Yahya

Name: Yahya Yousaf Age: 16 Gender: Male Location: Ontario, Canada Occupation: Student Marital Status: Single Kids: No Hobbies: studying, meditation, personal development, reading, learning, healthy eating I got into personal development after my failure at elementary school. I failed 8 years throughout elementary school but then I luckily graduated from it. I got sexuallly harrassed at the aged of 13. I suffered a history of abuse from my school and my parents. After I graduated from my elementary school in Saudi Arabia, I travelled to Canada to pursue a better education. However, the trauma I suffered still continue to haunt me today. I came across the Leo video "Advice to highschool and college students" to help me to get success in school. That time my English was horrible so I couldn't even understand a thing what Leo was saying. Ever since I found Leo I began to listen Actualized.org in different languages which mad me to learn 5 languages till this very day. Personal challenges I have overcome: - Stop failing at school and became a rockstar student. - Increase the development of my emotions. - Found my dream career. - Coped with the trauma and harrassment I suffered before. - Routine and habits. What I'm working on now: - Forgiving all the people who did me wrong. - Success. - Making my life purpose real.

I went through the exact same process as you. This is a really hard addiction to give up. It will be difficult. Let me help you remove it. First, find out the reason why you are masturbating. Then take an action based on it. E.g. For me, the reason was that I didn't have intimacy with any girl so I went to have intimacy which stops me from masturbating.

@Leo Gura Agreed

Agreed. Thanks

The following is the list of presidents of the United States of America: George Washington John Adams Thomas Jefferson James Madison James Monroe John Quincy Adams Andrew Jackson Martin Van Buren William Henry Harrison John Tyler James K. Polk Zachary Taylor Millard Fillmore Franklin Pierce James Buchanan Abraham Lincoln Andrew Johnson Ulysses S. Grant Rutherford B. Hayes James Garfield Chester A. Arthur Grover Cleveland Benjamin Harrison Grover Cleveland William McKinley Theodore Roosevelt William Howard Taft Woodrow Wilson Warren G. Harding Calvin Coolidge Herbert Hoover Franklin D. Roosevelt Harry S. Truman Dwight D. Eisenhower John F. Kennedy Lyndon B. Johnson Richard M. Nixon Gerald R. Ford James Carter Ronald Reagan George H. W. Bush William J. Clinton George W. Bush Barack Obama Donald J. Trump For every American president, tell your opinion of where they lie on the spiral dynamics. Thank you for your time.

Hi guys, In this mega thread please list the emotions that fall into the category called Anger. Thanks.

Being in a mode of the beast.

Agitated

Mild annoyance

Rage

Hi guys, Where is Actualized.org on the spiral dynamics? Thank you.

Hi people, I am beginning my intermediate and I need some advice from you to my challenges and biggest frustration in life. Also I am starting this thread to because Leo asked me to send it to you in one of your videos called ,"How to make your life extraordinary-Actualized.org." My challenges and biggest frustration s in my life are: -Bullying. I get in fight at least once a week in my school. Also I am 15 years old. I get called so many bad names and people now call me a nickname which is a bad name. - University tuition fees. I don't have any money and I don't know from where do I take my University fees. - Confidence. My confidence is extremely low. -Self esteem. My self esteem is extremely low and my participation in my everyday life is terrible as it were that I wish I were dead. -Depression. I am depressed in my life and a few suicidal thoughts. Questions help me with life and please shoot videos on a few of them. - How do I pay my tuition fees. -How do I improve my participation in day to day life? - How do I stop getting bullied and called bad names? -How to improve my confidence? -How to improve my self esteem? - Do I need to be an employee in order to become an employer? -How do I feel good? -How do I accomplish ambitious goals? Strategies which worked on me: - Knowledge. I don't know a lot of strategies and things out there so the only thing that worked on me so far was knowledge. Please give me solutions and advice to each of my frustrations and give me a short answer for each of my questions. Thank you.

@mikelyons What does that means?

Hi, Leo do you have a son or a daughter? If so then how are you doing self-actualization work and at the same time spending time with our family? Thank you

@mikelyons Leo has stated in his True Vision- I reveal my life purpose until you feel it that he has children of his own.

Hello, Leo ask me in his video of negative visualization to share my experience after doing one week of negative visualization in his negative visualization video. Hence I am sharing them right over here: From doing negative visualization I felt happiness and contentment. I learned that this a techniques for happiness because I got a feelings of peace in it. I practiced it for one week and it was the best week of the year. Also I felt satisfied during the technique because I learned that I am not entitled to living where I am today. Also I forgot about my problems while doing this technique because the problems I have are not very big problems compared to people in rank below me. Addition to that I also start thinking like a stoic which made me so happy and grateful. Also I want to tell that this technique worked on me quite well for getting happiness. So when ever I am in depression or anxiety I will practice this technique in order to get the kind of peace and fulfilment I want. So far I got the most happiness from practicing and implementing this technique. It changed my qualia a little bit. In conclusion, the advice I can give someone for depression is to practice this technique. Thanks for reading.

Can I stop visualizing every day for 5 minutes after I achieved my goal?

@Harikrishnan I am not visualizing but I am just asking a question.

Hi, I am a sixteen years old male teenager. I have been masturbating for around two years up to now. Right now I have a question that for self actualizing do I have to give up my masturbating addiction or am I allowed to keep it. Thank you.

Advice to high school and college students had the biggest impact on me and it changed all my path.

For clarification, I want Leo to post the sad songs playlist on this website.

In one of Leo videos which is How To Deal With Loneliness- Especially While Self-Actualizing Leo says that he has a playlist of sad songs. He says it around 35:00. I wonder that can Leo post the playlist of sad songs over on the website.

Hi, If you are a teenager and brought the life purpose course and found your life purpose. Can you guys please share your thoughts over here.

@RendHeaven My question is that does anyone life purpose involve to have a 9-5 hours job for some time? Also can I work on a 9-5 hour job I enjoy or not?

Repititive thoughts occuring will rewire your brain.