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How the changing works exactly, agree that their attraction system changes as they get older and they know what they want better. The woman I dated that told me her type was black men, and she went to date a black drug dealer, attraction system is just chasing whatever the hottest man is from her biology that's perfectly fine, And later on many years later, she told me yeah the guy I'm dating "set me straight and changed me". Basically he didn't tolerate her bullshit and put her in her place and this had some kind of "taming the brat" effect. lmfao The second you have any issues she gets the ick and she jumps on another guy's cock. "ick oriented woman". Red has a respect and ick orientation, and they're always vigilantly waiting for your vibe to change. The moment she thinks she's "above you" she loses attraction, but cognitively she understands she's still in love with you but the vibe is gone already, and then they don't really understand it, so they end up cheating. Basically they're in love with you but they're attraction is gone and they lost respect and they don't view you in hi regard anymore, And so the next guy that comes around because they're brand new and there's no history, that triggers their attraction to click back into place and then she cheats.

I understand your not interesting in engaging, ill just say each thing is a slice of the same pie, the critique that most of these red pill ideas all fall into the trap of reductionism is true but thats not a complete view here. Red pill has truth to it, its one way of looking at the same elephant but when you think that one way is the entire elephant you get a nonsense world view. We live in a world that demands one mode from everyone: competitive, always-on, high-survival. People whose temperament doesn't fit that mode, of either sex, pay a cost, and that cost shows up in relationships as contraction, I did not say its a totalizing frame work that defines men and woman, that its one slice of the pie.

@Natasha Tori Maru The "being above" the healthy way is to acknowledge people have different roles and jobs they accell in and its better for the health of the relationship for the man to be in a role that suits his skills. Our society forces everyone to be masculine to function in a corporate job word, alot of people who are built to be feminine have to adapt to the masculine role. They can do it but it comes at a cost of overhead burden that naturals dont have. When someone is constantly adapting to a role that doesn't fit them they burn out much faster and take on unhealthy traits like overthinking, micro-managing, chronic stress. A healthy relationship is best when everyone is in there natural roles and on average the men should be "above" leadership for the relationship to be healthy. The worst situation one of the partners can be in is in a contracted micro managing state and that happens so often that red pill made a "being above" rule to solve it. In all my relationships 9 or so all the woman i was with became this way over time and i wasn't even living with them. They had to work jobs and they took that masculine survive mindset home with them and they couldnt switch out from it. The healthy masculine on average can do practical survival things with out thinking or stress or the need for perfection. Its done with some degree of emotional acceptance. A person adapting to be masculine cant hold this frame with out cost. There are alot of varibles this is just one slice of the pie. Most people in general are emotional wrecks both men and woman, and business men tend to behave like children half of the time.

I was talking about a specific type of woman and literally repeating what they said. I can't find the video, I just watched a video yesterday of a woman saying "I only date black guys" and "a man has to be able to put me in my place". I'm not saying all black people are a certain way

I think you're right lmao The thing with red is that the word respect is used at a whole other level. I had a friend once that he would walk into a room and he would immediately be analyzing and figuring out who respects him or not. And if someone looked at him across the room he would know by Vibe and figure out whether he's being respected or disrespected. So there's this domain of respect that just doesn't happen with the other stages at the same level. --- All the other stages are not doing a calculation whether they respect you or not in real time. They might figure that stuff after depending on what your values are. But in general the way we socialize with each other we hide our true selves because we're all socialized and calibrated. But at stage red there they only care immediately about whether they respect you or not and that they're constantly trying to place you in some category based on superficial things like the way you carry yourself and your posture and the confidence in your tone of voice. A blue woman and a green woman might respect certain things but they don't see it immediately. So they're going to sleep with you anyway, respect isn't tied to their attraction system in the same way.

I think we're confusing different concepts, everyone has their standards and what they're attracted to or not. Most people will sleep with anyone who's hot it doesn't matter what are they respect them or not. A guy will sleep with a girl who works at McDonald's I mean it makes no difference, women will sleep with the gangster with the tattoos even though there's nothing respectful about it because it's just hot. That bad boy masculine energy is hot and they want to have sex. But I was talking about is red value of respect, well you have to be of a certain status in order to deserve having sex with me or else I can't get turned on. You have to be above me or else I can get turned on. You have to be worthy of leading me. You have to be Alpha male This is an entire value system that is specific to Red women that is called respect and it guides their attraction system. But not all red women are like this, it's just one type of way it could show up

I believe respect is mostly values. To a person who is not thinking in terms of respect, the idea of respect doesn't exist. They're not respecting people or not respecting people. They give everyone equal value as everyone is a unique person. Respect is a way of thinking that is only there for someone who lives in a bubble of giving and taking respect. Having standards is separate from respect. Respecting someone only if they have certain qualities is a game someone is playing. Imagine judging someone and not respecting them if they don't hold some quality. Well, that is a specific value system being expressed within that person's thinking process and emotional system.

