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Don't focus on the tot. Be aware, notice the thoughts and see what bs it is telling you.

You can check out this channel. This guy called Aaron helps people expand their consciousness. Some of the videos include letting go of stories.

First, you have to accept that sometimes you are an overthinker. And overthinking has its pros and cons. Next, you have to let go of overthinking and just do things.

Read this book: The War of Art (Not to be confused with the Art of War) Inside it teaches you how to overcome your resistance, how to get past your emotions and stop procrastinating.

Cal Newport was 24 years old when he wrote that. I won't read it and I also won't judge him even if it's bad.

You have to let go of the stories and the need for meaning. In David Hawkins' book Power Vs Force, reasoning is below love and joy. You have to let go of meaning to gain a higher consciousness. (I am not enlightened and I don't seek enlightenment so take it with a pinch of salt what I am sharing)

Haha you are basically asking what is the meaning of life or whether there is a meaning to life. Plus how to reach enlightenment. All extremely tough questions with no direct answer. The last part on your life purpose: only you can find it for yourself but some people may be able to guide you. Hmmm...

@Striving for moremoremormoemorem Don't be stupid. Ignore the black pill stuff. Relax. Just take the positives and ignore the negatives.

The front part of LOA is not very useful. The part on manifesting your desires, thinking about your desires first thing in the morning sounds good on paper but it makes you become attached to the outcome. Only 1% of the people (the naturally good sales guy) are able to manifest a Ferrari car and get it straight through LOA. The next part: ask n you shall receive. There's nothing with asking. asking will increase your odds of landing a sale more often than not. 'You shall receive'? Not always

I don't think girls are ruthless towards nice people. Or not to the 'nice' traits at least. Girls appreciate the good things done by men. But girls hate it when guys show weakness. You can be nice but don't show too much weaknesses. Also depends on what status the lady is currently at. Some girls tolerate weakness more than others.

Be careful when you give too much of your energy, love and money away and getting nothing in return. You will get burnt out.

From what you said, the guy is probably not so interested in you or he has a girlfriend and wants to stay loyal. Right now, you have two main options. 1. Escalate it and shows that you like him. It's all or nothing. You risk losing the friendship as well. 2. Ignore and don't bother seeing him again.

Stop whining. It's just making music. There's tons of stuff out there that's more difficult than making music. For example, talking to event organisers can be even more boring and tedious.

Just a newbie's video. Who doesn't know that you need self-love, set goals and boundaries?

Did Mr Money Mustache reveal how much he earn from investing in index funds and from his work? He must have earned a lot to be able to retire at age 30. Realistically, no one will retire at age 30 with 1 mil so I believe MMM earns way more than that.

The little puppies and kittens are there to comfort you, reminding you that if you ever need company, you can always play with them.

What about 'No excuses' by Brian Tracy?

Look at Sadhguru. He's so spiritual and is so successful as well!

Confront him directly. Tell him that you want to be taken seriously. Then you can assess how he reacts. Always be authentic and stay true to your values.

Society is just going to gain more knowledge and consciousness over time. If you don't want people to know all these things, don't share them haha.

You can read Letting go by David Hawkins. In there, there are specific techniques to help you work with your negativity.

@Consept where is the nice series on starting an Amazon fba? I am not American though.

I don't find language limiting. Maybe because English is not my native language so sometimes, I struggle to come up with words to describe certain things. And sometimes I wish I can explain certain things for longer periods but I am losing my client's attention and sometimes the discussion ended earlier than I want it to be. I am still trying to improve my language daily.

I can give you a free coaching session. I am not a life coach but I have read over 300 self-help books and courses so I know what helps and what doesn't to a good extent. Pm me if you want to know more.