integral

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  1. I imagine it went something like this?
  2. He might have erectile disfunction problems is embarrassed and doesn't want to talk about it. A possibility.
  3. @Username Looks like the documentary was censored/suppressed by the dental community, they got it removed from Netflix. "Root Cause" should be able to find it somewhere
  4. @EmptyVase WaS going to post that one, ya need to be a skater to really appreciate how good he is.
  5. Root cause documentary. Puling out wisdom teeth can cause systemic issues from bacteria buildup that can lead to a infection.
  6. Recently something has lifted away and i feel less resistance. In my early years i would have identified as a heterosexual male (born that way by genetics). The porn i watch has always been male with female. But after this resistance fell away i feel attraction to some men, mostly submissive men. I've never in the past had sex with a man or watched gay porn, but it is now a part of my taste unexpectedly. Has anyone experienced something like this? I'm sure people will think "you where always bisexual", i guaranty with 100% certainty that i was not. I have never had any attraction by looking at a mans body and i have never desired a man, until now. What is this?
  7. "If you can't forget, you can't forgive"
  8. @Etherial Cat So i contacted her and she didn't respond. lol Well that didnt help.
  9. @28 cm unbuffed its tricky, if they are in a committed relationship and their contacted, their might be no motivation to reply. Why wait 2 years? Its definitely time to explore, i guarantee their is a better match out there for you.
  10. @Kay100 Leo Blog Yes the situation was similar to this, high cortisol (stress) state during a interaction. We can see how bottled up he is on the surface. His body language and tone of voice reflect his inner state. While if he was athletic it would be alot easier to hide it. I was in the same situation except more coordinated on how others where experiencing me. Once the shyness is resolved he will look like a completely different person. Is your son in the same situation? What are the a differences?
  11. @Etherial Cat Yes, but how will that help?
  12. Its not all vanity. Its fun and addictive getting stronger over time and seeing performance gains. The only reason i would train was because it felt great. The muscle pain is very satisfying. Early stages of body building training you want to get stronger because its fun, its a game, the muscles are a bonus.
  13. Not if their Athletic. They will have high body, vocal tonality and atmospheric awareness, In this case the shy person is bottling away social anxiety (high stress state) and being very carful not to show it. Making them come off as stiff or unapproachable. Shyness like this, people can hold a stern emotionless face while looking at you, this is where the unfriendliness first impression comes from. Yes we are conflating elements of good looking with having a good social personality. It still depends, in a comfortable situation if a male athlete takes off his shirt and stand very close to you... the pressure is back on. lol Their is no solution but to accept it. For women it might help not to wear yoga pants. lol. hmmm there was a situation where a group of women i never met pulled me aside and told me to strip for them. If men did this to a woman it would be outrages. For wtv reason its acceptable in our culture for women to do this to men. Leo just posted this on his blog Maybe watch it with him, it might exactly apply.
  14. Its a highly synergistic relationship where both partners are feeding each others growth paths. Start by fuelling his growth path. The mindset is also abit off, if your looking for a growth relationship then the first step is to help the person your with grow, actually care about the person your dating as what you can do for them (truly care) and not over focus on what they can do for you.
  15. Tell him what you want him to do in bed, he doesn't know anything, its not that he is not attractive, its that he doesn't understand intimacy. Teach him, communicate everything that you want. Be very explicit, paint the picture, the role he needs to play. Maybe watch some videos of things you want him to copy. Learn by examples. If the fantasy is to be dominated and "taken" then thats what he will learn how to do.
  16. Thought about this more, it seems this is the case, going abit deeper the exact issue i thing is being with someone who is non-judging. The ideal partner can see the larger patterns of how life unfolds and lives by the flow it. Being flow. Dating down the spiral feels like baby sitting.
  17. yeee this thread segregates people, contributing to cultures vanity focus. "Better looking" people are getting more attention here like everywhere else. "The face of god" is spiritual bypassing because the community is a mix of stages not all turquoise.
  18. @Nahm If the meaning of a word changes from the paradigm its being viewed from. Wouldn't it be useful to coin a new word for it, avoiding communication issues?
  19. Yes, i always stand like this.
  20. It would make sense to provide a solution at the same time. With breath there is alot she can do to fix it, but with other things, if it cant be changed better to just not point it out.
  21. Yes, im not posting for this reason. It makes some people feel bad. @everyone What is the more conscious perspective to take that justifies posting a pic?
  22. lol this is one of the number 1 meal replacements recommended by doctors. They are found in most hospitals here in canada. Its pure incompetence at this point.
  23. I want to do a fast for 3-5 days. Any tips would be great, is there anything i should keep in mind? Potential issues? The plan is to drink slightly salted water for electrolytes, very simple.
  24. Accept her for who she actually is not who you want her to be, don't expect any more then that. All the good and bad. A dog will bark, why take offense? Everything she says and does is about her, not about any fault of yours.
  25. @Someone here Are you eating enough? Eat at least 2 big meals midday and evening, it will knock you out and calm the hormones. I am very experienced with sleep deprivation and the state you are in, just got to eat more.