integral

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  1. It’s not the number of partners she has, it’s her mindset, what engaging in sex means to her. The stereotype is that if they had a lot of partners sex doesn’t mean much to them it’s just a pleasure seeking activity and they don’t bond deeply. This isn’t the case it completely depends.
  2. Consider that there is no need to agree or disagree. Agreeing and disagreeing is a game and a distraction from actually getting anywhere. True or False isnt happening anywhere. It’s just another perspective some guy is hallucinating.
  3. Incorrect. Who told you this? Ye its incomplete, i was trying to make the point that functions like Te don't hold values. Values and functions are separate. Functions are tools that serve the persons values. This confusion is the root of all MBTI stereotyping.
  4. You cant tell me this whole story isn't hilarious
  5. i know and the best part is i just us Ni-Fi to figure out peoples types, no logic or thinking involved. Naaaa man got to reread what I wrote, It was a critique of the thread "A Summary of CSJoseph's "What is Extraverted Thinking". Then he said something about how CSJoseph's will debate anyone anywhere with just raw street knowledge and it felt like something you would do. lol So i linked you right under the quote.
  6. LOL your going to love this, the book I just read mix's 9 models together (Primary Fantasy, lines of development, spiral dynamics, spiritual, sexual, and anima/animus development, states, personality types, and the perspectives of the four quadrants) into one identifier called The Kosmic Address! Ill create a post on this behemoth soon.
  7. That's a reasonable take. To add to it, NoFap is recommended for people with various digestive issues, there was a thread a while ago that was pretty good on a guy who i think had a autoimmune issue and masturbation triggered it, he ended up curing the issue some how and he can finally start masturbating again (thank god) Personality if i masturbate I'm weaker at the gym, i need to eat something to replenish before going.
  8. Didnt say he was a Te user check bellow. @thisintegrated Standard ENTP behavior, reminds me of someone. But ye im pretty sure hes ENTP just at blue/orange. LMAOOO is it really that bad? ? you might have an allergy to models, im sure you'll tell me why it cant be cured.
  9. The most loving thing that you can do in this situation is to give love to yourself. Become addicted to growth, go to the gym, eat healthy, clean up, read books, watch self-help, progress in your job/career, socialize with healthy people, feel the joy of being alive, become in love with life. Everything that your looking for is down this path, everything that you want will come to you while you venture down this path.
  10. This is Te embodied by orange. If we intersected the two models there is Te and how it looks from every spiral stage. Te at green no longer values credentials for example. A lot of this sounds like the stereotype for a ISTJ. The green+ INTJ couldn’t be less impressed my a PDH. He is conflating peoples values with functions creating stereotypes of each mbti type as part of his internal model. @thisintegrated Standard ENTP behavior, reminds me of someone.
  11. Take 100% responsibility for your life. https://youtu.be/GfF7EpHXyDY
  12. I think there’s too much risk involved with this specific experiment.
  13. Got to be better at filtering men out based on there dating profile. If they are not at stage green don’t waste any time dating them. Look for the word spiritual but not religious in the profile and other indications of emotional intelligence that you can infer based on their hobbies and lifestyle. It’s very dangerous for you to date people below green on the dating app because they will very likely push for sex on the first date and you will cave in and not know how to say no to him. Resulting in sex with someone you don’t want to have sex with and trauma. in general you’re only compatible with people who have very high emotional intelligence and a willingness to understand mental health problems. Without that willingness it will only be fighting and arguing and them trying to change you through judgement. Please be very careful on first date in real life, be ready to punch someone in the face. It’s extremely common for a guy to aggressively make a move on these dating apps on first dates and most shy girls who can’t say no properly just go with it not expecting it to escalate.
  14. Train yourself to look for the funny in any situation. Replace the habit with a better one.
  15. @Ulax The game of effective communication. This statement gives people the opportunity to easily transition into there higher self, creating the right circumstances for growth and to get the kind of conversations we all want to be having.
  16. LMAOOO Im not able to talk normally to people when it comes to self-analysis anymore in real life as well. All my struggles are hilarious so i cant relate to people properly. Its become a bit of a problem where i burst out laughing when people talk about there problems and comment on it thinking they would find there struggle as funny as i do! Genuinely im not trying to be insensitive or judgmental, I thought the guy was orange with 3k posts, thats about it, so I wanted to talk about it and all the implications of that. The comment he made on Tate I even partially agreed with lol. People call me green all the time its hilarious. Your good at this game. Ye after going into his profile and reading his comments hes not orange lol. But why was my comment interpreted as a standard insensitive attack? The instinct is to talk openly about each other and laugh, we are all so ridiculous and great!
  17. @Ulax @Carl-Richard Makes sense, I was over focusing on one of the posts he made. All good.
  18. Was using it to communicate something. I assessed him based on the comments he leaves everywhere, isnt that the way to go? Im not using a specific model.
  19. Yes but the forum is centered higher. The average topic is green+ depending on the sub-forum. So to spend years here and to watch a lot of leos content, it automatically push's people up. 1000 posts = 1 year lets say, so 3 years on the forum I expect people to start to drop low orange concepts. Basically, lets go, apply your selfs! Low orange concepts = your not applying yourself at all.
  20. Its because I mean it and am saying its casually and in a friendly way. Admittedly I'm very detached from peoples inability to talk about themselves in the lens of there own self-analysis. What I'm communicating is not judgment to him, but to sub-communicate that takes a lot of writing work that I didnt feel like doing. Not sure, but it means they have been exposed to higher more complex ideas for years. At the least they should be outputting some green concepts, orange is very low for someone who has been here for so long, it means they are spending there time debating/arguing there points of view with a overconfidence in there own capacities instead of contemplating and learning while on the forum. And I've waisted plenty of time doing just that !
  21. @StarStruck Not demonizing nor am i attacking you in any way, just pointing out that your centered orange and been around a long time on a self-development forum. Its rare?
  22. @StarStruck Ur a odd guy lol, if you have nearly 3k posts, you've been around for years now so why are you still centered at orange?