integral

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  1. I ment it in the sense that the social impact of keeping him alive is greater or less than the social impact of his death + martyr status. options Keeping him alive, social impact: ? 30 years of influence Death + martyr status. Social impact: ? trump gets more power Death, Social impact: ? I think using a gun to kill someone is the least effective way because it strengthens the enemy. They have to die in an uncertain and ambiguous way, so there's no fuel added to the fire.
  2. Yes thats what i was talking about. hot escape. 🏃 You make yourself as interesting as possible and make them run after you.
  3. It's interesting how you let that go, because the people I'm observing with this issue cannot let it go, they cannot be even told that they have a problem, they experience it as "the world should be" and they fight everyday to get it. If something is disorderly the experience is "I am tolerating this" and then they have an ego of "I'm such a tolerant person for allowing this".
  4. My Te is strong but by it being strong it means I'm in full control of it and it doesn't control me. In my place, I have one plate one bowl one fork, i dont put them back in the drawer because I use them every day. Putting them in the drawer and even having drawers is an inefficiency, why would I want to open and close the drawer? People have drawers because they want to hide things to keep it clean, that "cleanness" is a intolerance, an emotional resistance, and the experience of clutter. Clutter is something that people experience and suffer from. I can have a messy home and it means nothing to me. But my Te is very strong, Everything is optimized for the least steps. An empty shed is not an efficient shed, that's an intolerance to clutter. But I do prefer emptiness over clutter, and will choose the least amount of stuff as possible. I would make my house a big open space when nothing in it lol so I could run freely. It becomes a problem when the environment is perfectly fine and everyday they find something they can't tolerate and has to change. If my bowl is in the drawer I don't suffer everyday because of it.
  5. How do we know if silencing someone is worse than making them a martyr?
  6. i am, but i dont know if its OCD, im so used to it it just seems like its there value system? I get the impression everyone lives like this, they have their fixed values married to their ego and then they on a daily basis have a negative emotion when ever they face there values conflicting in the real world.
  7. omg this legendary link drop, we need a lord fall gpt asap, why would i use anything else 😂
  8. chronic suffering from an environment that is by any reasonable standard fine.
  9. @Leo Gura I noticed that you're only posting to Instagram, right now I have the option to post to six or seven platforms all the same time, short form videos and long-form videos. Is there any reason not to do this? Why did you target Instagram specifically? And why did you choose not to push to the other platforms at the same time?
  10. The biggest problem with approaching people is you dont really want to talk to them I want to talk to people i actually want to talk to. 🤯
  11. https://youtu.be/07TNr9EtksE?si=lBnFOHJVRwa1YUe- This guy seems legit
  12. @LordFall do you have a link to a map of cold approach? One of the resources that you linked previously was pretty good on pick up, but im looking for a map of cold approach strategies all in one place.
  13. LMFAO I'm sure they are, I don't know how much of what they're doing is skill vs other ascpects like natural personality. I Don't know if one size fits all. The pick up cold approach fantasy doesn't feel like it works for a lot of different types of people, to unnatural to them
  14. But are the results people get from cold approach alone as good as what I'm describing? And if it is, is it because a person has qualities that make them good at cold approach? I feel like one size doesn't fit all
  15. That makes sense but like I see guys like @Majed struggling to get results and doing crazy numbers of approaches. It's better just to focus on a different strategy
  16. That makes perfect sense, it's a strategic conversation about cold approach, Where you set yourself up so people come to you instead of you going to them.
  17. ya know I'm old, bald, my abs are gone, I got plenty of fat around my waist, didn't shave my back or my chest lmfao 😆 5"8 I'm not out there like some chiseled God but i do have some muscle. Dude sometimes I grow like these singular crazy long back hairs, that I can't even see or reach lmfao
  18. It's all good, I think your statement was true.
  19. Thats true i messed up. I felt bad afterwards when she was texting me.
  20. WAaaat someones paying for that crunchyroll subscription? I've been trying to watch it for a while now and the torrents are all dead
  21. Cognitive functions are what matters with MBTI. What are the subconscious questions that you're asking yourself? The default thinking process. INFJ has 4 states Sleep = Ni + Ti Blast = Ni + Fe Play = Fe + Se Consume = Ti + Se
  22. Happyness mastery Unable to stop thinking and worry about one's life story, can't turn off the life story. Physical health, pain, poor sleep, lack of exercise, hormonal problems, its a biological engineering problem that has to be solved How someone relates to everything, Example: "should" thinking. This is how things "should be". Is a person chasing how they want the world to be instead of what the world actually is and connecting with it as it is. All of your relationships, because other people's states of mind and capacity to be, directly affects us to the point or it's very hard to separate. So if the quality of our relationships is bad and if we have to deal with these people everyday then were going to be unhappy vai osmosis Open awareness and felt inner body awareness at all times and relaxed in the environment. (working and doing anything while aware of one's inner felt body relaxed, muscles, auditory surroundings, tone of voice. Try reading while being fully aware of your entire body and all of its relaxed muscles and the relaxation in the voice in your head + all of the auditory environment sounds. This is a category of mindfulness. interoception is awareness of the inner body (muscle tone, breath, fingertips, the felt sense of relaxation), and exteroception is awareness of the surroundings (hearing the room, sensing space). Gymnasts tend to be naturally in the state it's a type of awareness of proprioception. Proprioception of, the body, the breath, movement, the air, even ones thoughts. This gives rise to contentness from a knowing that nothing is happening that there's nowhere to go and there's nothing to do.