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I think you have to break the flow of the conversation and just go in a different direction.

Girls Just Want to Have Fun, build connections, feel safe and comfortable, NO PRESSURE, be understood, laugh and fool around, talk about their life with someone without being judged. VIBE VIBE VIBE VIBE VIBE If you are admitting A vibe that makes them love talking to you and they enjoy being around you then everything will come naturally. Vibe is King. You could look like a goblin and as long as you're vibe is on point woman will hurl themselves at you.

@Nito Never over invest in a girl before you sleep with them. You should not be at this level of investment, it will only cause self-sabotage and hurt your chances.

Yeah man just go back to building a connection and having fun, be more laid back, Maybe point out something you noticed about her that was "questionable" for fun to get her invested into talking about herself. The easiest way is to get them talking about themselves, make the conversation about her. People love when their ego is stimulated in an engaging way. Normally I talk about some aspect of their psychology, and they always love it, they want to go on and on and on about how their own mind works. But this might not be something that fits your personality

This happened because the connection wasn't fully developed enough and the fantasy of you was not ingrained in her mind deep enough. lol Women Want To Be emotionally stimulated into the relationship like a fairy tale. Often they just stimulate themselves if you keep your distance lmao, they develop the mystery about you in their own mind and then that illusion is broken when they actually get to know you LOL

Her working somewhere for a week is very stressful for a random person, they are not in their comfort zone, they're not settled into the environment. That means she was in a stressful environment trying to get bye and then you tried to hit on her within 3 days. So its bad timing. LMAO i feel the pain, but if you cant see her again then you have to hope she messages you later in the future randomly. If she's avoiding messaging you, then it's over unfortunately. She likely has a bunch of stuff going on in her life and you didn't come in at the right time. Timing is important and it's not within your control. It's just bad luck. The solution here is to get other prospects and start dating a different person. This will change your frame of mind so you'll know what the answer is. You're confused because your frame of mind is off. The answer is obvious to anyone who's sober. --- You asked her out and she said " I'll see how I feel about it tomorrow", and then she didn't respond. There's nothing you can do man. She would not behave like this if she was interested. But because you can't see her again there's no way for you to build more report. There's just nothing you can do now. its gg

Started cycling vitamin D on and off and it's very noticeable that time passes much slower if I'm consistently taking vitamin D. The deficiency probably from gut issues and malabsorption seems to cause time to pass much quicker during the day and you're in general less conscious and less alert. So vitamin D deficiency is gonna lower your overall state of consciousness so your going to experience life a lot faster.

@Nito woman want to avoid conflict at all cost. Her not giving you an answer is avoidance of conflict. Conflict meaning she doesn't want to go in that direction and saying no = being mean. Step 1) Stop messaging her. Step 2) Talk to her like 100% normal you would talk to a friend and stop dumping your obvious neediness onto her. Woman are super aware of people being needy + desperation. Stop talking about dating. Go back to having fun. This is the mistake made, you went from: fun guy at work -> demanding stuff. DUDE, I NEVER asked a girl out 3 days knowing her randomly like this, its so ridiculous... this is such highschool stuff, i guess it can work on young woman... The real way to do it is create a good connection and it will happen naturally. Sure if your a pick up genius you can get places fast with some (SOME) woman. Step 3) Get more options. useful to avoid (all in one basket neediness problem) Step 4) improve your escalation skills and vibe To get a girl who says things like "ill see how I feel about it tomorrow"... Her emotions = truth. You didn't build enough report for her to be hooked.

I'm aware of that that I'm saying something more nuanced. I tried giving an answer but it too difficult in the end to communicate.

Thats not the point i made, im saying maturity doesn't matter. Mature does not mean compatible.

What I'm saying is there's no mature people, relationships are more about finding compatibility through all the imperfections. I'm being asked: why don't I date a mature person? It's like asking: why don't you just buy one at Walmart? lol

lmao yeah I made a mistake when I wrote that. 6: 6 month - 1 years 3: 2 years - 3 years 1: 5 years And there was break in-between all of them, it feels like I've always been single actually lmao im 36. I never actually thought about it, but I always magically find another relationship to be in.

