Sleyker

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  1. @Jacob Morres I think he talks about it here: https://actualized.org/insights/how-i-started-my-first-business
  2. The Five Principles of Natural Seduction by James Marshall is a great product too, although a little bit more expensive.
  3. @Igor82 Yes indeed, James' style is perfect for low-energy guys like myself. Nothing flashy, just a good conversation expressing your intentions.
  4. There's so many... How To Have Amazing Sex 1 & 2 completely changed the way I have sex. I feel like Outrageous Experiments In Consciousness motivated me for life on the path of spirituality. Life Advice For Young People 1 & 2 inspired me so much too.
  5. What's actually going on is that you don't wanna face your fears and you hold judgements about approaching women. I wanted to make you realize that yes, you're missing out by putting absurd limits to your social life without even trying it first, but it's up to you.
  6. Don't take it personal, but that's BS. And I'm very sorry for you because you're missing out on meeting hundreds of amazing, cute girls. It might be true that if you take it to an extreme, you can objectify women. But that's why you shouldn't think of it as 'ok now I'm doing the pick up thing, I gotta talk to girls'... When you see a pretty girl on the street and feel attracted, DON'T YOU WANNA MEET HER???? Realize that every time you see a beautiful gal and you don't talk to her, SHE'S GONE!!! You might have had a chance with her but you didn't pull the trigger, Do you wanna keep living inside that bubble?
  7. Exactly, that's what happened to me. Holy cow, I wasn't expecting it to happen so quickly. I will keep chipping away at it without trying to understand it, thanks for your advice.
  8. Hello people, I would appreciate if some of you guys who are more experienced on the awakening process can help me understand what just happened... So, I was following the guided meditation on this video And suddenly when Leo said something along the lines of "imagine your emotions are now erased". For like 2 seconds and out of the blue I could feel my entire body and even though my eyes were closed, my vision kind of illuminated x10 and this sent chills through my whole body. I had never ever felt this and I was shocked. My heart rate increased like crazy and when I watched this emotional response in my body I felt very afraid and my mind immediately started thinking and doubting what had just happened. I've been meditating on and off for year or so, and the past 2 months I've done it consistently, without missing a single day. I appreciate all your responses. Thanks.
  9. Right, that's a problem, because I was trying to understand what was happening. Thanks
  10. Take a deep breath, feel your body more, shut the mind and focus on feeling. That performance anxiety comes from your mind just going wild with no control. Relax, nothing bad is gonna happen. The most obvious solution to this is to just acquire tons of experience. As you gain more experience, you'll start relaxing more and more because it'll no longer be uncharted territory for you. Now, for you to acquire tons of experience, you need to start talking to A LOT more girls. Don't be focused on just this chick you met on tinder (which btw, not the best use of your time if you want to get good at this). Approach many girls IN PERSON and text many girls. It'll take time, but you have to do it, in 1-3 years from now you will be completely different. Treat every approach and girl you meet as experience you're gaining. You're so young that I would give up my left testicle to be 18 again and start working on my dating and sex skills actively.
  11. Lol, I think you have good looks man, especially with the beard.
  12. All my admiration for Leo because he knows this would trigger many of his subscribers, yet he's still true to himself and puts it out there.
  13. Why don't you give bullet journaling a try? I was incredibly productive for an entire month using this method, then I kinda lost motivation lol. But I think it's great and you can start small at the beginning (which you should).
  14. Yeap, to be honest, I'm kind of half-assing the exercises because I'm taking the LP course right now. So I think I should stop reading it for now because I realize I have to go hardcore on the exercises. Or maybe I'm just being lazy
  15. Are you too self-critical with your videos? Like, do you watch them and go "I could explain things much better, I don't like that, I don't like this".
  16. @Matt23 It's amazing, life-changing stuff, read it and do the exercises. @Thestarguitarist14 Yes sir, how was your experience with the book?
  17. Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz
  18. How long did it take you to grow the beard in your profile pic?
  19. "Sadhguru's butt hair is more conscious than you are" My new favorite one.
  20. "Life is a training ground to teach you how to love and to be selfless" "How are you going to manifest love?"
  21. I feel for you man. If loneliness is your problem, you can maybe join some kind of group class where you can start meeting people. Are you well-off? If you're not having financial problems I don't see why you would want to move back in with your parents.
  22. @Timur That's really cool, but are you approaching dozens of girls?
  23. I know what you mean, and you're right. Doing terrible pick-up non-stop will make you look weird and will lower your status. But that's not what approaching girls should be like. Ideally, you are this friendly attractive guy just chatting girls he's attracted to. Pick up at the end will grow you to the point that you see a beautiful girl on the street or anywhere and you CAN'T RESIST TALKING TO HER, you're drawn to them. Because why not? She's sexy and you're a confident man who loves himself and wants to connect with people. You become so good that it won't look like traditional pick-up anymore, you'll drop techniques, scripts and shows. You just strike up conversations with women and they happen to get attracted to you. Now, that takes a lot of inner work and approaches. Since you live in a small town, move or just go do approaches in a big city. But again, there's nothing stopping you from doing it in your town, only your stories, women want to be approached by the kind of man I described above.
  24. I don't see any reason why you would tell her what you did unless you guys have already built a very deep connection and are comfortable sharing such issues about your lives. It's not like 1 week in of knowing her you have to go: "Alright before we start off this relationship, you have to know that I banged some prostitutes". That's part of the past, why would she care? Now you're better, you've grown! And it's not like you killed someone or did something terrible... you paid for sex, so what? No big deal bro, don't be too hard on yourself. But if what you did is still bugging you, then you might wanna heal that first. Find out how to do self-therapy or healing on yourself.
  25. Please talk about your life purpose and Actualized.org. Do you feel like you succeeded in your life purpose? Or is there still a lot of work to be done? Congrats for those 7 digits, much love!