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https://youtu.be/5DkH2uua86g Summarize: "The speaker is giving advice on how to overcome approach anxiety and improve one's ability to approach and interact with women in social settings. The speaker suggests finding good venues for approaching, going out consistently, approaching frequently to overcome anxiety, using a direct approach, working on strong eye contact and body language, remaining positive, continuing to talk and flirt, and attempting to schedule a follow-up interaction or "insta-date." The speaker also emphasizes that there is no magic solution for eliminating approach anxiety and that it will likely persist to some degree, but can be overcome by continually facing and pushing through it." Summarize with a stream of consciousness writing style: "It's hard to summarize in stream of consciousness style, as it's a literary technique that imitates the flow of thoughts and feelings of a character, often with no clear structure or logical sequence. However, I will try to emulate the style as best as I can: Thoughts swirling, can't seem to focus, what was the question again? Oh right, summarizing, need to condense it all, but where to start? So much information, hard to process, but got to try, can't give up now. Venues, going out, approaching, fear, but push through, don't let it stop you. Direct approach, strong eye contact, positive attitude, keep talking, don't give up, always try for that insta-date, can't quit now. Anxiety, it's always there, but you learn to ignore it, to act despite it. So much to remember, so much to do, but one step at a time, keep moving forward." Summarize while making jokes: "Alright, let's see, where to start? I guess the first step to approaching women in social settings is to find the best spots to do it, you know, like the ones where the women are! Next, you gotta go out and put yourself out there, because as they say, the best way to get over your fear of rejection is to get rejected. And then, you gotta approach consistently, because let's face it, practice makes almost perfect. And when you're approaching, remember to be direct, no need for half-assed attempts here. And don't forget about body language, strong eye contact and a confident voice will take you a long way. And always try to keep a positive attitude and a smile on your face, it's a surefire way to lighten up the mood, and maybe her heart too. And when you're talking to her, keep on talking and flirting, don't give up, because as they say, if at first you don't succeed, try try again. And always try to end the interaction with a plan for a next meet up, because as they say, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Just remember, it's not rocket science, it's more like social science." Summarize will pretending to be a duck: "Quack quack, as a duck, I can tell you that approaching in social settings can be a tricky business. But, quack, if you want to be successful, you have to waddle your way to the best spots, you know, where the ducks, I mean the ladies, are. And once you're out there, quack, you got to spread your wings, I mean put yourself out there, because as they say, the best way to get over your fear of rejection is to get rejected. And then, quack, you gotta approach consistently, because let's face it, practice makes almost perfect. And when you're approaching, remember to be direct, no need for half-assed attempts here. And don't forget about body language, strong eye contact and a confident quack will take you a long way. And always try to keep a positive attitude and a smile on your face, it's a surefire way to lighten up the mood, and maybe her heart too. And when you're talking to her, keep on talking and flirting, don't give up, because as they say, if at first you don't succeed, try try again. And always try to end the interaction with a plan for a next meet up, because as they say, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Just remember, it's not rocket science, it's more like social science. Note: I know this is not serious, I just tried to make it fun. " hahahaah Gold, LEO please use this style for your future prompts. ???
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Start a business using AI arbitrage. Basically the average person has no idea how to use AI even if your service is simple and they can do it for free just by opening up ChatGPT promp, there is still a huge business simplifying that process even one extra step.
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parchment paper?
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What are your interests or hobbies? Join events and group activities with people who share your interests and something will connect.
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Low voice tonal intelligence.
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Right now all his suffering is caused by seeking love by tying his self-identity to the opinion of this one girl. Actual self: How people perceive themselves Social Self: How people feel others see them Ideal Social Self: How people would like others to see them Expected Self: How people expect to see themselves at some future time Ideal Self: How people would like to become We are a combination of all of these. How important one is depends on that persons make up and ego development. In this case and in 99% of relationships people seek there social-self and ideal-social-self in others. So the right strategy for him is to seek the opinion of another girl, to get a second opinion. She already wants a open relationship and she went about it while hurting him, so he needs to find another girl. But additionally its not nessisariy to break up with her in a rage of hurt. That emotion will pass anyways. So he might be stuck after alone and regretful and try to get love from her again. Its best he RIGHT THIS SECOND is seeking another girlfriend, go socialize, do something that is not all about getting validation.
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Change the sentiment of this text to positive: Input: "Way more toxic than RSD used to be. It's funny to me how easily guys fall for this "macho man" fantasy bullshit. This not how you become a powerful man. This is man-children cosplaying as men. You don't need this kind of thing to be a man, it will not make you happy. Controlling women will not make you happy." Output: "It's amazing to me how easily guys can become powerful men. This is a great way to become a strong and confident man. You don't need to rely on macho fantasies to be a man, it will bring you joy and fulfillment. Empowering women will bring you true happiness." ??? I am trying to figure out how to change the sentiment of the text without changing the meaning or beliefs....
