integral

Moderator
  • Content count

    7,291
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Everything posted by integral

  1. Can you remember who you are? Can you re-ground yourself after being ungrounded by psychedelics? Can you find your way back while treading deep into a maze?
  2. A depressed or angry woman is not very attractive, if she feels good and is smiling and playful she is more attractive, if she wants me and is turned on and is communicating it with her body and voice then it turns me on. In contrast if she doesnt want me there is 0 blood flow to the penis.
  3. I used to be about her butt in my 20s, then it became about her emotional state.
  4. China will become the next world power. Surpassing the US. Id be scared of chinas progress.
  5. I need to concentrate harder on psychedelics to get it up.
  6. How old are you guys? In my opinion this is not a good fit, find someone with a spiritual = empathetic background and who worked on themselves. Virgins are not the way to go. There a virgin at everything in life.
  7. Thats a good point, well terminal patients have nothing to lose and everything to gain from a new perspective.
  8. Dam I definitely experienced this in one of my relationships, but I dont think they realized they where doing it. One of the big signs is that if you show any resistance or tell them the truth or even say something random that triggeres them they will cry and blame you for it and your in a position that you are held accountable for every negative feeling she has about anything.
  9. Be aware of the sensation and breath of the nose 24/7. Improves everything.
  10. I cant get an erection thinking about men, but if I try i know i can get the job done.
  11. Can iron be absorbed from nuts? She has recently started eating eggs, but thats probably the limit she will go. There are moral reasons involved.
  12. @Michael569 ?Walking's boring, who wants to do that? If im leaving the house its for some action.
  13. Intrinsic vs Extrinsic motivation, but dont ask how the former happened. The trick is the set physical challenges for yourself and gamify the entire process. That's how 100% of athletes or anyone who exercise consistently does it. Its not about "i want to loss weight" or "I do it to be healthy". The mindset is "I want to climb that mountain because it looks fun!" "Can I do a handstand across this balance beam jugging 3 balls with my feet and holding a nugget in my ass?, Challenge accepted!" Its definitely easier with a bunch of friends who also like to challenge themselves. I recommened signing up to gymnastics gym, team sports. Avoid anything that IS NOT MENTALLY CHALLENGING. This is the biggest mistake everyone makes, they exercise with out the mental challenge component then give up over time, like jogging or mindless cardio on a machine. Sports, martial arts, rock climbing, slack lining, pair dancing... involve high mental performance and focus, this is part of the addiction. Even body building is about challenging yourself to be stronger everyday and setting personal records. To be athletic is mental not physical. Challenge channeling challenges. Gamification.
  14. He must be lacking in social calibration. If he comes off as immature then obviously thats not going to work.
  15. I think a small get together or even just the 2 of you going somewhere nice for 2 weeks and have a unofficial celebration is the new next best thing.
  16. Bad boys are in a better emotion state when talking to girls then good boys, so they come off attractive, that's about it. How you feel when socializing is the entire game, when you feel good you kill it.
  17. I stopped taking showers long ago. ?
  18. Its going to be ok. Where there any signs that things where reaching the end?
  19. Think of it as preparation for her. Every relationship is a learning experience and you need them to grow up before you get to her. Your underestimating the struggle and learning curve of relationships, there is alot you need to learn, so go experience it.
  20. @undeather @Michael569 Its for me and my gf. She has issues with losing hair, acid reflux and chronic low energy. I have POIS, that takes about 4 days of recovery to go back to normal after ejaculation. Symptoms are sluggishness, poor digestion, lactic acid build up from exercise stops or disappears, brain fog.
  21. I would like to test everything but don't know the correct names for each test or I am aware some tests are deceptive and don't really reveal the issue so id like to avoid the ones that aren't accurate. What tests do you recommend? I feel like this is generally useful information for everyone on the forum.
  22. He never had a gf and has no life experience, healthy good experiences are the best way to heal from trauma. For a virgin to overcome sex, love and connection with other things is spiritual bypassing. Hes got virgin problems that are solved by not being a virgin.