Waken

That title sums it up, but here a little more text for ya: I was just pondering what seems the most exciting to do for me now and what I'm offering here is the best thing I came up with. I've done this more times and am I guide in this on liberationunleashed.com. For those who aren't familiar with that: that's a website where people can ask for a guide that help them see that there isn't a self. This isn't an intellectual, but an experimental investigation and you may expect some things to change. To expect that you'll shift into awakening is extremely unrealistic in my experience though. I'd be mostly asking some questions, you would look at an aspect of your experience and reply back. I'm offering it here now because I recently got my new girlfriend interested in that site and I rather don't have her see me being active on that site and being a guide there, to not cause possible discomfort to her. Anyway, so I'd be happy to guide someone in this. If you do this with some sincerity, pretty much guaranteed you'll get the results. If you would be interested to keep exploring into some other things after that, that would be possible too ^^ We could do it over pm, or even in this thread if you like. Just write me here or in pm if you're interested about what you'd like. But then the rule is one guy in one topic, not in the same convo to avoid comparison. Thank you and best wishes

Yep got you. Bashar says about that that if you act on your passion, all that needs to be done will arrange itself automatically/magically and what doesn't get done is what doesn't need to be done. I also don't know how long it will take for this arrangement to happen. But exciting to try no?:D Lol, yea what @Osaid. If you would ask the question 'what would I love most doing now (from what is available to me now)?' I doubt you'd think of staying in bed some more. It's not a bit complicated. What you share is a massively harder feat lol. Appreciating your contribution:)

Wow, quite some work went in that! Good stuff!

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Absolutely loved his book. What a beautiful read I found it! From other sources, channeled information, I've also heard about the further evolution of the human. So that seems to line up with Christopher

Has Wayne Dyer been mentioned yet? I heard of him a while back and my curiosity was sparked, but it only was a couple of days ago that I youtubed his name and watched a video: Didn't even watch the complete video yet, but just his voice alone is pretty attractive to me. Soft and gentle.

I appreciate your post, thank you:)

Well I use quite some mantras and find them really good. I probably underestimated the power of them quite a bit before having much experience with it. Sri Kaleshwar is a good guy to Google if you're interested in it. You can even chant mantras all day. Like really, doing it literally all day. It will pull in good energy and also takes your mind away from other thoughts. I've been chanting it more and more throughout the day, with the intent to eventually just chant them basically constantly lol

It's been pretty great in my experience too. It can move me to a rather deep state of peace, which I found pleasantly suprising

jee, what a bunch of bullshit people often sling to each other on this forum lol. It often gets into a back and forth of mental gymnastics, trying to disprove others using a rather arbitrary point of view

Yea I've felt the same for quite some years. Not feeling like that anymore though. I live in Noord-Brabant now, but I suppose that's still a little far for meeting up with someone so now and then.

Well, I'm all for following your passion. Why aren't you doing that?

@Himanshu That's wonderful! Many thanks to you good sir Just playing is fine

@Andrey_U Good stuff man! Wishing you all the best

Well, but thinking of yourself as weak will create the experience of feeling and thinking like someone weak. Change your thought, and you'll change your experience. Perhaps you've been using your rather unrecognized big power, to only make it look like you're weak? Okay, I'm out of here. Take care buddy

@Elshaddai Yes I've also been very bad at being vulnerable. I'm doing much better now since having done quite some healing work and also by slowly being more and more open. Like I would be afraid of having sex, so I would then I would call a sexline and have phone sex lol. It was just to push my boundaries, and served as an in-between stage to be more comfortable around the idea of having actual sex with someone. I was quite nervous the first time I called, second time was reasonably fine already and so didn't call more after that. You'll probably have trauma from people who have shunned you or laughed at you or something like this (from this or previous life(s)). Is it true that you think of yourself as weak, or are at least afraid that you might be? Are you?

@Himanshu Where do you have this from? Is there something written about this? I find these sort of things interesting:-)

A part from the book 'Healing and Evolving the Emotional Body' on habits: All the habits and appetites that man has had and enjoyed, for the most part, have been judged against as harmful to Spiritual development. Lists of things to avoid have included alcohol, sugar, red meat, drugs, caffeine, marijuana, tobacco, sex and extremes of any kind. The understanding is needed that the problem is not the substances themselves but the habit patterns and the extremes often associated with these substances. The substances have been thought to be causal, but it is consciousness that is causal and nothing else. For example, eating meat, especially red meat, has long been thought to make men too dense to receive Spiritual illumination and yet it is not causal here. The desire to eat meat has accompanied the consciousness needing it. Nourishment must match the vibration of the consciousness taking it in. All habits drop away when the consciousness is released from the need for them. In not understanding what was causal here, many have tried to break out of habits, giving up meat for example, by using discipline and control. This approach only causes the pattern of habit to change its form. The reason for the habit pattern needs to be found, and then accepted and understood, not condemned and disciplined away.

my thoughts: I think that perhaps you could say that spiral development is just raising your energy through the chakras. The higher your state of being, the better you will function. Like if you're happy, don't you function better then when you're depressed?

