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For the average person, happiness is found both within and outside. Check out The Happiness Hypothesis. The author Jonathan Haidt talks about that.

Yeah for approach anxiety, if a beautiful girl walks past, I used to go Oh shit Oh shit. You need to reframe them. So now I say Oh yeah. At least I get to make a friend or she gets to meet me etc.

Yeah it makes me happy knowing I won't be easily tricked by Photoshop or whatever gif that shows you can cut and paste over EXACTLY when you actually cannot. There's clearly a 0.1 cm difference in length whether you are viewing on a laptop or tablet. If you are viewing on a phone, then good luck to you.

Yeah you are a 3 year old. You don't even know how to measure with a ruler.

Make sure you know how to measure! And make sure you know where the actual lines are located! lol Why don't you go and measure and tell us your actual results?

Some people are just jacka$$ who wants to dominate eVery conversation. Just let it go.

Practising the power of now. What he really needs is to be more present, more loving. Other books that I can think of is by Rhonda Bryne (going to get flamed lol)

Everyday you need to move. You need daily motion!

Miss 2 orders, Customers angry frustrated? Potential current loss and future loss? Cash register spoilt, Loss $400. Chair lock gone, loss? Time and money it takes to replace it? Did you offer to help them replace the chair lock? Did you offer to have part of your pay deducted? Stop judging your boss. The problem starts with you. Start judging yourself first in any case.

Like after I finish a sentence or two, I will run out of words to say. I actually prepared some notes and memorized them. But when it's time to make the speech, I tend to forget quite a significant amount of notes. It will take me a long time to recollect some of the notes. I want to give speeches without looking at notes so much. How do I overcome this mental block?

Not the same. Try using a ruler on the screen. The left table is 6.5 and 6.7 cm in length. The right table is 6.4 and 6.6 cm in length. And the drawings are horrible.

@Leo Gura Wow this is it! I tend to be always thinking logically! Sometimes I forget about what's even the topic I am talking about. Yes I need to trust my intuition and let go of control. Thank you! @Valiant Thanks for your idea. Prior to reading both replies, I actually did a short video. But I was in my head and a lot of things went wrong. Body language was wrong and I did not even close off the subject.

Ever play football manager with genie? Your ability will drop with age even if your knowledge stays the same. Obviously if you are 60 year old, no matter what game knowledge you have, your game ability is less than that of a 30 year-old in general. So yeah, you will learn game for a long time until one day, you decided to stop gaming. And your ability will keep dropping if you don't revise.

@ValiantSalvatore Thanks for your feedback. Looks like I need to get on the journaling bandwagon. @Raze Thanks for the videos!

@itachi uchiha good point. Thanks for the book recommendation. @Preety_India Alright but my aim is to talk without looking at notes. I think I can squeeze 3-5 paragraphs in one speech. If I squeeze more, I will tend to forget parts of what I want to say. @r0ckyreed Yeah. Use fear to fuel your growth. Courage is action in spite of the fear! Thanks for all your pointers @ValiantSalvatore Great points. TAlking to self is something I do. The second point about Talking about what works and what doesn't and then ask questions or find ways for them to connect. It sorts of reminds me of writing essay back in school time when I have to write the pros and cons of a concept, then end off with a proper stand and conclusion. The last point about journalling to cultivate self expression is important too. I dislike writing as a kid and now it's biting back at me. I have to write more to improve my language and expression.

Okay thanks. Being courageous is very important. It also makes you spontaneous. I suppose being joyful helps as well as being passionate and wanting to provide value.

Both actually. I used to be really good in spelling and dictation in school. Also have no problem remembering math formulas in school. But when it comes to giving speech for public speaking or talking to friends, I will forget my words.

Well yeah. They will continue to milk 12/12 as Black Friday. Then probably when Xmas come, they can change the words Black Friday to New year/Xmas Sales.

Why don't you get a job?

It's worth it because you got the job. Stop being petty and learn to be grateful.

https://www.truthunity.net/ebup Eric Butterworth's Christian sermons. But he is a bit different. He always said there is divine power within all of us!

With the dislike count removed, it's a good chance to quit YouTube for good. What are some alternatives? Dailymotion?

I don't listen to podcasts. I must watch with a video most of the time even if it's just a talking head.

Yeah dating apps are like this. I created a female acc and immediately I got 50+ likes per day and another more than 50+ likes the next day. A male account will not have so many likes a day. So it's basically the men's job to do lots of liking. And the women's job to select and like back the ones she like.