integral

: "I Am God" -Leo Gura Yeeeeeee get it? lol

Metaphor

hahah, oldest trick in the book. Learn from the millions of people who have walked this path before you, every mistake and trap has been made millions of times, learn from them, learn from other people mistakes so you dont have to. Doing research on the domain space, competition and stealing ideas is the first chapter of any entrepreneurship book. Google startup mistakes to avoid.

@At awe No this is one slice. A view on how some unhealthy INTPs can get stuck.

The topic is to explore free will openly with out bias? Then why filter anything through your method of sense making? Wouldn't it be more productive to explore the ideas with out the bagage of your sense making or your paradigm? Or just explore other paradigms, Experience what is communicated in a sense? See it from their perspective completely as is.

I was in a similar situation for 8 years in my youth, at some point i had enough and cut them out, it created distance and room to breath. After a while the distance allowed the situation to be seen with better clarity and it revealed the real hidden issues. It wasn't that they where toxic, its that i allowed room for them to be toxic. Right now cutting them out might be the best thing to do in the short term, but next comes healing and finding a solution that fixes the underlining problems. We want to really understand what caused all this so to not repeat it in other forms. At some point down the road, the experience of toxic people is replaced with a experience of understanding and compassion. This is possible only when a stable inner peace is cultivated.

I tried an aggressive strategy in the other thread to try snap him out of it, didnt work. In MBTI terms a one track mind problem comes up alot with self over tribe imbalance, single deciders. They have one lens to reason with (Ti), no value is given to what the tribe communicates and truth is top priority. (INTP) If the "wrong" turn is taken, they go down a path, reach a dead end and nothing can get them out of it. Double deciders can choose between more then one method of sense making, so they never get stuck. People that value the tribe, can value the sense making of others as much as their own, so they never get stuck.

The yellow blue appeal?

Yes.

No one understand how you feel or what you want unless its communicated.

@Preety_India Hypocrite, you just made a thread about a friend ghosting you and it broke your heart, now you telling people its ok? ... @Lyubov I would copy past what you wrote here, send it to them, have a 100% honest open conversation with them about it, then if nothing changes, say the good byes. Move on. Its better to avoid the same behaviour that got you into this mess in the first place. Start with honest communication about how you feel, make it a top value. No longer engage in games of miscommunication/misunderstandings.

"Quantum realities have a categorical indeterminism built into them". Sais a paradigm.

Its about the associations your making between Free will, meaninglessness and pessimism. No free will does not imply meaningless. Meaningless does not imply pessimism. Free will or not? Is a question, why does the answer to a question change anything? Have no idea the answer to these question, just trying to point to some things that could of been overlooked.

@1liamo78 My world: No free will -> Optimism/neutral Your world: No free will -> Pessimism.

Maybe the question is not so much about free will but about pessimism? Free will or not why is this bad or good? No free will points to -> meaninglessness points to -> pessimism Multiple steps where taken, jumping. Each jump a mystery to unravel.

Do you work at a animal shelter?

Looks like the next generation is about to surpass us. Does tiktok gains are over powered. These kids are hitting green by the age of 12. The tiktokification of actualization.

The trick i use to last forever and to cum on demand at the same time with my partner is to relax the body, be present and to not think about a sex fantasy. If im about to cum, il turn off my sex brain. Its basically a recontextualization. I was experiencing from a context that built up ejaculation pressure, then switched it to a neutral context. The real trick is that you should always be in the neutral context. Im sure there is a more advanced spiritual method with unification... Not sure how to go about training or unlocking it.

Frame everything in the 3rd person. While pointing to self ask: 1) Why does she feel bad about the break up? 2) What will she do now? 3) How will this change her life? 4) ... Its an exercise that separates the character from the observer. Can also try pointing to your self as a it. 1) Why does it feel bad about the break up? This is meta-ego training. Ya know its working when there is a experience that nothing is happening to you. A realization. Its happening to that other person over there.

I woudnt call Veganism a holistic ideology, but it could definitely be a part of a holistic solution.

At this point authenticity longer has meaning, it only had meaning from the paradigm that contained it. Authenticity is transcended. Is the only way to truly be authentic to transcend it?

Example of navigating the chaos.

Its about learning how to navigate the chaos more then it is linear thinking. There are many plateaus on the road to mastery, each requires a kind of differentiation and integration to overcome. But it seems it has very little to do with vertical growth unfortunately. The top players are solid orange or maybe its just the only stage that gets to the top, winning and losing is a top value. https://christopherming.com/notes/the-art-of-learning-josh-waitzkin/ If anyones interested in mixing chess with spirituality, Josh Waitzkin is the way to go. Not super advanced, but its a good way to learn the art of learning through chess.

Master level, stopped progressing because to improve required memorizing games and openings. Didn't see any benefits in doing that, so changed hobbies into software. Would love to go back to the game and see if i could incorporate god mind intuition as discribed by @Carl-Richard.

Isnt kombucha very high in sugar?