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All these cannot be covered with just a few paragraphs of words. For example, having integrity also means you do not commit crimes in general. Do not laugh at people, beat down people or push someone off the cliff. It also can mean owning up to your mistakes. So it is more than just about yourself, it is also for others.

It's good to have a religion and have God guide you. However, you still have to make many choices in your own life. Whether you eat instant noodles or better food everyday, it's your choice to make it happen.

It happened in your childhood. Somebody or someone must have implanted that idea onto you that you look like a woman or look nice in a skirt etc. This is the story you decided to tell yourself. If you go to Thailand Pattaya, you will find that there are a lot of Thai men who are crossdressers or transvestites but not that many Lesbians(female to male). Once again, it's the self image they have after being exposed to all these things since young. It's your choice what you want to do in your life.

11@GroovyGuru I hate to break this to you but the solutions presented here are not necessarily right. The truth is probably your friends invited you out for drinks and they are also the one holding the group together. They are greater than you just by virtue of the things they did for you. Your ego is lazy and it also wants to protect you. The easy way out is to retreat and seek consciousness stuff. The emotional difficult thing to do is to talk to them, hold your own conversation with them and continue to be friends. Of course, if your friends turn really violent or extremely rude, then maybe it's really time to leave them.

I can't get myself fit too. I sometimes get injured while running or carrying weights or even doing push ups. It's frustrating and I also do not want nagging injury too.

Hahaha your reality also creates your thoughts.

It's your ego telling you that you are better than them.

It wouldn't be called self-help if we help you. I think you can check out Amazon reviews to see which books have good reviews and then buy and read them. It's good to have different variety of books such as biography, novels, psychology books to learn from different angles. Always great to learn from different authors too.

@nistake not true bro. Video games keep you relaxed and get you friends. You also have more things to talk about with your friends at that time. You probably teach them what to play too. Gaming makes you creative and more imaginative at work.

You can try reading the willpower. Freaking awesome books that will help you stay disciplined and productive.

That's little compared to someone who's 500k in debt.

https://scottjeffrey.com/best-psychology-books/ https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-great-psychology-books-change-your-life.html The top psychology books are written by Carl Jung.

I don't give a f about enlightenment but I think I am a little enlightened due to various life experiences I have went through. I personally only care about personal growth. Actualized.org has some powerful contributors with great insights. I don't think I can find another better forum on personal development.

It belongs to self help products review section

The power of positive thinking Mindset Think n grow rich Gorilla mindset Super brain

One up on Wall Street by Peter Lynch

The Power of Now 7 Spiritual Laws of Success Super Brain Think and Grow Rich (Old Edition) Maximum Achievement.

Some things you cannot change, you have to accept. Like you will die one day. Like you are born in____ and you are born a male or female. Some things you can change. Like taking a new course/subject.

Feeling deep and you can achieve great heroics like Martin Luther King or Mother Theresa.

The passion of the Christ

I personally prefer The Life Changing Magic of not giving a f by Sarah Knight. More actionable tips.

Read men are from Mars, women are from Venus.

OK cool. I have read this book before. Because previously, you sort of hinted that you are awakened so I ask that question to test you. Glad to know that you understand so much. Thanks for sharing.

Never heard of this book

So you are awakened? In which areas? Improve your body language.