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I think I took the bullet in the head and spent 12 years recovering You are lucky that it was solvable through mind alone. It's not always all in your head. Psychosis is not something you think your way out of, making it very difficult to solve.

Yes your post is on point. No one understands this about weed, the cultural perception is that it's "perfectly safe" and "you can't die from it" or it "takes the edge off and helps you relax". People think you're crazy if you attribute weed to psychosis.

@Jayson G Sedona method might be useful for people who have chronic weed addiction, because they always seem dulled and at a low state and lack Clarity in every aspect of their life.

I smoked weed once at 21 and I stopped sleeping for 2 years from intense hallucinations and thousands of voices in my head. Devastating sleep deprivation of the highest level. I woke up every day on the verge of suicide for 8 years before I figured out how to resolve it and start sleeping again. It took about 4 years after that for my brain to rebuild itself back to a normal state. Weed is serious and can permanently alter how your brain functions from just 1 use.

@Majed the reason I think you're making these comments is because you enjoyed the rush of attention like you alluded to in a previous post relating to pick up. I tend to do the same thing in that I like to spice up things I say to make it more engaging, a lot of us do that. Try to be write for engagement while also being (wise, likable, funny), and you'll get the attention you really want.

Nope. Try again? 😵‍💫

@Emerald I would add Find an environment where men who share similar values to you are likely to be. It’s unlikely the guy you’re looking for is at a bar or in a club, so that’s probably not the target location. Maybe go to a book club maybe go to yoga maybe go to meditation retreat… Also, if you’re using online dating apps filter out men based on values and not just appearance, look for words like (spiritual) in their profile so that there’s some compatibility. Of course this still doesn’t work very well and you’re gonna get plenty of immature men. But most women don’t understand spiral dynamics or integrity or self development, and really don’t understand how to filter.

Not serious about learning.

That’s what she said

Are you out of your mind? lol she was just being socially nice because she’s conditioned to avoid conflict and to make you comfortable while you act like an idiot. if you’re really good at reading the room, then you could get away with a lot and you could understand implicit consent. But it’s a gray area. The situation matters if you’re in a club it makes a lot more sense and there’s a lot more room for implicit signals. going to random people and kissing them within seconds, it’s just stupid, if anyone came up to me and kiss me within seconds of talking to him, I would feel very uncomfortable. —- On the topic of rape, I need you to do some work to show me that you put some effort into this topic to understand it, use AI and really try to make sense of rape and then post back here. If you’re not willing to put some real work into this, I’m not gonna indulge in this kind of topic because it’s too sensitive. It’s like trying to understand theoretical physics, but you didn’t bother learning anything about the subject.

🤦‍♀️ Do not use logic to understand rape as a male, you guys have not experienced it from the female perspective so you know nothing about this subject. Most women experience the freeze response and so Russell probably didn’t even know he was raping them. Rape is not A violent struggle most of the time, she will say no at the beginning and then give up. Women all over the world are ashamed to go to the police because of social backlash which is extremely real. People will blame her for it. And her whole life she’s Condition to avoid conflict and would ratter die then face the emotional struggle of prolonged social struggle. It is also very difficult to convict because you need DNA evidence most of the time. Then you need to re-explain fresh horrific traumatic memories over and over again to bunch of people who half of them don’t believe you. The last thing a woman wants to do is fight. Instead she wants to lay down and die because she was just emotionally destroyed By life. Women are hyper sensitive they’re not like men.

He's explaining that you're a shapeshifter and you could shift into a better reality for yourself?

Naaaa the women on this forum are battle VETERANS, for years they've plowed through the trenches with their bare hands on the very grounds we text. This is a walk in the park for them!

None of us are engaging in personal attacks, we are exchanging World Views, without judgment.

So you interpreted it as my girlfriend's scolding me for not playing my masculine roll correctly?

Because my girlfriend is not offended by this conversation. Or anything Leo said.

This conversation has been like walking through a Garden of roses in comparison to the conversations we used to have on this forum. This is a very impressive clean conversation overall.

It's ranking countries based on standardized testing. South Korea and China have the most ruthless slave labor education system and high pressure zero childhood schooling. They rank children on their ability to pass tests and it's extremely serious.

There's no need to tiptoe around people's emotions when they're serious about truth. You're Assuming he has contempt and that he's shaming people. My girlfriend has told me multiple times that she's just a child and she wants me to take care of her and she can't handle life. If you want I will get her to text me that right now, she has enough self-awareness to know who she is and I didn't implant any ideas in her head.

So leo was not victim blaming? I'm glad we agree? lol I guess we have something in common?

He said "boiling frog", it implies an abusive man will put a mask to Swindle you into a relationship, so its starts off good.

He's talking about taking 100% responsibility for your life. Which is a core self development concept. Regardless of how you got yourself into the mess of an abusive relationship which was likely not your fault it is now your responsibility to get yourself out of it. If you are ignorant and don't understand your own mechanisms that are keeping you in that relationship or if you don't even recognize that you're in abusive relationship these are all aspects of your own lack of self-awareness and development. None of this is "your fault", none of this is "blame", it's just what it is. your lack of development hit reality in a way where you got hurt. Like you said you learn from your mistakes which is responsibility and you didn't make that mistake again.

If a frog is placed in boiling water, it will jump out immediately, but if the water is heated gradually, the frog won’t notice the danger and will be boiled alive. It illustrates how people may fail to notice gradual, harmful changes until it's too late.

The goal post is not moving... There are very clear biological differences in how our minds work, we have different needs, and when you treat a woman the way a man wants his needs met, it goes wrong. A man will treat a woman the way HE wants to be treated. -> AND ITS WRONG. What I'm talking to my guy friends we're throwing philosophy shit at each other or laughing like crazy at each other, poking fun at each other, there is no limitations what we can say, we take nothing personally. A woman takes everything personally, the words she says represent her identity. And when you have a logical conversation with a feminine mind you are attacking her identity and she's unable to separate it, so it's a huge mistake. Her beliefs are part of her identity and she can't separate it. A woman is speaking with her Identity On the Line, which is why her whole domain is an emotional language. Which is why women speak to each other indirectly. Men men will just say the facts right to their face and that's what they want to hear, a woman will literally avoid the truth as if her life depended on it in the middle of a social scenario, because she rather die than experienced the emotional burden of conflict. YOU do not do this. You are able to have a debate => enjoy that debate => and take nothing personally. This is masculine energy not maturity. There is no emotional burden for you... Besides the challenge which you enjoy! which is pure masculinity! A feminine woman who is mature could have a debate but she certainly would not enjoy it and at the end of the conversation she might even have to take a nap and get away from society, because there was an emotional burden there for her. Debates are exhausting for the feminine mind. Cuz it's an emotional burden she has to bear. It's not about maturity. It's a completely different language and how the mind works.

It's about positive ownership not negative ownership. In the same way you love your child... The phrasing instills empathy within the man that allows him to view the woman in such a way that diffuses all conflict. It is very effective. We should all treat each other like children, the world would be a better place.