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This is solid advice. I know a few women who are extremely attractive and yet they weren't able to have good sex or even an orgasm until their late 30s because their partners were not able to navigate and connect with them the way they needed to as this video explains very clearly. Its a significant learning curve reaching a point were you can help people through their sexual trauma as a man. And based on all the issues with divorce rates and everything, I assume that vast majority of people are nowhere near this level. Oh and this girl is off the physical spectral attractive🔥 Yet still has insecurities with sex because of an operating system of people pleasing trauma

There's always gonna be humour, laughter and fun involved, don't imagine it as a serious thing. It's playfulness that leads to other doors opening

I ment it in the sense that the social impact of keeping him alive is greater or less than the social impact of his death + martyr status. options Keeping him alive, social impact: ? 30 years of influence Death + martyr status. Social impact: ? trump gets more power Death, Social impact: ? I think using a gun to kill someone is the least effective way because it strengthens the enemy. They have to die in an uncertain and ambiguous way, so there's no fuel added to the fire.

Yes thats what i was talking about. hot escape. 🏃 You make yourself as interesting as possible and make them run after you.

It's interesting how you let that go, because the people I'm observing with this issue cannot let it go, they cannot be even told that they have a problem, they experience it as "the world should be" and they fight everyday to get it. If something is disorderly the experience is "I am tolerating this" and then they have an ego of "I'm such a tolerant person for allowing this".

My Te is strong but by it being strong it means I'm in full control of it and it doesn't control me. In my place, I have one plate one bowl one fork, i dont put them back in the drawer because I use them every day. Putting them in the drawer and even having drawers is an inefficiency, why would I want to open and close the drawer? People have drawers because they want to hide things to keep it clean, that "cleanness" is a intolerance, an emotional resistance, and the experience of clutter. Clutter is something that people experience and suffer from. I can have a messy home and it means nothing to me. But my Te is very strong, Everything is optimized for the least steps. An empty shed is not an efficient shed, that's an intolerance to clutter. But I do prefer emptiness over clutter, and will choose the least amount of stuff as possible. I would make my house a big open space when nothing in it lol so I could run freely. It becomes a problem when the environment is perfectly fine and everyday they find something they can't tolerate and has to change. If my bowl is in the drawer I don't suffer everyday because of it.

How do we know if silencing someone is worse than making them a martyr?

i am, but i dont know if its OCD, im so used to it it just seems like its there value system? I get the impression everyone lives like this, they have their fixed values married to their ego and then they on a daily basis have a negative emotion when ever they face there values conflicting in the real world.

omg this legendary link drop, we need a lord fall gpt asap, why would i use anything else 😂

chronic suffering from an environment that is by any reasonable standard fine.

So having aesthetic intelligence is important, but that's not what I'm talking about right now. A person who has an Unhealthy aesthetic oriented mindset is emotionally disgusted and cannot live in an environment that lacks certain aesthetic things. Things in the home must be ordered in a specific way and have a specific beauty to them or else it's intolerable and they suffer. For example, somewhere in the house, there's a computer and there's some ugly wires hanging out, well this is like a splinter in the mind, disgusted and incapable of having this computer there ugllyfieng the space. Every time they wake up in the morning and they see the thing they feel bad, over and over and over and over and there's nothing that could stop it. They can't tolerate anything that is perceived imperfect or broken, like a scratch on the wall, their car has an extremely minor accident like some small paint missing, the table can't be empty yet it cannot be cluttered, things cannot remain the same either because then it becomes stale. Having the living room organized in a specific way for too long causes dullness that that needs to be rearranged for the next satisfaction. All attempts to communicate metacognition to this person is met with defensiveness and deflection. "I DONT LIKE it PERIOD!" They cant see beyond that. I feel like growing up means letting go of this obsession with perfection

Seedance 2.5

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/18rvy8aJkT/ Im happy for this because that means he's about to spend millions trying to cure this disease. This is how millionnaire money needs to be spent and they're only gonna do it if the problem is personal. If only Elon would break his back we would have a paraplegic cure within a year.

The biggest problem with approaching people is you dont really want to talk to them I want to talk to people i actually want to talk to. 🤯

https://youtu.be/07TNr9EtksE?si=lBnFOHJVRwa1YUe- This guy seems legit