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So I'm building this app I just got a contract to build and I told him it's going to take me between 6 to 8 months to build it. This was before Claude code was released which was 2 weeks ago. With Claude code I tell it to write a feature and it does it in less than 30 minutes. I easily wrote 3 months worth of code in 2 weeks with ai. I'm almost done the app... The problem is I told him I'll be charging ALOT... For 6 months of work. I'm not sure what to do? Do I lie???? The only thing I can think of is I over deliver and build a very high-end application. This way it actually takes me alot longer to finish it.

Let’s say theres 15% of the population that are mature A much smaller percentage of them are going to be dating And then even a much smaller percentage of that are the people I have access to from random chance and dating apps On top of that, you created a grotesque oversimplification of this category called “mature” that ignores the messy complicated lives people live, and compatibility between people None of this is a real world

All Mark had to do here was date a mature person! (Sarcasm) I guess it was personal preference or scarcity that made this multimillionaire date this woman. 🫠 (sarcasm) Having to explain that reality and dating is not idealism that fits neatly into categories, like maturity and intelligence is crazy. I guess he should’ve known from the moment he spoke to her that she didn’t meet the “maturity threshold” before he fell in love with her @Emerald

lol guys it still takes skill to create all this, I still have to work, a non-engineer can't do this. Basically what's going to happen is, I'm going to be able to build a much better product than I normally would have, because I could use AI to remove the low level stuff that was taking up 95% of my cognitive time. Now I could free up all that mental energy and focus on quality.

It is possible and I explained it here. Like I don't even know what's going on here, the way she's messaging you it's as if your a complete stranger. Do you see that? She's not saying anything interesting, there's nothing going on, what kind of conversation is this? lol --- If I were in your shoes I would 100% not message her again and delete her from my memory. But it's worth a shot doing what Leo said.

@NewKidOnTheBlockThe main counter is I think you would be shocked of what people pay for If someone knows they're going to get a high quality product, quickly with good service they're willing to pay a lot. I've seen people make 100K a month just by selling a color palette + branding with basic website design. Well I'm building an entire full featured app + branding

I think you have to break the flow of the conversation and just go in a different direction.

Girls Just Want to Have Fun, build connections, feel safe and comfortable, NO PRESSURE, be understood, laugh and fool around, talk about their life with someone without being judged. VIBE VIBE VIBE VIBE VIBE If you are admitting A vibe that makes them love talking to you and they enjoy being around you then everything will come naturally. Vibe is King. You could look like a goblin and as long as you're vibe is on point woman will hurl themselves at you.

@Nito Never over invest in a girl before you sleep with them. You should not be at this level of investment, it will only cause self-sabotage and hurt your chances.

Yeah man just go back to building a connection and having fun, be more laid back, Maybe point out something you noticed about her that was "questionable" for fun to get her invested into talking about herself. The easiest way is to get them talking about themselves, make the conversation about her. People love when their ego is stimulated in an engaging way. Normally I talk about some aspect of their psychology, and they always love it, they want to go on and on and on about how their own mind works. But this might not be something that fits your personality

This happened because the connection wasn't fully developed enough and the fantasy of you was not ingrained in her mind deep enough. lol Women Want To Be emotionally stimulated into the relationship like a fairy tale. Often they just stimulate themselves if you keep your distance lmao, they develop the mystery about you in their own mind and then that illusion is broken when they actually get to know you LOL

Her working somewhere for a week is very stressful for a random person, they are not in their comfort zone, they're not settled into the environment. That means she was in a stressful environment trying to get bye and then you tried to hit on her within 3 days. So its bad timing. LMAO i feel the pain, but if you cant see her again then you have to hope she messages you later in the future randomly. If she's avoiding messaging you, then it's over unfortunately. She likely has a bunch of stuff going on in her life and you didn't come in at the right time. Timing is important and it's not within your control. It's just bad luck. The solution here is to get other prospects and start dating a different person. This will change your frame of mind so you'll know what the answer is. You're confused because your frame of mind is off. The answer is obvious to anyone who's sober. --- You asked her out and she said " I'll see how I feel about it tomorrow", and then she didn't respond. There's nothing you can do man. She would not behave like this if she was interested. But because you can't see her again there's no way for you to build more report. There's just nothing you can do now. its gg

Started cycling vitamin D on and off and it's very noticeable that time passes much slower if I'm consistently taking vitamin D. The deficiency probably from gut issues and malabsorption seems to cause time to pass much quicker during the day and you're in general less conscious and less alert. So vitamin D deficiency is gonna lower your overall state of consciousness so your going to experience life a lot faster.

