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Could they teach cops to validate other people's emotions? People want to feel like you're on their side and that you understand their perspective. Most of these people if their feelings are not validated then they will not cooperate for any reason and continue escalating until they commit a crime. lmfao Suspect: "im a pleasent person" Cop: "thats yet to be seen".

Oh for sure the male domain is filled with people constantly feeling disrespected. The whole idea of disrespect is that you're trying to get your feelings validated by others. They then start demanding respect from everyone. And then they become hypersensitive to disrespect, and are triggered by Little Things. I had a friend once that walked into a room and he immediately saw some random guy in the corner look at him and he was immediately offended and felt disrespected. lmfao

The emotion of anger is the emotion to kill, to destroy, to rip apart, of Chaos. Then your larger frontal lobes prevent you from acting.

I want to clarify What I'm talking about is lower than that, If someone rapes your child you just want to kill them, it's not that complicated. Now of course you're not going to act on any of that if you have higher developed values and brain function, and instead you're going to do what is correct to do. Values are higher order.

Your lifestyle is your path of least resistance. Lifestyle is a deeply rooted personal process where it's what gives you the most relaxation and harmony with how you want to live. To compromise on it is constant stress for you because you have to use higher order brain function to correct yourself. I get impression that lifestyle is not changeable, and when we are living with someone if you're not compatible with that person's lifestyle there's really nothing that could be done. Because you have to use more energy to correct your lifestyle, this makes it so you're not enjoying living or there will be perpetual senseless conflict. Observing other peoples lifestyles from the perspective of your own lifestyle it looks like other people care about things that don't matter at all. And that they take things that don't matter very seriously. To change your lifestyle, you have to change how your nervous system responds to the environment, and this is extremely difficult. It's not as simple as two people in a relationship learning to work out in harmony, because you always have to use that higher order brain function to stop yourself from doing what you think is most reasonable. What other people think is important, for you at the nervous system level you will always view as nonsense that should not be taken seriously... Lifestyle Compatibility App Click link to interact with map.

@Osaid @bazera Emotionally supporting your partner is very important and healthy to do but what I was talking about is when they misinterpreting your natural self. You can't always be on high alert, mirroring their emotions and comforting them. This is not healthy. And they will easily misinterpret your healthiness. And they will project unhealthy traits on to you like that you're irresponsible and not let these things go. And I'm saying this is common in first relationships where the woman will self-destruct by blaming you for everything Intimacy isn't about these Grand emotional romances, that's movie stuff and Fantasies women are telling guys to to do. Having a good moment with someone is intimacy, laughing together casually throughout the day. Cuddling, quality time, enjoying being a part of each other's lives is all intimacy and then you could go deeper into the intimacy when you really get to know someone and you feel like you have a really good connection with them. The more Synergy you have with someone the more intimate everything tends to become. Of course listening to their deepest issues and traumas and connecting with them in this way is all very important and part of intimacy. But if you're a stable healthy person then in general you're not going to be sharing your biggest traumas and expecting emotional support for it. it's just not something that's inside you, and not something that you need in a relationship. And that's perfectly healthy

People fantasize about harming people all the time. Its deeply rooted and intuitive. Liberals dont get that most of the world is like this. They want to punish and harm you.

But resistance is useful!

Well that true lol. id be offended if the zombie wore perfume lmfao

Thats reasonable, out of curiosity Have you ever experienced brain fog? I feel like your more robust then average.

I think their brains developed differently because of the difference in biology, they have different hormones/dna and many factors. Like periods... make them more emotional, thats just 1 event. The way they socialize is more wired for emotional communication (but your saying its cultural)

Well what are the differences? lol if not emotional?

Your also a INTJ?? i thought you were ENTP for some reason. Something to do with every time i read something you write i have to google 3 new words lol ok family imposed knifes are Un-suspiciable. but a true minimalist rips food in half with there bear hands if absolutely necessary. Only way to avoid extra work

@Osaid Why are you saying men and woman are equal?

Billionaires having everyone cater and pander to them. Pretty Women having their feelings validated their whole lives. Academics who world view is rewarded by the academic bubble. Politicians rewarded for lying by sociaty. Trust-fund kids who've never had to turn effort into survival. Tall people who've always been the biggest kid in every room since they were twelve. Celebrities whose grift gets applauded like wisdom. Children raised by parents who intervened every time they were about to fail. Anyone whose feed only shows them content they already agree with. Tourists who experience entire countries through resort walls. Boomers who made all their money during the easiest era money could be made. Anyone whose job title does the talking before they open their mouth. (doctors) People who've only ever worked at profitable companies think business is about strategy. People who've never been seriously sick think the body is reliable and doctors are reliable and the medical system basically works. People raised religious who think they've seen through ideology. Libertarians raised with great governments, who think governments is unnecessary.

Yeah but people's default States can be 10x improved, most people are living at negative fuel, super low level dysfunctional unhealthy fuel. I've experienced super low levels, negative fuel. So I think Leo is could have a blind spot here, his brain seems to function pretty well throughout his life.

@Natasha Tori Maru I think i cracked the code, the dating apps should question peoples lifestyles in detail and match does up. I wonder if that would work better then the current system that matchs "values"

It's because we are designed to follow the path of least resistance, and if you care about truth you have to resist the least resistance. lol

She wanted them to speak nicely to her. And that's why she got stuck on the emotion and couldn't let it go. The problem is you can't bullshit the police. And these people have lived their whole lives bullshitting. so they hit the wall.

There is no substitute for a good communication, I'm talking about is after good communication she simply cannot accept that you are relaxed or have a perspective that is not emotionally aligned with hers. She needs you to have the same emotion she has (or pretend to), and agree with her emotions and validate her emotions. You know the saying "Making a big deal out of nothing". The crime that she commits is that when you don't validate her emotions, she then views you as a irresponsible, and then this is projected throughout everything that you are as a person throughout every decision you've ever made in the future. A remodelling of who she thinks you are happens. I think you're going overboard into a liberal fantasy. I've been criticized many times on the forum for projecting things onto women.. it's true they're similarities between men and women, but women live in a whole other universe called the psychosis fantasies of feelings. I do not need my feelings validated, I do not need someone to hear how i feel, I do not need to be reassured in any way emotionally about anything, I am self assured, I am self fulfilled. Actually talking to someone about how I feel is placing the responsibility of my feelings onto someone else and now if they don't deliver, I'm gonna dislike them. It's a fools game.

Hes blaming immigrates for the rape epidemic in that part of the city?

its impressive how many doors he has available to him.

Female Birth-control, the pill. Basically every woman is indoctrinated into taking this pill without looking at the science, where the science makes it very clear that these hormones make you emotionally unstable and directly change how your brain works. Women are already too unstable, we dont need fuel added to the fire.

ok if your father is a INTJ and you survived that childhood, you defiantly contracted the disease lmao dude 14 knives... do i even want to ask... 😆

It's mostly brain inflammation just go exercise and sleep more