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Best Marketing Books of All Time: - Breakthrough Advertising - Eugene Schwartz (Out of print, you can find it for $300+ on Amazon and for $125 if you do your research) - The Boron Letters - Gary Halbert - Scientific Advertising - Claude Hopkins - Cashvertising, 100 Secrets of Agency Psychology - Tested Advertising Methods - Jhon Caples (Out of print, it's actually right this moment on Amazon at $1k lol) - Ogilvy on Advertising - David Ogilvy - The Advertising Solution - Craig Simpson with Brian Kurtz Russell Brunson Books: 1. Dotcom Secrets 2. Expert Secrets 3. Traffic Secrets Bonus: All Marketers Are Liars - Seth Godin
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It may be worth considering, https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vTi-g18ftNZUMRAj2SwRPodtscFio7bJ7GdNgbJAGbdfF67WuRJB3ZsidgpidB2eocFHAVjIL-7deJ7/pub But nothing I think is more important than maintaining a healthy diet and keeping your immune system up. As far as I can see, it's the people who didn't know how to take care of their bodies and the weaker people that are being affected the most. Here is the importance of having a healthy diet, ingesting essential foods and supplements, especially for love of yourself and your body, the body is a wonderful instrument which we must take care of and respect. Here is a video explaining about the immune system which I found incredible, how smart our body can be. Immune system under a microscope:
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@DrewNows Anyone who thinks that this is a conspiracy, certainly feels anxiety, uncertainty or lack of control. Saying that it's a conspiracy is just a coping mechanism which kind of helps to deal with a problem that just seems too big.
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The expectation that there's going to be homeostasis when I'm going to make a change, i think it creates a self-fulfilling prophecy for me, because it always happens to me, I always back slide and it seems that I can't make any sustainable change in whatever area I'm trying to improve. I move up a little but then always fall into a plateau where change seems impossible. I always have backslides and ego backlashes so I don't think that's normal because they're always preventing me from making change. It could also be due to some solid negative beliefs that I hold, idk. If anyone could help me I would be grateful. Thanks guys
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I want to say that I really like thick and curvy girls but when I do pick up i don't feel comfortable going to approach them because I feel kind of embarrassed. I don't know if I was programmed that there's a certain stereotype of beauty. Don't get me wrong I also like blond, white and some skinny girls, and Russian girls which are my favorite and I have no shame or embarrassment whatsoever on dating these girls, but as I said before I also like curvy girls, and I would actually like to have experiences with them, even date probably be in a relationship, but I feel i'm repressing my taste for those women. Why is my ego doing it?
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True man, i have to contemplate more about this. This shit is pretty important.
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@Leo Gura Yup, what a pussy I've been.. Still concerned about the opinion of others
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I think you've never talked about this before in depth. It would be an interesting and helpful topic! ?
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I recently moved and I'm living with a co-worker, his girlfriend and another co-worker. I used to live independently paying just for a room but for logistical, personal and pick up-training reasons i decided to move here when the opportunity presented itself to me. I won't talk about my second co-worker because he's a nice person and not toxic and negative as the couple. I don't want to judge or stigmatize them but I actually need advice on how to deal with these people. I met this guy a year ago but with the passage of time he has become more and more negative, especially very sensitive, you can not even make a joke because he gets offended and you hit him right in the ego. Then you have to have tact to have a conversation with him and that his ego does not get offended by what you say. He's always defensive. He has always felt threatened and as a victim but lately I feel that he feels threatened by me and tries to defend himself by attacking me first, he throws me nicknames in the middle of a conversation or while I'm talking to my other co-worker and his girlfriend; especially when his girlfriend is around us, the kind of guy who tries to act macho to impress his gf or other people. Personally i never react emotionally with him because I know how he is. Yesterday something funny happened. After work the 4 of us went out to eat at a restaurant we got some bears also and we were having an awesome time (except him). I was laughing with the two of them and afterwards he starts throwing me nicknames out of nowhere trying to diminish me and I just said in my head "I'm going to have a little fun with this kid and his ego for a little while to calm him down". So after the next few minutes I destroyed him just with words and sarcasm, almost like Russell Brand when someone tries to "make fun of him" in his interviews lol. What hurt him the most is that his girlfriend was present and witnessed it all and when we got to the house, he couldn't hide his anger at me. So the next day I got home and they both started trying to make a conversation asking me questions by calling me by nicknames, they saw that I don't even react to what they say and they keep and keep calling me that and I was like whaaat? hahaha I didn't even have time to stay with them because I'm currently running my business and studying Leo's Life purpose course so I don't have time to waste my energy with such a negative people. As I said before I'm trying to find my life purpose, reading books, meditating, going out to practice my game (pickup), running my business and the least I want is to waste time with negative people. What I'm going to do is try to spend as little time as possible with these people and focus on my purpose and my dreams but my question is: When I get to be with them or we match at lunch time for example, how do I deal with these people? Thank you!