I know what you mean, but High orange is essentially where self-development is unlocked. And there's a whole rabbit hole that people will go down and they become addicted to self-development and it's often some of the funnest happiest times to be alive. Maturity is a separate axis from values. A person could be stage red and mature. But because the center of our culture is mostly Orange they'll have a hard time in that environment because they adapted to red values when they should have adapted to be orange as that's the least resistance to culture and Society. So they end up having conflict. But people who are centered orange and healthy have the best lives because they have no conflict with their environment. As everyone else shares the same values as them.

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/18hKYaTqkP/ This guy has not left his bed for 8 years, and is 600 pounds. He has a girlfriend. You can also get a girlfriend, now you know.

Being orange is not unhealthy, it's a value system and developmental stage, there's a healthy way to do it then I unhealthy way And then this ties back to Lifestyle, Orange with a social lifestyle or orange that has a different type of Lifestyle is going to play video games

2000$ bottle of vine lol places. but thats normally more of same developmental life style problem, but not always. Developmentally a lot of what is "club lifestyle" is a Red/early-Orange relationship to nightlife -> status, conquest, sensation, being seen. The healthier version of it the same person has different center of gravity and uses the identical venue differently, or naturally go to a scenes that match where they are.

High class parties, dance events, open mics, cafes, jazz clubs, basically anything that is not the standard loud music club.

It's easy to conflate Lifestyle with unhealthy party hookup culture. What you're describing is majority of people who are sleeping around and go to parties every week. So the majority pattern makes it look like there is no healthy life style or way of life to fit there. The healthy people with this life style are not going to clubs but instead different types of events, and avoid the standard "getting hammered" type of party. But ye to them socializing is them enjoying life, vibe hunters.

This is true, but lets not flattens life style to distraction and copping, people have life styles. Going to a party is not by default distraction and having a rooster of 5 is not by default a distraction. Some are copping, some are not but they all have life style preferences.

A person's lifestyle is the path of least resistance for their identity. Its not like some introvert is just going to try to distract themselves by going to a party, they'll instead play video games or isolate themselves from people more. For some identities the path of least resistance is more isolation. To other types of identities the path of least resistance is socializing.

Do not vent, take action. When you don't feel good, stand up, walk out the door and go do something about it.

Did you put the bare miminum effort? I was in the gym since i was 14, I had the body of an athlete by 17. Are you trying at all? Normally when people are complaining a lot they absorb this complaining mental disease from their parents. Complaining is to the level of a mental disorder, the victim mindset. There is no reason to ever complain, it only appears that way because the mind has been trained to do it. When something doesn't go our way there are many modes of thinking available, complaining is just one.

Alot of poeple have hook up culture brain. The woman that love parting, loud places and are at clubs/bars all have this life style. Its a life style that we dont share so it looks from the outside that they wouldn't be happy, but they are perfectly fine being FWB and they want no strings attached. A man having a rotation of 5 to a woman is considered "high value man" because his status was verified vai social proof by other woman A woman having a rotation of 5 to a man is considered "low value woman" because whos the father? no man wants to raise someone elses baby and they want the woman to be loyal only to him. The sexs have different survival agendas.

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That's good quality content for his niche. My problem is I don't know how to build a brand for the company I'm building and what exact Niche I should Target. I could do whatever everyone else is doing but then I won't stand out. I know how to make 90% of the content out there, and perfectly copy it.

I have a hard time seeing the difference: 1) YouTube slightly longer form content 10 minutes then custom made into shorts 2) the shorts that I make for YouTube I then post to Instagram, tiktok and facebook. 3) twitter ill post content that looks like I'm communicating with an audience and connecting to different people @ symbol them 4) reddit I see no real way to do it, besides generally engaging in a bunch of different types of communities and then occasionally pushing my content to them.

I think there was a bit of a misunderstanding, I'm all for self development, and if you've never had a girlfriend and these things really bother you you have to go and do the work to try to resolve this. I meant it like people who do it in excess and their whole life is just to get more sex, These pickup guys that are in the club every week and they just want to sleep with as many women as possible, the only reason they want a successful business is to get more status to get more sex. Like your whole life purpose is just relationships and sex and everything else is a indirect way to get it

When you're dating someone you don't want them sleeping with someone else,. That is the foundation of monogamy. That's the only reason monogamy exists and it's not a culturally enforced hallucination. It's more primitive generated internally and rooted in biology. Like the effects of a drug addiction and not wanting anyone else to take it from you

Im intersting in learning more on how the ADHD mind works, its so intersting. Lets say you have to do some work on the computer, like edit a photo for a clients, what will happen when you try to get this job done?

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