Sleyker

Hahaha, there's no way that's gonna happen

You'll waste a lot of time and energy on dating apps if you don't have great looks. And even if you're good-looking, I think the best way is to hit the streets and approach pretty girls in real life. The Natural Lifestyles on Youtube is a great channel to learn about that.

Do you have any friends who are "natural" with women? They might serve as wingmen even though they don't know about pick-up. But yeah, finding a wingman can be difficult depending on where you live.

Somebody posted an Actualized.org Textbook a while ago, see if that's the one you're looking for.

Not yet, lol Don't listen to what women tell you about what they want in a man. Watch this video, it was a game changer for me There's so much stuff you can learn to become more attractive... It's amazing, such a deep rabbit hole.

Yes sir, my stepdad is pretty ugly, he is skinny and has a huge gap in his teeth, yet my mom fell for him. A buddy of mine is fat but he has an incredibly beautiful girlfriend, very adorable girl. And it's all because of his personality and the energy he gives off, when he's in the room you know it and you respect him. If you believe you are the hottest guy, your subcommunication will be sooo different that girls will notice you instantly.

Learn jiu jitsu. Jokes aside, did you try speaking up and stand up for yourself? Just letting him know that you are not willing to put up with his attitude. Just remember to do it when he's in a good mood.

Dude, you're wrong. For starters you're actually good-looking. Secondly, girls don't care about your looks at all. You can see fat, ugly men with beautiful women, how is that possible? What girls look for in a man is fucking balls, a nice and strong personality, they want you to be able to own every part of yourself and be proud of it. AND YOU SHOULD, because you're so unique that no one else in the world is like you! When a man is unable to love himself and not give a fuck, it shows up in his subcommunication and that's what girls and everybody will judge him on.

Don't supress the fear. Welcome it, feel it, and go with it. I can relate because I've had days where I just walk around scared out of my mind, thinking about approaching but not actually doing it, just like you. As a warm-up, you can try saying hi to random people as they walk by. Look them in the eye and say hi, and try to feel comfortable in your body while you do so.

@Dryas Haven't watched that one, thanks buddy

Would be awesome

Well, it's your choice at the end of the day... Careful though, what if you marry a guy and you don't enjoy having sex with him? Or he doesn't enjoy having sex with you? Sex before marriage for me is super important, if I marry a girl, I gotta LOVE the way we have sex.

LMAO, my God he's great. What I love about him is that he owns his sexyness, he knows he's attractive and isn't afraid to show it. Like I couldn't show my chest the way he does or be so expressive and careless like him even though I'm a good looking guy. Sometimes I feel like I don't wanna overshadow others with my looks or charisma and having them think I'm too presumptuous so I end up playing a low-key behavior.

Not believing in friendship is a limiting belief in my opinion. There are AMAZING people out there who will be your friends without wanting anything in return. You just gotta find them.

Agreed. Be COMPLETELY honest, don't come up with some bullshit story of how busy you are. To me it sounds like you only wanna meet new girls and have fun (that's ok) because I, myself, wouldn't end a great relationship just to focus on my career. Tell her why you're REALLY making this decision, your feelings, be vulnerable with her.

Upgrade your friends so you do feel excited to talk to them. Sounds like you don't have much in common with them or for whatever reason, if you don't feel like being friends with them, then just cut them out of your life. Don't be fake just out of courtesy or to keep them around just in case you need them in the future, that's draining AF.

I met a German guy on my trip to Europe not long ago. Very much like the man you met, he looked you in the eye and listened very carefully and didn't judge at all. He was into meditation, yoga and basically self-actualization work. We talked for hours and then we parted ways, got his number and we still keep in touch. It was the only time in my life I've been able to talk to someone about deep self-development and spirituality stuff in person, I'll never forget it, got very inspired after that meeting. It's a big shame you don't get to meet people like that, especially where I live (Colombia), almost nobody is into this work (I have yet to meet the first one).

It's true, nice insight. There's the saying : “The pain that's created by avoiding hard work is actually much worse than any pain created from the actual work itself". Very hard to embody though

Not sure if there's something intelligent, deceptive or sneaky about this but man... This is survival. My guess is the cyclists passed by the ostrich habitat area and it just acted on survival instincts.

I actually like this man's channel, he was the biggest jewel robber in the US and now has a YT channel when he tells crazy stories from prison, heists and offers advice and support for wanna be criminals and young people. He also reviews GTA heists and points out the mistakes on the setup and planning of the robberies, I find that kind of cool.

I'm doing it no problem..

What do you feel from the interaction? Girls usually give you signals of attraction you such as: touching their hair, looking you in the eye, smiling at you. You feel it when they are attracted to you.

I second this. Great stuff if you're the typical nice guy, I became aware of my nice guy behavior thanks to this channel. And also the book "No More Mr Nice Guy" by Robert Glover

Won't you be my neighbor? The Fault in Our Stars

How can we cultivate this desire to learn about the world? Is it something you're born with? Or only developed in childhood? I'm totally on board with you on the idea of understanding reality and myself at the deepest levels and every time I watch one of your videos I get super motivated to do it, I come up with big visions for my life and feel super passionate about it, but then... It just disappears.