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My Te is strong but by it being strong it means I'm in full control of it and it doesn't control me. In my place, I have one plate one bowl one fork, i dont put them back in the drawer because I use them every day. Putting them in the drawer and even having drawers is an inefficiency, why would I want to open and close the drawer? People have drawers because they want to hide things to keep it clean, that "cleanness" is a intolerance, an emotional resistance, and the experience of clutter. Clutter is something that people experience and suffer from. I can have a messy home and it means nothing to me. But my Te is very strong, Everything is optimized for the least steps. An empty shed is not an efficient shed, that's an intolerance to clutter. But I do prefer emptiness over clutter, and will choose the least amount of stuff as possible. I would make my house a big open space when nothing in it lol so I could run freely. It becomes a problem when the environment is perfectly fine and everyday they find something they can't tolerate and has to change. If my bowl is in the drawer I don't suffer everyday because of it.

How do we know if silencing someone is worse than making them a martyr?

I know it's almost childish but I have a fear of revealing my best business ideas or dream business that I'm currently actively working on, in fear of it being stolen lol. I have the fear of not releasing it until it's perfect or that I've built a substantial way of promoting it so that I'm first to Market. I don't know if this is rational There's a lot of wisdom going around that you shouldn't reinvent the wheel with unique Products, just take products that already exist that have been battle tested and copy them. But this bores me out of my mind and most of it isn't aligned with my highest vision.

i am, but i dont know if its OCD, im so used to it it just seems like its there value system? I get the impression everyone lives like this, they have their fixed values married to their ego and then they on a daily basis have a negative emotion when ever they face there values conflicting in the real world.

omg this legendary link drop, we need a lord fall gpt asap, why would i use anything else 😂

chronic suffering from an environment that is by any reasonable standard fine.

Seedance 2.5

@Leo Gura I noticed that you're only posting to Instagram, right now I have the option to post to six or seven platforms all the same time, short form videos and long-form videos. Is there any reason not to do this? Why did you target Instagram specifically? And why did you choose not to push to the other platforms at the same time?

The biggest problem with approaching people is you dont really want to talk to them I want to talk to people i actually want to talk to. 🤯

https://youtu.be/07TNr9EtksE?si=lBnFOHJVRwa1YUe- This guy seems legit

@LordFall do you have a link to a map of cold approach? One of the resources that you linked previously was pretty good on pick up, but im looking for a map of cold approach strategies all in one place.

LMFAO I'm sure they are, I don't know how much of what they're doing is skill vs other ascpects like natural personality. I Don't know if one size fits all. The pick up cold approach fantasy doesn't feel like it works for a lot of different types of people, to unnatural to them

But are the results people get from cold approach alone as good as what I'm describing? And if it is, is it because a person has qualities that make them good at cold approach? I feel like one size doesn't fit all

That makes sense but like I see guys like @Majed struggling to get results and doing crazy numbers of approaches. It's better just to focus on a different strategy

That makes perfect sense, it's a strategic conversation about cold approach, Where you set yourself up so people come to you instead of you going to them.

ya know I'm old, bald, my abs are gone, I got plenty of fat around my waist, didn't shave my back or my chest lmfao 😆 5"8 I'm not out there like some chiseled God but i do have some muscle. Dude sometimes I grow like these singular crazy long back hairs, that I can't even see or reach lmfao

It's all good, I think your statement was true.

Thats true i messed up. I felt bad afterwards when she was texting me.

WAaaat someones paying for that crunchyroll subscription? I've been trying to watch it for a while now and the torrents are all dead

Cognitive functions are what matters with MBTI. What are the subconscious questions that you're asking yourself? The default thinking process. INFJ has 4 states Sleep = Ni + Ti Blast = Ni + Fe Play = Fe + Se Consume = Ti + Se

Happyness mastery Unable to stop thinking and worry about one's life story, can't turn off the life story. Physical health, pain, poor sleep, lack of exercise, hormonal problems, its a biological engineering problem that has to be solved How someone relates to everything, Example: "should" thinking. This is how things "should be". Is a person chasing how they want the world to be instead of what the world actually is and connecting with it as it is. All of your relationships, because other people's states of mind and capacity to be, directly affects us to the point or it's very hard to separate. So if the quality of our relationships is bad and if we have to deal with these people everyday then were going to be unhappy vai osmosis Open awareness and felt inner body awareness at all times and relaxed in the environment. (working and doing anything while aware of one's inner felt body relaxed, muscles, auditory surroundings, tone of voice. Try reading while being fully aware of your entire body and all of its relaxed muscles and the relaxation in the voice in your head + all of the auditory environment sounds. This is a category of mindfulness. interoception is awareness of the inner body (muscle tone, breath, fingertips, the felt sense of relaxation), and exteroception is awareness of the surroundings (hearing the room, sensing space). Gymnasts tend to be naturally in the state it's a type of awareness of proprioception. Proprioception of, the body, the breath, movement, the air, even ones thoughts. This gives rise to contentness from a knowing that nothing is happening that there's nowhere to go and there's nothing to do.

I've noticed certain women who'll only date a certain type of man because they're in a state where they have to respect whoever's speaking, and if they don't, they get highly disagreeable in the relationship. They're even self-aware about it. They know they need a man who can "put them in their place". So the word I've given this is "respect-oriented." They view the world through respect, it's an emotional inner locus, and if they don't hold you in high enough regard they won't let you lead them. They'll only accept a leader they respect and resist anyone who isn't, to the end. And the sexual attraction system is tied into it. They can't be attracted to a man they don't respect enough, they're hypersensitive to the whole concept, and it's all rooted in their internalized structure of what makes them respect a man versus not. So they end up only dating black guys, because a black guy's appearance is as naturally more on the bad-boy spectrum of ruggedness and masculinity, deeper voice, relax don't give a shit, just by being black, and they'll only go for a certain height and build, men with these superficial masculine features, because they're gunning for whatever gives them that feeling of respecting the person through some kind of dominance, even if it's only superficial. The red pill community loves demonizing this type of woman. I personally dated one, and it's nothing like you would expect because they're highly socialized. They know what to say and not say but they're always hiding their true deeper values. They know how to present themselves like a good person, and they're in conflict not liking that they can't fit societals image of a good person. They constantly feel desires to do things That are directly against who they want to be, and who they want to be is a blue/orange socially constructed idea of what a good person is. The reason they have identity conflict is because they have red values but Society is centered at Orange or blue, and they're fighting who they are (red. values) vs societies standards of what they should be (blue/orange values). The red woman who are not in identity conflict and not playing games to hide themselves. are healthy, and are the ones on the talk show podcast saying exactly what they want and it triggers men. "i only date black guys"

I 100% agree What a relationship mostly is, is a fast path to growth. Both of you have to be growing constantly to learn how to be a healthy human being inside the relationship. This is because you're both deeply immature. People are going to project a bunch of stuff onto your partner, wanting them to be things they cannot be. This continues until you both finally stop playing that foolish game, accept the flaws in each other, and move on.