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Ah this make sense, didn't realize how challenging it is to keep guys around.

For our mental health and happiness it can help to reframe things. In this case it can help to recognize you guys are not standing at the same level of development and awareness, its like if a child was having a tantrum would you take it personally? At some point we can view most people as children lost in lala land. Interacting with a dog we don't expect them to be smarter then a dog, its easy to forgive them for anything they do but with humans we freak out if they cant match up to our human standards. A double standard and ego trick.

I think thats a myth.

That sounds like the Expert stage of development by Cook Greuter. If someone has not directly experience a problem in a domain they cannot see why the science behind it is deceptive.

For all the men, women do not enjoy porn as much as men because they experience sex as highly emotional. Men tend to be really detached during sex at least at a stage 3 level of sexual development, while women get a large connection and emotional experience that they cannot get from porn.

If she messages you that she wants an open relationship out of the blue as a pick up line, she is saying "im willing to add you to the pool of men im having sex with". Its like a free ticket to sex she is offering.

A lot of people would be better off staying asleep and are not ready for ungrounded states or for major alterations in there current framing that sustains them. For this reason we need a protocol to help determine what kind of minds can "handle" god realization. Everyone can contribute here, add to to the list you think are important pre-requisites: Healthy attachment style, I think this is vital, with out this you have no ability to handle ungrounded states. Healthy understanding of love and the ability to give. With out this solipsism will destroy you, because your idea of love is a attachment to what reality can give you, with out that attachment your fucked and depressed with the truth. Healthy memory that is not overly negative or positive. This I think is important because if your someone who has a memory that's selectively negative and forgets details then you can easy spiral down. Scared of death. Then its really not for you. You should be at the point of the your life that you experienced enough of base reality and dont need to continue living. You know your ready when you dont need to take the next breath and that its not depression causing that. ... But really there are so many exceptions to all of this. What do you guys thing is the essence here to determine if someone is "Ready" as in they can come out the other end with out debilitating 10 years of depression.

Under the age of 30 should not do psychedelics, your not emotionally mature enough.

I'm asking because I don't think there is a realistic solution here other then to enter a healthy relationship.

I think that makes it far less complicated! Poor standards is a nightmare.

Consciousness was and subdivided into these smaller agents that combine into bigger agents and evolve over time into complex agents like ourselves that interact with other agents and social networks that probably form higher levels of consciousness so you could actually posit what is god but all these conscious agents at its highest instantiation in a way that it knows more than almost anything because it's the sum of all these agents. There's no electron at all, electron is a conscious agent that we see as electron through our species specific interface.

@Andrey Its unfortunate but I've been struggling codding for 10 years in the same way. The issue i think is default wiring that creates frustration to solve a problem and the entire debugging/feature implementation process is tedious/repetitive and require alot of trouble shooting (googling). Its a grind in disguise. There are programming languages that significantly reduce this grind like pure functional approaches but the industry is not there yet and probably never will be, AI will take over before then. Part of the problem for me is the build of stress hormone over time caused by concentrating, sitting, poor breathing and coding in a negative frame of mind. So the solution is to code with out subvocalizing as that shortens breath and creates a more left brain dominant state. A right brained dominant state is ideal where you peripheral vision is still present and you don't loss track of the environment your in. Remain in a defuse state not a focus concentration state for the codding session. It also helps if your not digesting anything heavy like meat. Also take your time and dont be rushing to get it done fast, learn to pace yourself.

How are you going to meet him? If hes in reach go get him now.

Right but I think the point is to reframe all the theory's we have like the big bang or particle theory to frame it as a consciousness as the foundation and not atoms as the foundation. We can still measure predictably with science these conscious phenomena and they behave predictably to the observer. ^^^ Hes saying every atom has choice.

I feel the pain. I was in a similar situation, they have selective negative memory and there memory tends to be pretty bad. In her case she is deflecting blame because that's what she had to do to survive her childhood and parents (likely her mother), they put false accusations on her growing up and she had to learn to deflect criticism. Now older the unresolved trauma remains.

Another big indicator im realizing is: Victimhood Unresolved Childhood Trauma Its still 50/50 for some who have these issues god realization will make things worse and for others it will improve there out look. Im still looking for the root factor.

Reasonable, she has strong victimhood. Its not something that can be challenged for any reason. The option is to avoid confrontation and do your own thing, next time pick a different partner.

Female Narcissist?

If it cooks and cleans the house... Make it prepare world class sushi from home.

@Holykael Im 99.9% sure you can make it back. its going to involve first trying to get government financial aid(aka well fair) for sickness so to help with the financial stress abit. Then your going to get yourself a new gf that's a better fit for you then the last, this will significantly change the outlook on life as relationships tends to provide oxytocin and a dream. From there you'll feel better and a bit more motivated to exercise, exercise will give an additional hormonal boost that can lead to a stable job again that you enjoy. The process of getting a gf will involve grooming, dressing well and to help you can use psychedelics, a very small amount of lsd on dates to help with anxiety and to improve social success. If you still look like your picture (with abit of extra weight) then i think you wont have a problem getting's girls as your fairly good looking.

The thing with pick up is i cant practice it as i have no interest in what men or women have to say. Its me faking enjoying interacting with them. Its not that I think there dumb, they could all be elon musk and i would still ratter not interact with them and just listen to silence or do my own thing. The only social interactions I actually enjoy is physical challenges like a group of guys practicing martial arts together or challenging each other to do something like rock climbing, problem solving, team projects. Actually talking to people has 0 value to me and gives me no entertainment. Another issues is its not emotionally real, im not connected to them, there has to be some level of closeness for socializing to be worth it.

@Holykael So your life spiraled downward as a result of having awakening and not being able to behave "normal" to keep it all together? If tomorrow you woke up with a gf you loved and wealth like before would you be happy again?

Is the pain your going through a result of taking psychedelics and having god realizations/solipsism? Or are you experiencing difficult life circumstances, like health problems or poverty?

@Michael569 Make a Bryan Johnson how to guide on youtube with full cooking instruction for all his meals im sure it will do well. ?Ride the trend.