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Are you doing any self development work?

What social life do you want?

Assumption correct. But Leo must first prove to us that he has regained his Epistemic honor.

Criticism that doesn't serve your achievement is victim mindset / self-limiting. Im basically limiting myself and preventing myself from achieving. Okay so this is all mindset oriented and real criticism of other people can't happen because that doesn't help you achieve your goals in life. So you have a self development frame and everything has to be productive towards it, or else it's self-defeating and limiting and prevents Personal Achievement. Am I getting this right? So if my values are integrity and a higher vision for society, criticizing people who lack those is forbidden because it won't make me rich? and then when I see people who aren't like this like Sophia rain and Trump. It is then a victim mindset criticizing them because that will prevent me from achieving millions of dollars and the lifestyle you are certain I want which is of course traveling and having sex with a bunch of women.

@Schizophonia are you struggling that you're not getting the social life that you want?

Trump corrupted his way to the presidency am I supposed to be jealous of his success? lol I wish I had his status and lifestyle and power and that's why I'm criticizing him?

From your perspective she's being authentic?

naaa were joking, obviously she looks good.

WAT, that hair is only achievable after years of aura maxxing 🔋 She even has to use aura suppressing wrist bands just to contain that power. Have you ever seen a super mutant with out great hair? exactly

All the moderators here are in fact given a kill switch, if we all press it at the same time Leo gets Perma Banned. This is how serious we are about cultish resurections

yoko ono has arrived. Dude that hair is ILLEGAL, no way it passed inspection 😆

I just made this for fun. https://github.com/javalight/AutoFocusMonitor A mac app that auto-focuses the right window when you move your mouse to a different monitor. Its saves 1 extra click switching between monitors Cant live with out it!

That makes sense, I don't know the situation with valach, there's plenty people coming at this from disgust of people because they're not getting their needs met from them. We moved far away from the main conversation which was body count. The main point I made was that hook up culture brain is not compatible with partnership brain and that's one of the major reasons people don't like body count. And that body count represent something specific about the person and why you wouldn't want to date them. "wanting to sleep with women across multiple cities, build a polycule, experience BDSM from abundance" perfectly fine that you want this and it's completely incompatible with the kind of partnership most people need that aren't highly social butterflies that have the exact same desire and lifestyle as you. You can't do normal dating like this, you're going to find someone with the exact same lifestyle as you. So we can see how this whole lifestyle which caused someones high body count, all links back to the fact that body count has some meaning and it's not completely arbitrary lifestyle → high count → meaning → compatibility

No, I'm explaining my lifestyle which doesn't fit with your lifestyle. I did not say your lifestyle is wrong. There's diversity and high consciousness does not make you a leader that could transform every girlfriend you come with the contact with into a mature flower... because that's an idealistic dream that isnt impractical and doesn't actually work in practice Your highest value is you want to be a leader that sleeps with three bisexual women at the same time while maintaining beautiful relationships with them. There's nothing wrong with that, but this is a projection thinking that high consciousness means this Why would your lifestyle and your values represent "high consciousness" Can you understand the projection that you're doing? --- Theres a Completely misunderstanding of why im appointed to this. You literally enjoy it and I do not and I never will. When I speak to people, they all like me and they enjoy speaking to me and I don't. My problem is not to be a lack of a leader or to be antisocial or that I'm upset that I can't make people happy around me so I can't sleep with a bunch of people. I'm explaining that I don't enjoy it because it's all a superficial game to me because that is who I am as a person and you're a completely different person with completely different values that enjoy completely different things.

These are your values, your putting sex above everything else. I have no interest in having sex with as many women as possible. What a waste of time. This whole framing projects one set of values without any realization that it has nothing to do with the life purpose other people want to have. The criticism of other people for not "expressing their masculinity" the way a "real man" is supposed to live, that's just one narrow idea of how to live, presented as if it were universal. It's the same as someone who wants a bunch of nice cars and a nice house and the bling bling lifestyle. There's nothing wrong with that, but it has nothing to do with the life purpose or the lifestyle other people actually want. And it proves my point: body count is about hookup-culture brain and the incompatibility that has with other types of lifestyles and values. I cannot express how little value I get from speaking to people. Talking to people in real life is a profound waste of time because they don't care about what is true and they're repeating a script Society has taught them how to act and role play and they're there to just get vibe. So to be It's like standing there listening to someone say absolutely nothing, and then having to fake that I enjoy what they're saying. That dynamic doesn't register for hookup-culture brain, value comes from other people because there's something to be gotten from them. Getting vibe/fun. Every time I have sex with my girlfriend it's better than the last time, and it was already God-level after the first month. She has no idea how it's possible for it to keep improving nonstop. I feel no interest at all in having sex with random people I have no connection with.