@Nito woman want to avoid conflict at all cost. Her not giving you an answer is avoidance of conflict. Conflict meaning she doesn't want to go in that direction and saying no = being mean. Step 1) Stop messaging her. Step 2) Talk to her like 100% normal you would talk to a friend and stop dumping your obvious neediness onto her. Woman are super aware of people being needy + desperation. Stop talking about dating. Go back to having fun. This is the mistake made, you went from: fun guy at work -> demanding stuff. DUDE, I NEVER asked a girl out 3 days knowing her randomly like this, its so ridiculous... this is such highschool stuff, i guess it can work on young woman... The real way to do it is create a good connection and it will happen naturally. Sure if your a pick up genius you can get places fast with some (SOME) woman. Step 3) Get more options. useful to avoid (all in one basket neediness problem) Step 4) improve your escalation skills and vibe To get a girl who says things like "ill see how I feel about it tomorrow"... Her emotions = truth. You didn't build enough report for her to be hooked.

I'm aware of that that I'm saying something more nuanced. I tried giving an answer but it too difficult in the end to communicate.

Thats not the point i made, im saying maturity doesn't matter. Mature does not mean compatible.

What I'm saying is there's no mature people, relationships are more about finding compatibility through all the imperfections. I'm being asked: why don't I date a mature person? It's like asking: why don't you just buy one at Walmart? lol

lmao yeah I made a mistake when I wrote that. 6: 6 month - 1 years 3: 2 years - 3 years 1: 5 years And there was break in-between all of them, it feels like I've always been single actually lmao im 36. I never actually thought about it, but I always magically find another relationship to be in.

In practice it's not like this, people are lopsided in their intellect, people are unstable depending on circumstances. A mature person is not like a statue were they're simply mature and that's it. To love someone you need a level of non-judgmentalism that tier 1 just can't do in practice. Sure I could find a mature stage Blue Woman but then we're likely not compatible in many areas, she might be romantically suppressed. Where am I going to find mature woman? What do they look like? I have never seen one irl. I had 10 long-term relationships, none of them were mature. My current girlfriend is immature, but we have high romance compatibility, high communication compatibility and she will follow the right path reasonably. But she still blames me for every emotion she experiences, until I defuse her with love. Diversity exists, the world is not idealism. As a man to find a mature person takes serious hard work, unless you get lucky through random chance

@Carl-Richard Seeing as you're studying neuroscience I guess I should show you what o3 has to say lol

@Carl-Richard But okay I get I think what you were saying is that the quality of every moment is higher and so it feels like the day is going by slower but if the quality of the experience was lower like the guy who is sick, then the day feels like it past super fast

In a video game when you increase frame rates you have more frames in a smaller period of time. 30 fps -> 60 fps -> 120 fps. The way I'm thinking about it is that more frame rate would mean more information per second. or Experiences per second (eps) or fullness per second (fps). If someone is experiencing the rise and fall of the Sun instantly then he has huge gaps between each frame. Basically he has 1 frame per minute. or 1 experience per minute. lol For example people that take salvia will say that they lived an entire lifetime in a minute. so Experiences per second was like 1000x normal. They had 100000s of experiences condensed in 1 second. So the more conscious you are = more experiences per second. When you're asleep experiences per second = 0. Time passes instantly. Because you're unconscious, off. If we could condense a million experiences in a single second, then that second will feel super long. lmao lmao you got that chatgpt hallucination writing style, even when its wrong its so convincing in its delivery

What do you consider mature? Even when healthy, anyone that has not reached Tier 2 is very immature, their psyche is held together by coping mechanisms. Everyone I dated or met is lost in judgments, lost in fighting the world, lost in disliking something happening in front of them, non of them know how an emotion is created within the body and them projected externally, lost in every story, dislikes a long list of things. I need to date Tier 1 and I need to heavily adapt 60 to 80% of the time. So right now I just settled for romantic compatibility, stage green, communication compatibility. The negative is of course your dating Tier 1 woman that have a crisis once a week and they're projecting their emotions onto you, and every week you must diffuse them. lol It doesn't matter if they're healthy or not or mature or not, they're not conscious enough to understand they are causing all of their own problems. Tier 2 is the basic threshold to becoming mature. I am not met a Tier 2 woman (irl), it's just not practical for me to have expectations to date them

right i'm happy you made this distinction. But explain why, I still experience that when there is a faster frame rate with moment to moment time dilation going up (more conscious, less brain fog) = time still passes slower. There's another distinction that has to be made, what do you think it is? I'm describing time passing slower when the frame rate goes up = more conscious + less brain fog from vitamin D correction. The lower the frame rate, time passes extremely fast, the whole day is a blur, you're in a fog.

time passes slower the more conscious you become not the less conscious. I think you guys are thinking of it backwards But there's probably an axis here im not seeing, got to figure it out.