Emotionalmosquito

Besides, are we going to keep acting like all women are some monolithic being? Seems pretty sexist if you ask me. I like to think different women respond to different things unless you’re coming at them as a complete unhinged nut job or immanent threat to their safety.

Like I said, this is not the case, silly goose. It’s a video of a girl satirically showing how she’d like to deal with men who do invalidate their menstrual struggles. At least I hope it’s satirical. You often say flirting is all about HOW you say stuff, and less about WHAT is said. Then in the same breath you go on saying how there are certain things which I should avoid. So which is it? And not just you but many people keep telling me the same thing, “The energy behind what you say is what counts” I can guarantee you if I were to open with something normal like “Hey, how are you today? I’m interested in meeting you” I’d have the same energy with that as I would if I were to say the things I really want to talk about. If girls already know what you want either way then what difference does it make?

Incorrect. It’s a video of a girl showing how to respond when guys invalidate it

Sup shawty, I wanna have sex with you. Will you please get in my car? Straight forward, no bullshit. See the problem? That’s a shame because as the saying goes: If she’s dumb as dirt, she’ll let you squirt. Super smart, she has no heart. Girls with low self esteem may be more apt to respond well to disrespect. Or toxic girls. A toxie isn’t gonna be thrilled by you being real nice and civil because she’s not that way to very many people herself. She’ll respond to your respectfulness with something like “have a nice day” or “yeah? So what you creep?” So they might need a dose of their own medicine to get their attention. No? I have absolutely no problem hooking up with a toxie even if she’s mean as hell the whole way there because I’m not looking for a committed relationship with her. I would love nothing more in the world than to become this guy

If you wanna be the one to bail me outta jail when I accidentally say the wrong thing to the wrong girl, maybe I’ll start cold approaching more regularly. Not tryna sound standoffish but that’s what its come to. You have to be extremely careful and precise about every single little thing that comes out of your mouth if you want any chance of making progress with a girl and if you give her the creeps, oh boy! Bad news for you. The stakes could not be any higher. This is exactly the reason there is a population crisis. In a much bigger city this is less of an issue because there’s less chance of bumping into the same girl multiple times and there’s so much other stuff going on thus less focus on you.

This “plenty of fish in the sea” concept is played out and unhelpful. For those of us who don’t have the money, energy or resources to move out of our bullshit 60k population city, it means nothing to us. How many women are single? The number instantly gets cut in half at best. How many are heterosexual? The number drops further. How many are within the correct age range? There goes even more options. How many aren’t stuck up nut cases with ridiculously high standards? There goes a whole bunch more. See what I mean? We actually have very very little to work with if we’re lucky

Exactly. No it isn’t graphic, not even close. It makes reference to a kink I have in a comedic fashion. Almost exactly right. Only it’s a girl acting out a hypothetical scenario wherein a guy says that to her and she responds by doing that. She plays all three roles herself; the girl, the guy and the personified period. I’d like to think I’m already there. I mean I know I’m not going up to girls like “h h h hey, c c can I get ur numbrr? Ur real pretty” all hunched over and trembling over my words and such. I usually try to do a few warmups on regular people in general first that way I’m not all rusty.

Nope. Don’t have it installed yet but that could change if my phone is a new enough model to download it. It’s too old for a lot of apps. Lol! If only

I know. This is definitely one of the friendliest places on the internet. It’s just that this is information that I’ve only shared with one other person, the therapist, and only recently. So I’m hesitant. This gives me a whole new respect for people trying to come out as gay. First I’ll give you a hint and if you don’t guess it I might just say it. What is the obvious comeback a woman would give to a man who is invalidating her period pains? I’m not interested in invalidating women’s struggles, the potential of what could come after is what I’m looking for. Like if a guy says, it’s not really that big of a deal, you’re being such a drama queen about it” she might say “yeah well if I’m just being dramatic about my thing then how about I.... and see how you feel!” If that doesn’t give it away I’ll have to spill it. Ps. I’m going to a big town function in a few days so I would really appreciate some ideas on how I could work some magic. @something_else I really wanna dig into what you said but I’m running out of energy for the night. You always seem to give me the most substantial replies so big props for that