In practice it's not like this, people are lopsided in their intellect, people are unstable depending on circumstances. A mature person is not like a statue were they're simply mature and that's it. To love someone you need a level of non-judgmentalism that tier 1 just can't do in practice. Sure I could find a mature stage Blue Woman but then we're likely not compatible in many areas, she might be romantically suppressed. Where am I going to find mature woman? What do they look like? I have never seen one irl. I had 10 long-term relationships, none of them were mature. My current girlfriend is immature, but we have high romance compatibility, high communication compatibility and she will follow the right path reasonably. But she still blames me for every emotion she experiences, until I defuse her with love. Diversity exists, the world is not idealism. As a man to find a mature person takes serious hard work, unless you get lucky through random chance

@Carl-Richard Seeing as you're studying neuroscience I guess I should show you what o3 has to say lol

@Carl-Richard But okay I get I think what you were saying is that the quality of every moment is higher and so it feels like the day is going by slower but if the quality of the experience was lower like the guy who is sick, then the day feels like it past super fast

In a video game when you increase frame rates you have more frames in a smaller period of time. 30 fps -> 60 fps -> 120 fps. The way I'm thinking about it is that more frame rate would mean more information per second. or Experiences per second (eps) or fullness per second (fps). If someone is experiencing the rise and fall of the Sun instantly then he has huge gaps between each frame. Basically he has 1 frame per minute. or 1 experience per minute. lol For example people that take salvia will say that they lived an entire lifetime in a minute. so Experiences per second was like 1000x normal. They had 100000s of experiences condensed in 1 second. So the more conscious you are = more experiences per second. When you're asleep experiences per second = 0. Time passes instantly. Because you're unconscious, off. If we could condense a million experiences in a single second, then that second will feel super long. lmao lmao you got that chatgpt hallucination writing style, even when its wrong its so convincing in its delivery

What do you consider mature? Even when healthy, anyone that has not reached Tier 2 is very immature, their psyche is held together by coping mechanisms. Everyone I dated or met is lost in judgments, lost in fighting the world, lost in disliking something happening in front of them, non of them know how an emotion is created within the body and them projected externally, lost in every story, dislikes a long list of things. I need to date Tier 1 and I need to heavily adapt 60 to 80% of the time. So right now I just settled for romantic compatibility, stage green, communication compatibility. The negative is of course your dating Tier 1 woman that have a crisis once a week and they're projecting their emotions onto you, and every week you must diffuse them. lol It doesn't matter if they're healthy or not or mature or not, they're not conscious enough to understand they are causing all of their own problems. Tier 2 is the basic threshold to becoming mature. I am not met a Tier 2 woman (irl), it's just not practical for me to have expectations to date them

right i'm happy you made this distinction. But explain why, I still experience that when there is a faster frame rate with moment to moment time dilation going up (more conscious, less brain fog) = time still passes slower. There's another distinction that has to be made, what do you think it is? I'm describing time passing slower when the frame rate goes up = more conscious + less brain fog from vitamin D correction. The lower the frame rate, time passes extremely fast, the whole day is a blur, you're in a fog.

time passes slower the more conscious you become not the less conscious. I think you guys are thinking of it backwards But there's probably an axis here im not seeing, got to figure it out.

That's interesting, how I view it is vitamin D makes it easier to concentrate and enter flow and so my experiences are more vivid and memorable and so because I remember more of my day time passed slower. How I'm experiencing it is if I get more done in a shorter shorter period of time and then I look at the clock and barely anytime has passed. While when I'm deficient it takes a lot longer to get simple things done and they're all less memorable and enjoyable and so when I look at the time a huge amount of time has passed and barely anything was done. I think it would make sense that the more conscious you are the more you're processing every moment, the more "dense" every moment is.

Everyone is deficient, a doctor told me that they don't do the test because it always comes back that the patient is deficient 100% of the time lol

I take 1/4th of a B complex once every two days + small dosage vitamin D + K2 + C + selenium + electrolyte salts. If I take full "recommended" doses of anything its very harsh on the system

@Santiago Ram It's still important to succeed financially in life, if starting a clinic is something you're motivated to do then there's no reason not to. Try to then apply everything you learned into the clinic.

That's like seeing Jesus walk on water everywhere

@Leo Gura this Gamified Contemplation is great, maybe you should add them to the end of each of your blog posts instead of just saying: contemplate you scoundrels! Gameplation.