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@ajasatya Yeah that's a fact. Ego tries to feel good feeling that it is greater than other people. What would you do in my situation? I don't wanna fall into their negativity, I don't wanna fall into their thinking system, I'm in this path of expanding my consciousness and that's why I can see what's happening around me, but sometimes I obviously fall into subconscious acts and react emotionally, even though the majority of the time I'm following my own path.
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That's what I'm trying to do, spend as little time with them as possible, but we work together 2 days a week and also the days that we coincide in the food time (sometimes). As a matter of fact I always try to be kind and friendly with him, but sometimes he suddenly begins to insult me in indirect ways. I think the final solution is to try to spend as little time as possible with them and focus on what really matters. I haven't had a drink for 6 months at least. I almost never drink, but there's nothing wrong with it once in a while.
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I'm in the middle of these two things and don't know what to do. Currently I'm working in my online business, it's not something that I truly like but I know that I will eventually make a lot of money. Btw, this business takes a lot of my time that's why sometimes I would like to do something that I truly love. I'm still working at my job but I want to leave from there asap, I'm tired of working for somebody else and not be able to do what I want to do because I have to be at work. The last weeks i felt like tired and really confused. I launched some products and ended up losing money again. I've lost thousands of dollars with negative ROI. I bought the Life Purpose Course a few months ago and the reason that I haven't studied it yet it's because my plan was to achieve my financial goals first and then focus on my life purpose. But as I said before, Starting and running a business is not easy at all. Sometimes I get tired like asking me why am I doing this.. I thought yeah, I'm just going to make my first hundreds of thousand or probably my first million and then I'm going to focus on my life purpose but it's not that simple. Do you guys have any thoughts about this? I'm not completely sure whether to put my time and to achieve my financial goals first or start finding and working in my life purpose. I would love to start someday my own clothing brand, I already have the story, kinda know my target audience because I would wear it, and it's not only about that, I want to give people a message through my brand. But starting a clothing business takes a lot of time and I can't see myself working more years where i'm at right now. Could be a good idea to work towards my financial independence first to have more time to do what I love and to do what I truly want to do without distractions like work or anything else? Pickup is my passion as well and one of my goals is to become a master PUA. But my last goal is to be enlightened, I'm trying to follow the "Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs To Self-Actualize" (Awesome video that Leo shoot in the past).
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Now you have the desire to get rid of sexual desire, you see, it's the same game of the mind. Sex is life. You have to understand that, there is nothing wrong with feeling sexual desire, what's "wrong" is to being attached to it. You can enjoy things of life without being attached to them. First of all let go the desire of wanting to getting rid of your sexual desire. And now look what is left. Emptiness? No attachment? Or even not desires? You have to experiment it by yourself. Go deep, why do you want to get rid of sexual desire? Because if I continue feeling desire I will be far from enlightenment. And why do I want to be enlightened? Because I do not like my present or how I feel right now. and Why? Why did not you accept everything as it is? Because here and now I am not at peace and happy and I feel the desire to be enlightened or I can not be happy. Happiness and enlightenment is here and now but your desire for enlightenment is blocking you. "If you are here with enlightenment as your goal you cannot be here, physically you may appear to be here but you cannot be with me. The goal is in the future, I'm here, and the mind that is goal-oriented it's bound to be in the future" "You are here to attempt something, that's why you are missing it" ~Osho
