hyruga

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  1. No. There must be a good narrative between the both of you. This builds up relationships. Not kill them. For example, if the guy and you have been to many places, been to Disneyland, been hiking, been skydiving, diving and stuff. Hell even watching tons of movies or netflix counts. There's stronger relationship and intimacy. This makes the relationship long lasting. A relationship that's built on sex will die fast without sex. You may think it's lame and it's selfish but life has always been like this. Why don't you stop breathing so that the person next to you has more oxygen to survive?
  2. Be unreactive. Be non-chalant. Be cool. You have forgotten what you learnt in self-help.
  3. Because you are a pretty lady and you have lots of attention on you all the time so you don't respond to many people. Now you just need to be more aware and respond more often. Build up the habit.
  4. Hold for as long as you can. You have to make him work for it. Make him get invested in you. Make him cherish the relationship. He has to do something that's more special than normal. Not just mere sweet-talking and drinking (at cafe or pub).
  5. @Matthew85 Good article! @Focus next time, pls post on the right sub-forum.
  6. the brown pill (fallen human nature) the white pill, (the grace of Baptism) the blue pill (worldly, secular thinking) the red pill (sudden insight into difficult but liberating truths) the black pill (despair and depression, anxiety, crisis of meaning) the gold pill (the sacramental return (or entry into) to Christ and His Church the mysterious seventh pill (because it’s heaven, it cannot be described only hinted at) There you go...https://www.patrickcoffin.media/red-blue-the-other-five-pills/
  7. The DISC Profile Test There are only 2 questions in this profile test. Answer within 5 seconds for each question. You have to choose the answer that's most relevant to you. Q1) Are you Outgoing or Reserved? (answer within 5 seconds. If you are 40% outgoing and 60% reserved, then choose reserved) Q2) Are you task-oriented or people-oriented? Refer to the picture below and tell us your profile in the thread. Now look at the answers and post your profile type. My type was C but I may have became more of an S now. End of Short Test. Longer Test available on the link below. https://www.123test.com/disc-personality-test/index.php
  8. Yes, sometimes the forum does not load or was quite slow for me. 10% of the time, it suddenly does not load or tell me website is unavailable or something close. 90% of the time, it works.
  9. I just retook a test. It seems I am more of an S now due to my job which requires interacting with a lot of people and I am less judgemental nowadays after reading tons of books. I took the test at: https://www.123test.com/disc-personality-test/index.php
  10. Hi Preety, thanks for taking the test. I like the DISC profile because it is much more easier to analyse a person using the DISC test than the MBTI. For example, someone like Donald Trump and Conor McGregor is obviously a D (Dominant, Direct). They care about winning first (task oriented) and are also quite loud and outgoing. whereas someone like Taylor Swift or Emily Clark is an I (Influence, Inspirer...). They care more about the people and also likes to talk. Then, there are people like Mother Theresa who care more about people than tasks. And yet are also slightly more introverted in real life so she falls under S (Steadiness, Supportive). EVen people like Mark Zuckerberg or his wife may be an S since they usually focused on improving the people's world through connections or great user experience. They are less focused on profits. C are the calculative/cautious/compliance type. Bill gates fit quite nicely into a C. He's more concerned with building better systems for the world rather than great user experience in general. I think DISC is easier to analyse and quite useful in real life. If compared with MBTI, I think being more outgoing usually means being extroverted. And being more people focused means being more of a feeling person than a thinking person. So your MBTI is most likely an INFX.
  11. Monday to Friday are for schools. Sat and Sunday for relaxation.
  12. Depends on what you want to be: A player or a committed long term partner. Obviously, the video is written for those who want to be player. You want to be an emotional pillar for your future spouse. Otherwise, she will leave you citing a lack of chemistry and connection between the both of you.
  13. Materials are all over youtube or vimeo. Just type on search: RSD Tyler or Owen Cook over and over again until you watch all the videos.
  14. Actually, Actualized.org is my favorite channel because Leo give me a forum to discuss and learn more about self-developmental stuff. https://www.youtube.com/c/ActualizedOrg
  15. There you go. The winning attitude book! https://www.amazon.com/Winning-Attitude-Create-Extraordinary-Results-ebook/dp/B07L7Y3FD4
  16. Pfizer, so far I know, has less side effects. Pfizer will give you a bit of arm numbness for 1-2 days (first dose), second dose may give you a slight fever. Moderna from what I have seen from others has a stronger side effect. Chest pain, fever, numbness but for most people, they can still get by.
  17. Reminds me of a dating app I used. A pretty girl 10 years my junior was messaging me. I was thinking of how to reply when I accidentally pressed "Sorry I am not interested" button. Then, the chat disappeared and I cannot message the person again. lol
  18. Why would interest rates be so high? I thought right now, interests rates should be at record low due to several rounds of QE (Quantitative easing)
  19. Read Emotional intelligence by Daniel Goleman And Emotional intelligence 2.0 by Mr Travis
  20. People are trapped by their own beliefs. They can believe in some things for their whole life only to realise they are wrong when they are dying. Some even carried their wrong beliefs to their death.
  21. It may be true. In some countries, trains may not be so frequent. Furthermore, this occurred in the past so trains are even less efficient and scarce. So trains' frequency at that station my be at intervals of 15 mins. If one driver is away, they may purposely delay the train interval to 30 mins (I know bus drivers do that)
  22. Having sex is just an ego thing. In reality, you may be harming your own body and her body. Just let go and find another better partner.