Emotionalmosquito

That’s fair enough. As long as a plain old rejection is the full extent of it. Some girls will go out of their way to screw us over as hard as possible just because they were offended we thought we were good enough for them. Myself and others here have experienced such things. But again, that’s for a different thread. And what was the prompt for your sudden change in heart? I’m still trying to understand why you think this thread is but a weak attempt at an apology to half the earth’s population? Imagine if a racist black or white person extended a friendly hand to the opposite race trying to ameliorate some of their hatred if only for a moment. Nobody would be saying that’s not necessary and really what they should be doing is looking within. Looking within is always good but what’s wrong with doing both?

Could not agree more Good shit! It’s important to recognize that both teams have very valid points, and the truth probably lies somewhere in the middle. Otherwise we’ll never get any progress made. Women really are becoming less feminine from the increasing demands of society. But lucky for me, should I ever end up with one, I’m not overly concerned with that. Getting plenty of action is the main thing. Femininity is great, but lacking it isn’t a deal breaker.

I’m familiar with four of them: Bjork Teal Swan Aurora Dolly Parton Aurora is fucking awesome. One of my best friends, who happens to be double X chromosome, turned me onto her. My top pick from her would have to be She also sent me an extensive interview. Seems like an angel. Teal Swan is cool too. I went through a phase in high school and a few years after where I was bordering obsessed with her. Her videos helped me with some of the shit I was facing at that time. Especially the ones for handling difficult emotions and the meditation techniques. Not to mention I had some of her modeling pictures saved at one point. Don’t know much about Bjork or Dolly apart from them being musicians. Except I do know one of the songs I posted (Glasser - Apply) is apparently influenced by Bjork’s style.

I’m sorry but ya got me confused. First it’s like “Apology not good enough. Not having it.” Then it’s “Actually you should be apologizing to yourself, not women.” Are these statements at odds or have I overlooked something?

Yikes! Almost forgot two of the classics

Many men are fully at peace with themselves despite being based woman haters. Would you tell them the same thing? I already love myself enough. My misogyny doesn’t come from hating myself, it comes from being hated by women. Also where some of my kinks come from. If all that’s needed is for men to fix their wounds or whatever then why would an international holiday dedicated to the entire opposite gender be necessary? And I don’t like the idea that I’m trying to apologize to anyone. More like I’m simply doing something healthy by going out of my comfort zone. If anything I’d say they’re the ones with most of the apologizing to do. Nobody needs to ass kiss to anyone in this thread. It’s just for sharing what we like about women (challenging as it may be) in celebration of a holiday, nothing more or less.

Very good point. I can’t relate completely with being less emotional because I myself have always been quite the emotional mosquito. Perhaps even more so than a typical female on some days. But on top of them generally being more emotional than us, they also have to deal with periods every month which makes their already roller coaster ride of emotions ten times worse! For a large chunk of them it’s an incredibly painful process. AND it’s an embarrassing taboo that they have to hide as best they can. All this while still being required to carry out their daily duties. Massive round of applause for that one.

I can think of some times when they did in the past, not so much as of lately. But the fact that I’m almost never around any might have something to do with it Can’t live with em, can’t live without em To get into it here would defeat the entire intention of this thread. But I have plenty of reasons. For now let’s leave it at Except I haven’t said anything they’ve done wrong. That’s not what I’m doing right now. But I see where you’re coming from. Totally fair. Just try to understand how difficult it is for me to talk nicely about women. I’m fighting against years of deeply misogynistic thinking here. This really is my best attempt. The reason I said that stuff that makes it sound like I’m not being fully genuine is because I’m trying to strike a delicate balance. I don’t wanna get too close to full on woman-worshipping simp while still distancing as far as possible from hardcore incel level misogyny. This protects me from feeling like a simp and makes the thread easier for others like me to pop in and make positive contributions comfortably. I did say “as long as it’s not TOO brutal” meaning we’re allowed to take friendly jabs at each other but no more maliciously than what you’d see among groups of good friends. In a perfect world the genders would be able to tease one another without it turning ugly. @Bazooka Jesus did it well by making that boner joke about me having hard feelings, and by saying they can be bitches but they’re also wonderful. That’s the kind of stuff I’m talking about. Don’t underestimate the power of a perfect song at the right moment. Even if singing and composing music was the only thing they ever gave to the world, that would still be enough for them to be lovable. It’s far from all they do for us, but it happens to be my favorite. Probably still would be even if I was getting laid all the time.

