integral

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  1. omg this legendary link drop, we need a lord fall gpt asap, why would i use anything else 😂
  2. chronic suffering from an environment that is by any reasonable standard fine.
  3. @Leo Gura I noticed that you're only posting to Instagram, right now I have the option to post to six or seven platforms all the same time, short form videos and long-form videos. Is there any reason not to do this? Why did you target Instagram specifically? And why did you choose not to push to the other platforms at the same time?
  4. The biggest problem with approaching people is you dont really want to talk to them I want to talk to people i actually want to talk to. 🤯
  5. https://youtu.be/07TNr9EtksE?si=lBnFOHJVRwa1YUe- This guy seems legit
  6. @LordFall do you have a link to a map of cold approach? One of the resources that you linked previously was pretty good on pick up, but im looking for a map of cold approach strategies all in one place.
  7. LMFAO I'm sure they are, I don't know how much of what they're doing is skill vs other ascpects like natural personality. I Don't know if one size fits all. The pick up cold approach fantasy doesn't feel like it works for a lot of different types of people, to unnatural to them
  8. But are the results people get from cold approach alone as good as what I'm describing? And if it is, is it because a person has qualities that make them good at cold approach? I feel like one size doesn't fit all
  9. That makes sense but like I see guys like @Majed struggling to get results and doing crazy numbers of approaches. It's better just to focus on a different strategy
  10. That makes perfect sense, it's a strategic conversation about cold approach, Where you set yourself up so people come to you instead of you going to them.
  11. ya know I'm old, bald, my abs are gone, I got plenty of fat around my waist, didn't shave my back or my chest lmfao 😆 5"8 I'm not out there like some chiseled God but i do have some muscle. Dude sometimes I grow like these singular crazy long back hairs, that I can't even see or reach lmfao
  12. It's all good, I think your statement was true.
  13. Thats true i messed up. I felt bad afterwards when she was texting me.
  14. WAaaat someones paying for that crunchyroll subscription? I've been trying to watch it for a while now and the torrents are all dead
  15. Cognitive functions are what matters with MBTI. What are the subconscious questions that you're asking yourself? The default thinking process. INFJ has 4 states Sleep = Ni + Ti Blast = Ni + Fe Play = Fe + Se Consume = Ti + Se
  16. Happyness mastery Unable to stop thinking and worry about one's life story, can't turn off the life story. Physical health, pain, poor sleep, lack of exercise, hormonal problems, its a biological engineering problem that has to be solved How someone relates to everything, Example: "should" thinking. This is how things "should be". Is a person chasing how they want the world to be instead of what the world actually is and connecting with it as it is. All of your relationships, because other people's states of mind and capacity to be, directly affects us to the point or it's very hard to separate. So if the quality of our relationships is bad and if we have to deal with these people everyday then were going to be unhappy vai osmosis Open awareness and felt inner body awareness at all times and relaxed in the environment. (working and doing anything while aware of one's inner felt body relaxed, muscles, auditory surroundings, tone of voice. Try reading while being fully aware of your entire body and all of its relaxed muscles and the relaxation in the voice in your head + all of the auditory environment sounds. This is a category of mindfulness. interoception is awareness of the inner body (muscle tone, breath, fingertips, the felt sense of relaxation), and exteroception is awareness of the surroundings (hearing the room, sensing space). Gymnasts tend to be naturally in the state it's a type of awareness of proprioception. Proprioception of, the body, the breath, movement, the air, even ones thoughts. This gives rise to contentness from a knowing that nothing is happening that there's nowhere to go and there's nothing to do.
  17. I've noticed certain women who'll only date a certain type of man because they're in a state where they have to respect whoever's speaking, and if they don't, they get highly disagreeable in the relationship. They're even self-aware about it. They know they need a man who can "put them in their place". So the word I've given this is "respect-oriented." They view the world through respect, it's an emotional inner locus, and if they don't hold you in high enough regard they won't let you lead them. They'll only accept a leader they respect and resist anyone who isn't, to the end. And the sexual attraction system is tied into it. They can't be attracted to a man they don't respect enough, they're hypersensitive to the whole concept, and it's all rooted in their internalized structure of what makes them respect a man versus not. So they end up only dating black guys, because a black guy's appearance is as naturally more on the bad-boy spectrum of ruggedness and masculinity, deeper voice, relax don't give a shit, just by being black, and they'll only go for a certain height and build, men with these superficial masculine features, because they're gunning for whatever gives them that feeling of respecting the person through some kind of dominance, even if it's only superficial. The red pill community loves demonizing this type of woman. I personally dated one, and it's nothing like you would expect because they're highly socialized. They know what to say and not say but they're always hiding their true deeper values. They know how to present themselves like a good person, and they're in conflict not liking that they can't fit societals image of a good person. They constantly feel desires to do things That are directly against who they want to be, and who they want to be is a blue/orange socially constructed idea of what a good person is. The reason they have identity conflict is because they have red values but Society is centered at Orange or blue, and they're fighting who they are (red. values) vs societies standards of what they should be (blue/orange values). The red woman who are not in identity conflict and not playing games to hide themselves. are healthy, and are the ones on the talk show podcast saying exactly what they want and it triggers men. "i only date black guys"
  18. I 100% agree What a relationship mostly is, is a fast path to growth. Both of you have to be growing constantly to learn how to be a healthy human being inside the relationship. This is because you're both deeply immature. People are going to project a bunch of stuff onto your partner, wanting them to be things they cannot be. This continues until you both finally stop playing that foolish game, accept the flaws in each other, and move on.
  19. The way you're describing love is through the lens of movie romance, fantasies about a woman being a good pure person. If you thought of a woman as a devil spawn Kicking and Screaming half of the time, and come up with practical strategies for loving that, then you would understand what I'm saying. 😂
  20. And i want her to make 3 million a year and her farts to smell like chicken nuggets. It's better to think about this in a practical overall sense, instead of narrowing on a ideal
  21. So life is not a Disney movie. Morals is what keeps you around when she gets sick, irritable and old. The idea that the reason you want to stay with her is because she has all these amazing qualities is not sustainable. All her amazing qualities will fade. What I offered was the practical reality of life. That's fine that you're gonna want some intellectual stimulation, any girl like green is gonna give you enough. What I'm talking about is the practical reality of things. These are luxuries. Instead of accepting who a person is, we need them to be someone that is worthy of our love and respect. These bars that were setting are not sustainable. These people are not capable of maintaining whatever excellence you need from them, their bodies are gonna get sick, minds are gonna become irritable and impatient.
  22. Yeah, people need to get certain things out of it. What people confuse as love is just getting their needs met. What's realistic is getting a net positive relationship and that's about it. What you're looking for is one basic metric to be met, like that the person is mature, both have a healthy sex drive, both are going to work towards finances. There's always gonna be flaws. Everyone is living in an unrealistic fantasy