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I started going out at night by myself 3 weeks ago because i was tired of my wingman. He always making excuses and doing the same thing every night thinking that magically some girl will pay him attention and hang out with him. Literally we did the same shit several months 1/2 days a week and i noticed that i was wasting time and that he was robbing me energy. The last night we saw each other was a night that i got a date from Bumble and i hanged out with this girl and her friend so i invited him cause he lived near where i was. He came over but the friend of the girl i was dating was already approached by other guy so he left lol. I noticed 2 things: 1) I'm not gonna use any of those shitty dating apps to get girls because personally i'm making an excuse not to approach, i don't learn anything from it, i don't grow up if i do not approach and my social skills won't grow even though i ended up having sex with that girl after 2 weeks of hanging out, she's still into me but i decided that i do not want anything serious right now, what i want right now is to go out 3/4 days a week alone, and do hardcore game, i do not care if i have to do this many years, if i commit to do something, hell man, i fucking do it 2) The benefits of going out alone are big. First of all because you don't need nobody to be with you to meet new people, literally, you can meet girls whenever you want so you don't have to wait for your wingman, or demotivate if your wingman can't come with you. Second, your confidence can increase a lot by doing this by yourself and that's what all women like, confidence in a man, does not matter what you do, what car you drive, where you live, if you dress well or not, if you have money or not, women like confidence, do not be embarrassed by what you do, be proud by what you do and what you are, if you work as a dishwasher, do not be ashamed, be fucking proud because only a superior man, everything what he does is for his purpose. Currently i'm working as a valet parking and i used to give a fuck that the girls will see me as a poor man, or laugh at me because I have no money, but i realized that i wasn't respecting and loving myself, and i even wanted to start my business to have more money and to feel more confident with girls. Bad move, girls don't care about money, and thanks god i realized this soon enough. I'm still running my business since August 2018, i already have lost several thousand dollars but i don't care, i will be persistent because i want to be a millionaire. Eye: And i don't do this because of i want to attract girls anymore, i will be a millionaire because all i want is free time, i want free time for what i do, more time for my spiritual practices, time for discovering my ultimate life purpose and do it, time to help other people to grow themselves financially, emotionally and spirituality, i don't give a shit about running my business to get pussy, what a low level of consciousness is that So going back to the point i started going out by myself 3 weeks ago and damn bro, it's being hard because it's more than 1 month that i do not game and it's my first time going out alone at night, but i'm 100% commited that i will do it, sometimes my ego says: go back with your wingman, find a wingman, this is hard by yourself, but i do not want that, i commited to do this by myself and that's it. I went out yesterday, all i just did is 1 two set indirect approach but i was blown out immediately. What i'm noticing every time i'm going out alone at night that my ego say these things: - I wanna go home right now - Everybody's watching me right now, i can't even move and this is weird - Take your cell phone and pretend that you are chatting with someone to see yourself as a social person - I tremble - My throat closes and i think that i can't talk loud enough and that's when I block myself and I do not open - I'm scared and feel embarrased about the security, ego say that they will see me as a weird person and i will feel observed As you see the biggest thing that is blocking me right now to do apporaches is that i pay too much attention about what people are thinking, about their opinions so the solution for this, besides my meditation practice that i started two months ago is that every day that i go out put myself some challenges, from low to high, the challenges will be something not that easy but also not that hard, something that i'm nervous to do it but also is not very hard or for a skilled pua. That's the way i found could be the better for my case, so i will create a pick up plan, and every day i go out i will plan what i will do and my challenges. I will keep you guys updated! Thanks!
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Right now I'm going to to game for a bit. Goals: - Approach a minimum of 5-10 girls or sets and have fun in every interaction How your ego is going to try to sabotage you? - Do not approach because the people around you are going to laugh at you - She's not that cute, do not approach her - If you talk to the girls, her guy friends are going to kill you Rules for the game of today: - Open All - Minimize time in between interactions. The moment a conversation ends go to the next girl quickly. The goal is to turn off your monkey mind - Don't judge yourself - Who the fuck would have the balls to do that? I'm sober, I'm approaching a random girl out whether went bad or good, who the fuck would have the balls to do that. Anybody can seat back at the fucking bar judging everybody else, criticizing them and feeling superior.
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@joeyi99 E-commerce business
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@Leo Gura Yes that's what happens to me, I still feel kinda confused like I feel that I'm not being productive. Business & financial freedom is something important to me, in fact a big motivation was to have more time to game and to do my spiritual practices. What would you do in this situation? I would like to hear some opinions about this.