Think about it, 1. It’s the biggest mainstream social media platform in the world, not a porn sight or anything of the like. 2. What I’m showing them isn’t even close to as bad as other stuff that’s on there. 3. My main objective is to simply get them talking about it, the possibility of them doing the extra deed is just a bonus if the idea comes up. 4. If they aren’t having it, it’s no problem at all. It’s only harassment if it’s ongoing despite them telling you to stop. Know all this, how is it reasonable to think I might end up in cuffs? link the thread for me? I just walk up and say “hey, I need some female opinion on this tiktok, you mind?” Simple as. Yes, I know that girls know we want to drill them. So what? We also know they want to ride on us as long as we’re [insert list of characteristics chicks find desirable in dudes here] How does that change anything? Don’t we all have a hidden agenda of wanting to bone the girl we’re talking to? If it’s better to be yourself and be perfectly authentic than to drop some scripted routine on her, then why not just tell her what you want outright? We literally have to hide our intentions and heavily self censor if we want any chance of getting them in bed with us, otherwise why wouldn’t we just walk up and say “hey sexy lady, let’s head back to my place and do the ol’ fucky sucky.” That would inevitably get your nuts crushed if you went around doing your approaches in that manner.

In my experience that is 100 percent untrue. If they’re creeped out by the subject matter it makes no difference whether or not you’re comfortable talking about it. Really pisses me off because you hear everyone saying to just be yourself and talk about what you’re interested in when that clearly isn’t working. The best results I’ve ever had with women was when I was being completely and utterly fake, with a few rare exceptions. Interesting how girls are deemed to be such excellent judges of character with high eq and very good at reading people but they can’t even tell the difference between an actual creep and a guy that’s just socially awkward.

What’s interesting about that is women are attracted to muscle tone on men. They like to feel small in your arms and protected and stuff. Yet it also makes them afraid of you? Hmmm ?

I could not give any less of a fuck about the other things. I just want the girls and that’s it. But apparently that’s way too much to ask. There’s a popular nature area by where I dwell. It’s pretty big with lots of sections to explore and trails to walk and places to swim. I’ve been there probably a thousand times and I’ve only met a handful of girls and only one gave me the number and she ended up ghosting me like every single girl does. How exactly am I supposed to “organically meet women I like”? It literally does not happen unless I absolutely force it to. I always hated that quote because it downplays our struggle. We may not have to fear women killing us but they sure can do a hell of a lot worse than laughing at us. Besides, how common is it really for a guy to murder the girl he’s talking to?

Welp, I was right all along fellas and fellettes. That nasty smelly blood that everyone has a stick up their ass about and can’t handle the thought of has now been discovered to contain the most flexible and fast growing form of stem cells. At first I thought it was too good to be true, perhaps a parody of sorts. But alas it is actually real. Everyone who belittled me for my unorthodox fascination will have to apologize and the nightclubs will have to let me back in. PERIODS ARE THE FUTURE OF MEDICINE whether it grosses you out or not. Unfortunately, I’ll have to find some way to obtain a girlfriend before I can run my own experiments though.

By taking probiotics. Make sure you take saccharomyces boulardii as this is the one that lays the foundation for all the others to build on, if I understand correctly

I agree. They are beautiful but in the weirdest way possible. They’re the creepiest looking things that give you the best feelings I’m sure she does as well! I know I would! Wouldn’t be surprised if something like that actually becomes a thing. It’s kind of in the same ballpark as fecal transplants. That’s just because it’s a bodily fluid so it’s natural to think it’s dirty. Doesn’t mean we shouldn’t feel comfortable talking about it and it just so happens to have amazing potential.

