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@evgn That does not sound like good friends. Do you have any childhood trauma?

Are you smoking weed?

After they honey moon phase ends the primary fantasy (looks, money, social status) is no longer important and what matters is the secondary fantasy. Primary Fantasy: Men are conditioned to be physically attracted to young (or at least, younger), vital, and healthy-looking females with smooth skin, shiny hair, well aligned complete white teeth, symmetric facial and body features, wide hips, small waists (ideally with an 0.7 hip-to-waist ratio),65 sparkling eyes, and full breasts, which are all indicators for fertility and the ability to bear healthy children.66 Secondary Fantasy: Shared values, interests, lifestyle choices, temperaments, plans and dreams for the future, and compatible needs around time spent together, money, and sex. Did you guys have good compatibility as friends?

Hold phone up high to mouth level and say "Siri what's a good x-mas present for a girlfriend?", do this in front of her. She will talk to you. Ask her for tips, include her in the quest.

@Hardkill Sorry for the negative feed back, its true we made to many assumptions. I really think its easier in school from my experience. Your in a situation where your put together in the same room to chat for months, cant get easier then that. Are you sure your coming off as a guy girls love to talk to and connect with?

Then your self assessment is off and your not resonating with the person your talking to as well as you think. Or the girls your dating are not at your level and emotionally not available for relationships.

If the woman is not addicted to you and see you as a star before getting into the bed room you did it all wrong. They didnt contact you because you showed them 0 value and created no connection, basically they felt 0 love from you.

@Hardkill Are you funny, easy to talk to about any subject, do you make woman feel comfortable and able to express them selves with you, do you smile and radiate positive energy that makes every around you feel good, do people often tell you "we have a connection", can people genuinely trust you or are you so focused on getting things your way that you cant do any of the above, easily offended by anything, not understanding and superficial and picky about details? Do you love people how they are and see them as PEOPLE or are you focused entirely on how they can benefit you and there bust to hip ratio?

Can it be Plugged?

I recently started experimenting with LSD, took 50 mcg. The trip itself was good but im not going to get into that now just the mistakes I made and complications. So at some point half way in the trip i decided to eat something and experience major armpit sweat and smell (stress smell), shortly after i had very bad stomach pain in many points in the digestive track. The LSD seams to have halted my digestion. Has anyone else had experienced digestive issues while on psychedelics?

??Ahhh so sober is really No-Fap is disguise.

What do girls want?

Because its fun.

Vitamin D is a highly underrated mood enhancer.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/315501 Interesting so basically it gets locked into the receptor and cant get out. Maybe for some it gets locked in permanently causing long term effects like LSD triggered schizophrenia. It is known that if you take way to much LSD it will nearly always result in permanent changes to the brain, maybe its because some get locked in and never get out or new connections between brain regions are made.

Cuts off the head of the male while mating because it keeps his erection up longer... ??? It sacrifices its body for nutrients for the offspring. #fathers true love

hahaha ok interesting point.

? ventromedial prefrontal cortex "Research has shown that the vmPFC plays a role in the processing of emotions, particularly negative emotions such as fear and anxiety. Damage to this area of the brain can lead to changes in emotional processing and behavior." Simply put big dick energy is brain damage, the good kind. ?

Bruh Shhhh stay calm carrlllll its gong to be ok *hugs*, MBTI is a serious mental health condition that effects millions around the world.

lol... you wouldn't even last 10 seconds... you could be a world class fighter, even 2 vs 1 is a massive disadvantage, if they have weapons your a fool to fight.

That's a good point, one of the hardest parts is your alone with no one to really talk to and with no idea what to do. We need better education on this so people know what to do in these situations. Basically you need evidence and you need to go bring it to the police, then get professional help for trauma.

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@Tyler Robinson ?

Its relative to the situation. 1 vs 1 no weapons: Because of my physical strength there is virtually no way i would be raped if i defend myself. 1 vs 1 with knife: If there is an opportunity to run, in every situation the choice is to run, or else you will very likely die if you resist in any way. Its only in peoples foolish fantasies that they defeat a man with a knife. 1 vs 2: If you cant run and both men are as strong as you, its over you are getting raped. If your in prison and no where to go and its more then one person against you, its over, your getting raped, the best thing to do is not resist so you don't get seriously injured. In all these situations of course your going to use verbal tactics and communicate with them so to get out of the situation. What exactly to say is difficult to know, you want to make friends with him and show him your on his level and understand him and support him. Now if your female its unlikely anything will work. A) if its a fair fight then fight, if its not then run or give up and avoid injury. B) Always run if possible. C) Give up and tolerate if your out numbered or at a complete disadvantage to avoid injury. Make sure to carefully save the semen for evidence, with out evidence you have no case. D) Obviously always go to the police after with evidence. E) Always talk to him and what you want to do is flip the situation on its head and talk about things he doesn't expect. He likely wants a victim and gets off on it. But if your purely casual and just talking like best friends it can kill the mood. Its situation depended, got to gauge the situation to figure out what he needs to here. F) If your in a situation where people can help you scream for help, like in a house always scream for help, the reason is he is on high alert and doesn't want to get caught so the moment you scream he will run. The problem is the freeze response. If your a woman in 99% of situation a rapist is not a random attacker, hes someone you know who climbed into your bed at night and is trying to get physical with you. ALWAYS SCREAM, in this situation, that signals to the guy you dont want sex, other wise he doesn't know and it puts him in fear of getting caught. What most women do doe is freeze and remain silent called the freeze response and say no a few time then give up. Its not there fault its biology and programming but this unfortunately is a irrational response in most situations because your attacker is not violent, hes just a stupid horny guy. If he doesnt take no for an answer hit him as hard as possible. Only if he is violent with you should you give up and do nothing to avoid physical harm, go to steps C and D. Again always scream for help in a house with people, he will run. All women in my opinion should have pepper spray or fart gas spray with them at all times. This 100% prevents rape. In any case you dont even need to aim, just spray anywhere and the rape ends on the spot. if you spary pepper stray in a house the entire house needs to evacuate, its insanely strong. One breath of pepper spray you stop breathing and convulse in pain. Fart gas is amazing because if you smell like shit no one wants to touch you let alone rape you. In fact spray fart gas on you to prevent all conflict. A rape alarm is also effective, its so loud it hurts and the most important part it scares the rapist away because they think people are coming to help. Bluffing is very effective with these situations because they are on high alert from the start that they will get caught. If your scared at night sleep with it under your pillow, like at a party with friends with guys you know or don't know, have it under your pillow.