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So I'm back again! I haven't been active in this forum but i've been doing some pick up, but not as hardcore as i should. I know if i dedicate 100% to become a master in PUA i will achieve it, i know, i'm fucking sure but the thing is that i'm also very focused in my business and my financial freedom, but the thing is when i focus on my work I leave the pick up aside, and If i focus in my pick up skills i kinda leave my business aside and i see them suffer. I know that if i could focus on one thing i would become a master in that are but now I want my financial freedom, also to go out and practice game, and also grow spiritually. Tony Robbins (I know, basic self development stuff, but i had to go back a little bit because some essential things help me a little) taught something called "The wheel of life" in which he kinda teaches you how to have a balanced life but I do not think that I can live a balanced life if I want to master something, some other ares will have to suffer a little bit. What I've decided is i won't give up on my business cause I've already achieve so many things and no, that's not an option for me, I will become a millionaire and if i don't at least I will die trying it, but I'll never give up. And second is I will go out at least 3 nights a week and every Sunday to do daygame. The reason because I don't want to stop approaching girls is because when it happens, there's a part of me that dies. I love the emotion of fear, i enjoy when i'm\ afraid, kinda weird, right? But it makes me be so present and i love that, I feel that i'm knowing myself and my deepest fear are emerging so i can work with them. The feeling of not knowing what will happen makes me feel alive, something in the not knowing if i will get back to home alive makes me feel excited for life, kinda werid again lol but yeah i'm always thinking about death, not in a depressive pussy way, instead it motivates me a lot and makes me realize every time that nothing is important . What i'm going to do, to become good at those two things (Business & Pick up) is: For business: - Keep working 3-4 hours every day in your business. (Work smart, not hard, be effective, more is not always better) For Pick Up: - Nightgame (Thursday, Friday & Saturday) - Daygame (Sunday) The other thing that i notice happened is, when my pick up skills have grown the most is when i have focused at least 80-90% into it. It means that every time i'm thinking about pick up, every time writing and analyzing what happened, what did i do wrong, basically "breathing pick up". But now that i'm focused in my business too, i can't do that anymore, i have to read business stuff and pick up stuff (and spirituality stuff because that's very important to me, in fact the most important thing). I have to focus in business stuff and pick up stuff. That's why when i go out after hours of work, it's so difficult to start doing approaches. But I'll try, i took an advice from a Leo's video called "3 Step Formula To Be Ruthlessly Effective At Anything", basically he says that you gotta pick one technique in any area that you want to become good at and stick with it for 6-12 months. What i'm going to do is i'm going to pick one technique for my Business and my Pick up skills and focus in those things. I hope y'all doing great, have a good day!
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I've been dealing with this a lot. I've been thinking too much about this trying to figure it out how to take care of many ares in my life, in my case my spirituality, health, business & pick up (relationships). if I focus on one aspect I neglect some other ares. I feel that it's not just me. There's gotta be a way to do that, I'm still trying to figure it out.
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Wow! Thats so true, Very powerful. That's why I'm working in every thing in my life like business, entrepreneurship, relationships, health and spirituality.
