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The value of money is a representation of that countries economic value how ever that is calculated (inport/outport goods, production of valuable goods, oil reserves, debt, relationships with other contries...). The buying power of the average daily wage is a good indication of a countries wealth. There are exceptions if the government is corrupt and controlling wealth with large inequality gaps.

Im nice to everyone in real life, it makes no sense being unlikable. I have no idea what you mean by nice is unattractive. I think the issue is your not taking any risk. Be nice and take risk at the same time.

@Michael569 She went to the hospital recently from severe stomach pain, they couldn't find the reason. She stopped taking the iron and the pain went away, 5 days later she tried the iron supplement again and the stomach pain came back. Is there a different form thats better tolerated? She was taking ferrous bis-glycinate.

@Leo Gura Are you taking sun daily? Sun/Red Light exposure cured Hypothyroidism.

Forget god and spiritualty this has nothing to do with spiritualty, what you need is basic self-help not more fantasies.

The wake is caused by stress, you should be able to fall back asleep but your to stressed. They had to give you something for anxiety that would of worked better then sleeping pills in this case. Ill say it one more time lol, at 5pm you need to eat a big meal or else the stress will be to high for you to sleep. The body is starving in this overdrive state.

Did you get the sleeping pill medication to reset the system?

@Growly Are you eating under 2000 calories a day? Maintaining weight does not mean the body is getting the resources it needs. The body is in overdrive mode from sleep deprivation, you need to eat like a normal person.

The way math is thought in school is memorization. Instead if math thought in school involved reinventing Newton or Einstein's equations, then id say your pretty intelligent.

Ah ok that's reasonable, I was getting the impression that you saw a right and a wrong way to view this topic. In general its very difficult to talk about this topic as its easy to miscommunicate and people interpret what is being said as a criticism from "bellow" rather then "above".

My ex-gf was raped during our relationship, it traumatized me worse then it traumatized her. Your assuming your perspective is the moral high road and the "truth" in the matter with out fully understanding what I'm saying. It doesn't matter what age she was when this happened, he explained that who she today is still a people pleaser with no voice, she cant asses the quality of a person people are (as some people depending on there upbringing cant ever seem to get a grasp of especially if her parents had no integrity). Your assuming she has grown up in the past 5-10 years, when growing up with trauma and a bad upbringing never goes smoothly.

Is this incident happened 10 years ago, she has to heal from her trauma.

Im speaking about how immature she is right now.

How old is she now?

That guy also doesn't no any better and has to grow up. Are you able to show understanding towards him or to complete the picture and show understanding towards the whole? Are you blaming one side over the other? There's a miscommunication, im not blaming anyone. an event like this is the inevitable expression of everyone involved. Besides reprimanding him for bad behavior the only thing she can do is work on herself. So what conversation are we having here? How to punish "bad people"? Or how to grow up? --- Women that find themselves in these situations have a habit of finding themselves in these situations again in the future. There is more to it then a one off crime committed towards her.

If the ego is no longer there, then no it would not be crazy, the ego makes it crazy.

Ive deeply thought through this and am not sitting here pointing blame to rape victims. She couldnt tell the character of the man he was when sending nudes to him because she had 0 idea what is going on in this world. Thats her level of immaturity that she has to learn to grow out of. I see all immaturity equally. Feminine immaturity will rip your life and heart out, it just gets a pass from naïve masculine men. Im not blaming rape victims, im pointing to immaturity on all sides.

She needs to learn to speak her mind. Her level of immaturity is equal to that man, can you see it? Stuck in people pleasing, avoid conflict mode. Its just that masculine immaturity is easy for you to hate, but feminine immaturity is easy for you to over look.

Its her fault as much as his. She's just as immature as him but expressing it from the feminine side of the coin. Males are hyper biased towards feminine immaturity, they cant see it, dont think its as serious as male immaturity that is of course more explicitly destructive. She thought it was a good idea to give that guy head? Shes equality in lala land being foolish just like him. She made a mistake and its time to grow from it. Shes really lucky she was not raped, all she had to do was get invited to one of these "friends" house. Its important shes never is alone with a random hetero sexual male at a party or a sleep over, something that will anger you 10x more will happen. She needs to learn how to pick good friends and grow up.

@ivankiss Masculine anger is pretty destructive and the reason the site does not cater to it.

The difference between 4 and 5 is not much and it squirts out so how would you really know? Why does it make a difference?

?Ye I fully relate to this, then youll start imagining having a relationships with her and go into a side story in your mind, alternative life. It tends not to happen when your already in a relationship.

lmao i use olive oil on my face to make it look shiny and fresh. I bet it does wonders down under.

This has nothing to do with god or any story or external event, its about your emotions and does emotions are spinning up storys about what you like and dont like about the world. Focus on feeling your emotions and letting them go. There is no logic or rationality or new framing or new perspective or awakening to have, let go of your emotion right now where you stand. --- Liking and disliking things is a habit your formed very young and its stronger then most for you. Its time to unravel that mechanism. It has nothing to do with external events or god or hitler. Its about your habits. Learn to let go of what you like and dont like. Practice with small things then build your way up. That includes letting go of things you like not just the things your dislike. Come back to the center. Liking something is just as judgmental and emotionally charged as disliking. The act of liking creates the opposite side of the coin of disliking, you cant have one with out the other. At some point when you can have a healthy relationship with this mechanism can you start liking things again from a place of wisdom.