hyruga

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  1. Life's like that. When you failed, you actually became weaker as the body and mind keep thinking of past failures. When you succeed, you gain more pleasure and want to repeat your success again.
  2. https://www.actualized.org/forum/bookmarks/ Just go to your bookmarks
  3. Yeah visualizing both through your own eyes as well as seeing yourself from outside can both be important. Yes feeling is extremely important. I would personally feel that having the feelings to want to change is more important than visualisation. So yeah, you can set goals. Another trick is to wear nicer clothes so you feel confident. Of course, beliefs tie in together with who you want to become. If you have the belief that you are a loving human being who is good to everyone, then you will act out more and more in such a manner and this will make you a more loving person in general. You probably can read books on law of attractions.
  4. Yeah I agree with all that you mentioned, @r0ckyreed. For me, it's about mind control in this case. Either you take control of your mind or your mind controls you. I don't do much of 'no-mind' meditation as firstly, I have trouble getting into 'no mind' plus all the reasons you listed make it not worthwhile to do much. I still do breathwork and analytical meditation.
  5. Avengers end game because it talks about the end of life.
  6. The moment when you are about to die is when you have no ego. Even the smell of shit no longer matters to you when you know your body will turn to soil too.
  7. Can't be. I am a Chinese and I have got to say that your command of the English language is so much better than me. I am sure you understand the differences and if you really don't, just go to dictionary.com and search for the meaning and contemplate on them.
  8. Thank you so much. Now I know how to stay awake or sleep better.
  9. Depends if you want to be a Psyche lecturer or tutor. Or a counsellor. You do need certifications to get certain jobs.
  10. Yeah Atomic habits shove all the formulas for habits forming right down your throat. If you need more explanation, then you have to read other books to know the rationale behind each formula. A powerful rebranding of "The power of habits" and "tiny habits" plus other books. Does it work? Well, it depends on the person. For example, people can teach you to be healthy: Exercise more, eat more vegetables, don't smoke. Almost everyone knows these but why isn't everyone doing them.
  11. You want to form any event. You can always post it here for all to read instead of privately sending only to those you like. That's disconnecting from others who might be interested. Of course, you do not have to post the exact details. You can always post something like "We are meeting at Jurassic Park on 17 April. For more details, pls pm me"
  12. I have never taken the course but can tell you that it is not the course that will change you. It is what you do consistently after the program is over that will transform you. For example, you can go for a 3 days intensive rifle shooting course. Sure in that 3 days, your shooting will improve tremendously. But if you don't practice after that, you will just become rusty like everyone else.
  13. Not allowed to form groups or discord server outside of this forum.
  14. Contemplate your death. You see even if someone wins a gold medal, they won't be thinking about death at that moment so you can be ahead of the person in consciousness when you just contemplate about death. Then you can be proud of yourself for having higher consciousness than someone else for a moment at least ?.
  15. Intuition is bullshlt. You need strength.
  16. Bro Julian, don't curb desires to be famous. Go for fame if that's what you want. You should cultivate your ego.
  17. I am fasting this week as Good Friday is coming. (One full meal, 2 x smaller meals daily). Also, I will eat vegetarian diet for lunch.
  18. Yeah it is usually not a good experience as I usually mind my own business but suddenly I get a warning point or two. It becomes a battle of the egos. Hey I didn't deserve this. "Hey, you do" Then, you realise everything is the result of your own thoughts and interpretation and it becomes the battle of your own ego with yourself. Anyway, it doesn't matter because you would still physically die within 120 years from now.
  19. I am still at stage beige because if I don't earn money, I won't have enough to eat and survive. But anyway, as far as I know, no human is older than 123 years old. So within the next 123 years from now, all of us reading this in 2022 will physically die so stop overthinking.
  20. Then you don't need a religion. But for the majority of the people, they still need. Religious people apparently are statistically more happy that is quite a reason. They are unable to realise that they are God themselves.
  21. So are you happy?
  22. Fill your emptiness by living soulful. Let your individuality out by accepting your idiosyncrasies and dark side.
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  24. Does it matter whether he apologise? and whether he mean it? I mean guys can apologize and really mean it. But they can also still have an hidden agenda thereafter. People's agenda change all the time depending on the circumstances.