I’ve been cursed with such a fantasy because some bitch threatened to do just that when I was trolling her back in jr high. Might not be quite as fun as I thought once I actually experience it. Some day I’ll order an escort and put it to the test. For me i don’t think it has anything to do with past life experiences, but I could be wrong Im kind of in the same boat as you at the moment. Fully embracing all the weird stuff and putting nofap on hold until I regain the strength to get back on track. Ive laughed uncontrollably after fapping a few times but it’s not common. Lately I’ve been doing animal faps. Where right at the climax i make a different animal noise according to the day of the week. Sunday is dog day, Monday is monkey day, Tuesday is horse day, Wednesday is pig day, Thursday is turkey day, Friday is cow day and Saturday is caturday (cat day) Pretty fun way to spice it up Not really sure about the deeper reasons why people have kinks. It’s not always due to some trauma so I think it’s a pretty complicated topic. More research is needed

About how badly are we talking?

these two deserve a separate post

See the thing is most of the women calling guys creeps aren’t doing it for valid reasons, they just say it because the guy isn’t their type or they cracked a joke that didn’t land well. That makes women who experience actual creepiness get taken less seriously. Often times a guy will be looking at a girl for several minutes trying to build the confidence to approach. To her, that may look like he’s plotting a kidnap or something. So when he finally works up the nerve, she will automatically react very negatively because she has already decided in her mind that he’s a threat before he even has a chance to show otherwise. Then he’ll go home falsely believing he may really be creepy. That’s messed up. Then unless he has emotional mastery he will likely carry that energy into the next approach. I can totally understand why a woman would feel unsafe if she’s being approached in an empty parking garage or alone on the street. But they act like this in crowded areas in broad daylight or in clubs where there’s no possible way a dude could get away with assaulting her. I don’t see how people think we have all this power or where it’s coming from. Women have more power than ever before in history and are actively gaining even more. The only thing we have on them is muscle, nothing more. The law and social dynamics are biased in their favor in most developed countries now.

Not even sure if that’s true about mr engineer (unless I’ve missed a post where he admitted that). You might be surprised. What I do know is i will say anything I say here to a woman IRL. No fucks given. As long as I remain standing a nice safe distance away from her I will say anything limited only to what won’t get me a charge.

@Emerald Good to hear from u again, Emerald. Haven’t seen you around in while. I’ll take a better look at what u said as well as mr engineer’s thread tomorrow. My eyes have taken too much screen strain for today. To mods and Leo, Please please do not lock this. This is a very important conversation that needs to be had!

@mr_engineer I will

I’ll read the thread tomorrow but for now I’m gonna have to disagree that it’s not more than a slur. The n word makes blacks extremely angry and rightfully so. But that’s basically all it does. The word “creep” fucking annihilates us on all levels when it’s used against us by girls. It cuts our balls off and drops nuclear warheads on them

@mr_engineer it is a slur but it’s also much more than just that. It’s literally a curse

Alright. Firstly, I’d like to preface what I’m about to say by saying I fully intend on making a women appreciation thread for women’s day next week in honor of all the wonderful things they’ve done, my favorite being music. But this creep shaming thing, this gets me fuming like no other and ready to take off the gloves. So here we go! The word “creepy” is now more than anything else being used by women to control and dominate us men into submission. It’s their most powerful silver bullet that penetrates right down to the heart of our self confidence. It trips us up psychologically in a way that is not easy to recover from. Any time you’re out in any social setting trying to flirt or otherwise interact with the fems in a playful way, they know that all they have to say to shut you down for good is CREEP! They do this because they feast on the devastating, humiliating pain it causes us and the sense of power it gives them; and because it’s the quickest, easiest and most enjoyable way for them to get rid of a guy they’re not interested in. We will always be defeated when this curse is cast upon us by the wicked female gender, that is UNLESS we master the art of not giving a fuck. The most powerful way to do this is by purposely being as literally creepy as you can legally get away with. If they wanna misuse that word by turning it against us, it’s up to us as men to collectively stand up to their tyranny by showing them what creepy really means. Stand in doorways at coffee/smoothie shops etc. when you see one or a group about to enter and say “Access denied until you show me some love, baby.” Boldly take pictures of them right in front of their friends then say “I’ll be using that later 😏” Stare at them from the outside of restaurant windows until management comes out to tell you to leave. Get creative with it while staying within the law. This will build unbreakable confidence within you that reduces their creep shaming weapon down to the impotence of a nerf gun. It’s up to us to show these witches we’re not just gonna sit down and take their disrespect like good little spineless wimps!

