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Yes, granny or alien action, its a state of mind. If there where more high intelligence species on this planet, we would be having sex/relationships with them. Some strongly disabled people want sex/relationships, if im the only opportunity they have for it, i cant allow them to go their entire life with out does experiences, so ill happily mold.

hahaha i know, its dangerous, she might just nit me a sweater. Interesting interpretation, there is the aspect of wanting her to be happy, but to do this it involved molding myself into desiring her, takes a few seconds to do it. Now im permanently attracted to her and fantasizing about it. If i choose i could reverse this molding anytime. The only condition is that its morally correct with me or else i cant mold. Like consent. Well i dont desire relationships, they just happen automatically. Again it really could of been an alien creature, with alien cultural relationship rituals, i would just mold and be fully content with all of it. Sort of the lesson here is, we are a blank slate that got stuck on a specif way of doing attraction/relationships by culture. All emotions, desires,attachment,expectations are fully moldable to any configuration.

Ya know the other day, while repairing a computer for a 72 year old grandma, she started flirting with me (Im 32, young). My thought process was, well i dont want to deny her what she wants, seems unfair, everyone needs sex... She could of been a 11 foot, 6 testicals, slime dripping alien and it would of made no difference. Its going to get the job done. If she wanted a strange alien long term relationship of what ever sort, no problem, makes no difference, just go with the flow.

@Dunnel Making some very good points, in my case i needed insight not love. i acknowledge that i should of communicated this gentler, i just know what hes capable of if hes given a inch of room to wiggle, he will find a way to escape. Didn't think of this, i hope that isn't how he experienced it. @Blackhawk Sorry i tried to approach this in a way that was probably a mistake. I honestly dont think your dumb. Was really trying to force you to see your thinking mind for what it really is. But as you said nothing anyone says will change your mind... “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” Albert Einstein

@Dunnel Maybe i took this to literally. I read his past posts to get an idea of his issues before commenting. Its surprising but hes a rational type that thinks hes always smarter then the comment hes reading. Everything people write is wrong sais his "rational" thinking mind. Stuck in a endless self defeating rational loop. He needs to recognize that his thinking process just drove him into a pit. Therefor proof his thinking mind is not worth listening to. “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” Albert Einstein Communication does not work with him, hes to clever, he can run circle around any topic. Hes using the same thinking that got him into this mess, it wont work, it needs to be thrown out the window and relearned from scratch. Ive been to the end of suicide/dispair and back, bed ridden for years, the only thing that got me out of it was a paradigm shift. Im betting its the same for him.

@Husseinisdoingfine What where not seeing is all the in fighting. 8:10

@Dunnel Hes a hyper rational, thinker, intellectual type, XNTX like me, not a feeler. It was designed to shake his confidence in his abilities to think and know (root of the problem). Definitely not appropriate for all situations. Its possible love affirming comments is all he needs to get unstuck, if that is the case i apologize.

WTF would you know about reality? First step is to acknowledge that your dumb and that you know nothing. You just drove your mind in to a tree, stood on the wreckage and started boasting about your driving skills.

This is standard self defeating Nihilism. Wtv people say you have a concise explanation for why its wrong and your screwed. Going to explain things exactly as it is because your not capable of change. Your dumb, you know nothing and you dont know that you know nothing. Your emotional intelligence is so poor that you cant tell that your logical mind is completely manipulated and controlled by your emotions. You believe wtv the world has told you, took it to its logical conclusion and think yourself to have it all figured out. Every thought that youve ever had is shallow and does nothing for you, but you still believe all of it with confidence. After reading this, the mind will instantly intuit a bullshit answer that keeps you running in circles. Cant wait to hear it. Ive seen this pattern enough times to know you want attention and to use this forum to feed your self defeating behaviour. Its ok, youll get what your looking for, everyone will come to "help" you, unknowingly feeding the fire.

Why doesnt this belief set you free? Doesnt that mean there are no problems? Isnt that a good thing? Your free to live now for fun, with out obligations of any kind. Why is that a problem? Perfect, so no need for suffering. Dead things dont suffer. I thought you where already dead? Your not seeing the obvious. There is nothing for you to loss or gain or do, so just live for fun. Nihilism is showing you that its all meaningless. What a relief right? Imagine this had meaning? That would be terrible.

People need absolute independence, then they wont need anything from a relationship. No expectations = Effortless Relationships There is no such thing as a relationship, its all contractual rules indoctrinated into everyone by culture. Reinvent relationships,

@zeroISinfinity idk, athletic muscular women are sex machines. Think vaginal muscle flexing.

@Preety_India Impressive network of values, knowing exactly what you want, built through experience. This is a strength and weakness. A green man is going to do all of does things and more, its a stereo type that green men have feminine energy, this is not the case, especially the ENFJ, they walk with confidence. Try new things, it could be your falling in the trap of picking the same guy over and over. The picking process is flawed. That network of values is built through experience, need to explore out side of the usual men your attracted to. They have been proven wrong for you in the past.

but these are orange male tactics, you want nothing to do with orange men. The ideal match for the Green INFP is the Green ENFJ. Their easy to spot, look for tall, long hair and a ponytail lol (joke) Makes sense, did this with all my relationships, but its playful of course, just the fun of the hunt.

hmm this can easily play out the wrong way, where the girl is turned off by his eagerness. A girl craving the man is the best scenario, that means he played his cards right. But again over eagerness can come off as immature... Normally its mutual, both sides be showing that craving/flirting

Ya know, its ok not to desire a relationship.

@seeking_brilliance Are you getting a tingling feeling in hands and feet or breathing problems?

Ashwagandha impairs sleep quality, avoid.

This is the wrong dosage, to much gaba is as bad as not enough, want to take between 100-250 mg, maximum 250mg. One of does 750mg pills is overdose and will make you feel worse.

It will scale if its designed like a virus. Each village is going to be connected by a decentralized economy and governance system making it a decentralized country where each city/village is spread across the world and new villages can be built anywhere anytime. Its the equivalent of bitcoins rise but for villages. When the village becomes fully autonomous, buying a home (cheaply) also means buying a life time supply of food,internet,electricity... freeing people from wage slavery, this is a strong incentive, supply and demand. It can grow faster then expected. As a last resort, their INTJ not INTP, they want to get things done.

He sleeps right there next to that traffic?

@Moksha Is it possible to elaborate on that in detail? Map it all out?

Maybe a different type of solo.

@electroBeam What if we bring everything to the foreground and recontextualize desire as just another thing arising in our peripherals? Maybe we call this a state. Then theres no one desiring, theres just arising.