You misunderstand. I am not put off by periods or anything about them. I said that as a way to kind of mock the normies who do think that. The only thing about periods I hate are not the periods themselves but rather women’s squeamishness about the subject even though they claim to want open discussion of the topic to be normalized. It’s like they’re always complaining about being socially ostracized for discussing it and being shamed for it and having to pretend like it doesn’t exist yet when I try to discuss it with them in a nonjudgmental way they’re like “ew, why is this creep talking to me about that?” (Usually but not always) It’s like which is it? Thats why I was so thrilled to discover that this sacred blood has such awesome potential. It legitimizes what I’ve been believing for a long time. Shouldn’t it have been obvious to everyone? I mean it is the blood that the body was going to use to develop human life after all.

I hope you’re right. I hope it really is that rare. But the stories I’m reading say otherwise. Even if it is that rare, the likelihood of tragedy isn’t even the point. The fact that women CAN do this and get away with it is what has to change. Airplane mechanics and safety inspection agents do everything they possibly can to ensure the safety of all passengers because the airline knows how much heat it will be under if tragedy strikes. In dating, there are no such safety checks and false accusers face zero consequences unless the victim has the lawyers to sue for defamation. What about when they hide the way they’re truly feeling for whatever reason? I don’t want to end up bound to an ankle monitor because I misjudged a facial expression prompting me to place my hands on a girl’s hips or god forbid her booty or tits. All it takes is one wrong move on the wrong girl and you’re banished to the shadow realm. Forget actually touching, look what happened to this kid for simply ASKING to touch a boob https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/boy-accused-asking-touch-girls-26185666

Yeah but back then it was more acceptable (and safe) to shag a drunk chick I can’t find a link to the story but I saw this guy telling about how he got kicked out of the military because he slept with a girl who only had one shot even though he himself had had eight shots. That tiny bit of alcohol in her system was all it took for authorities to consider it rape. There are countless similar stories, here’s one for example https://www.dailywire.com/news/she-begged-him-for-sex-and-then-accused-him-of-sexual-assault-columbia-expelled-him-despite-audio-proving-his-side I probably sound like a broken record but it makes me deeply terrified to make any advances towards women knowing that at any time for any reason they can claim sexual assault without evidence and you’re practically screwed if you have no counter evidence. See “retroactive consent” For me, maybe 1 out of every 70 people I see are anything close to a hot girl. Available, age appropriate and willing to chat ones are extremely scarce and in ridiculously high demand. the only place I know of where hot girls are abundant is on my Instagram feed

Anyone know about how widespread the damage from this is going to be? it looks bad enough to encompass surrounding states, or worse with it contaminating all the rivers

Don’t touch it for a week or two then try. what about legs? Can you do body weight squats?

@meta_male no I wouldn’t, but how am I going to know she’s like that before it’s too late? Like it shows in the image, she said she wanted him to open up, until he did. Women being turned off by guys showing their vulnerable side is a common theme you can find in men’s dating discussions. It makes perfect sense why it would be a turn off for them from an evolutionary perspective.

@Leo Gura

I’d be afraid to do some of the stuff in these lists because of images like this one

I do have an older gal pal, actually. We’ve done quite a bit together, including her trying to help me fight my way back in during last year’s Christmas (didn’t mention it in the op) She changes numbers rather frequently so I’d have to dig up my ancient Facebook account to find her. She is a very people person nightlife type girl. Perfect for assisting me in this way. So that’s what we did. Unfortunately, the fact that they despise my soul with the curse a thousand demons made our efforts futile. So she went in and partied while I stood around outside the door chatting with people coming in and out. A couple hours pass when the femfriend comes out to check on me then some moments later, surprise surprise, a co owner comes out and suggests I leave because I’m creeping people out even though I wasn’t. I argue my case for a minute and she tells me to stop trolling on Christmas. I do enjoy a good troll but in this instance I was being serious. So we end up deciding to leave. She freaked out on me a few days later over the prospect of me performing a highly offensive (to women) rap song on karaoke. We both apologized after the new year and scheduled our next attempt. I have another femfriend who’s only nine hours older but she’s certainly not the bar type. Though I’m sure I could talk her into it. Tell ya what, if I said that they might actually believe me lol. It’s one of the best and one of the few places I have within driving distance.