@Ayla Thanks, The conciousness is trying to digest your responses.
See, I believe that I understand the concept of no-self. I understand that the goal is to get rid of the 'I'. (It can be assumed that this has not been achieved yet.)
However, there is still a need to communicate with each other (not least on a forum) and it would seem to 'me' to be almost impossible to communicate effectively without resorting to (albeit false, but) convenient concepts such as YOU and ME. Or am I totally getting it wrong?