Fishy
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You have to look your fears in the eyes.
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Also check Leos video on dealing with strong emotions.
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Well you should never avoid any feeling or pain that is in you, that will only make it worse. Try to feel it too the fullest, and accept it. Keep doing it and you will be able to let go eventually. Start meditation if you don't do it already.
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Fishy replied to Jawor's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
That is too bad, but it's your belief. Enlightened people don't lose their ego, the ego will be aware of what it is and integrate, -
Now you are aware of your problems, that is the first step. No one can fix you but yourself. Focus on yourself dont care about exposing other people or whatever.
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They do either way. If someone is gossiping about someone else to u, u can be sure they are gossiping about u to other people. -------------------- One can try to respond with positive stuff or just dont respond much.
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@Huz88 Im saying it will change subconscious belief
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Fishy replied to Karmen's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Both laugther and crying has happened. Totally normal -
Haha so funny
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Well these are the building stone for self-esteem so u actual will believe. You can say I believe but ur subconscious can tell u you do not actually believe from the core.
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Yes it stopped 8 years ago and it has not been a problem since. And no it doesn't seem fake asf still. It wont be permanent if u let urself experience it fully without fearing it. That is what makes it terrible. When u get rid of the fear it will pass.
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Yes you have to accept it fully and go through it, and it does take time. You will feel even worse for a while when u fully let urself experience the pain. You gotta stay with it and look at it and accept that this is the way it is for now. Do this while meditating, if u dont meditate already do start. You probably will have to do this more than a few time but trust me it gets easier. When u start resisting again u need to accept fully Now I feel totally fine
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This happens to me every time i meditate. And often my whole forehead gets a feeling of warm energy.
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Seems like you have some kind of derealization. After I had an extremly bad trip on huge amounts of shrooms when i was 17 It felt like i died and about 1.5 years after everything was like a dream and seemed fake as fuck. Dont worry, stop resisting and accept that u feel dead(u actually are not), and accept that u experience everything as a fake dream. Do not resist. U will defeat the fear, its the fear that makes it unbearable,
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Great book.
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Yes totally agree with this, use any opportunity to advance yourself according to what you need to learn.
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Fishy replied to fdrakely's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Nothing to be afraid of -
Yes then you are most likely to feel fear and be weaker lol
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If its motivated by fear that you don't react, and you stand there thinking all sort of evil stuff about the other person then I would say it's a weakness. What others think about you should not stand above your own judgement and belief. If someone shoots you in the foot you pull the bullet out and say finders keepers <- lol just kidding
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Well if you are really scared of people it don't take courage to turn the other cheek because then you would be afraid to hit back even if you wanted to.
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Yes gotta protect sometimes Didn't know buddha did.
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Punch them out of compassion, and tell them to observe the feelings of anger rising mindfully and accept them Straight learning.
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Well you should let go of it, why does it matter if he copies you. Don't make it a problem.
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Yes it can.
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Yes sex feels better for me too, its when i masturbate i feel this. I'll try to stick to real sex from now