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I think there’s too much risk involved with this specific experiment.

Got to be better at filtering men out based on there dating profile. If they are not at stage green don’t waste any time dating them. Look for the word spiritual but not religious in the profile and other indications of emotional intelligence that you can infer based on their hobbies and lifestyle. It’s very dangerous for you to date people below green on the dating app because they will very likely push for sex on the first date and you will cave in and not know how to say no to him. Resulting in sex with someone you don’t want to have sex with and trauma. in general you’re only compatible with people who have very high emotional intelligence and a willingness to understand mental health problems. Without that willingness it will only be fighting and arguing and them trying to change you through judgement. Please be very careful on first date in real life, be ready to punch someone in the face. It’s extremely common for a guy to aggressively make a move on these dating apps on first dates and most shy girls who can’t say no properly just go with it not expecting it to escalate.

Train yourself to look for the funny in any situation. Replace the habit with a better one.

@Ulax The game of effective communication. This statement gives people the opportunity to easily transition into there higher self, creating the right circumstances for growth and to get the kind of conversations we all want to be having.

LMAOOO Im not able to talk normally to people when it comes to self-analysis anymore in real life as well. All my struggles are hilarious so i cant relate to people properly. Its become a bit of a problem where i burst out laughing when people talk about there problems and comment on it thinking they would find there struggle as funny as i do! Genuinely im not trying to be insensitive or judgmental, I thought the guy was orange with 3k posts, thats about it, so I wanted to talk about it and all the implications of that. The comment he made on Tate I even partially agreed with lol. People call me green all the time its hilarious. Your good at this game. Ye after going into his profile and reading his comments hes not orange lol. But why was my comment interpreted as a standard insensitive attack? The instinct is to talk openly about each other and laugh, we are all so ridiculous and great!

@Ulax @Carl-Richard Makes sense, I was over focusing on one of the posts he made. All good.

Was using it to communicate something. I assessed him based on the comments he leaves everywhere, isnt that the way to go? Im not using a specific model.

Yes but the forum is centered higher. The average topic is green+ depending on the sub-forum. So to spend years here and to watch a lot of leos content, it automatically push's people up. 1000 posts = 1 year lets say, so 3 years on the forum I expect people to start to drop low orange concepts. Basically, lets go, apply your selfs! Low orange concepts = your not applying yourself at all.

Its because I mean it and am saying its casually and in a friendly way. Admittedly I'm very detached from peoples inability to talk about themselves in the lens of there own self-analysis. What I'm communicating is not judgment to him, but to sub-communicate that takes a lot of writing work that I didnt feel like doing. Not sure, but it means they have been exposed to higher more complex ideas for years. At the least they should be outputting some green concepts, orange is very low for someone who has been here for so long, it means they are spending there time debating/arguing there points of view with a overconfidence in there own capacities instead of contemplating and learning while on the forum. And I've waisted plenty of time doing just that !

@StarStruck Not demonizing nor am i attacking you in any way, just pointing out that your centered orange and been around a long time on a self-development forum. Its rare?

@StarStruck Ur a odd guy lol, if you have nearly 3k posts, you've been around for years now so why are you still centered at orange?

Committed and miserable?

It depends on how healthy your absorption is for food and if you can afford losing the nutrients from ejaculation. If the body can’t quickly replenish the nutrients or if the nutrients are in short supply ejaculation depletes the energy levels of the body in many ways. Lower wound healing, skin issues, hair growth issues, nail growth issues, mental health issues, muscle fatigue, poor sleep quality and regeneration…

High quality women aren’t at clubs.

What is the rule? Lol There is no point dating someone who isn’t interested in a partnership.

How do people get stuck in these kind of relationships?! This will definitely trigger some people, so avoid if you are sensitive. Amouranth is a famous streamer that makes over a million a month and shes stuck in a marriage with a low quality man!

The most important step is not here, mindset! Enjoy yourself! Notice the silence and that there is nothing happening anywhere. Let all resistance GO, let go of control! Insanity is the being stuck in the illusion that you are in control of anything. Once you let go of control you get the control you always wanted.

Odd I get no pleasure from the chase, its always effortless and easy. If a girl agrees to go on a date its already done, she's mine the moment I show her who I am. I get pleasure from spending time with them, the social and physical intimacy and the activities we do together.

Its intersting it makes sense that some personality types like INTP stereotypically have smaller and weaker bodies then types like ESTP and ISTP.

Visualizing sex give us an erection. Visualizing a negative experience raises stress hormone. Visualizing an exciting activity can release adrenaline. Visualizing a chess game can rewire the brain for growth. Psychedelic or Kundalini Awakenings can burn the skin of the fingertips. So can visualizing exercise stimulate muscle growth? What can the mind really do to the body?

I dont know lol it might be.

Nice!

I also thought about this for a while and maybe we need to reinvent communication entirely. The issue is everyone has different terms of engagement. We need to set the terms for engagement and then communicate from that framework. So having a meta conversation about the style of communication you guys want to have. Another option is to completely reinvent what a conversation is. why are we texting back-and-forth is this really the most productive method? Random ideas I put in some thread.