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@Cocolove fruit? If I was eating fruit as my primary energy source I would not be alive today.

I think exercise can help.

Razards style is within the guidelines and there will always be people who have issue with a given style, its doesn't make sense to conform all the time to please the masses, the ones who resonate will come and the others will demonize. Its true he can learn the skill of spiral wizardry and effective communication, why not, but is Ralston pulling punch's? People have a responsibility to communicate effectively as much as people have responsibility to interpret communication styles. Its reasonable the things your talking about, but the core here is that you want the world to change for you and are not able to right now change for the world, there is no difference between wanting respect and giving yourself respect, people are responsible for there communication style and you are responsible for learning and experiencing regardless of communication style. People will speak, dogs will bark, trees will clatters in the wind, the body will fart, its up to you to learn from these communication styles and not demand a dog respect you. Again... its equal responsibility, he can adapt to your needs or you can adapt to his. All the points you made are to explain why he should adapt to you and its reasonable but the parts of it explaining how your experiencing it (not respected, jerk, condescending...) is a reflection of your interpretation (bais) and not a universe thing. The main point your making is you want him to change because you think hes highly disrespectful and i empathize with your experience, but disagree with the overall big picture here for the forum and his communication style in it. His love is to communicate the way he does thats why he takes the time to write such long responses.

Take a psychedelic or any preferred drug and a normally negative interpreted experience will be interpreted positive.. Personality and experience are about state, change state change reality. in our natural life state tends to be on roulette because of biology (digestion stress, physical inactivity, social stress, sleep deprivation...). Hormones are powerful natural drugs that strongly effect our every interpretation and its wise to learn why/how/when there produced. Being mindful of what effects interpretation we find its deeply interconnected with everything and not simply a matter of concentrating more, doe by asking high quality questions we can become skilled at exploring interpretations, its a instrument that requires practice. I was thinking of ways of making a board game where the puzzles are about exploring interpretations to find a solution but its tricky to come up with the gameplay. Life is this game, but if interpretation is a instrument it would make sense to study and practice it.

Eat eggs. Both whey and marine have heavy metals as well as cause inflammation.

Yes but more importantly i can tell your growing. ??? you’ll be all grown up soon.

Okiiii ☺️ INFJs are pretty much always addicted to learning MBTI it’s a strong drug.

People that have taken the time and spent thousands of hours learning mbti are telling you your a INFP. If your not going to take the time to properly learn it why would you be able to self-type as INFJ. What your doing when self-typing is confirmation bias.

@Tyler Robinson Take the time to learn MBTI. Read books.

What health issues do you have? What symptoms?

I didn't make a comparison that one person is ahead of another. The analogy is more like there is a carnival ride and the guy is selling tickets, so get on for a ride and have fun. How we engage with someone is a choice, most people are stuck in one way of communicating, me vs them approach. When talking to a child will you "never back down" its a bit ridiculous in that context but with a adult why do we make is so serious personal and uncompromising about our engagement style? Someone suggested Razard should meet people where they are at, but that also means you can meet him where he is at (not saying one is higher or lower), where someone is at is a style of thinking they are playing, anyone can do it. Would you serious debate a 7 year old in heated conversation about the meaning of words or that they are conflating the absolute and the relative? No you would adapt to the situation and be fluid. We want Razard to adapt his style but we are unwilling to adapt to him, why? Whats the difference? Why need(force) people to play one type of game?

Thanks this is what i was missing. Thinking about it as practice prevents intimacy.

3d screens reduce overall stress and eye strain making for a much more natural experience, we have depth perception and its a intuitive part of our biology, 2d never made sense.

I assume this conflict is caused my the inability to understand the others perspective? Or is it that they both understand each other perfectly and simply don’t like what they see? Lol

@Thought Art his focus is on deconstructing the ego and he communicates it directly to the point with out sugar clotting it, so everything appears like a personal attack, of course it does the ego hates deconstruction it’s highly threatening. Instead of clinging to the egos survival mechanism let it all go and fall down the rabbit hole with him. ? Its a game…

So what’s preventing them from understanding each other? ?

@Byun Sean @eos_nyxia The issue is you guys are interpreting what he wrote based on if you were to write it. He is not operating the way you do.

People miss understand his writing style, he’s very passionate, enthusiastic and energetic about the topics of discussion.

She fell victim to the downward spiral or the gamblers fallacy, many people go down this path in business hoping the next lie will fix the last and it will all work out in the end, digging themselves deeper into a hole. I suspect most people get away with it, how did trump pull off his scams with out getting caught? ?

Preface a topic with the type of conversation you would like to have. Encourage joining in the exploration of the idea and not debating or personal analysis. This approach might work, haven’t tried it. Called setting the terms of engagement.

The issue with this is your taking a useful point and cherry picking an extreme example that makes it look ridiculous. Then claiming the extreme is equivalent to the norm. Do things to optimize your life like avoiding unfavourable life circumstances.

Yes train and become so mentally flexible that bulling is experienced/interpreted as true loves first kiss. Obviously. Why would you not do this training? This conversation is about growing up, nothing else. This conversation has nothing to do with victim shaming, blame or pointing the fault finger.

You fell in love with a famous stranger? (someone you never spoke to and doesn’t know you exist)

What I'm saying is you can be a victim of a crime and NOT feel victimized by it. The role of responsibility for how you feel, how you interpret, how you experience is on you. Without responsibility things will be experienced as happening TO you instead of experienced as happening BY you. We are talking about what you are experiencing not any external factual events.

lmaoooo ok we need to make distinctions between words and how they are being used. Im NOT saying take responsibility for other peoples actions, im saying take responsibility for your interpretation of what is happening. Im starting to realize how vital this topic is to understand and map out. Its a transition point from Fixed to Growth mindset, Victim to Ownership mindset, (Things are happening to me) to (What is happening is an Interpretation) mindset, Level 1 awareness to Level 2 awareness. If someone gaslights you or punch's you in the face then we can say you are a victim of a crime but the mindset "I am a victim, poor me, fuck the world" is an interpretation and how you choose to experience what is happening. You can take the punch positively or negatively, you can also have radically different viewpoints of what it means to be punched in the face. Sadguru when punched in the face is not going to experience it like you or the average person. The point of saying this is to show a new way of living life to inspire someone to transition into that new way. A fixed mindset person will say "I am not sadguru stop comparing him to me", growth mindset "Of course why didn't I think of that earlier, there is a better way". "People who have a victim mentality have often suffered through trauma or hard times, but haven't developed a healthier way to cope. As a result, they develop a negative view of life, where they feel that they don't have any control over what happens to them." Razard then took gaslighting to the next level that no one here is ready for and explained that just the deception that there is a other is to gaslight yourself. Its to use the word and concept gaslighting in the construct aware context. But then everyone else lost there nuts trying to bring it back down to a more familiar context. Not in any judgmental way do I say most people are not ready for construct aware conversations. A better strategy instead of debating is to play the construct aware conversation when it pops up for growth and fun. = To go meta on how we engage with people, to make it a choice. Razard is 100% aware of the default context of the use of the word gaslighting. Why spend energy "teaching" it to him.