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I've tried so far but it's being hard and i'm confused. Hi, I'm Kevin, a self development junkie, well not exactly like that, but I really do love self development. I'm not going to tell my whole story because i don't want this to be long. I discovered self development in my 18's (now i'm 21), so from there I've never stopped. 1. The main thing that made me enter to this is because i discovered that i hated high school and college and I wanted do become a millionaire, and I knew i didn't have to go to college to achieve what I wanted. 2. The second main important thing that made me enter to self development is because i had an anxiety crisis at my 18's as well so for almost 1-2 years i struggled with anxiety and a few panic attacks in my life. Now they're gone, I don't have anxiety and those panic attacks. The main reason is because I did hard spiritual work so my life took a 180 degree turn. I experienced the letting go, the accepting of what i feel, the understanding that I'm not the emotions and the mind, I've experienced the gratitude, the self acceptance and I'm really comfortable with myself. Also the past week i've been working with my shadow, so at the end i will never end with my spiritual path because is the most important thing that i've discovered in myself. So since the last year I started with my entrepreneurship path, have lost several thousand dollars but i don't care because I want to become a millionaire and i will never give up. These are the main reasons why do i want to be a millionaire: - 100% Free to do whatever the fuck i want - I do not have to listen to some motherfuckers to tell me what to do and be around negative people - I can focus all my energy in my life purpose, my spiritual path, gym, healthy food - I have more time to do pick up. This is something really important in my life. That has helped me to discovered many hidden fears that i had, and i love that because it makes me feel alive, i love to face my fears, i love when i feel the anxiety and the fear of approaching a woman and still doing it, I love that - I love to travel, so I added this to my list too - Do not have to work in the cold weather, because I do now - Help my family - Have more time to help and teach other people how to achieve success giving them real and high value information to apply in their lives - Have more time to help people with their spirituality and helping them to overcome their limits based on my personal experience Now, I'm doing e-commerce, i'm starting a brand in the Jewelry niche so it takes time, a lot of time of my day So Now i have 4 really important paths: 1. Spiritual 2. Entrepreneurship 3. Pick Up 4. Health (Gym and Healthy food) Those things are really important to me but what i'm struggling is how I take care of those things, because i need to go to the gym as well and eat good food because otherwise I would neglect my physical body and i could get sick or fat. So basically guys i'm trying to put my time in all those things but i get confused and I have many things in my mind that sometimes i feel that I'm not being productive and i'm just losing time (not always). So what do you guys advice me? Have you ever experience something related to this and how did you make it work? Thank you!
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@flowboy I agree with you. There is always going to be fear for the unknown, we just have to do it with fear that's it. Same as business, you will have some fear to lose the money that you're investing but that's the risk you're taking to be free and do whatever you want. What you're saying is right, if some guy is with a beautiful girl he's gonna have some anxiety and fear to not fuck it up, that's why I feel totally and calm and relaxed when I'm not trying to get something out of it, sometimes I just enjoy the moment and I'm grateful for being with her and I know that if she disappears from my life I don't care because I'm not attached to her, that feels so good because I don't need her. Women can sense that, when you don't need her. Fear is just a sensation in your body, no more, if you let it go and accept it totally and as it is it will disappear. I learned this from the book 'Letting go's from David Hawkins, a book that changed my life and I'm still doing its practices. Also, Aproach anxiety can be just the fear of not being a pain in the ass and interrupt the conversation to some strangers, but if you know you can bring positivity and instead of trying to get something out of them, just give, give good emotions, when I'm aligned with this, I feel that my approaches are so much better and genuine and I don't feel too much AA.
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@JohnnyBravo Got it man, thanks.. I'll be waiting.. I'm out daygaming right now and so far I have 2 approaches already made, both rejections but high volume is what matters
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So here is my little report, it's not that good but here it is.. Yesterday i left work at 12, got there around 12:30 and i was kinda tired and stuck in my head, i wanted to warm up in the street with some girls but it was too cold that i couldn't then didn't want to start my night and warm up in a club but i entered anyway, i was like 15 minutes there and didn't approach anybody. Friday i approached 1 set of two girls, i noticed that if i go out and if i don't approach quickly i get stuck in my head, so i the moment i got there, went to buy a water and saw two girls in the store, 1 girl was like a 9 and i din't wait i just approached them and the conversation turn emotional really fast so even i made a joke of her telling her stupid because she told me she forgot her phone in the Uber haha but she took it in a funny way, that's good because i feel that my calibration is kinda good. So my biggest realization so far is that i have to minimize time in between interactions to build social momentum or i get stuck in my head. So what i will follow every single night that i go out are the 6 steps from Tyler that i'm seeing it works for me because i feel that i need to warm up before the game, so here it is: 6 Steps to Warm Up & Socialize 1. Open All 2. Minimize time in between interactions, as soon as the conversation ends go to the next girl quickly and start an interaction 3. Don't judge yourself - Who the fuck would have the balls to do that? I'm sober, I'm approaching a random girl out whether went bad or good, who the fuck would have the balls to do that. Anybody can seat back at the fucking bar judging everybody else, criticizing them and feeling superior 4. Find something funny about every rejection and interaction 5. Keep it short and sweet if you're not in a great mood or burn it to the ground if you're in an amazing mood 6. Try to bump each one a little bit further Mindset: - Do not wait for a good response, do not wait for her to not reject you, rejection can happen any time and you have to have this in mind, just open and have in mind that rejection can happen at any moment and it's totally okay - You don’t need to impress anybody