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Thanks guys for the insights, going try this for a week and report back. Will likely do a mixed version, because some human interactions are unavoidable.

@Bojan V lol autistic introvert, everything revolves around my hobbies not people. I don't have a phone. I don't use social media. Nothing in my life has changed since covid began. Identical + a mask.

Have no idea, ive been practicing social isolation since birth. Nothing has changed.

@RoerAmit Close in on her ear, and whisper "if a friend came up to you that you new for years and whispered in your ear, 'i wish i could put you in my mouth right now', what would you think?". haha Make it funny and sexual. Also speak confidently, show that you are independent and just having fun in the moment with her. Continue down this path with more "what if" questions. Keep it fun/playful, dont show co-dependence. And if she really isnt playing along with the game, stop.

@TheDao @Eternal Unity How? Can anyone receive this and experience that? Like someone can just wip this out on a partner any time, the partner doesnt need to have a background into the topic?

@wwhy Glad it helped

"A woman in Thailand put 3 men in the hospital because she didn't know her own strength" lol... big dick culture is ridiculous, women just don't know how to contract their vaginal walls, the real issue, so they think they need a bigger penis to rub the walls... 0 sex education

This is Da FutUre The true meaning of Snatch haha

Thanks, needed to hear this, i didn't consider how diverse her desires could be, was making a lot assumptions. Going to use all of this. Im on it, didn't realize how complicated this was... because im so simple in comparison, i know what i want and ill say it. lol While they dont know what they want and wont say it, all for a wide range or reasons. At least at this level of development.

@flowboy haha i dont know man, ive been doing this for a while with multiple gf and it hasn't went away, its not really about "proving" it to myself, its a pressure to meet her needs, a fear of not unknowing. @mandyjw @Forestluv Im really not trying to force her to have 4 orgasms lmao, im trying to figure out why in this case she is not responding the same way other partners have. Other partners are having vaginal orgasms and she isn't... Ive done this already with partners, they get stuck in a routine of sex and dont know whats possible or how to explore or get stuck on a misconception or to be nice. Even with great communication, they just dont know... In this case it could be as simple as she needs to relax more. I can work with that. Ive had bitter experiences in the past where i didn't know any of this, she told me everything was great and she believed it, but towards the end of the relationship i figured out what she really wanted but was suppressing. She couldn't communicate it because of feminist pride... and so a major part of our sexual experience was missed out on. Im not going to make this mistake again. haha maybe the way i worded this makes it sound like im forcing and serious and my mission is to terminate her vagina. lmao. This is not the case, im relaxed and playful guy. This is just analysis.

lmfaooo, was thinking about this more from a optimization point of view but it makes sense. Thought about this for a while and found there are alot of motivations all happening at the same time. It seems like a mix of doing it for myself and doing it for her. - I think she wants to cum over and over and i want to give her want she wants but it also gives me pleasure and satisfaction at the same time. - After giving her what she wants there is a relief, that im useful to her, that i was able to do a good job for her. Im going to experiment with changing my perspective to "wanting to give her pleasure for her" in a more focused way.

@The0Self Sounds good, going to do this, maybe hit all 3 at the same time with the right intensity?

haha well with past GF this wasn't a problem, they would orgasm multiple times. Its just this one that i cant get to orgasm more then once. The other one was physically active and abit athletic, so... more sexual energy? Ok Dr. O, im on it. Going to implement this and see where it goes. Squirting and A-spot. Ive been avoiding A-spot because of the fear of hurting them and they don't communicate they want it, because they don't know what they want or even what they can do. Every woman ive been with has the belief that they cant squirt, cant A-spot orgasm, cant orgasm vai vaginal alone. lol. Not sure what women you've been dating but mine had 0 knowledge of there body, packed with misconceptions.

Thanks, im going to focus on this. Its just confusing as every tutorial/video/advice/leo is suggesting a women should have a minimum of 2-4 orgasms every time she has sex. Im guessing some women have lower sex drives then others and this plays a role.

This answered the question, shes loosing all her sexual tension after the first orgasm and its not being built up again fast enough for the next orgasm. Looks like its not entirely the mans responsibility. 1) Learn to build up sexual tension again 2) Pelvic floor exercises, learning to use vaginal wall muscles 3) Low every in everyday life = not enough energy during sex 4) Proper breathing, relaxation, letting go of trauma 5) Edging control

Another complimentary option to the ones already given is to embrace sex toys, penis sleeves/extenders and make them an extension of your body. Then when revealing with a new partner explain to them that you want to satisfy them in every way possible and your going to use sex toys to help with that if needed. These sex toys should be common, normal and expected but aren't because of poor sex education and culture. If your good with toys all confidence and relationship issues from unsatisfied partners that can emerge in the future disappear. Got to be 100% realistic about this, not everyone has the same needs/preferences and if it is a problem you need to be practical and solve it. You got to work with what you have and part of what you have is a technologically advanced society. Its probably not going to be a problem, but it might make sense cover all the basses for a complete strategy. Making for flexibility and options. A note if your going down this path experiment with the sex toys on yourself in private until your used to them and can cum with them on. (sleeve)

Not equal but balanced/fair. The pay out to a single employ wont exceed more then 1-3x. Company earnings would be held in a company account not directly controlled by 1 individual. Blockchain systems can do all this, where each company has its own delegate governance system.. There is still a head figure, but what gives him that power is delegated power from the employes. There are alot of issues that can arise from this, just an idea of how we could go about doing all this and maybe something that can be implemented/experimented with today.

Changing company hierarchy structures to community holocricy structures will have a significant impact. They are already emerging, where each individuals contribution to the company directly matches their compensation. Company hierarchy structures that we have today is socialized slavery. Where we all work for scraps to make the head of the company rich. This needs to change so the wealth is distributed fairly through out the companys humans. Hard jobs, unapealing jobs, hard workers, top contributors/innovators, resourcefulness, managers, visionaries are all compensated proportionally, There will be a strategist at the head keeping things on track. This is a intermediate step that can form as society transitions from orange to green, because these properly structured green companies can exist and compete in capitalist waters. Its not about moneyless, its about changing how money is earned which changes the meaning of money.

Unhealthy food is only unhealthy if your under chronic stress, your life span is not being effected.

The only way to understand this is to not think like a human. The aliens will likely have abilities that are hard to imagine. Like the ability to know how impactful their presents is or an action will be. So these sightings are always minimal, because they are following a path of least interference. Meaning we will never catch them.

@Fandango I always get dates on these dating sites? lol

This has probably been posted before.

lol this is going to be interesting, if we all sign up we will get matched with each other.