schizophrenia, my family or I may have it. - My father isn't a successful man too. He doesn't have friends or connections too.

It has been a week that I have been contemplating friendships/relationships. How can unwanted and low-quality friends slow our process in actualizing? Most of the friendships, whether they were offline or online that I ruined were the people that I made when I was not in my path to actualization. They were the people that were just consuming my time and energy every day. I am an introvert kinda guy who has a limited amount of energy for the external world and for the people, that's why I dumped. What about you guys, do you guys think it is a good idea to give up on people, classmates or even some close friends?

To start off, I legitimately did not know about this "simp" thing up until my brother called me as "a real definition of a simp". SIMP? for those who don't know what a simp is, here is the definition: SIMP, is an acronym for Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pu**y. To get laid. I am using a social media app which connects me with other people, so I make calls a lot there, mostly girls to be fairly honest. I am talking with a bunch of girls from all around the world, spitting game and shit, talking in a witty humor. In real life, I live in a place where I can't go and do pick up, so that's where I do my game. I don't know, I really do like female companionship like all the time. I can literally live my entire life on a bed with two women. haha So, this Idea of me being a simp real hurt me just now, because I don't only want to chase pu**y. I want to be a dude who sticks to his life purpose. This definition of a SIMP real fits me (I think). I am scared if I only will chase women for the rest of my life. I have been chasing them for ages now. And I am a cute, witty guy. I do. get. women. But all I am saying is if I ever will get over of this lust of chasing women in me. Guys here, do you have this problem?

@Leo Gura @zeroISinfinity @Preety_India Thanks guys, your comments just shifted my paradigm. I am a kid and God at the same time. ?

@Preety_India Thanks for clearing it out for me. But let me you a little bit of what I say and tell girls/women on my regular calls. I tell them: "You are my cat, and I am a lion. I am protecting you and feeding you", I usually laugh a lot while talking. And they fking love it, they laugh too and tells me that my future wife is lucky to have a man like me. I tell them, "You are my mom or my teacher" and then start a flirty role play where I ask like "Can I take you home". And more importantly, I am addicted to chatting or calling women. I sometimes spend my entire day just chit chatting with fking women. damn I think this is too much. I kinda feel like I am sexually thirsty as fujjj. But thanks again,

As I am always trying to actualize and do something productive, this tension in me (lust) always keeps me drained, withdrawed and tired. I am not watching Porn nor am I banging chicks. I recently decided to not fap often, which is where all my problems stem from. I don't actually know the clear answer to this thing called fap or no fap. I keep having problems with both of the situations, if I fap or no fap.

Wow awesome man! That's a century work!

About the importance of time and how it is.