I know u didn’t say a specific amount of time it would take. But u saying not to worry about timing is almost just as bad. What if it takes twenty years? For all I know it will. Should be obvious how unacceptable that amount of time is if that turns out to be what it takes. I’ve already been waiting my whole life and possibly much longer only to receive more and more and more and more times infinity of no sex. I’ve placed the order, the universe knows what I want yet it still insists on making me wait perhaps indefinitely because it likes to stroke its vast cosmic cock to the sight of my suffering virgin soul. In the absolute sense, yes. There is no time. But here in this 3d realm we’re stuck in time is very real and affects us all in a fundamental level. Would you rather be forced to go 1 week or 1 decade without being able to touch your pussy? In practical terms like that time is very real. That’s why I’m concerned with timing. I have no more patience to wait. That’s what I like to hear! Sure hope it’s true. Yeah but the sun doesn’t have to put up with getting boners it’s not allowed to use for what they’re made for On a side note, one thing that irks me is when assumption/affirmation videos give warnings because of how supposedly powerful they are. Bryan Scott says it in that romantic love video, he’s like “I warn you, if you do not want to experience powerful romantic love in your life do not watch this.” The only reason they say that is so you’ll feel like you’re onto something to get you to keep watching and consuming the content. I’ve been getting into this stuff for months now and I’ve seen numerous “warnings” on the manifestation videos and still nothing. So how powerful are they really? All I’m saying is one little crumb of action any day now would be fantastic. One teeny tiny eency weency little speck of kinky physical contact just to show me this stuff might actually work would do me a world of good. Make the universe stop being a bitch

Those of you who are at the lowest point of your entire life, anyone who gets chewed up and spit out by the ruthlessness of human nature at every single attempt to acquire a girl, anyone who feels absolutely destroyed far beyond any possible hope of repair due to your crippling inability to gain any dating experience, get in here and tell me your story. Feel free to get angry and blow off some of that steam you have bursting at the seams. We need to remind each other we’re not alone. People often tell me they’ve been where I’m at; that they’ve faced the same challenges I’m facing. Perhaps they have, but one look at just how bleak my situation is gives me serious doubts. Have you guys who’ve “been there” really ever fallen this far into the pits of mental hell? Have you felt like every last ounce of good vibe or positivity has been sucked out of you every time you come home from a night out, or spent most of your time feeling that way even without going out? Have you ever been to the point where the happiest thoughts you can think is for women and happy couples to be brought to the same level of misery as you? Because I’m there now. I love this scene from Hereditary Always brings a tear to my eye. This is the best depiction I’ve ever seen of the inner agony of being a hard stuck incel. Of course I’ve never lost a child so it may not be identically the same, but it’s damn close. I know that feeling when I see it, especially when it’s done this well. Just throw in some rage of a thousand gods of chaos in addition to the devastating sadness and there you have it.

What do you have to say about I fucking hate reading stuff like that because I know how true it is. He’s basically saying literally the only way it helps is by putting you in a better mood. That’s not good enough. Girls aren’t attracted to good moods alone, they’re mainly attracted to good game. It needs to be able to make our approaches much better by making the girls effortlessly attracted to us. Sure we may still need to cold approach, but it needs to work in a way that makes our approaches provide much better payouts and much more quickly and easily instead of this having to go through thousands of rejections bullshit which also means attracting negative attention for us small town dwellers Most people in the LoA community think it actually is the end all be all, and some have success stories to back it up This is simply not possible for me. Why would I be willing to wait around for the subconscious/universe which is supposedly all loving to take it’s dear sweet time to give me the only goddamn thing that matters anymore? Why wait for something that for all I know may take 20 years to manifest, at which point I won’t even be able to enjoy it nearly as much because the sex drive will be significantly reduced? What about those videos that promise instant results?

That’s why I said “I think it did something” Usually when I would do an approach like that it would turn sour really fast, so the video must be doing something because that was my very first approach after listening a couple times. Pretty rare to have an encounter quite that wholesome out of nowhere. So it’s either that or just random luck. I’ll only know for sure after more tries

I’ve only listened like 4 or five times and I did the approach after listening only one or two. Planning on listening again here shortly. I do like the video, it’s powerful. I can feel it working, just not sure how long it’s gonna take to give the ultimate result. And it’s hard to follow along with it fully because he keeps saying to imagine a specific person and my mind keeps picturing myself with completely unobtainable people. That girl I met didn’t lead anywhere because she was already engaged. Do you know of any similar meditations for love with multiple partners?

I think it did something. Recently, I was at the mall and decided to approach a girl sitting in the food court. To give you an idea of my mindset going into this, I’ve taken so much shit from women I was prepared to throw down verbally because I was expecting her to be a bitch. Boy was I wrong. Turns out she was the loveliest, most adorable thing ever. 🥺 Her body was only slightly better than my area’s average but her personality boosted her up to a solid 9.5 easily because she did nothing but give the sweetest feminine energy I’ve had in a long time. For the next two days my heart was expanded four sizes and I was on a love rush where music sounded better, my overwatch was more fun, I was in a super good mood, felt physically lighter and was more in touch with emotion. I know this sounds simpy and sappy as fuck but it’s not like that at all. If anything it’s the opposite. The fact that I’m such a sucker for a woman’s charm makes it so I have to be highly perceptive of red flags. I’ll be damned if I ever end up pussy whipped. To some extent I believe it’s no different for most of us. But when you fall as hard and easily as me, you have to be keenly aware of potential users. And because I still have tons of sexploration I need to do before even considering locking in with one person.