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@Hulia It's tricky. It really is. Well for example I would like full feminine but that's full clinginess. So slice it either way you want it you have to accept, you have to compromise and to really learn to swim. Some things you get and some not and it's same for her.

Like Leo told you really have to recognize your own bias. We all have it. Why? Because regarding this stuff we are all selfish.

Will just say next thing. With all this spiritual/emotional nonsense and desire that your ego must be fed you are literally drowning your own man whom you "love".

No it doesn't keep us away from sex. Hahaha, it makes it even better. I don't like overly clingy women or people at all. I like to be leader and to be free and I always feel like losing it. Also so much being invested into relationship makes me to feel weaker as man. Like some sort of overindulgance. Sugar is sweet but to much of it ruins your health. So not needy at all quite the oposite. It's tricky, literaly is strategy based on my own selfish desires and needs. I admit that ain't no like @Emerald which will justify her stuff.

Yeah with time indeed sex becomes more intimate. But will say this as man,if your gf looks so different then you indeed have that manly sense of conquering, atleast for me. This way I also avoid potential clinginess she and I might instinctivly feel if we are look alikes. Which will fill out relationship with more sex and more time before real bonding and intimacy happens.Unfamiliar and unknown subconciosly for both. Well lets be honest. More beautiful girl more sexual desire for her. Long term is still possible not like in the beggining of the relationship but there is still sexual desire. Every relationship develops. If all your needs are satisfied and she is absolutelly ok why would you go and look for another woman. You won't but.... I don't, I don't chase skirt. That's why I say compromises. Here everyone acts like I want it all. Childish stuff. It was joke.

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Time to dream about my own cartel.

Yes! All that I needed to hear.

@Megan Alecia No man. You are wrong. I had to be "evil" and slaughter poultry. Jesus christ. There is a difference btw raping your grandma and this. Keep that in mind.

Hahahahaha Gd didn't watched porns for long time lost contact. Will do research(like a 15 y. O ?) so I will post pictures of my own top 10 list in terms of looks.? No Connor's babe because she has more developed pecks then me. ?

@Hulia Screw this 'masculine containment' and similar BS. Lets talk about normal stuff. You said man and women find their look alikes in physical sense attractive. Here Eban Pagan. I will give you that. Subconciously it gives sense of security (like siblings, I know sounds scary) for long term relationship. But in long run atleast for me it doesn't give long term sexual desire for her. It looks good too when I meet her with my grandma lol.

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@soos_mite_ah Survival=sleep or humaning. Keeping self image and body "alive" relative to world you are in. Maybe Reality is not that? Maybe those are all misconceptions and maybe you made your own prison exactly because of selfishness. Could it be? Maybe it's other way around.

Read btw the lines. Listen to this wise guy sometimes.

Survival exists only as long as I decide to play video game based on initial starting relative conditions. Once I decide to not play by those rules it ends for me.

Not really demonizing you. It's just nothing new under the sun. It actually has nothing to do with you personally. Nothing is wrong with you at all. That's what all women want. But ya'll women know that guy will not settle with just one women because he is chased by every other women. Remember highschool you are all still under that mentality. All girls will fall in love with just handful of top boys. Trying to push and make dream come true in adult life where you are forced to compromise.

So you are just exploring. It's ok. But I will add this just for myself. That guy will pick the very best woman for himself.

@Preety_India So you want bad guy and game B, emotional connection and all that jazz? If I understand whole thing correctly. True Alpha male that will provide you 'masculine containment'? So you want very best all for yourself?

Yeah I guess. Game A, Game B what da... We all have to swim,some waters are less poluted then others and have more or less obstacles. Swimming technique is the same. First learn to swim properly and waters won't matter that much to you. You can also choose in what waters you want to swim.

Does that mean no sex, platonic love? What relationship is that. True relationship encompasses all. I want to actually love my Goddess.