Uh for me I tend to get into serious relationships fast because I am not actually trying to get into them? Like I am scared to do that. But I don't advise rushing that. I would try to at least act like you enjoy them and that you aren't wanting anything but go very slow when choosing them. It's better to be single than going falling in love with the wrong person. And it's all about the bonding getting to know them that is the best and sometimes scariest part gl to u