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it's that you're not good at making them feel like you have a deep connection. Pay close attention to how they are experiencing you and gameFly that. Not just with dating but with all human interactions, get deep, cut the route of things, small talk is a filler or a platform to then pick and probe deeper. Make everyone feel special, make them feel like you understand them and you want to understand them, make them feel like they can talk to you about anything. This is a lot easier done when your survival conditions as a child forced you to adapt to your parents emotional needs and you became responsible and highly sensitive to how your parents experienced you because not doing so meant a negative outcome. Do and say things in a way to tailor's to that person's needs. To have this childhood would give you all the tools you need to connect with someone extremely fast. They call these people empaths, all it is is a childhood survival adaptation that made the person hyper sensitive to other people's perspective. Speak to people like they are your long lost best friend, it shouldn't be too serious but there should always be intimacy in the conversation.
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The writing for demon slayer is one big cliché repetitive copy paste zero originality and highly predictable. it can't be any more underwhelming. Boruto is a bit better but the artwork is worse than demon slayers but because the scenes in Boruto have emotional value have interest have memorability it makes the art work commect stronger to the viewer and this far outweighs demon slayers better art. The beauty in art is completely subjective and constructed. Berserk the original anime the artwork wasn't that great from the lens of someone who didn't watch it But if you did watch it you would realize it's a masterpiece and you fall in love with art. Walking into a bar doing pick up how important is your looks? How fast does a woman become attracted to you when you're a master at game? suddenly the perspective she had of you when she first saw you and then after she started talking to you is night and day. Maybe at first you were a meh And after you became the most attractive guy in the building.
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Leo has provided an enormous amount of value with his videos. If you believe what he says without verifying it for yourself then you're more likely going to assess him as a cult leader. The further you are from his level of development the more uncertainty there is and the more cultish he appears.
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Lmao well i think abstinence for a 4 days and more down regulates does sex neurons. At least that's how it works for me, its routine based. If i dont do it for a while ill stop thinking about it.
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No need to convince me any further CARL i already both a big bag of kiwis. If that works for you great, i really cant figure anything out with data profiles, ill just eat a thing and see how i feel. The buckthorn berries caused sleep disturbances when i ate them to close to bed time and during the day it acts like a stimulant, something the bell peppers don't do. If i where to look at nutrition profiles it gives me no indication why this is happening. Maybe its does various special compounds at work, that's completely ignored by nutrition profiles?
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@Carl-Richard not bad i'm gonna give it a try if we compare one cup of bell peppers has 200 mg of vitamin C and one cup of kiwis has 166 mg of vitamin C, but the bell peppers have a fraction of the sugar.
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@Phil King Its unclear of how each of these work in the body. Im more inclined to focus on things that add nutrients to the body. Zinc makes sense. Maca overstimulates me i feel like im on coffee.
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Found Buckthorn Berries very high in vitamin C, i started an experiment in eating only foods that have high Vitamin C content and i feel amazing, energy and mental focus have never been higher.
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integral replied to Preety_India's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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You stay in contact with her casually, wait for them to break up then make a move when she's ready.
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Lasting. Guiding her into the correct mindset or role-play that stimulates her best, for example my girl wants it to be made very clear that I own her and her pussy, she belongs to me and is my personal toy to be used and enjoyed, she also wants to be praised on her features, to ask for permission before cumming and to thank me for fucking her on every stroke. The only reason I do any of this is because we communicated her fantasies and I learned everything I could about what she wanted in bed, none of this came from my mind or desire.
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Why are you settling? Do you have a scarcity mindset? Maybe shes the only one to come along in a while, its understandable, ideally date around and move on when you find a better match, if thats a struggle area for you and your taking wtv naturally comes your way, then i can see why your asking if it can work out. But if you can find a event with alot of green woman, green is SOOOOOOOOOO easy, its effortless, so there is no need to settle.
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How do you expect to see anything clearly when your so emotionally biased to one side.
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The only case where giving them space doesn't work is when she's a serial dater and will jump on the next guy instantly.
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The most obvious benefit is it will improve your sex life. after about a week of nothing, having sex will feel like you're a virgin again. connection with partner will be better.
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https://lbry.com/
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I consider women that go to clubs and bars regularly not compatible with me for long-term dating. So these places are the last places I would ever look to meet someone.
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Accumulate $50 per day passive income in staking Ethereum,
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I have, good stuff, but what i want is your own personal experiences not theory.
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@Yali Interesting, I wonder if Intertype Relations applies differently to jumpers? I'm currently with a INFP romantically and its by far the best parring I've been with. INTJ (Ni-Fi), INFP (Fi-Ne). Doe my Te is definitely a problem point lol. What experiences do you have with compatibility with friends or romantic? What worked and what didn't?
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Bonus points if she sais it with out you needing to ask. Bonus points if she confesses to wanting to have your babies right after.
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Sexy im going to binge this.
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They skew on the more social, people focused side of the spectrum = higher reproduction odds. What I've observed doe is they generally don't like children but have them anyways do to there significant other wanting them and a sense that "they know they should have them" (cultural programming). Not liking children seems to be related to there inferiors Ti function, being themselves struggling with there inner child. Constantly people pleasing and carefully navigating conversations while suppressing what they want leads to children interaction frustration because they don't need to hold back anymore.
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Well my brother is more mature so that's the reason they get along, they do not have the same values actually and I don't think there is a 1 to 1 correlation between MBTI and values. Values is a separate axis, spiral dynamics covers that better. They are both orange but different flavors. I do get what your pointing to, a kind of baked in values each type has based on brain structure, We need more models lol.
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lol was pointing to "Study shows they are one of the rarest type". They are the most abundant in my circle. Also seeing as they have a very high chance of reproduction I'm not seeing why they would be rare. I dated one for 5 years, we where not compatible from day one, it endured because I restricted talking points and adapted to her needs, its sound like it would be a unpleasant struggle to do this but I've learned to do this to survive my house hold since I was a very young child so its automatic. Father and brother are ENFJ and not healthy ones so I've had good practice. lol Even natural incompatibilities can be enjoyable, by going with the flow and accepting people where they are at in life, the focus is making something from it, instead of fighting it.