integral

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  1. That's true another component is the intentions behind the anger. Most of the time its a type of jealousy and defensiveness, but not actually a empathy for the girls stress and desire to help the girl. His anger might be coming from his own inner insecurities, dependence and need to covet "what is mine" and so "fuck that guy, dont touch MY girl". This is why I'm saying its a unhealthy attachment and ownership mindset. Ownership mindset doesn't have to be a red framing, it subtle and the majority of people have it. So the anger is not coming to support the best interest of his girl, its to support his own agenda and this is why the majority of men dont help there girl in these kind of situations and only make things worse. Women then learn "not to tell guys the truth" to avoid this ape shit behavior, because these men cant handle the truth. @Lyubov What is the inner cause of the anger?
  2. @universe "Real growth is an emotional release that you don't even think about it anymore" that's true, but i think there is something primitive about attraction that is hard wired and makes men stupid. A woman that is overly attractive effects the mind in a unhealthy way, its stress and a mental burden.
  3. Sure but if you turn this experience into a habit of nagging and precautions it will ruin the relationship. Its better to let it go. Your trauma is effecting this relationship, what will you do if something worse happens? Your attached in a unhealthy way.
  4. Every guy wants to grap your girls ass, it is inevitable that some will act on it. Try to think realistically and probabilistically instead of idealistically (how things should be). The plus side is she is now less trusting of other people and more attached to you as a result.
  5. Anxious avoidant attachment style or Independent attachment style?
  6. @evgn That does not sound like good friends. Do you have any childhood trauma?
  7. Are you smoking weed?
  8. After they honey moon phase ends the primary fantasy (looks, money, social status) is no longer important and what matters is the secondary fantasy. Primary Fantasy: Men are conditioned to be physically attracted to young (or at least, younger), vital, and healthy-looking females with smooth skin, shiny hair, well aligned complete white teeth, symmetric facial and body features, wide hips, small waists (ideally with an 0.7 hip-to-waist ratio),65 sparkling eyes, and full breasts, which are all indicators for fertility and the ability to bear healthy children.66 Secondary Fantasy: Shared values, interests, lifestyle choices, temperaments, plans and dreams for the future, and compatible needs around time spent together, money, and sex. Did you guys have good compatibility as friends?
  9. Hold phone up high to mouth level and say "Siri what's a good x-mas present for a girlfriend?", do this in front of her. She will talk to you. Ask her for tips, include her in the quest.
  10. @Hardkill Sorry for the negative feed back, its true we made to many assumptions. I really think its easier in school from my experience. Your in a situation where your put together in the same room to chat for months, cant get easier then that. Are you sure your coming off as a guy girls love to talk to and connect with?
  11. Then your self assessment is off and your not resonating with the person your talking to as well as you think. Or the girls your dating are not at your level and emotionally not available for relationships.
  12. If the woman is not addicted to you and see you as a star before getting into the bed room you did it all wrong. They didnt contact you because you showed them 0 value and created no connection, basically they felt 0 love from you.
  13. @Hardkill Are you funny, easy to talk to about any subject, do you make woman feel comfortable and able to express them selves with you, do you smile and radiate positive energy that makes every around you feel good, do people often tell you "we have a connection", can people genuinely trust you or are you so focused on getting things your way that you cant do any of the above, easily offended by anything, not understanding and superficial and picky about details? Do you love people how they are and see them as PEOPLE or are you focused entirely on how they can benefit you and there bust to hip ratio?
  14. Can it be Plugged?
  15. I recently started experimenting with LSD, took 50 mcg. The trip itself was good but im not going to get into that now just the mistakes I made and complications. So at some point half way in the trip i decided to eat something and experience major armpit sweat and smell (stress smell), shortly after i had very bad stomach pain in many points in the digestive track. The LSD seams to have halted my digestion. Has anyone else had experienced digestive issues while on psychedelics?
  16. Vitamin D is a highly underrated mood enhancer.
  17. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/315501 Interesting so basically it gets locked into the receptor and cant get out. Maybe for some it gets locked in permanently causing long term effects like LSD triggered schizophrenia. It is known that if you take way to much LSD it will nearly always result in permanent changes to the brain, maybe its because some get locked in and never get out or new connections between brain regions are made.
  18. Cuts off the head of the male while mating because it keeps his erection up longer... ??? It sacrifices its body for nutrients for the offspring. #fathers true love
  19. hahaha ok interesting point.
  20. ? ventromedial prefrontal cortex "Research has shown that the vmPFC plays a role in the processing of emotions, particularly negative emotions such as fear and anxiety. Damage to this area of the brain can lead to changes in emotional processing and behavior." Simply put big dick energy is brain damage, the good kind. ?
  21. Bruh Shhhh stay calm carrlllll its gong to be ok *hugs*, MBTI is a serious mental health condition that effects millions around the world.