Yes it's possible some of the time. Most people do not change in relationships and they will always default back to their unhealthy state weekly. So it always ends up being a game of repeating the same boundaries over and over again. It never sticks. This is why you have to find mature people to date and be highly selective. It's not good enough to be mature yourself.

Yes, you have to wisdom to not date people. This happens after you've dated enough people to get that wisdom. To be clear we're talking about dating not socializing, And on top of that multiple people which is just chaos multiplied.

YA OK. you're confusing sadguru for high consciousness. High consciousness involves a lot of diversity. Not only will you not purify anyone, they will drag you down to their level. Being exposed to other people's chronic chaos is not healthy no matter how developed a person is. It's like being punched in the face every day and thinking that you're so spiritual and you could take it, and all of that is a spiritual trap. The most loving thing to do is get far away from them. It's because you're in the bubble so you're not realizing, it's exhausting work dealing with more people. More people more problems.

@LordFall the position you're holding is that the liberal pick up culture entanglationships is perfectly hip and cool and we could all do it and Kumbaya. And it doesn't work at practice. The hippies figure that out a long time ago, none of that works, when it does it's rare and you need to be uniquely designed for it. And surgically find people who are also uniquely designed for it. The problem with the points that you made is that you're pointing at the very very small minority of people who can actually pull this off in high consciousness way. First there are very few high consciousness people and even within that group very few of them want to participate in the lifestyle that you're asking for, nor is it necessary or would they want to. High consciousness does not mean you're open to all sexuality and suddenly all your preferences are gone. It is not about development. It doesn't matter how developed you become you're not gonna become less monogamous. If anything you become more monogamous because you're more easily satisfied with one person and you have the wisdom not to play this chaos game of entangling with all these people. Most people are unhealthy and you're entangling yourself with so many people that it makes no sense, it's the opposite of what a high consciousness person ends up doing, most of them choose to be alone. When you become consciousness enough, you choose to be alone, instead of dealing with the chaos of other people. It's the opposite, real bonding is not attachment. It's to maturely at a distance Take responsibility for someone other than yourself. Pick up cultures brain only takes responsibility for themselves, and codependency is to depend on someone else for your happiness. Which is what most people with pick up culture brain are chasing. They can't sit with themselves for 30 seconds they have to constantly get the next high.

I'm not talking about morality, we're not judging anyone. There's body count from the lower perspective were you judge them as disgusting and you have a bunch of emotional problems towards it. And then there's just understanding it from the higher level, which is these people have characteristics that you don't really want to date them. It's about what is practical. Would we want to date someone with BPD, ideally no. Are we judging them, no...

That's just hook up culture. Nothing wrong with it if that's what you enjoy doing. The conversation was about why someone wouldn't want their partner to have hook-up culture brain. And it's because hookup culture brain is not partnership brain.

I agree the approach im going with is years of trial and error until the game is refined. Exactly, Leo was right that it's a massive grind, especially towards the end, where there's endless things that you never considered that have to get done and it's pretty exhausting, and then on top of that you have to do all the marketing and all the social stuff integrated. You're right that people have to just go for it and expect that it's going to be hard. Knowing how to make a game fund is pretty intuitive because we played games our whole lives, but getting it to be fun is pretty hard and a artistic challenge

@Valach It's not only that at the same time a whole life revolves around relationships, all that is cared about is relationships, when one finishes, there is a rush to the next one. It's like there's nothing else going on in life. It's a person that's chasing the next high. At no point is a person alone with themselves to even figure out what is meaningful in life or what should be pursued if there's anything other enjoyable that should be pursued. Every 10 people they meet is entanglement in their chaos. Developed people are selecting their partners carefully and won't allow other people to interfere with their stability and way of life. If someone is just sleeping with everything that moves then they don't value their own time because they don't enjoy it. Not being able to sit still for 30 seconds and having to rush out to go do something to stimulate oneself is a illness

Perfectly it's a great example, how many years did it take to get to that number of partners?