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You don't need a big city. You need a city that's densely populated. As long as there are lots of like minded people who often hang out in the same areas to look for mates, you have a huge chance.
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Last 12 hours to buy Hot Seat. Tyler covers a lot of points and provides the full package from what I see from Approaching to texting to flirting and so on. From what I see, Tyler talks a lot (like Leo) so his videos are often long and if you diligently work out what he's saying, you can definitely gain a lot. He doesn't make much 1-2 min video for the sake of it. He really explained the rationale behind each technique.
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Many people may not realize that during the last few years of his life Maslow believed self-transcendence, not self-actualization, was the pinnacle of human needs. What's more, it's difficult to find any evidence that he ever actually represented his theory as a pyramid. On the contrary, it's clear from his writings that he did not view his hierarchy of needs like a video game-- as though you reach one level and then unlock the next level, never again returning to the "lower" levels. He made it quite clear that we are always going back and forth in the hierarchy, and we can target multiple needs at the same time. So what’s your problem with the pyramid? It’s described as ‘Maslow’s pyramid’ when he did not create it and it’s just not a good representation of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. It perpetuates unfair criticisms of the theory. For example, that people are only motivated to satisfy one need at a time, that a need must be 100% satisfied before a higher-level need kicks in, and that a satisfied need no longer affects behavior. Another is the view that everyone has the same needs arranged and activated in the same order. In his 1943 article in Psychological Review Maslow anticipates these criticisms and says they would give a false impression of his theory. Maslow believed that people have partially satisfied needs and partially unsatisfied needs at the same time, that a lower level need may be only partially met before a higher-level need emerges, and that the order in which needs emerge is not fixed. https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/beautiful-minds/who-created-maslows-iconic-pyramid/
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Relentless by Tim Grover. And then. Winning by Tim Grover
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I haven't taken the course but a course will provide you with a framework on what to do and what not to do. There are probably philosophies that are helpful to you long term. If you watch random videos, you may miss out on many other techniques/philosophies because the whole teaching is not comprehensive enough. So if the money is not an issue for you, it may be worth it to spend it to get fast and comprehensive education. Also when you spend the money, you tend to be more committed.
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He already made a similar video: How to Feel Motivated. Well he used the word 'motivated' but the meaning is similar at least when Leo spoke about it (unless you want to bitch about it)
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Yeah continue to think of the stories and you will cry even more.
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Emeralds are typically found in Colombia, Madagascar, Canada, Zambia and Brazil among other countries. Emerald can be found in a variety of rock types that include shale and limestone. Colombia is the largest producer of emeralds in the world followed by Zambia.
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hyruga replied to WokeBloke's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Well, if you reframe everything to be a desire, then yes desire is the basis of all actions. For example, if you are unable to pay for the things that you want, then you have the desire to be prosperous. If you find life too overwhelming, then you have the desire to feel peace. And when life gets boring, you desire to have excitement. -
I see two ways language will affect you. 1. Your level of vocabulary will affect your consciousness. Even the word consciousness or enlightenment can mean different things to different people. So if you want to increase your consciousness, the best option is to read more books and understand more from teachers and gurus as well as understand your own self. 2. The second way language will affect you is you tend to read and use the same words daily. So you need to be aware and read or do something new daily.
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I am pretty sure the talking head on black color ground appears on many people's youtube feed. It depends on whether the person wants to click on it.
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Goals by Zig Ziglar (Shorter and more concise) Goals by Brian Tracy (In-depth) Well, you can also try Leo's Life purpose course. The LP course essentially is like a goal setting course for a layman.
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Yeah Eastern european or Asians are less open minded in this aspects. Or maybe it's in their culture. In Western countries, it's normal to smile more to blend more in groups. But in Asia, people are more skeptical and tend to display more of a frown to tell the strangers to stay away.
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It was never about his content. There are many things to talk about in his content: He can talk about positive thinking, time management, meditation blah blah blah. But what he really needs to do is to understand your situation and tackle the problem head-on if possible through logical means, emotional connection and more instead of beating about the bush.
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Change your coach. Your coach is likely in logical mode. You can only do this session this week and another session next week. The coach is too rigid and does not cater to your current needs. Dump him.
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You need to practice reading out loud. Some people stutter because they simply read too little or talk too little (especially during this pandemic). Their ego cannot take it if you tell them they are weak in their language. Just read more books and your stuttering will be reduced.
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Tell you what. Create a female account and put a relatively attractive girl's photos...bingo...she will receive more than 50 likes per day. Then check out other guys' profile to improve yourself.
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So what does Jesus Christ looks like?
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Quit school and find your own purpose or something you really love to study.
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Nah your girl did well. Playing hard to get (sex) is one of the best strategies for a girl to build a lifelong relationship.
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You won't be able to climb out (unless you are enlightened). You are like a frog in the well, with a concept of the world that represents 0.000001% of the whole world. Another problem is there's actually no ladder for you to climb out from. This isn't that bad because you can still be happy in your own well.
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Society will think what it wants to think. You cannot control it. You can only control what you can. Concentrate on the things that you can change for a start: Eg your career, your health, your family and friends.
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If you don't date, how are you going to build relationship with another person? You mean to say in your country, everyone has arranged marriage without any dating at all?
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During my peak reading period, I read/listen to books 16 hours daily (back when I was jobless). I set on my computer a reading app that will open itself on startup. I have ready reading apps or audio apps on my phones, my computers n tablets at all times. I will write notes (used to write on papers but now I write them online) I read/watch summaries of books as well after finishing the books. I will do reviews on almost all books I read and will also put my own ratings.
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I cannot really teach you breaks for it may affect your career in chess. You have to figure it out for yourself how to handle your passion for chess. For example, if I tell you to totally relaxed or meditate and not think anything, it may affect your ability to do higher order thinking in chess which is important if you want to get higher Elo ratings.