hyruga

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  1. He is needy. Go test him and ask him what's his life purpose.
  2. Introspection is inwards into your thoughts and emotions. Contemplation can refer to internal and external events.
  3. Lame video by Teal. Who doesn't know that you need trust and alignment?
  4. 2 days of your memories purged. Please tap into your subconscious to see if you can assess them again.
  5. It's harder to do the summary than what I think. Anyway, feel free to make changes and addon. 1. How to Invest in Yourself Invest in yourself, life and money. Are you a short or long term investor? - Short-Term investment may be flaky and may not pan out really well - Long-Term investment can be very lucrative and valuable to you. - People tend to have short attention spans. They tend to jump on new stuff. They tend to dabble and jump from one thing to another. That leads to short-term mindset. - Invest in your career. Cal Newport in his book 'So Good They Can't Ignore You' talks about building Career Capital. In order to be happy and successful in your career, build up the skills and knows-how that make you valuable relative to others in the same field. Then you can provide great value and also charge more money. - Be perceived as giving more value than the money you received. This makes your business/work sustainable. - To build your skills, you need to invest a lot of time and discipline. You also need to understand the processes of Mastery. - Investing in yourself is the most valuable use of your time. - Build up your brain. No one can take that away from you although they need your skills and experiences. - In modern society where it is getting more service-oriented, you need massive skills. Different levels of skills 1) Become better at pure skills. Eg better artist 2) Become better at specific skills Eg learning Photoshop - Soft skills are also important. Develop people skills such as being funny, entertaining, likable, political, savvy and witty. Develop business acumen and marketing skills. - Who do you have to be? How do you have to change yourself until you see yourself as a successful artist? Maybe start going for improv classes, read books, practicing with friends and going for networking events. - But that's still not your Full Inner Game. What's holding you back as an artist? Originality, Creativity and Innovation should be very valuable for an artist but how do you tap into them? You can structure your life. You also have to work through your limiting beliefs. You have to find a sense of confidence in your creative expression. - Actually it's not that hard. The trick is to figure out what's the challenges are first, then you need a vision of where you are going and break down into small steps to take action on. - Make your stuff less mainstream and more quirky. Step out of comfort zone and don't care what others think. - Change from who you are to who you want to be. It's not just behavioral change. You may still backslide. It's also about your mindset. - Think long-term. For example, reading a book may not be worth much in the short term but over the long run, how much value can you get throughout your whole life?
  6. Congratulations. Time to save up for marriage.
  7. It's good. Get to know her more and she will like you even more. Earn a genuine kiss.
  8. Yes there is Charisma on Command on YouTube. They also have a course called Charisma University. I am sure there are others. And there are courses that teach you how to talk and behave in business settings.
  9. Dude, regardless of that even if it's true, your father raised and took care of you. You should take responsibility and care for him. You must tell your real 'wolf father' that you don't need him and you will rather take care of the one who fed, schooled, took care of you when you were sick.
  10. Haha the book teaches men to be rational but actually the whole book, other than the title, did not use the word 'rational' much or at all. The book was published in 2013 and most of the stuff and discussions are now readily available on youtube so it's not like it's secret info anymore. Some stuff like having an abundance mindset are also taught in relationships course. The book does go deeper into the extremes though (such as MGTOW Men going their own way which I do not agree totally with). The book is also quite hard to read and it's quite repetitve too.
  11. You are letting out your emotions and not putting on a false front. You are also practicing self-forgiveness and you r probably letting go of some anger/worry/sadness.
  12. Lenovo in-camera cannot make it. Please check the specs before committing.
  13. Check out Julien's videos on connection. To connect with a girl, you have to build emotional connections whether you are a nice guy or arrogant prick. This is the most important part!
  14. I am suffering through some health issues as well. On top of that, I also have financial issues and many other people that I need to commit to. For your case, I suggest you focus on another area of your life that you can work on. For example, you can excel at your work, become a leader, take care of others, make donations, adopt kids or take care of dogs/cats. Do anything else to make your life worthy and happy and maybe your issue will also solve itself given time.
  15. Don't complain. Don't whine. However, being angry/letting out of anger is still better than bottling all in with shame (so just say out your shame because most of us here dun know you) Also, sometimes complaints do work and you get a refund or something.
  16. "Trust" is belief with a high confidence level. You can believe something and not be completely confident about it. "I believe it will rain tomorrow" doesn't tell you how confident you are about the prediction. "I trust it will rain tomorrow" implies you are highly confident. "Belief" is usually back up by other stories you learnt in the past. Like you may say, I believe that men should not wear skirts. 'Trust' does not go with 'should' most of the time. I believe you should stay at home due to Covid-19 outbreak. I trust that you will stay at home due to Covid-19 outbreak. "Faith" is a belief that is accompany by divine power Eg God's power or your own.
  17. This is called feeling stuck in life. Most of us are like this esp in this covid-19 striken era. Some suggestions include: Going out for a walk, exercise, change your job, sign up for a class. Just do something to get out of your comfort zone.
  18. To comfort yourself that there is still consciousness after you die within a lifetime of probably less than 5000 weeks.
  19. Now the most important thing for me in a laptop is a good camera-in-laptop and powerful microphone because nowadays there are too many webinars and online meetings. Reliability is also extremely important. You can also buy external microphones and lightings.
  20. Yes, self help circles are naturally attracted to titles like 'Mastery' https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/81940.Mastery?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=NMIRWun78i&rank=4 7813 ratings, Mastery by George Leonard https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13589182-mastery?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=JErRjRvNoh&rank=1 30359 ratings, Mastery by Robert Greene https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/115613.Maximum_Achievement?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=zLFSvmC3HI&rank=1 4836 ratings, Maximum Achievement by Brian Tracy
  21. Just go to Goodreads and you can roughly gauge how popular the book is based on number on ratings and reviews. A lot of people are secretly into mastery. As an example, the book has more ratings and reviews than Brian Tracy's maximum achievement or his 21 secrets of success.
  22. The front part of the book is good. It talks about how he overcame procrastination. The last 30% of the book talk about some weird stories and also about how he slayed the dragon: This part you can skip. Anyway, his later books elaborate further on how he overcame procrastination.
  23. Great work, @FlyingLotus! By the way, anyone knows which videos talk about Non-Duality?