Oh I see. I can relate actually, as I've had and still have to some degree the same fear. I'd be afraid that I would suck very hard at sex and wouldn't know what to do, or would come very fast. Or I would be concerned what other people (like my family) would think of her if I would end up in a relationship with a specific girl. In the end, the best thing is just to go through it anyway. You can take it slow and make it gentle for yourself right? Maybe even let her know you're a little worried about being with a woman, that you haven't done that before. Maybe you'll find she'll respond way more understanding and friendly than you feared and will take it easier for you. When there is something I have to do and feel fearful about it, I tend to just make it one step at a time, and take some time to relax and be with the fear. Once that fear settles a bit I feel okay to take it a small step further. Okay, I think everyone can relate to some degree to that, although you might have it more than most. When your mind gets hyperactive, what do you do? You try anything to calm yourself? For example https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5m6tMjcF8k is one of the techniques you could use. It's normal that your mind does these things. Your mind tries to maintain the identity/how you see yourself and so will put up fear and whatever it can in order to hold on to whatever belief or viewpoint. I like to just take a small step further and then be with the fear, small step further, be/work with the fear. I find it quite doable like that. Sorry, I can't do better than this. Hope you'll move past it buddy, you can do it

You can read the book "Journey of Souls", it will explain what happens after 'death' from the experiences a guy had over the many years of giving past life regression sessions. Edit: okay I see you mean more like death of the person/self. Ignore message above

Yes but then what is the exact reason for the fear? Because you're having a certain definition/viewpoint that is creating that fear. Are you taking it personally when you're 'screwing up'? Do you feel inadequate or have embarrassment about it? Or is it because, you're for example, afraid of being alone? If you look into what you're actually believing there that is causing the fear, you might find something that isn't really true, and then you'd let it go. Of course, there are many other ways to deal with these sort of things. Oh well. Nail both of em and see what you like best lol Well about those other problems. People can't help you if you don't give more detail as to what is causing the failure, you silly ? All the best

What are you believing that is the reason for the fear? Is the weird or autistic thing you do that fucks it up, done by accident, or is it done (subconsciously) for a reason, for example, because you fear if the relationship continues she'll leave you?

Sure, I'll mention some things that I've done myself, found useful and what gives you a bit of a sense of different approaches. There's so much more, of course. - Sri Kaleshwar is quite a G and has brought some good systems where you chant mantras. The 5 elements system is likely the best system of his to start with. You can learn it for free here: https://learn.divinelineage.org/ . You could try out the earth 1 channel. You might find it's quite powerful and pleasant to do. The more you do it the more you'll charge it and the more powerful it gets. I got to know Sri Kaleshwars systems about 8/9 months ago and still do them daily, sometimes hours of it a day. If you're serious you could get an initiation and it would boost your practice a little (I could give it). Even without it, it's still very powerful and a very holistic approach. - A suggestion on how to quiet the voice in the mind (I see your question above). Just follow this question 'What am I thinking about right now?'. This curious introspection to your thoughts is really good in quieting down thought. It's good, but if you're only going to try out one thing and could use some excitement, then better to start out with another one from the list. - go to http://liberationunleashed.com/ and ask for a guide that helps you to see there isn't a self/person. It's quite a good start to have on this journey. You'll experience one or more shifts while going through this, which is and nice and corrects your understanding of how things work a bit. Afterwards you could use the same approach to explore deeper things. - Holotropic breathwork and also holographic breathwork. - https://www.ascensionlibrary.org/. This approach makes use of light language. You listen to encoded audio files. It's very powerful though even though it can look very new agey to people. There are some things you could listen to for free, others are paid. Some programs I downloaded so you could get those. - here something different again: http://iawaketechnologies.com/ you could use it while meditating. Lot's of the programs can be torrented. To spice things up even further, you could also add a little bit of mushrooms to this:D - Isha foundation. Some good yoga and meditation things there. Whatever you end up doing, I hope you come out healed and get to know higher and higher dimensions of life/yourself

I watched 80%. I think it's a good video for people who are seeing Leo as a hero. In my view, the perceptions given in the video are about half right. I think many people on the forum know that Leo can overblow it here and there and put too much significance on certain things. Some of the things Leo said in his video's, Leo probably wouldn't say again. But then the understanding of the guy in the video doesn't seem quite as deep as Leo. Of course, the guy has his own biases and judges Leo with that too.