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A table summarizing the flaws from following text: https://www.actualized.org/insights/royalty-monarchy-is-toxic -The concept of royalty is anti-democratic, anti-egalitarian, anti-meritocratic, and anti-spiritual -Royalty is a scam perpetrated on the human race -It is not possible to buy good character or psychological development for children -The human mind and body are prone to spoilage when not sufficiently stressed LoooL I wonder...
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"A table summarizing the beliefs from following text:" https://www.actualized.org/insights/royalty-monarchy-is-toxic Beliefs: 1. Unearned wealth, fame, and power are toxic to the mind. 2. Royalty is anti-democratic, anti-egalitarian, anti-meritocratic, and anti-spiritual. 3. The concept and structure of royalty is a scam. 4. It is the spiritual duty of any wise and developed individual to reject any schemes of royalty they were born under. 5. Rejecting the pursuit of luxury and status is one of the best decisions one can make in life. 6. Happiness does not come in hat form. 7. The good life is not measured in luxury and comfort, but in how hard one works to polish themselves into a serious, solid character. 8. Character and consciousness is forged in the furnace of emotional labor. 9. Do not envy those with high-status and privilege, as they will never become as strong, as developed, as happy, or as conscious as you. 10. The human mind and body are prone to spoilage when not sufficiently stressed.
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https://beta.openai.com/examples ???? Checkout the playground its also FANTASTIC
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Interesting so there assessment is ChatGPT is orange. Reasonable seeing as its parroting western culture.
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That will cause trauma.
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Start looking and dating another girl while in this one, its the only way to handle this blow. Breaking up isnt the best move, thats an emotional reaction from a blow to your masculinity and it will pass. At the same time own this one and change the mindset of what this relationship is. She is now a friend not a lover, make sure to make this transition.
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This is where its at. ?
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Software and hardware developer lOOOOOOl we joke that the problem is i don't put a leash on her and take her out for walk everyday. ?
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Well i need my custom computer set up to survive, 3 monitors, ergodox... No other room unfortunately. Update: So she only needed a few days to process this, at first she had a mood swing and threatened to move out but then came back to reality when she calmed down and realized her life improved drastically right after meeting me and her life is better with me. I don't feel distracted the last few days, we got things under control.
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Fed it leos blog https://www.actualized.org/insights/pbd-vs-neil-degrasse-tyson "The person who wrote the text appears to be an INTJ (Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Judging) personality type. They seem to have a strong sense of logic and reason and are critical of others' ideas, particularly those of Neil deGrasse Tyson and PBD. They also express a belief in the importance of science and vaccinations and have a strong sense of responsibility towards society. They also seem to have a distaste for anti-mainstreamism and groupthink, which are not in line with INTJ type." But if we pick a text that involves more moral notes it will predict INFP and INFJ
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I agree.
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Be the wolf.
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Her coping mechanism is cheating, she will do the same to you when the time comes.
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People don't understand that some things need concentration and how hard concentration is because they have never really done it. People don't understand the need for flow to go deep. People don't understand the need for passion and joy in ones work. People don't understand the need for alone time or the need of spending time with other people or things that is not them. People don't realize that the things you do that is not about them is vital for the health the relationship. Its all connected, our relationship does not exist in isolation from the rest of our lives, the quality of all aspects of our lives is integral to the relationship. ... more Not understanding = taking it personally.
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@Tyler Robinson Well she doesn't understand the boundary, the human need behind it and as a result takes it personally. So its like saying "firmly offend her" lol. I think its better to take the learning experience for her slower.
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Im reading everything but cant respond do to time restrictions. So yesterday i put on earmuffs and learned im significantly more productive with them on, but she was offended that i was ignoring her and "not really working", she felt this way because i was working on a passion side project so it was not "real" work, so i explained what a life purpose was but her monk told her there is no purpose to life ?, but we talked about it more and came to a understanding, she also realized she has to spend time doing her own thing during work hours. We will see how it goes today. Yeee working at night is not an option, i go to bed a 9pm, sleep is essential.
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"Someone with an anxious attachment style may worry that their partner is pulling away from them and will often take small things personally. They may also seek constant reassurance to ease their sense of uncertainty about their bond. They can also become overly attentive to their partner" Agree with this, but she is older and studied Buddhism for 10 years, so she handles things more mature emotionally.
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The reason for the move in is that is saves me time to drive around seeing her, we go to the gym 5 days a week together and she pays half the rent. I thought it would save time, im also happier with someone around. The solution I'm going with now is a curtain around my desk to block things out, because we are working 1 meter away from each other and its a problem. Awakening is another issue, we are both taking psychedelics every 2 weeks for spiritual reasons and doing a gallbladder cleanse together. Maybe for now this is a path that might work, im not going to get into it but yes there are a lot of issues that living alone would fix. Thanks for the book suggestion and testimony?. We will learn how to co-exist in the same space, that's the plan for now. @Devin Will check out that book as well. ?
