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Yes if we where making mass scale legislation. Right now to understand the true nature of the landscape, its not at all as lope sided as the worst case scenario standard perspective is showing. The majority of these underage relationships are standard relationships and go unreported.

Its goin to be a spectrum, adults with or with out integrity.

All biases. These relationships with 14 year olds doesn't happen because the adult pursued them. In happened organically, naturally is social situations where the attractive male/female youngster shows strong interest and desire. No abuse, your projecting so hard.

That's one dynamic, I cant say what they all look like, a model would be nice here. People are not that different in there development, take away the age issue and these relationships all look the same in the end. Its a assumption that these 14 year old's are stupid and they are being taken advantage of. Even if the power difference is playing a role, who is harmed? Its a standard relationship! The benefits or damage done in the end is the same if they had dated someone there own age or when adults date each other. Everyone wants connection and intimacy especially these horny teens. The predatory mind set is a bias, we are all just people.

So we need to separate what is good legislation for a large scale society and human needs/development. This is the trap, its unclear what the landscape actually looks like. These large age gaps are not predators as we have been conditioned to believe. The majority of these age gap relationships are standard relationships that are generally healthier then if the youngster dated someone his or her own age.

Yes it depends the dynamic of the relationship. In some cases it is beneficial for youngsters to date mature developed people that can provide a quality relationship for growth.

For some its this belief system and permutations of it.

I see your biases and pointing them out, that's all that is happening here. Most people are completely detached from what is happening in the latest generation gen-z and earlier. Especially people in there 30s and 40s don't have a clue how highly sexual free this generation is.

Assumptions. I would evaluate the relationships and if it was actually dangerous id report it (rare). The vast majority of underage relationships are not predatory. Where the underage female pursued the seduced the man.

14 year old girls are having sex with much older men all the time here in canada. Its very common.

One look at this chart and i know its wrong, the legal age of consent in canada is 16 and it was 14 just 10 years ago before the conservative party changed the law.

14 is the legal age of consent in most countries and no one is groomed into it. It’s very common for 14-year-old girls in gen-z and younger to pursue much older men and have a normal relationship with them. If you’re surprised by this you just have no idea what’s going on in our culture right now.

?God your the best

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Its no where near the quality of my imagination lol

Art, movies, music, games... is going to explode with more interested then it ever has. We are HARD limited by the excruciating time and money it takes in getting our ideas from our head out into the world. We need a more direct tool. Big movies have stifled in originality because its not profitable to take risk on anything. AI will lower the time and cost of production. We will have full 2 hour fantastic movies and weekly tv shows produced by a SINGLE person. Indie game development is going to get a lot easier.

This is what is happening, you want her and because of that your unable to behave properly and make intelligence decisions. Its the most common trap, its an altered personality change that happens when you want a girl. If you had any other mind set you might have a chance. Talk to her like she is a guy friend and things will go better then this.

lol thats great, but the situation is its not inductive of the deep connection I'm actually looking for. The connection im talking about is 10000x what is bonding vai honeymoon hormones.

Yes I do everything i can to give my partner the best experience possible. But I want to explore new types of sex that is not all about orgasms.

Yea it's vanilla sex. But when you truly love a partner at least in the moment, you want to give them maximum pleasure. You not only want them to orgasm you want them to orgasm multiple times. Personally I won't be satisfied until I see my partner orgasming to the max and orgasming even more. It makes me crazy happy to see the guy orgasm multiple times. Well I stopped having orgasms a while ago, id rather prolong the intercourse as long as possible with no end, more like a meditation then a race to ecstasy.

Yes (predisposition, socio-economic environment, cultural background, available nutrition, and personal circumstances) = trauma lol Ok lets call it conditioning.

Ive only seen people criticizing does who care, but ive never actually seen "does who care" lol, do they exist?

Is arousal needed for sex? Is arousal needed for conversation? Is arousal needed for love? Is arousal needed for intimacy? Can we have sex with out the desire to maximising pleasure and orgasm? What about a different approach?

Its a marathon before you become a mirror that reflecting there deepest desires back to them. When your highly socially calibrated you don't need a penny in your bank account for them to fall for you hard.

Here is it the mother load of all double standards She wants you to be emotionally available for her but doesn't want to be emotionally available for you or else she losses attraction. ? A Primal hard wired double standard of the feminine-masculine polarity. All of attraction is a double standard. To be in the position of the opposite end of any polarity is to hold double-standards to the opposite side.